Chủ Nhật, 6 tháng 5, 2018

Youtube daily so May 6 2018

This next song actually came from my friend, Rachel Kahn.

I went on to my Facebook group and I posted,

"Hey, someone write me some words, literally any words."

And my friend Rachel, who was my favorite poet in high school,

wrote down these words for me in handwriting.

You can see the script, it said, "I've left parts of myself in so many cities."

And she also wrote - And the other line that was in there was,

"When does a question become an answer?"

Which I thought was so lovely.

Yeah, and this is Kiani. (cheers)

The singalong portion of this is:

Oh oh oh oh oh Oh oh oh oh oh

Sing it back.

Oh oh oh oh oh Oh oh oh oh oh

Again.

Oh oh oh oh oh Oh oh oh oh oh

One, two, three, and...

Am I in motion or just in pieces?

How can I miss what I never needed?

If I should forget will you remember?

When does a question become an answer?

Oh oh oh oh oh Oh oh oh oh oh

Oh oh oh oh oh Oh oh oh oh oh

I've left parts of myself in so many cities

I've left parts of myself in so many cities

But all I've kept

And all I've left I'll give to you

Who are these strangers?

Who are these strangers? I miss the old crowd.

Who are the old crowd? I miss the strangers.

We brace for impact, we've waited so long.

I try to hold on and then the ground falls.

Oh oh oh oh oh Oh oh oh oh oh

Oh oh oh oh oh Oh oh oh oh oh

I've left parts of myself in so many cities

I've left parts of myself in so many cities

But all I've kept

And all I've left I'll give to you

Oh oh oh oh oh Oh oh oh oh oh

Oh oh oh oh oh Oh oh oh oh oh

Oh oh oh oh oh Oh oh oh oh oh

Oh oh oh oh oh Oh oh oh oh oh

Gorgeous leave it all behind (All behind, all behind)

Gorgeous we can travel light (Travel light, travel, light)

All I need is you and time

Gorgeous we can travel light

I've left parts of myself in so many cities

I've left parts of myself in so many cities

I've left parts of myself in so many different cities

I've left parts of myself in so many different cities

All I've kept

And all I've left

I'll give to you

(vocalizes)

(cheers)

Keala Settle is shaking, honey.

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(from "Cinderella") so this is love//c'est ça l'amour - Duration: 2:35.

so this is love, hmm

so this is love

so this is what makes life divine

i'm all aglow, hmm, and now i know

the key to all heaven is mine

my heart has wings, hmm, and i can fly

i'll touch every star in the sky

so this is the miracle that i've been dreaming of

hmm, hmm

c'est ça l'amour, hmm, le grand amour

l'amour qui fait chanter la vie

là dans tes bras, hmm, je sais dejà

que mon bonheur est infini

mon coeur s'affole, hmm, et je m'envole

je danse sous une pluie d'étoiles

tu es ce que j'attendais

tu es mon rêve fou

hmm, hmm

c'est ça l'amour

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Mousse T.: So kann DSDS-Marie im harten Musik-Biz bestehen! - Duration: 2:27.

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Mousse T.: So kann DSDS-Marie im harten Musik-Biz bestehen! - Duration: 2:24.

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So Far Away | Laly DE - Duration: 2:56.

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The World is SO Small... - Duration: 17:33.

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Sword Art Online Alternative is . . . Good? (or, why it's so fun to watch) - Duration: 4:46.

Yes, that title is not a lie. SAO Alternative is, good. Or at least, I think

so. What are you talking about, "blasphemy"? Hey, put down those pitchforks! Look, just,

here me out . . . Sword Art Online Alternative: Gun Gale Online is a spin-off of the

infamously reviled/beloved Sword Art Online franchise that, does not in fact

focus on the many misadventures of Kirito-kun and his merry band of side

chicks, but instead follows Kohiruimaki Karen, a university student with an

inferiority complex about her height as she dives into the world of vr gaming,

specifically the world of Gun Gale Online and its Squad Jam tournament, a

team-based battle royale game mode, to escape from her everyday insecurities.

It's a simple story with a genuine understanding of the gaming world and, so

far, it's been quite an enjoyable ride, thanks in no small part to its small

cast of dynamic characters. LLENN is grounded in game by well-defined

strengths and weaknesses, being incredibly fast and quick to adapt to

stressful situations, while also being quite fragile and sticking out like a

sore thumb in the desolate grain brown hues of gun Gale of world. At the same

time, Karen's desire to find an escape through online gaming and the duality

between her real life, where she often feels withdrawn and isolated, and her

online life, where she feels free to express herself however she pleases,

gives her character a sense of depth and relatability that for some is probably

all too familiar. Pito, the first person LLENN gets to know online,

is an avid fanatic of Gun Gale Online, obsessed with the carnage the game lets her

indulge in. Meanwhile, M, the man Pito teams LLENN up with for the Squad Jam, has a

calm demeanor and a mountainous frame that emphasizes his stoic disposition.

