what's more important than achieving goals stay tuned hey this is Damon Cart
from NLP Gym bringing you cutting-edge tools and mental technology to help you
master your life so if that sounds good please click subscribe to this youtube
channel so you can get these videos on a regular basis how often do you actually
take the time to craft a vision for your life I actually don't know too many
people who do that I know a lot of people who dream who are dreamers and
they take the time to dream and I know people who set goals a lot and so you
might be thinking what's the difference what's the difference between dreaming
and vision and setting goals and having a vision there is a very distinct
difference between them but they all play in together so they're important so
dreaming is just letting you your mind go to a place where nothing is
off-limits where there's no such thing as impossible so you allow in all the
possibilities of your life what you can do what you're capable of what might
happen and this is a wonderful thing to do it's a wonderful exercise because it
gets your creativity going it gets your imagination going and it probably brings
in a lot of information that you would not think of otherwise so it gets you
outside of limitation so this is a great exercise to do and it's probably a good
place to start when creating a vision goal-setting is when you have a very
specific target you want to move move towards and accomplish and so you need
to be specific and you need to be detailed about what it is you want to
accomplish and also have a good strategy and know how to judge or see the results
that let you know that you're getting closer and closer to your goal the
Dreaming is anything goes but realistically we know that you can't do
everything at once you can't pursue 100 things at a time
it's just not possible so you have
start sort of narrowing these things down and that can be very difficult for
people and I'll talk a little bit more about that later how do you narrow this
down so a vision is actually more realistic but it's not as detailed as a
goal because you don't really know what's going to happen in the future and
a goal itself achieving a goal itself isn't necessarily that satisfying a lot
of times we think that it will be and when it happens it the satisfaction
oftentimes is very fleeting and that's how you know you don't really have a
vision if the achievement of a goal is fleeting satisfaction good chance you
didn't have a vision attached to that goal the other problem that people have
when it comes to setting goals is they run out of motivation on the way to the
goal and if you're running out of motivation before you achieve your goal
again this is a good indication that you don't have a larger vision attached to
it so a vision is a lot more vague because you don't know what's going to
happen in the future and for sure you things have happened in
your life you could call them blessings great things have happened in your life
that you couldn't have seen happening but you're glad that they did I never
thought I would be I have an online business I never thought I would be an
NLP teacher and never thought I would be a coach or a personal development and
self-improvement teacher but following a vision of what I wanted for my life
which was based on my values I wanted that financial freedom I wanted to be my
own boss I wanted to do something that I could be passionate about I wanted to do
something that I would enjoy doing something I could share with other
people now that's more of a vision and as long as I went in that direction
it kind of didn't matter or kind of doesn't matter how it shows up and so
this was a problem that I used to have is that I didn't know the difference
between setting a goal and having a vision I thought that they were the same
thing so my goals were very detailed and people will say you know you got to get
very clear very specific very detailed about what it is you want and so I did
that and what often happen is the values would show up in my
life but I couldn't appreciate them because they didn't look like the goals
that I had set so it's sort of like I got the gift but because I didn't
recognize the packaging I didn't accept it I didn't enjoy it I still thought to
myself well they didn't achieve my goal and therefore I couldn't enjoy it even
though I was living it I was living what I wanted to live I was living my vision
when creating a vision be willing to let go of how it has to happen or how it has
to be so when I was right out of film school moved to Los Angeles and I
thought well this is how I'm going to live my life and be successful I'm going
to be a filmmaker and a screenwriter and all the things that I all the values
that I was chasing I'm currently experiencing now and I
feel very successful in that way but I'm not a filmmaker and it did so it didn't
show up like I thought it was going to show up so when you're creating a vision
really what you're creating is a direction and it's the direction that
you want to live it's the direction that brings you to a more and more fulfilling
life it's not oh once I get there I will be fulfilled and satisfied no it's
starting now being fulfilled and satisfied but the things that you do
maybe you don't have a lot of time to spend on the things that fulfill you and
satisfy you maybe you work a full-time job or you go to school full-time and
work a full-time job I did that before too and so you're not able to spend lots
of time on what fulfills you and what satisfies you but that's why you want to
have a vision and the vision is basically you take what does fulfill you
and satisfy you and start finding ways to do more of that start finding ways to
move more in that direction so find ways to make money doing that
find ways to satisfy other areas of your life that are necessary that move you
toward and closer and closer to your vision the goals goals are there to
serve your vision so you can start out by setting a goal you know maybe that's
the inspiration that's the spark you I want to go do this thing I want to I
want to run a marathon or something like that and then you go to that goal and
say okay what is important about achieving this goal to me what does this
achieving this goal do for me and keep asking that question and go deeper and
deeper with that question and then look at all the answers that you come up with
you'll start getting these really deep answers that have to do with happiness
and joy and passion and creativity and all these wonderful things that you feel
very fulfilled and satisfied when you're in alignment with them and so once you
do that go back to the goal and ask yourself and be very honest with
yourself does that goal serve those answers does
that goal really serve the vision so the vision would be if you combined all of
those answers and you come up with which have to do with happiness and joy and
passion and freedom if you were to put that all together in a vision and
remember you can keep it vague because you don't really know what the future
holds so when you create a vision out of that you go back to the goal and you ask
yourself what does this goal really serve that does this goal really get me
there and if it doesn't then you change the goal and find a goal that will get
you to that vision and when you have a goal that serves your vision you're
never gonna run out of motivation you're never gonna be crushed by failure
because you know the vision that you're after you feel it inside of you already
you just want more and more of it and he wanted then you want to go deeper and
deeper with with what fulfills you and what satisfies you so you don't run out
of motivation because you're already feeling it on the way to your goal
you're getting closer and closer and so this is extremely motivating and when
you do achieve the goal it's not going to be fleeting but success and a good
feeling is not going to be fleeting because really what the goal is telling
you is when you achieve it is you've just gotten even closer to your vision
you've just gone even deeper and you know it's not over you know that there's
more to do and there always will be for as long as you're alive you will always
be moving toward that vision not chasing the vision as if you're not connected to
it as if you're not feeling it that's another mistake that we make we
things out in front of us and we try to incentivize ourselves to make sacrifices
and do things that we don't like to do in order to get to that place that's not
the way to do it have a vision that you feel inside of you that you're connected
to that you naturally gravitate to and you should be enjoying this along the
way and the vision is always out there that's why we call it vision you're
seeing the possibilities of what you can do and become in your life and the other
reason why you want your vision to be big is because you want it to be general
and keeping in general will allow you to be adaptable and flexible like I said
there's a lot of things that you think right now that if you were to achieve
them that they would absolutely fulfill you and satisfy you and the truth is
they might not so if you have a generalized vision if you have a vague
vision you will get there and you will probably be surprised and you will
discover yourself along the way if you'd like some free training and some free
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