Hey guys, welcome to this video and to my channel!
I'm Kate Spring and today I want to help you to distinguish between whether or not
a woman is actually flirting with you or if she is just being friendly.
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Now, I've been meaning to ask, do you guys think that women flirt with sexual intentions
or just for fun?
Take the poll and let's see what you guys think.
Have you ever been hanging out with a girl and you think that she's giving you all
the signs that she's totally into you, but when you lean in for the kiss she backs away
and says that she just sees you as a friend and that doing anything else would complicate
the situation?
Ouch.
After a reaction like that, you're embarrassed and confused as to how you could have misinterpreted
her signals that you clearly thought was her flirting.
For women, often times, there is a very thin line that separates flirting from being friendly.
And more often than not, women will flirt just for the sake of flirting, with no sexual
motivation behind it.
I know, how annoying!
Flirting is actually defined as behaving as though attracted to or trying to attract someone,
but for amusement rather than with serious intention.
Yikes, can you say mixed signals?
Women can flirt just for fun without any sexual intention behind it because women genuinely
believe that men and women can be friends.
Even when they constantly flip flop between being friendly and actually flirting.
To aid you in making the distinction, I've isolated some ways for you to tell if a woman
is flirting with you.
I should also mention that you should keep an eye out for more than one of these examples
when trying to decipher if she's truly flirting or just being friendly.
1.
Find Her Threshold For Flirting: The first thing that I would suggest you do
is to observe her threshold for flirtatious behavior.
Observe her around other men, and especially her guy friends.
If she is touchy feely, joking and overly playful with them, then chances are that if
she is acting the same way around you, she is just being friendly.
Find out her norm first, find out what her personality is like in other interactions
so that you can make a judgment about whether or not she is flirting or just being friendly.
If she treats you like everyone else in her circle or everyone else that she encounters,
then chances are she is just a nice girl who is trying to be friendly.
And, obviously, on the contrary, if she is acting different around you, laughing more,
flipping her hair, touching you whenever she can, and she's not like that around her
friends, then she could be trying to seduce you.
But find out how she interacts in different scenarios and with different people before
you try and decipher if a woman is flirting or not.
2.
Instigating Conversation: Another way to tell if a woman is flirting
with you is if she is instigating conversation.
There is a big difference between answering questions and prompting questions and conversation.
If a woman is just answering questions with a yes or a no and not adding anything else
voluntarily, then she's just being friendly.
Conversation is a big indication into whether or not a woman is flirting.
In this department, I should mention that if a woman is being overly polite and proper
with you, chances are she is just being friendly.
Most women don't take the time to converse and genuinely get to know men with whom they
have no interest.
Or if a woman constantly asks you to repeat yourself, then she's just not listening
to you, which means she not being flirty, and she's not even being that friendly.
In non- face to face communication, if a woman responds to your texts or phone calls in a
timely manner and with more than one word, and again, is instigating conversation, then
she could be trying to flirt with you and make a connection.
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3.
Nervous Habits: When we're under stress, our brains require
a certain amount of hand to body touching says author Joe Navarro, a former FBI agent
a regular contributor to psychologytoday.com.
The touching that he references mostly has to do with where our hands go to soothe our
limbic arousal when we're under stress.
Navarro outlines that neck touching is one of the most significant pacifiers of stress
that we, as humans, use.
The neck is a sensitive and vulnerable area, and when we're nervous or feel threatened,
then our hand will automatically gravitate to our neck to protect it.
This movement happens unconsciously.
In courtship, when a woman is feeling nervous, her hands will play with her necklace and/or
touch her neck in some way.
And as a woman becomes more and more comfortable with you, she will begin to tilt her head
in a subconscious attempt to reveal more of her neck, which is a signal of trust.
Another pacifier that women use to alleviate stress is by playing with their hair and or
licking their lips.
Women also do this to directly draw your attention to them by their movement.
These are all subtle physiological ways to tell that a woman is flirting with you, and
she's not just being friendly.
If she has social anxiety, however, she could simply be using these pacifiers to alleviate
stress, which is why I suggested that you look for more than one of these indications
when trying to decipher if she's flirting.
4.
If She Makes Excuses To Touch You: The fourth and final way to tell if a woman
is flirting with you is if she is constantly making excuses to touch you.
If you've watched any of my other videos on body language and seduction, you'll know
that I advocate for men to touch women in non-sexual ways to help increase her attraction
for you.
Well, women do the same.
Does the girl that you're chatting with brush something off of your shoulder or your
arm or your hair?
She could be making an excuse to touch you.
Typical body parts that a woman will touch on a man that she is trying to flirt with
include face, arms, leg or back.
If you're sitting next to each other, she could lean over and place her hand of your
knee to get your attention in an, "omg!
The craziest thing happened to me today!" type of gesture.
If a woman is touching you by slapping the back of her hand on you that's generally
not a good indication of flirting.
That's more of a scolding and/or friendly touch.
Another non-verbal solicitation technique that is widely used amongst women is for women
to caress objects around them.
If a woman is holding a glass whilst talking to you and caressing it, she could be trying
to flirt nonverbally.
Or if she is playing with her straw in her drink that is yet another way for her to capture
your attention through her movement.
Again, this is just learning to read body language, more specifically, how a woman's
body subconsciously responds to her environment and certain interactions.
Those are four ways that you can tell if a woman is flirting with you or just being friendly.
Again, look for more than one of these examples before you make your move.
And go out there and flirt with confidence.
Because you never know, a woman might just need you to make the first flirtatious move
in order for her to feel comfortable enough to flirt back when she knows that her flirtations
will be reciprocated.
That's all I have for you today, YouTube.
Don't forget to subscribe to my channel where you can stay up to date with my latest
videos!
And, as always, thank you for your constant support.
I'll see you in my next video.
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