The show's characters are interesting and distinct, and their personalities

bounce off of and reflect each other naturally, in a way that's just fun to see

play out, whether they're hanging out joking around, or massacring their enemies with no remose . . .

Funny thing is, I'm only slightly exaggerating here . . .

Speaking of, the show's action is, personally, the biggest draw of the show so far,

not because of the combat itself, but because of the mind games surrounding it. You see,

the show puts a big focus on the tactics the players use to trick each other and

how they exploit the many strange quirks of Gun Gale's design to get an upper

hand, from hiding under dead bodies for cover to using the Squad Jam's scan

feature to track down or keep an eye on enemy teams, or even to lure them into a

trap, since the scan only shows the position

of each team's leader. While it does go overboard sometimes in explaining these

details, it creates a strong sense of tension as the players do their best to

outsmart each other and take home the victory in this battle royale. However, I

do have some problems. The art and animation can often look, off, and as mentioned

before, there is a lot of jarring and unnecessary exposition, but given that

the main character is someone who's new to gaming, I feel like that's the point.

But, more concerningly, many aspects of Gun Gale Online's design seem, baffling.

Most of them are probably just holdovers from the original series, but

still. The fact that you start off with completely randomized in-game avatars

and have to pay to change them instead of just having character creation from the

start really comes across as a cheap way to make extra money. I mean, is this what

loot boxes eventually transform into? Loot avatars? Why does it feel like

that's already a thing? There's also a lot of potential for abuse with the way

the Squad Jam tournament has been set up, with how players are able to bring

custom items and gear into it, meaning that, without some sort of system to

balance things out, a high-level player could give themselves an unfair

advantage by bringing in a high level weapon and just picking off all the

lower level players, skill be damned. And . . . she took those from her inventory, right?

She didn't just, summon the items . . . right? These issues have jarred me out of the

show on more than one occasion and could easily turn someone off the show

entirely. But, overall, it's been quite enjoyable. Though it's only a few

episodes in, I'm more than confident in saying that SAO Alternative is good.

Pretty good, in fact. It's a tense show with fun and relatable characters and some

fascinating mind games that makes it so fun to watch.

And yeah, those are my thoughts. Let me know what yous think, if yous agree, disagree,

how yous feel about SAO in general (I just kind of thought it was meh), if yous

also think its ironic that this anime about a battle royale style game-mode

has been released just as battle royale games have boomed in popularity, probably

not a coincidence in retrospect, etc, and thanks for watching!

If yous enjoyed this, and wanna see more, check out my last video, where I

break down American Gods and its approach to world building. Or, check out my video

on Minit, where I explain why it's so fun to play . . . in a minute! And don't forget

to like, comment, share and of course, subscribe to Come Fly With Me! Yous can also

follow me on Twitter for more updates about this channel and other stuff, and

hopefully, I'll see yous later!

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Mousse T.: So kann DSDS-Marie im harten Musik-Biz bestehen! - Duration: 2:10.

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Daniela Katzenberger: Traurige Beichte! So geht es ihr wirklich - Duration: 1:57.

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Sheriff Stops Approaching Train so Rescuers Can Save Badly Injured Pit Bull by Tracks - Duration: 2:58.

Sheriff Stops Approaching Train so Rescuers Can Save Badly Injured Pit Bull by Tracks

Leave it to James Woods to cut to the chase.

The Hollywood actor — a rock of conservative logic in a puddle of flaccid thinking — has

built a well-earned reputation for cutting commentary on social issues.

But his question this week about the news that the Boy Scouts have officially, unconditionally

surrendered to political correctness by changing their name was even sharper than usual.Not

even the biggest fans of the change have an answer.

Woods' tweet was spurred by the news that the Boy Scouts of America — a revered name

in youth development since it was incorporated in 1910 — would no longer be known by anything

so gender-specific as the word "Boys."Instead, the organization will now be known as "Scouts

BSA," to reflect its decision last fall to buckle under to conformist pressures and

open its ranks to girls.

The move might have been greeted with joy by liberals, but there's no small amount

of outrage — and contempt — among critics for the Scouts' about-face, and the new

name that symbolizes it.

