A Newpaper Article Written by Ohidur Chad Caring or Looks?
A child loves his father, no matter how ugly he looks.
He loves him only because he cares his child.
The child grows and learns to love his 'father', no matter how much he cares the child any
more.
A boy loves her mainly because he is beautiful, no matter how much she loves him, let alone
how much she cares him.
The girl loves him back in course of time, no matter how he looks or how much he will
care him.
In course of time the mutual understanding and love for each other have grown substantially.
Now they are married.
Interestingly, girls are more after boys' caring attitude rather than their looks while
choosing or accepting their partners.
In other words, girls are happy with their own looks much but not their partners'.
Still for sure the handsome looks are their added advantages.
Similarly, the married man is now used to her beauty.
The part 'beauty' in his life is changed into 'care' in his conjugal life.
On the other side, her first chapter 'care' has gone in the backdrop as his love for her
has declined significantly.
Her main attraction is on his love for her.
And his main happiness depends on how much she is caring for him, no 'serious' matter
how she looks, and no matter how much she loves him still.
Here lies the key to conjugal happiness.
Unfortunately, the wife does not know how important it is for her to care him in order
to get back his lost love for her.
She becomes upset, unhappy and lost in despair.
She does not think deeply which may have brought these consequences and what she should do
to bring back the lost love.
She gets even unhappier by comparing the past and the present.
She also compares how caring and loving attitude the other males are still showing to her.
Both boys and girls should care as equally as possible.
It is all true that a girl cares her dear one more, though she wants to find the caring
attitude in him in the beginning of the relationship.
In return she cares him more subsequently.
The foremost reason is that girls are more vulnerable in many respects.
That is why they test their would-be partners in various ways.
One of the ways is 'Pre-selection'.
To understand it better and clearer, the following words may turn helpful.
In the past villagers were usually uneducated and destitute.
They were scared when they needed to choose the right seller (eg, rice).
They waited and waited until someone superior chooses one rice vendor.
Immediately those rustic fellows revive their confidence and keep on buying from the same
seller until all the rice was sold out.
Unfortunately, the pre-selection plays a vital role among girls before they pick up their
partners.
And this pre-selection is mainly based on the demand of the male partner among the other
girls.
Here lies the obvious reason behind a wrong selection by the girl.
In western world the boys are tutored how to pass the test of pre-selection artificially.
After having adequate lessons and practice, the boys hover around the clubs or parties
mostly for trying to get pre-selected.
Here lies the difference between supply and demand.
The boy chosen by one girl will be chosen by another and another.
In other words, the same boy will be the partner of many girls by turns and many other boys
will be left for years.
As a result, some boys will stay with every girl and the rest of the boys will stay alone
and keep on contributing to the supply.
Constantly, 10 boys are for 90 girls and 90 other boys are for 10 other girls.
A doctor is for 100 patients.
A teacher is for 50 students.
A leader is for thousands of common people.
And the moon is for billions of people.
The writer is Assistant Professor of English & Director, Language Centre, University of
Information Technology at Baridhara, Dhaka.
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