Hello and welcome, in this video I'm going to discuss how to live like Oprah three vital must do's
but if you haven't met already I am Mona Vayda I'm a motivational
speaker a business growth strategist and a life coach and this channel is
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and don't forget to bring the bell how to live like Oprah three vital must
do's now I'm sure we all know who Oprah is and if you've been living on an
island far away somewhere then let's let's get back to basics
Oprah Winfrey is one of the most renowned the most celebrated woman of
our time she is a beacon of hope of light of happiness success of power not
just in America but all over the world and not just for women but for millions
and millions of people worldwide how to live like Oprah three vital must do's
must do number one who are you Oprah talks about this quite a lot in a lot of
her videos in a lot of his speeches she drones into this topic Who am I?
you need to ask your question of the question Who am I and when we say that
you know she doesn't mean on on the basis at all I'm a woman I'm a man I'm a
mother and my father I'm a McDonald's worker or I am a Microsoft executive
no who are you like who I really take away all those onion peels of the titles
that sit on your head but who are you really right deep down in here
and if you don't know that and a lot of us don't at some point in our lives
the sooner you find out the better now for me that realization or that
understanding came in a very hard time I was 33 years old and I was getting a
divorce as a lot of people do but at that point I thought we were about to
start a family so this whole divorce thing completely
threw me off my feet as you can imagine and in that one moment I lost
a marriage that I thought was going to be for life a house a home a career
money all gone and if any does ever happen to anyone
I'm sure you understand that all those things are probably one of the most
important things for anyone in anyone's life and I was finding myself or I found
myself in a very dark and miserable spot in life and I asked a lot of questions
you know I went to a lot of soul-searching and at that point is when
the questions arise who are you Mona? you know who are you?
Who are you? yes I'm a daughter yes I am a woman yes I've dabbled in a whole lot of
careers you know but it's not who I am who are you and at that point in that depth
of that darkness I finally realized who I actually was I wasn't just a title I was
a spiritual being I was a spiritual being and this this body that I am
in it's just a mere vessel to something much more profound much much
greater than that and at 33 I had this realization this profound realization
and I can tell you something from that point onwards everything's changed
everything so Oprah talks about this and when she
when she when she mentions that when she's asked who she is she's so many
things but really who she is and a simple answer was I am a child of God I
am a child of God now I don't think it can be anything more grander or bigger
than that and I think sometimes a lot of us have to just take a step back in life
and understand that there is something greater and bigger out there that we
might not understand but the sooner we accept that the sooner we are on the
path of realizing who we are as individuals and what our purpose on
this earth is so ask yourself the question please
Who am I? Who am I? Who am I? and don't stop until you find the answer how to
live like Oprah three vital must do's must do number two what do you want what
do you want do you have a clear vision of what you want and where you're going
because there's no point you know if you're driving a car blindfolded you can
only drive it so long before it crashes and that's life all right so if you're
just gonna wing it let's just wing life and you know see what happens there
things will come let's just wing it it's probably not the best strategy so
find out what you want realize what you want discover what you want do whatever
you need to do but find out what do you want what is your purpose why are you here we
all have a purpose and the purpose is not to sit in front of the couch 24/7 or
to whine about life or to think that God does not love us and has a purpose that
we do not understand you need to wake up to life you need to find your purpose
and you need to go bang on and go with it and again I was in the same place you
know at a younger age you know you don't know what you want I don't know what I
want it's too difficult I'll decide when I get older and then before you know it
10 years clock by oh wow okay shit um what do you want I didn't know what I
wanted so I just did a lot of things that I thought I wanted but I didn't
actually sit down ever and write my goals down and this is something as
consistently come up in a lot of things especially with Oprah and a lot of
successful people keep talking about this write your goals down if you don't
know what goals are well then we completely lost aren't we but and I did
that and that's why I have a whole video on just how to set goals in life and
achieve them six important ways don't miss out on that video if you haven't
seen it ready please do go and see but write your goals down you have to be
specific if you don't know what you want in life
you ain't going to get it that simple and I realized that the hard way
so find your purpose what do you want once you realize what you want the
question is what are you going to give up that's right what are you going to
give up because there's no such thing as something for nothing so if you want