As always, Woods tweet stirred up comment from all ends of the political spectrum, but

there were quite a few that saw a dark force at work.The media that destroyed its own credibility

as an institution by its slavish devotion to the Barack Obama presidency isn't capable

of even questioning any part of the liberal agenda anymore.

It's not even capable of understanding that it should be questioned.

No one questions the Girl Scouts because they're an unthreatening American institution that,

for most of us, means cookies every spring.

The Boy Scouts, however, were offensive to liberals because of their understandable reluctance

to let gay men near young boys, emphasis on honesty and honorable behavior, self-reliance

and a general attitude that it was important to teach boys to be men — what liberals

today call "toxic masculinity."For liberal purposes, the Girl Scouts don't have to

be destroyed.

The Boy Scouts do.

Forcing the group to accept gays was one step (The Associated Press laughably claims the

group is stronger than ever since the move).

Forcing it to accept girls is another.

Now a name change that's literally emasculating — "Scouts BSA" — is a third.

Woods wondered why the Girl Scouts still exist?

At this rate, they might last longer than whatever the group formerly known as the Boy

Scouts ends up.

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Dieter Thomas Heck: Dramatische Neuigkeiten! So schlecht geht es ihm wirklich - Duration: 2:53.

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Ohne Royal-Glam: So bescheiden lebt Meghan Markles Dad - Duration: 2:29.

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Große Party? So feierte Prinzessin Charlotte dritten B-Day - Duration: 2:42.

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Dieter Thomas Heck: Dramatische Neuigkeiten! So schlecht geht es ihm wirklich - Duration: 5:59.

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【Fukase】Ur So Gay【VOCALOIDカバー曲】- ( TÜRKÇE ALTYAZILI ) - Duration: 2:21.

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April QnA #2: Is Paris safe? Why do French Strike so much? Do your colleagues know about Youtube? - Duration: 17:54.

Salut YouTube welcome back to my channel and back to the second part of

April's Q&A where you guys can send me questions and I answer them

funnily enough so if you guys want to send me questions you can use my ask me

anything form that I leave in the description box of my videos otherwise

follow me on instagram @ underscore not even French and I will often post

ask me anything posts where you can comment your questions down below and I

take them from there as well but as this video is all about answering questions

let's get into it the first question is from Mathieu who's asking me which

regions of France are next on my hit list in terms of travelling and

discovering France and if there are any regions of France that I'm a little bit

curious about but I'm a bit worried about going to because there may not be

anything there so the regions are on my hit list for the moment I really want to

go back to Corsica I absolutely loved Corsica I love the heat I love the Sun

of the beach I found it beautiful the water was crystal clear and I also want

to do is La cote d'Azur or the French Riviera

so between Marseille and the Italian border because I've seen a bit around

the Marseille region - Marseille, Aubagne, Cassis, the calanques but I've never

actually gone completely east towards Nice and Monaco all of that kind of

thing. In terms of curious but not sure whether to go I've got a big question

mark around the middle of France the center of France because people kind of

joke like oh there's nothing to see in the middle of France well there's

nothing you haven't missed anything by not going to the middle of France and

I don't know if it's really true or not I have been to Clermont Ferand, I

don't know if that counts as the center of France I've got people kind of

convincing me to go to these other beautiful regions but I never hear

people saying come to the center of France! Related to this I have Elise

asking me if I'll ever come to the north of France I've actually driven around

quite a lot of the north of France I was actually visiting

war cemeteries up there, there were a lot of New Zealander's involved in the

world wars first and second world wars and we lost a lot of New Zealand

soldiers over here in France. I actually have a great-uncle buried in one of the

war cemeteries in France. So I went to the region around Amiens, Arras, I went

to a little town which was called Le Quesnoy and it's here where it was actually

the New Zealand troops that came in and kind of liberated the French and saved

the French when they were under German siege and ever since we've had this

really great relationship apparently between this town and New Zealand and

it's funny you actually you go there and the streets are called like rue Nouvelle Zelande

