you have no friends but be a friend to everyone you can when you need to be
happy you can't afford to depend on other people because the things that you
have will make you happy take care of you I bet you if you do
that take care of yourself and leave other people business I'm focus on you
for a month I bet you have no problems with happiness
so now a little bit more about me I live here in Fort Lauderdale also live in
Jamaica you know I still have my mom's boom address as my address but I got a
place in Jamaica I won't tell you where it's a nice spot it's my spot
so there's both Jamaican here this theme is always the same whether you're making
a knot in fact if you're not to make it you want to move quickly to go to
Jamaica enjoy and find a place I think Joe Jamaica is gonna blow up in the next
couple of years so anyone who can go in there and get a piece of the rock you
listen to me carefully go get it alright so I'm gonna head outside cuz I'm really
excited to be home and I'm gonna go sit on one side cuz there's a reason why I
chose to live where I live I grew up in buff Bay place called quokka River right
next to the Buff Bay football
Stadium you may not be able to see me well but hopefully you
can hear me right behind me is the ocean of great
beauty ocean unobstructed most from most of the room here have I got a deck up on
top but for me the ocean was what I used to look at and I saw the horizon I said
you know I want to go over to that horizon
so I'm back now
first time I'm at home I'm trying to figure out what's the best spot here
it's the worklist name so I was making a point why I chose to be by the ocean
that's because if you can look at the ocean different days the ocean has a
different character but it's always seemed limitless seen limit that seems I
could have something special for us so if you can get by the ocean
we should know that by the ocean I recommend that you plan a vacation at
least once a year go by the ocean there's something about the ocean that I
think is special and I think you know we came from the ocean evolution will tell
you if you believe in that that we all used to be inside the ocean so there's
something special for me about being in the ocean so I like being there all
right now oh I didn't lose a lot of my viewers I'm home I gotta make sure I
understand where I can do a show from I was outside and I think I may have lost
a little on my Wi-Fi so I'm back I'm going to stay inside today until I
figure this out all right I gotta make sure I've also the right lighting so let
me see her all right let me get to it all right we've been talking about our
Sunday series it's gonna be about happiness right last week we talked
about the first step is taking stock of your life what's in it what do you have
because what you have make you happy what you don't have is what makes you
sad I always remember that someone told me that remember who but I give credit
when you do it's not mine but I keep reminding myself of that what
I have I should get the most out of it now what was amazing for me when I was
younger little boy if I could get like a bullet and please up here everything
happiness not even calm left today I see people eating leaving all kind of food I
go to top restaurants around the world I take a doggie bag
I can't leave stuff like that because I'm coming from nothing so I'm training
my mind to whatever I have I need to treasure it I bet you're right now if
you're on this show it tells me that your mind is right you're trying to get
knowledge you tell them that you have humility you're trying to listen to
someone see if you can get something new to add to what your knowledge is so I
respect you big are to you for being here but I want to remind you last week
you talked about look into your life take stock of what you have everything
you have make sure you maximize that get the most out of it you know so I'm
starting to clean up today I spent all day cleaning up this house I'm gonna
walk clean it up I mean I'd love to show you all my kids rooms are cleaned up my
car is cleaned up everything is in order all my stuff my bag my clothes and I
know I'm enjoying I'm like wow I have a lot of stuff you know I have a lot in my
life I should be happy man my kids are my
wife went on to church and I decided today I'm gonna have Church with you but
I'm also a church by taking care of me and I'm happy at that because all that I
have right now I'm treasuring it kissing myself that was last week today I'm
gonna give you something new right now we're talking about wealth on Wednesday
but the goal is how do we succeed in our life so when we talk about well when we
talk about happiness those are part of your success right I
talked about your your happiness your wealth your health and your life and
what is the meaning that you put your life you better put a meaning to your
life those are what's gonna make you happy but today we're talking about
happiness and inspiration right grab in church today all right
one of the first rules of success and happiness when you combine those two
together one of the first rules right is you have no friends
but be a friend to everyone you can never repeat it to be successful in life
unhappy you have no friends but be a friend to everybody now I said that too
some people want that are close to me and you said Kings the reason why I said
that because you know in a father so you
don't know what it is to open up and be a and let and say you have a friend well
this is that's the message my father left me before I turn one year off so
any friend you think you have today I want you to listen to my message today I
want you to be a friend to the person that you consider your best friend you
just be a friend to that person well you better tell yourself that in your life
you have no friends if you want to succeed you don't want to succeed ignore
me ignore me it's like some people never
get married then you get married and you really know yourself when you look at
yourself you're gonna mess it up I'm so big you mess it up but if someone to
tell you that why you're not going to think you forgetting married enough you
Beckster them I you're done with them and then when you're divorced
you've called them up and said watch me listen
you have to know yourself if you're gonna succeed in life you need to have
such a focus you need to be looking at how you're proceeding you can't afford
to have friends in the way that friends want you to have them let me explain to
you a few different kind of friends and tell me the friend that you have which
category they fall into right the first friend is a friend that you're gonna
look for for support why that's my Bridgman cuz every time you need help
that person there for me and that's good that's good to have that person you're
like good to have someone around it you can support I have a lot of people right
now I can call these are my friends I am their friend they're there for me most
of the time but you can expect that friend to be there for you every time
you need support they're not your father your mother so you be the best friend
you can to them but don't put all this pressure on that person that every time
you need help you go to them because the daily can't support you you're done with
them and all that trauma all that frustration is gonna distract you from