your your goal if you want the grand picture in front of you what are you
going to give up in return for it your time your energy your focus what it has to be
something and you better forget that out and the thing is you know the only thing
I can say on top of that is that if once you figure that out make sure it's
something you're truly passionate about you need to find that passion you have
to have that passion to drive you and I will you know a lot of my videos I keep
talking that is passion but bigger with that this passion nothing in life
happens the way you want it so figure out what that is what do you want how do
you want it and for me the realization what my passion was came at that same
stage where I realized who I was as an individual and sometimes you need to be
in those dark places sometimes not but those who have can understand what I'm
saying that finding yourself in all those dark
places and realizing that okay this is what I want this is where I'm going now
finally I've got direction in my life I've got goals written down and I now
know what truly I'm here for what's my purpose and for me is this it was to
talk about motivation inspiration about life lessons about human development I
find that absolutely exciting I think that is one of the most exciting topics
anyone can talk about when it comes to how to improve a human beings life and
that's what I do now and I could do this 24 hours a day if I had to and I would
do it happily so that is the passion you need to find what is it that you truly
love that you know doesn't matter what time of the day they woke you up to do
it or whether the kids are screaming in the background or whether you know you
sick or you tired or you drunk whatever this passion
doesn't stop and start and stop and start this passion continues and
continues and continues each and every day 24/7 find that passion and once you
do find that passion do it with excellence Oprah talks about it a lot to
find your purpose in life once you've found your purpose is why are you here
and what you're here to do do it with excellence you know I don't do it with
don't half-ass do it don't do it a little bit here good a little bit be a
good and not so good there and not to do it with excellence all the time and when
you learn this thing that you need to elevate your life or the way you conduct
yourself in life or your passion or your purpose in life to a level of excellence
consistently your view and focus and your perception of everything
automatically changes because once you only are working at this level things on
this level become irrelevant become non-existent so do whatever you do but
do it with excellence do it with pride and the third a most important how to
live like Oprah three vital must do's third most important vital must do is
whatever you do do it with honesty and integrity you know it's not a
competitive plane it's not a competitive world where we all think are we better
particularly rush get out there before Joe or Sandra or whoever is going
to steal that cake was going to take away my share once you move out of this
competitive plane that is enough for everyone there's enough for everyone
even as you fight for it but whatever you do therefore do it with honesty and
integrity and not just honesty and integrity where you've got a thousand
cameras on you or when the whole world is watching no do it with honesty and
integrity when you're all alone in the dark and you have to make a decision but
you have to do something where not a single soul is watching where no one
would possibly know what your decision was or what you did in that moment do it
with honesty and integrity not for anyone else
but for yourself because once you start thinking at that level that I am doing
everything with honesty and integrity you'll be surprised at how that stuff
starts coming back to you it's like Karma right I do something good something good
comes back to me I do something bad something bad has come back to me I
intentionally do something bad something bad comes back to me but I intentionally
make a point of working as an individual behaving as a human being in the most
honest and integral way one person can possibly can then just let the stuff
happen miracles begin to happen let the good things begin to come in but this is
again not I am now like this and I'm now like that no this is to be on a
consistent basis 24/7 it's like a blanket of honesty integrity that sits
on you forever so in summary if you want to live like Oprah you have to have to
do these three vital must do's number one find out who you are ask yourself the
question do some soul-searching but come with an answer Who am I?
step number two what do you want do you have a clear vision of what you want in
this life and what is your purpose find that vision find that purpose and
whatever you do do it properly do it with excellence do it with pride step
number three conduct yourself in life in business in every corner every every
every area you have to with honesty and integrity as the basis and foundations
of who you are as an individual and human being honestly honestly with
honesty and integrity and watch what happens
you know Oprah hasn't come to the position she's in by not following these
steps or not truly believing in these three vital must do's so if you truly want
to have an exceptional life you need to start doing things and making changes
now
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thank you for watching take care of yourself I'm Mona Vayda.
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