rue Helen Clarke which was our former Prime Minister, rue Aoteoroa which

is the Maori way of saying New Zealand it's amazing. The next question is from

Kim who's saying that she's in Paris and right now at the moment are there any

things that you should see or do? Kim at the moment at springtime go to Sceaux

so that is S C E A U X it's so beautiful at the moment covered and beautiful

cherry blossom trees lots of flowers you really feel like it's springtime it is

45 minutes away from the center of Paris but you hop on the RER B train and

it's well worth the trip the next question is from Cristinaxfe

asking me more about my master's program how I got my apprentissage how I got my

job because he's gotten into the master's program that I did so I think

I've already covered most of those but basically finding an apprenticeship in

France is is relatively easy especially in Paris the school helps you a lot they

send you so many offers hundreds of offers and look yourself on the Internet

there's plenty of opportunity available so don't worry too much about that and

the one tip I would give you for getting a job afterwards and getting into the human

resources market in France is really network network network so use your

promotion at school and get to know them get to ask them about the companies are

working in be very sociable when you are doing your internship get to meet a

lot of people I mean because the thing in France is that if you can be recommended

by someone for a job that's very very powerful so just keep that in mind

The next question is from acherry who is asking if I actually know any expats over

here who are doing like professional jobs related to their qualifications or

are they all doing the kinds of jobs like babysitting teaching English

working the bar etc so most of my expect friends I know have full professional

careers over here I think that's studying here and do your master's

degree here either in French or in English is a really good way to get into

the professional track because you've kind of got that French stamp of

approval otherwise you know I do see expats you know working for big companies

in the English speaking roles and the corporate environments like that

definitely happens but of course the more you speak French the more

opportunities you have because if you're just speaking English for example

you're pretty much only targeting the headquarters of huge companies who have

jobs purely in English and even then they like you to speak French for the

social side of things. The next question is from Missydo who's asking me if my

family have come to France and did they like it so both my mum and my dad have

come to France they're divorced so they they each came on separate trips and

they loved it they were very very impressed with France I found it

absolutely beautiful the only thing is that I think the size of the city of

Paris was a little bit overwhelming for them you know coming from New Zealand so

going onto the metro and and things like that was very confusing and quite

overwhelming for than I think but I mean aside from that they absolutely loved it

so we did Paris we went to the Alps we went down south to Avignon to Marseille

with them and it was amazing they had a great time. The next question is from

Rosa who's asking me if paris is safe or not because she's seen videos and there

seems to be a lot of pickpockets and a lot of scammers and we say you know in

the touristy areas there are quite a few you know pickpockets and scammers to

look out for people trying to sell you you know little junky items

and things like that I think in the Metro you've got to be quite

careful with your bag you gonna keep your hand bag or backpack kind of close

to you it's just kind of about exerting common sense you know it's about that

street-smartness. I've been living here for almost five years nothing has ever

happened to me I've never had my phone stolen or anything like that but yeah

you've got to have your wits about you differently you kind of

got to be on high alert outside of the metro outside of the

touristy areas you never really encounter scammers and

that kind of thing if people approach you asking you to sign something or

people approach you asking to play some kind of street game with them or

whatever just refuse and and move on and they're the more touristy areas and you're not

really gonna get any of that in the non touristy areas one thing I will say is

they're not necessarily unsafe but you can be made to feel unsafe because

there's quite a lot of creepy guys here so those that can't call you that

comment on you. You may walk past them and they'll be like mmm, ouais, bonsoir mademoiselle

Have your wits about you you know if you're a female traveling alone or even

just two females you know don't go out by yourselves late at night walking

around areas that you don't know obviously like any big city there's more

dodgy areas and others like around the train stations and stuff it's usually a

bit dodgy so yeah I just have your wits about you and you'll be absolutely fine.

The next question is from Soph B who's asking me what my favorite thing to do

is in the city and it's to be a flanneuse. Flanner is the verb to just wander around

