my fiance is David and he's 27 years old he used about eight years older than me
David is definitely the first man that I've ever been in love with f ed
relationships where I thought I felt loved but it now being in love I know
that this is crazy this is something I've never felt before right after David
and I got engaged we started the k1 visa application and David is arriving today
Evelyn let's go let's do this how do you feel about being away from Granada
knowing that you're gonna be away for a long time well I am
I don't know I have like mixed up emotions you know I'm really happy and
excited but it's supposed to take girl Natalie is an amazing city so I'm gonna
miss it in Spain I had a really fun life
in my city there's always something on me on moving to a small town in Clermont
New Hampshire it's gonna be hard we are now technically in New Hampshire which
means this is seared new home
when I think about the future they would really like to be able to move somewhere
else go to a warmer place and I'm sure everything will like find common ground
with me
I'm down for exploring new places but I don't want to pick up and leave and move
ten hours away from my family from the band my music career here but you know
I'm sure everything's just gonna work itself out no I'm gonna help you get
some good rest before the wedding David is staying at Pastor Kim's house
pastor Tim has a close relationship with my family and we have a special little
apartment off their house for him and it's because we both have the same
conviction that we don't want to sleep together before we get married
this is nice these are your chambers why sure simple
because with Evelyn the idea of purity until marriage and then we try to like
not put ourselves in circumstances that would like make us be tempted to each
other we love each other and you want to be together so that's why we're taking
these precautions like he's not staying at my house we don't want the appearance
of him like sitting with me in so that's why he's staying at faster Tim's house I
got you some new sheets that kind of stuff
I am a little bit older and Evelyn and I feel like in my life I've been really
close from like loosing my purity my friends might think it's a little crazy
but they respect the fact that I'm waiting for marriage and it's about like
not being alone together as much as possible
we're very attractive towards each other so I am really excited to be them with
these 90 days I'm sorry but you can't live on love you need money for food and
an apartment David I fully trust that God's gonna provide us a roof over our
heads and food to eat the longest time David and Evelyn have ever spent
together is two weeks two weeks is not long enough to get to know someone and I
think that this could be one of Evelyn's biggest mistakes in her life when when's
your actual one-year anniversary we're in via technical in December so you're
gonna be married before your one-year anniversary even comes up yes actually
yes that is crazy Evelyn maybe to you
I think Evelyn and David's relationship is a bit rushed
Evelyn's only 18 she should be seeing more of the world figuring out who she
is exploring more before she jumps right into a marriage there's still a lot of
growing up you have to do well since we are getting married young we have the
opportunity to grow together I'm sorry you're getting married young David is
getting married at a normal age if you're so in love now what does it
matter if you waited 2 or 3 more years are you afraid you wouldn't be in love
anymore no we just want to get married and start
lives now I'm just what are things change though
what do you end up being miserable married to David all because you rushed
into it I am NOT rushing into it if my parents said hey Evelyn we don't really
approve this marriage and we think you're crazy then I'd be like okay maybe
there's some validity to this maybe I should listen so if your parents had a
problem with it a big deal but because I have a problem with it it doesn't matter
yes be my opinions not matter to you they do but when it comes to my marriage
not as much my dad was 19 when he got married to my
mom and they've been married for over 21 years and there's nothing that you could
say that would make me cancel the wedding I'm not trying to either cancel
the wedding you trying to do I'm just trying to get you to think a little more
I don't want you to cancel the wedding my parents are fine with it
nobody else is against it so the fact that Michaela is bothers me it just
doesn't make sense to me why you had to do it so young and so fast it doesn't
have to make sense to you well a little I'm in your life so I want to understand
it but for the life of me I can't Michaela and i's viewpoints on love and
marriage obviously are very different she thinks I'm making a mistake and I'm
really hoping that Michaela will be able to come around and see that what we're
doing is right just keep your hands on those on our way
up I was like dad you need to drive but I figured we could drive back together
because then you can feel the front seat with me your face is really cute and I
can look over at it sometimes try not to look at it
Evelyn's driving is not the best
somebody's next to you so just hold on I'm like really I'm shaking
my word sledding back there when I first told my friends and family that I was
