yo what's up it's hollyann! real quick life update as you can see I'm still in
the Wonderous garage! I am just becoming one with the furniture but today I want
to talk about the bob guy.. y'all remember bob RIGHT?! that one horribly abusive ex
that I broke up with like last May well you know what he begged me back before I
do tell the story of this amazing encounter oMG I do have to say if you're
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forget to give this video a thumbs up leave a nice comment down below share if
you enjoy it and yeah let's go so it all starts off with Bob sliding into my DMS
on IG saying how he saw all the old videos that I had recorded of us
together and told me that he misses that and he wants another chance with me
because he learned his lesson and will appreciate me now. after
rejecting that invitation because um you know I ain't dumb
I know guys always come back at around the three to five ish six ish month
period mark begging for the girl back after they realized that you know, the
chick has moved on and they just want to ruffle their feathers a little bit or
something along the lines of that then Bob goes on about how my relationship
with my fiance is never gonna work out because "we rushed into a too fast" by
getting engaged "right away" even though we don't plan on getting married for
like another like year and a half but the reasoning behind that is because
"love is patient and waits" DERRPPPP. I want a guy that knows he wants me knows he
wants to commit to me and I want him to show it and if he doesn't want to
show me that then I can just move on to the next dude! stop wasting my time bro!!!!!!
and you know the best way for somebody to show that they have the intention of
marrying you is getting engaged oh my god!! then bob goes on this stupid rant
about how I never loved him because I never shared pictures of him or the
cards he made me on IG and if I would have done that our relationship would have
totally worked out and that's one of the reasons that he's jealous of me with my
fiance because I often do share photos of him! you wanna know the reason why I
never really did that well first of all cards are made for my eyes only. I don't
want to be sharing very personal and intimate details of my relationship and
stuff made for me, with other people. I want that to be special for me
only. and the reason why I never shared any photos of him is because I don't
have any pride in having a boyfriend. I never shared pictures of my fiance when
we first met. I don't have pride in having a boyfriend because to me
boyfriends are very disposable. I don't know why people make such a big deal
about being single and how hard it is, when for me if one do doesn't work out I
can literally get a new dude the next day. any time I've ever been single in my
adult life has been 100% willingly because I don't feel like committing
into something monogamous and feeling controlled, sexually. hello dude! I had
over 340 tinder matches in like the two weeks I was on there!! honey,
there ain't no dick shortage for me!!! it's all done willingly so you can calm
YO JETS!! then bob goes on about how he was 100% committed to me the way I
wanted him to be committed to me, and I'm crazy for thinking otherwise.
okay so telling girls how perfect their breasts and bums are is being committed
to me??? going onto dating websites is being committed to me??? his reasoning for
that though was he didn't want to talk to people that were telling him to break
up with me. okay honey!!! okay anyway yeah this argument goes on for literally over
9,000 years because he's in complete denial that going onto dating web sites
when you're in a relationship or whatever with somebody is you know ,not
okay. and then during this argument whenever I would make a valid point
though um yeah he would accuse me of having lesbian fantasies with all my
girlfriends and whenever I go back to the great and mighty corn land that I
was secretly going there for my other lover even though it's like um
why would i have left if I had another lover? letting him know that him and I would
not be a good match and I don't want to get back together with him because I'm
not the kind of changed woman he thinks I am he thinks I'm gonna be some
submissive chick that's gonna let him do whatever he wants to other women that's
gonna do all the cooking and cleaning for him and stuff like that when reality,
it's the polar opposite!! the reality is my fiance does all that work for me and
when Bob found that out he called him a "pussy slave" I told Bob that's what I
want in a guy, and if you have a problem with it then don't be with me!! he's like
"oh I would do all the cooking and cleaning for you and we'd had sex every
night" and it's like okay so if my fiance does it he's a pussy slave but if you do
it you're being a good husband? okay then so yeah after that argument ends, it's like two weeks
later Bob approaches me with this idea of making me a sweet vegan tattoo because
not gonna lie, I do want to get a sweet you can relate to tattoo and I do really
like Bob's art! and I even talk to my fiance about it and he said yeah it's
cool because my fiancé believes that people can be friends after a breakup.
after Bob and I establish our "friendship", we meet up. it's after work for me which
is pretty late. I don't have a lot of time, and I'm not allowed to have guests
over at the place I was staying at, so we just stayed in his car. and everything is
totally great at first we're just talking haha you know LIKE good old pals.