aimlessly with no specific goal or purpose but just for the pleasure of it

and really I love doing this in Paris and all of my friends too as well it's

like what did you do on the weekend we just went for a walk we went to a park

we walked around we discovered the neighborhood this is a beautiful city it

feels like you're walking around an outdoor museum that's my favorite thing

to do in Paris. The next question I got both from Avy Lia and Kayley Goes asking

me about whether I ever feel homesick and if so how do I deal with my

homesickness oh yes I have felt homesick many many times and there's so many

different ways you can deal with it so I like to write lists so I often write

lists about you know all the things that I'm so grateful for about living in

Paris you know what are the things that I can get here that I can't get anywhere

else another cool thing to do is actually speak to the people from home

they reassure you and it's the people who you would expect who say yes

please come home come home they're like we miss you but keep doing what you're

doing because we see you learning we see you growing we know that it's the best

for you so it's also a really good idea to talk to those kind of people another

idea is to start a project really linked to where you're living so you may set

yourself you know a really ambitious goal around the local language like I

want to become fluent and local language of my new country in six months or for

me a project that I started related to my life here was my YouTube channel and

it's something that really connects me to living here because it's talking

about everything that I notice all the things that I've learned it's really

really linked to my expat identity so you may want to learn a language start a

blog start a YouTube channel join a club for example if you're in France you may

want to learn how to do French patisserie I mean whatever it is but

find a project that's linked to where you are and is unique to where you are

so that you feel really attached. The next question is from Lilymirfin who's

asking me why did the French strike so much I think I mean just off the top of

my head I would say that you know this country has a history of rebellion it's

got a history I mean look at the French Revolution you're looking at a country

where the people stood up to the royal family and said it's not okay actually

it's not okay you have all this luxury and this wealth

and it's held by just so few people while millions of people here the the

real people here in France are starving and as you know they stormed to the

Bastille prison they stormed the castle gates and they ended up chopping off the heads off of

their kings and queens but my point is is that they've got a history of

rebellion and a history of sticking up to the big man and speaking for the

little guy and I think the strikes it's really around using that collective

power of okay we're the weakest you know maybe we're not really well recognized

or maybe we're not really well rewarded we're down here at the bottom of the

food chain it's usually you know the workers the

train workers the airline workers taxi drivers people who are doing like the

hard work collectively let's stand up because the way we're getting treated

actually isn't okay and we want to voice that and we want to voice that we have

rights and we have power if we stand together that's why we've got really

great employment protection it's very very difficult to get fired in France

legally speaking we've got great healthcare really nice

benefits a very generous paid leave we are working in France compared to most

countries in the world it really has paid off it's making sure that the most

vulnerable are heard and looked after I think that's a little bit from what I

understand the mentality behind just striking all the time

The next question was from Lewis who's asking me if I've ever been to Quebec

and if I'm interested in going and hearing a new French dialect and this is

honestly just a dream of mine to go to Quebec I'd love to go to some of the

french-speaking populations around the world like Quebec New Caledonia La Réunion

Tahiti to hear the different French that exists

around any kind of local regional accents or dialects that would be

awesome and the accent in french-speaking Canada is so fascinating

to me I'm really really loving actually at the

moment these videos on YouTube called Jokes de Papa and the competition to be

like who can not laugh at this really bad dad joke so I'll link that down

below because I'm really really funny and you can hear the Quebecois accent

The next question is from Rachel who asked me how long it took me to become

fluent in French and if it was a gradual thing or if there was some kind of

tipping point so um I think about it both so it took me about a year to start

speaking French and maybe a year and a half to be at ease in general

conversation and took a long time because I was studying and working in

English I had mostly expat friends and had my relationship with my boyfriend

fully in English so I didn't have a lot of exposure to the French language

I think the tipping point came where the feeling of frustration I had from not

being able to express myself or not being able to get what I wanted or not

being able to I don't have a personality in French like that frustration I felt

was greater than the embarrassment I felt of speaking French and making lots

of mistakes so that was my tipping point it was like when I I was just like you

know what the embarrassment is actually worth it because this frustration was

starting to really annoy me now so that was the kind of tipping point for me

after around a year living here. Next question is from BriannaMae who's

asked me which are the best cities to study in in France so I really know

because I've only studied in Paris but I actually found an interesting article

for you listing out the top cities to study abroad so I'll link that down

below in the description box but if I could choose again and if I could find a

city to go study in I think I would love to study somewhere like Bordeaux or

Montpellier or Aix en Provence or Grenoble I think those would be my choices the

Next question is from Jinger Lily and she's asking me if I had a problem with

small talk in France because in England for example you talk a lot about the

weather and an easy go-to topic for small talk for

this one with the worx in France as well definitely where there is definitely a

thing here I think that you're forgetting is that you can play the

foreigner card and the foreigner card is you're not from France so you're

instantly interesting so you can prepare things about where you come from while

you're in France you can ask the other person where they're from but you'll

find I don't think the French are very hard to talk to

they like talking and and they they chat a lot and they they're kind of they're

very good at making small talk actually they'll probably ask lots of

questions so I don't stress about that at all. The next question is from Lisa

and she's asking me if I kind of like struggle with general references pop

culture references movies art cinema I guess my answer to this is that you've

just got to stay really curious so if someone makes a reference or a joke and

you don't give it just you can always attend a home like oh is that like from

a movie or something can you explain that to me and the other thing is to ask

you know French friends what are the classic like the reference movies and

you'll find that there's kind of a core list of about 10 that you can start with

then though it's a little bit late and you didn't grow up with it and it's not

really the same but if people kind of quote things or make jokes at least you're

going to be able to get the reference. The next question is from FrenchFancy14

and she's asking me what I miss the most about New Zealand and I've actually

done a whole video on this so I'll link it up here but I have to say it's the

really friendly optimistic attitude of people they're really yes people let's get