moving to America to marry Evelin they thought that I was little bit crazy but
I've never never been in love until I met Evelyn she flipped my world
around and he feel about being away from Grenada
knowing that you're gonna be away for a long time well I am
I don't know I have like mixed up emotions you know I'm really happy and
excited but it's supposed to take gorilla is an
amazing city so I'm gonna miss it in Spain I had a really fun life in my city
there's always something on me on moving to a small town in Claremont New
Hampshire it's gonna be hard we are now technically in New Hampshire which means
this is here to home
when I think about the future that would really like to be able to move somewhere
else go to a warmer place and I'm sure Aibileen will like find common ground
with me so that I'm searching for the American dream I had the Spanish dream
there's no such thing as a European dream yeah it's actually quality of life
so you know how my friends are traveling some are running from Spain some are
traveling from Holland if this is about the tuxedos I mean our heart attack well
we do have to talk about it the big stress and argument right now is about
the groomsmen and them not wanting to spend an extra hundred dollars on a
tuxedo I think it's ridiculous they're paying some of them over a thousand
dollars just to be at our wedding and still you're like all they have to run
their own tuxedos that's not right generally weddings in Spain are more
simple we don't have six or seven friends and they all have to dress with
expensive a tuxedos that look the same I know that this is a wedding that to be
honest I've been planning my entire life and it's not their wedding we've had a
lot more than three months to plan in advance to have an extra hundred dollars
to get a tux it's for extra hundred or so the Towson bowlers are paying to be
at our wedding it makes me really angry why am I gonna
let it's just these guys like all of a sudden make decisions for my wedding
listen I told my bridesmaids I said if you don't get this dress you're not in
the wedding when David and I fight I'm used to him being just over the
cellphone so I can just be like click phone's off sorry can't talk to you
right now but I can't do that in person why do we have to have everyone with a
tuxedo I'm not changing my wedding around for these guys who just don't
want to rent a tux I don't know if
Evelyn is being really short-sighted I need them here I need my friends they're
like my family she's very young she has to be more flexible so you care more
about the wedding the etiquette of your wedding that for the people I care about
Halla wedding works if you plan it with a foreigner husband I think you should
also take his culture into consideration
well one little fun fact is that we're getting married in America
if you agree to be in somebody's wedding you're agreeing to the responsibilities
of what comes with it yeah you want to know another fun fact you're getting
married to a foreigner I'm definitely worried about bringing up
the tuxedo situation again today obviously I don't want them to spend
that much money because I mean I don't want them to spend any money to be
honest what we're not gonna be standing at the altar in jeans and a dress shirt
oh yeah maybe they can just wear black pants and like black shoes and a shirt
so still black and white and he stands out a little bit more he's the only one
wearing a jacket what do you think I feel like I can't make this kind of
decision like on the spot my job can get a little awkward but if I had to guess
I'm thinking the groomsmen will be in tuxedos we'll figure out later so why do
we need to feed this out right now we're here and that's why we're here right I
know anything I don't know what you get angry at me I get a little nervous with
Evelyn just saying we'll figure it out I'm really hoping that they can have
that conversation and actually figure it out because 90 days to plan everything
that's cutting it really close how many groomsmen are there by the way
six six well the best man in five I'm like leaving my country doing my family
leaving my friends and you don't seem to like want to give up anything
I've been doing a lot of planning without you you just got here and now
you're saying this and this and this and I need some time to get it all together
I don't think it's anything wrong with I'm not making a decision right now okay
well then prepare for them to be wearing whatever they bring with it really
worries me that David and I are already fighting about wedding planning the
tuxedos and that it's like we're already fighting about these small things so
what's in our future basically we're running out of time you know that right
I know and we'll figure it out I thought that you knew that getting married to
someone from another country would bring its challenges but you don't seem to
like completely get the idea you're a different culture yeah clearly but
that's when you that's when you have to like find common ground you don't be
like oh you're leaving your country you're leaving everything you're
compromising here you're compromising there so let's find common ground here
in America now I know I'm in America but I feel like it's beautiful when your
significant other the person you're gonna get married with it makes you
halfway and I am meeting you halfway yeah
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