your mission to succeed and find happiness so when you're leaning on
people that because it helped you out once twice Billy a best friend that's
not how it works you'll be a friend to them and if they need help
you be there for them but don't have expectations on them right because when
you're trying to go somewhere and you need to move you can't be looking at
someone else and wondering well you know how am i doing based on that friendship
this second kind of friendship it's friendship that you use to waste your
time right these are the friends you say maybe tonight we'll go to the bar yeah
man where to go well I'm gonna watch the game today watch football all day
Sunday bring over the beer all day waste all day with you boy let me
go play some golf you can't play on your own you
them you with their time on your time so those are the waste your time friends
waste your time because you know that if you try to waste time by yourself
doesn't feel the same as if you're wasting time with somebody else the
third kind of friend is a friend that you tell all your secret to boy you
can't you can hold it yourself so you have to tell somebody so that you have
somebody that you call them every time any little thing happen to your life you call them up well what does that do it make you soft
so you can't handle your own problems you can't find your solution so you need
somebody to lean on every day you call them up tell them in their ears I tell them
hardly a problem and if them try to tell you their problem isn't why here too
tough and Bob Marley said only a friend know your secret so when them bust by
you and the whole world fall apart you know how many people are moving up in
life and somebody bust by them on the whole thing fall apart so you be careful
how you trying to tell everybody a little secret and boy that
is my real bona fide brethren because I can tell him anything and he'll keep it
secret that means you don't want it come out
then how come you telling someone about all right now they're different there
then there's the next kind of friend that this is a friend that you need to
validate every single thing you need to do while I'm watching go to startup
business now you go to the friend and if the friend ever did not support you you
ready are gonna fight you need them to validate you you needed the terms of why
is a great idea go for it and it's good idea have you go to your friend and if
they don't support you your world falling apart so I remember those
remember those four different categories are friends right because I want you to
stop having friends that you're gonna put those in those four categories
you are a friend to everybody cuz you're gonna need people in your life to help
you you won't get to happiness and get to success with our people have help in
it I call those angels when you're ready listen to my watch my interview with the
unborn and profile I talk about when you're ready your angel will comment but
here's why you're gonna have a lot of friends in your life if you part of my
room because when you focus on getting somewhere in your life and you're moving
you have a lot of value now there are people who are gonna look to you and say
you know what man I need to be friends with Kingsley and in return you're gonna
be friends with anybody and everybody welcome you be open to anybody who wants
to be your friend but I'm telling you don't tell it call anybody your friend
in the four categories that I talked about
call people your friends but don't put them in one of the four categories
that's gonna put you in at risk for you to fall apart when they don't fulfill
any of those four roles but copy be your friend
but tell yourself that you know what I am not expecting anything from them I am
both my own deal I am trying to be an eagle I am flying alone but I am always
looking for for help anybody who can help me I'm gonna go to them and you
wanna make a deal with people don't expect freeness from people you're not
giving anything back do you always be willing to make a deal
with people I don't have to be business deals but I call is putting things in a
bank friendship points right if you can help someone else do your best help them
out that's planting a seed and when you
plant seed in the world don't expect any harvest don't expect anything in return
because then you're gonna be bad mine uncharged feelings of people just keep
planting seeds every day hug and kiss people say good things to them if you
can help them with a little money help them out but don't expect anything back
because just because you helped John Tom doesn't mean that John Thomas to help
you maybe Mary come and help you I wonder what hope I'm Mary helped me
because of the blessing from you helping John Tom so you be a friend to everybody
but don't put people in the friendship category too you're gonna need them to
wish your time you need to lean on them every day for support right you need
them to validate every little idea you have every little dream you have you
need them to validate it otherwise your your lies my shop your backside every
kind of now I support you remember this the people that are your friends today
may not be your friends at the next level that doesn't mean you stop being a
friend if they'll call you up be there for them but as you move to them dip
different levels you're gonna have different people come into your life who
want to be friends with you because you can help them and they can help you but
when you single-minded focus on getting somewhere in your life finding your
dream and when you need to be happy you can't afford to depend on other people
because the things that you have will make you happy the people in your life
the things that you're trying to achieve those are the things that will cause you
unhappiness I tell you today if you walk around today with no friends don't talk
to us single friend for the next month I bet you will have no situation that you
feel down or unhappy and you do some of the things I've been telling you to do
you go to the gym everyday wake up every morning do a little exercise plan your
diet take care of you Betty if you do that take care yourself
and leave other people business I'm focus on you for a month I bet you have
no problems with happiness and if you charger everything in your life that I'm
said last week Sunday everything look around your place clean up your house
clean up your life I bet you even do all that hit me up and I bet you have one
month of pure happiness no stress no drama all right so that's the Sunda
message I repeat it you don't have no friend but be a friend to everybody this
is dr. Chen peace out thanks for joining me spread the word we're gonna change
the world we're gonna change America we are live we're gonna change your makeup
I have some really great plans coming up for Jamaica one at a time we're not
ready to release some of them I'm trying to get a following get people come on
and realize that listen we can change the world
no don't go out there on cuffs bad word don't go out there and get frustrated
with politician and other leaders we're gonna lead ourselves over time trust me
stay with me plan to see me again Wednesday 7:00 p.m. for motivation we'll
still talk about wealth and next Sunday at 1:00 o'clock on the taco inspiration
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