on with it let's do it kind of people in New Zealand and of course the nature I

really miss walking swimming going to the beach just the access to the sea I

think that I miss a lot. I have a question from both Katie and Alice who

asked me how long I formally studied French before I could speak French at

the level that I do now or you know did I study it at high school in New

Zealand and the answer is no unfortunately it's not compulsory to

study languages in New Zealand until the end of high school so I didn't study

French at all I did eight weeks at

Alliance Francaise in New Zealand to kind of get the basics of grammar down

but otherwise apart from a few weeks here and there you know maybe once a

year I'll take a French tutor for maybe four to six sessions or something like

that but other than that I'm fully self-taught. The question is from musicspeakstome

and she's asking if my colleagues know about my YouTube videos and if

anyone wants to kind of jump into my YouTube videos of how they react to that

so all of my colleagues know about my YouTube videos a lot of them watch them

so hi colleagues and so that yeah I was really open about there you can't really

hide it once you put yourself on the Internet and they're all super

supportive but I have to admit that I'm always asking them to come in my videos

people feel a little bit uncomfortable on video so which is completely natural

I did too at the beginning yeah I mean when I asked them usually people are

like oh okay I mean if you think I'd be alright you know. Cool guys so that's it

for part 2 of the April Q&A I hope you guys liked it, if you have any questions

for me don't hesitate to a use that asking me anything form in the

description box below and otherwise I'm gonna see you guys for next video

Wednesday! A bientôt!

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Why is it so hard to sit down and study or work - Duration: 4:45.

There are days, weeks and sometimes even months where your desire to do something productive

is barely existent.

Theres a possibility that you're having a depression episode, but most likely you

aren't, because you're not sad, you're just not feeling compelled enough to get up

and do stuff, stuff that maybe not today, but surely in the future will contribute to

a better life for you, or maybe even for your family and society.

And to properly understand the reasons and solutions to this problem, we need to have

a better understanding of the underlying processes that are taking place when we talk about motivation.

If you're hungry that's not just a simple drive that's pushing you to get something

to eat, it's more of a subpersonality that has a goal, it has a bunch of action patterns

related to that particular goal, and it organizes your emotional responses around that goal.

We can look at it from another perspective.

We could say that motivation set goals, and emotions track progress towards goals.

Generally speaking motivation determines what your aim is, so if you are thirsty you are

going to aim at something to drink, and that will automatically alter your perception so

you zero out everything that is not relevant to that goal.

Once you start to focus on the few things that will guide you forward, your emotions

start to track your progress, so when you encounter those things that facilitate your

movement forward, that produces positive emotions.

On the other hand when you encounter some kind of threat, or blockage between you and

your goal, that produces negative emotions, and that can be anger, disappointment, grief

and so on.

And if you experience some of the more powerful negative emotions like pain for example, that

can cause you to abandon your goal and turn back.

So why is it so hard to get up and do stuff.

And it might be that you just don't have any goals, it might be that you're aiming

at nothing.

So no aim, equals no emotions, which equals no neurochemical fuel to keep you going.

Your case might not be exactly the same, but it is a pretty accurate scenario.

And you might ask, how do you fix that?

Well you need to sit down and set your goals.

See, If you observe a starving rat in cage and it knows it has food at the end of a corridor,

if you put a little spring attached to his tail, you can measure the rats motivation

by measuring how hard the rat pulls, you can measure the displacement of the little spring,

and that will give you a quantization of the motivational force of the rat.

What's more interesting is, if you set up the same scenario with the rat trying to get

to some food and you spray some cat odor behind it, the starving rat would pull even harder,

because it it starving and he really wants to get the hell away from there.

So getting away and and getting somewhere are two distinct motivational systems, and

if you can combine them together then you can make a really powerful motivational force.

And you can start by sitting down and writing your perfect future, and also the possible

hell you want to avoid.

Let's say for example you're not motivated to work out.

You can start by imagining how perfect and healthy your body would be if you only started

to work out for 30 minutes a day, you can then imagine the clothes fitting you perfectly,

your posture, your health, stamina etc.

You can write everything down, you can write about the positive mood and outlook on life

you adopted since you started to work out.