but you know eventually I get very tired because uh yeah, I work a lot and I want
to sleep, and Bob holds me close.. and it's like yeah I don't really feel
comfortable with this because I didn't consent to that. when I try getting up,
Bob starts choking me asking me "oh yeah it's you like it?" and it's really choking
so I'm like about to pass out and one second right before i'm gonna pass oout bob lets me
go and starts like forced kissing me so I turned my head away from him and it's
like no I don't want this I don't feel comfortable with this please stop! and I
tried getting up and my hand touches his near pee-pee area... and that part is going
to play into this in just a second!!! after recovering from being strangled
because I don't know if you've ever been strangled, you get really lightheaded
when that happens. I try excusing myself and after like ten minutes of, "you should
go back withBLAHBLAHBLAH let's run away to Vegas BLAHBLAHBLAH your
fiance is a pussy ass b- cuz he's short blah blah blah" I just leave
go back inside to my place and I call my fiance and tell him what happened! the next
da,y Bob is texting me up a storm. asking me why did I kiss him !willingly! why did
I touch his manhood? he accused me then of cheating and that if I didn't want
him back I would have never agreed to met with him. even though we agreed to
meet as friends. Then he starts complaining that I only
meet it with him at night and in his car like I don't want to be seen with him
even though it's like I don't have a lot of money so I can't really go out and I
can't have people in my room and I don't have a lot of time, I'm busy. Bob starts
complaining to me again about how my relationship is not gonna last because I
want a man that's completely committed to me. well you know what?! if my fiance
does not want to be committed to me, he is allowed to tell me he wants to open the
relationship up, and I'm perfectly fine with that. it's just I don't see the
point of I myself, completely committing to
somebody, if they aren't going to be completely committed to me. anyway so
yeah that text argument ends when my fiance texts Bob from his phone telling
him to leave me alone, and Bob starts calling me and I'm in the shower and
yeah my fiance answers and Bob gets all mad. but he's like "oh you're trying to
screw with me BLAHBLAHBLAH" he gets up on BUTTHURT and block me on all social media zone oh but
then a few days later he adds me on snapchat again what's going on
then after more arguing about our definitions of monogamy, because oh my
god, he insists that he's the perfect guy for me, but then when I'm like I want a
guy that's completely committed if I'm gonna be monogamous with him, he gets all
BUTTHURT blah blah blah Bob reveals to me that he's a sadist Dom
and that he wants to tie me up and spank me until my bum bleeds...
and it's like um honey, I'm the opposite of a submissive masochist. despite my
sweet and innocent appearance, I am NOT a submissive, and I told him that and he
said "my fiance is a pussy-ass b-bomb that likes to shove my vibrator up his
bum" and yeah you know Bob just goes on that rant again about how it's not gonna
last, and that he's just "some dude" that I'm just using to get over him and
it's like um yeah I don't really have a "dude" because yeah that makes it sound
like I hooked up with my fiance while i was still with Bob. when in reality, I met my
fiance months after we had broken up. Bob tells me oh I can't have the tattoo he
was designing for me BLAHBLAHBLAH because I don't deserve it. he made that
tattoo for friendship reasons... um honey I know how you are with making art for
other girls you do it for the PUSSY. this whole Bob drama ends though when he
makes a big deal on snapchat about I believe it's a date he was going on
because he's putting like little hearts with little heart eyes and like o"h so excited
for out tomorrow it's gonna be great" little heart with bow and arrow I was
like "oh how cute he has a date" and he's trying to make a big deal about TO
get a rise out of me or something, because he never did that with me.. so I
just message him not in an aggressive way at all. I'm just like "hey don't
forget to be nice to her and don't cheat on her and that not everybody looks like
a perfect perfection doll every day remember that." Bob went on about how I
deserved to be cheated on because I never posted pictures of him on IG it's
like dude how many times so to tell you I feel about that stuff?! he doesn't
listen!!! he's like "oh but I got you this ring. I was gonna get it for you" but you
know you never did get it for me... he's like "Oh Iwant
everything be perfect!!" dude it's an engagement, not a wedding.. calm yo shizzzz nit..
] anyways I'm guessing the date went well because I believed judging by his
snapchat story, before he blocked me, he invited her to his very poorly
maintained house with his racist af grandma... and Bob likes da white girls.
let's see how long this relationship lasts with the fact that he's unable to
be honest about anything, especially when it comes to monogamy. the fact that he's
30 and still lives with his family, or the fact that he lasts literally 30 seconds
while having sex. you don't beg for your ex back and then
literally like two days later are all like "I'm so excited for tomorrow oh oh I'm in
love" hahaha it's like um yeah that poor
girl's your rebound. I really hope you let her know that. I really hope you learned
a lesson with our relationship. I really hope you don't cheat on her 12 days
after y'all official, like you did with me. hmm
that was another reason to I never shared pictures of you on my IG!!! cuz um
not only were you not committed to me, the way I want you to be committed to me,
you cheated on me!!! so it's like why should I have pride in some guy that
cheated on me anyways!!! uh yeah that's all for this video thank you so much for
watching if you enjoyed it don't forget to give this video a thumbs up, subscribe
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call it dang that monetization thing, beg for you back?! tell me that experience
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you, Bye!!
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