Then imagine the opposite, imagine you being overweight, your IQ dropped because you didn't

exercise or had optimal body weight, so naturally your IQ decreased as you aged.

Imagine going to the doctor and he's telling you that you have an increased chance of heart

attack.

Imagine feeling anxious and depressed, without any self confidence or motivation, stuck being

overweight forever.

And that's a pretty terrifying future as far as I can tell.

Then once you do this, you can sit down and negotiate with yourself.

You can ask yourself, what would you want in return if you would work out for 30 minutes

a day for the next week.

That can be a walk in the park, a beer with your friends, playing video games like whatever

gets you excited, and then agree on that contract with yourself.

This reward, combined with the visualization of the ideal future and possible hell, is

going to produce a high level of motivation and drive to get you started on fixing the

dimensions of your life that need to be fixed.

Now, you have the knowledge, you know how emotions and goals contribute to your motivation,

you know techniques to combine two distinct motivational systems, and you know that you

need to negotiate instead of punishing or tyrannizing yourself.

So my advice is, do the visualisation, write your goals, get up do stuff.

Because If we all get our act together collectively, then maybe we can make this world just a little

bit better for all of us.

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Why So Many Cambodians Own Donut Shops |AJ+ - Duration: 10:03.

What's your favorite doughnut and why?

My favorite is the maple bar. It's not so sweet, it's caramel, they're soft.

It's just one of my favorite thing [of] all time, all-time favorite.

The doughnut shop business is Susan Lim's life.

Her Orange County, California, doughnut shop is just one of many that sprinkle the U.S.

Combined, those stores and producers make 10 billion doughnuts annually.

Every single doughnut I would took a bite and then throw away.

I took a bite because I want to see the flavor of each and every one of them.

Baked into the backstory of this shop's glazed, dipped and twisted pastries is a detailed

– and sometimes painful – history about Cambodian refugees.

See, this doughnut shop isn't just Lim's life. It also gave her family a new chance at life

after fleeing war-torn Cambodia in the 1970s.

My mother's story makes me feel really proud and honestly very empowered.

My family's background is so rich and so straight out of a movie. Like, these things don't happen to everyday people.

Lim's experience is only one of many similar stories from Cambodian refugees who

settled in southern California and then opened doughnut shops as a way to survive and thrive in the U.S.

Hey, fam. I'm Imaeyen. And this Sunday we're actually doing a story idea that you guys pitched to us.

We're looking at why there are so many Cambodian-owned doughnut shops in Southern California.

"Hi Amanda."

Susan Lim says doughnuts have been very sweet to her.

Definitely [the] American dream to have a business.

It's the American dream just to do anything here.

America has opened up doors to many refugees like myself.

Lim bought this doughnut shop from her parents after they retired in 2004.

She'd spent years learning up close about the family's business, because she started working in it as a teenager.

But before her family acquired more than a dozen doughnuts shops in southern California, they were literally just trying to survive.

When you talk about things like that it kind of brings back memories. The suffering. The starving.

Lim's native Cambodia was thrust into war when communist and anti-communist forces battled

for the nation's postcolonial future, according to professor Richard Kim.

The war was an actually an extension of the Vietnam War, which consumed Indochina.

All of it rolled up into the Cold War, which was an ideological struggle about the spread of communism.

The brutal war lasted for most of the 1970s but the conditions it ignited had been years in the making.

It's the result of decades of colonial rule under the French.

And in the power vacuum that was left in the ousting of the king in 1970 power struggles emerged over who had the right to rule Cambodia.

Kim says the U.S. wasn't allowed to step foot in Cambodia because it had been declared neutral ground.

Instead the United States conducted an aerial bombing campaign that failed in its objective to destroy the supply line that was the Ho Chi Minh trail.

The bombing killed Cambodians and devastated the land.

This bombing devastated Cambodia and Laos. And this is probably one reason also why the

Khmer Rouge were able to mobilize support from the peasants of Cambodia to win

the civil war because many of them turned to more radical ideology as a result of the massive bombing.

Khmer Rouge would go on to rule Cambodia with tortuous tactics and cruelty, including what's become known as the Cambodian killing fields.

They were sites were people were murdered, sometimes clubbed to death to save bullets.

And a key moment during the war was when Khmer Rouge conquered the capital city of Phnom Penh in 1975.

They basically tried to exterminate the educated class.

And Lim says her father was one of the people who was targeted. Here's how he managed to escape a deadly fate.

My parents survived by pretending to be dumb -- to be not educated -- to be farmers, not educators, not teachers.

That's why they left them alone and not kill them.

Her parents used their home as a haven for their children during the war.

The Lim kids couldn't go to school. Life was just about surviving the daily stressors of war.

I still remember a little bit about it: being hungry; being starving. No food, no water.

I honestly don't know how we survived during the war. You have to wanna live in order to survive. You have to fight. It's not a matter of choice.

In 1979, the family decided to try and escape the horrors surrounding them. Lim was only about 12 years old.

Like other families, the Lims paid a man to help guide them to Thailand's border.

Lim's family walked for four days and three nights amid bombing remnants alongside hundreds of others seeking reprieve and refuge.

They really didn't take much. I mean we only brought maybe a few clothes to change, some food, a little bit of money.

There's not much to carry because there's so many people trying to get out of the city -- on foot, no cars. We basically walked miles and miles and miles.

Her family made it out to a refugee camp in Thailand, but many others wouldn't or couldn't.

Lim's infant brother is among the war's casualties. He essentially starved to death.

Cambodian civil war would kill at least 1.5 million people, but the real toll could be up to 2 million.

And even the bit of freedom Lim found in the refugee camp wasn't a break from her suffering.

In some ways, it was a reminder of what she and her family had lost and lacked.

They were watching this lady bought candy for her children and my mom looks at me and she couldn't afford it. And I just feel bad for my brothers.

Lim's family spent a few months in the Thai refugee camp before her uncle Ted Ngoy sponsored them to come to the U.S.

That's how she ended up here in southern California.

She says her family was among the earliest Cambodian refugees to the region.

Lim didn't speak English and the transition was difficult.

America, where is America? Didn't know where and when we got to LAX it was so weird.

Big tall people. White people. You know, you'd never seen white people.

Her family arrived to an America deeply divided about accepting refugees.

One Harris poll taken in May 1975 found that 37% of Americans were in favor of accepting the refugees. 49% opposed it, and 14% weren't sure.

49% opposed it, and 14% weren't sure.

Even President Jimmy Carter essentially refused entry to 40,000 Cambodian refugees before later taking a more humane approach to the conflict's victims.

This was America's climate when Lim's family moved in with her uncle and began working at his doughnut shop.

My uncle, he's the king of the doughnut. His name is Ted Ngoy.

Ngoy employed Lim's parents, teaching them the trade.

In fact, the very first night Lim's family arrived in California, Ngoy took her parents to make doughnuts with him.

Without him helping us, recruiting us, I don't know where most Cambodians would be, including my family.

Ngoy continued to sponsor other Cambodian refugees, hiring them; teaching them about the doughnut shop business.

The many Cambodians who own doughnut shops are Ngoy's legacy as are the pink boxes that have become synonymous with southern California stores.

Lim's daughter Amanda Lim Tang says her great uncle chose the pink boxes because they were the least expensive alternative.

I honestly could see myself running this and I would hate for this to not be a part of people's lives anymore.

Tang is running parallel to her grandparents' path. They worked for Ngoy for three to five years before eventually saving enough money to buy their own store.

That store became two, and then three – and eventually more than a dozen.

Susan Lim says her family's story is an example of the American Dream.

She hopes at least one of her five children will one day join the business – but only after getting a college education,

which she says she was unable to do because she had to help her family.

Susan Lim's family is just one of the more than 2 million people who fled the region between the 1970s and 1990s.

The United States took in more than 1.52 million of them.

Some refugees landed here in Long Beach, California in a place that's today known as Cambodia town.

It's filled with businesses owned by Cambodians.

And now, some of those people – including those refugees who arrived as children or were born in refugee camps –

are being repatriated to a nation they've never really known.

The U.S. and Cambodia signed a memorandum in 2002 that said an average of 35 people would be deported annually.

And that was true until 2016. That's when the Cambodian government told the U.S. embassy in Phnom Penh

that it would no longer accept deportees until it had a chance to review the issue.

The agreement allows the U.S. to repatriate Cambodians who've committed a crime - even if that crime is a misdemeanor -

and even if they're married to U.S. citizens.

By 2017, more than 500 Cambodians had been deported as part of the agreement.

And in the first week of April 2018, the U.S. deported the largest group of Cambodians ever.

Immigration officials sent back more than 40 people to Cambodia.

Lim says she doesn't personally know anyone who's been affected by the deportations.

And what she wants is the legacy of Cambodian doughnut shop owners to continue.

What I like most about working here is meeting my customers, my clients.

Talk to them. Wait on them. Make them happy. That's why I'm here.

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