13 REAL Reasons Why Introverted Men Are So Damn Attractive
Introverted individuals as a whole may at times come to be viewed by society as a shy,
weird, problematic, standoffish, reserved, and socially awkward bunch of people.
Or at least, that's something most introverts often feel.
Especially for introverted men, they lack confident to realize that they're actually
attractive.
Most of them afraid to approach people, especially woman.
Now in this video, let me show you some real reasons why introverted men are so damn attractive.
Though it might not apply to all introverted men, but I believe most of you will have some
of these traits, so be proud to be yourself.
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1.
You are mysterious
That's because you listen more than you speak.
Thus, you are able to get to know a lot about the woman you are talking to while revealing
little about yourself.
Her revealing a lot + you revealing little = recipe for being 'that mysterious man'
or 'that sexy stranger'.
Why does this matter?
Well, as you know, women are attracted to mysterious men.
In fact, in the eyes of women, mysteriousness is one of the most attractive qualities you
can have as a man.
2.
Non-reactiveness
Introverts can sink deeper in their minds and thoughts.
This makes them less reactive to external things.
Why does this matter?
Non-reactiveness is a character trait of alpha males.
Think of the alpha guy sitting in a restaurant and eating.
Another man enters and starts yelling at him.
The alpha doesn't flinch.
He doesn't react.
He slowly finishes chewing his food.
Takes a sip at his wine.
Wipes his mouth.
Puts the napkin back in its place in a calm and orderly fashion.
Only then does he get up and kick the other guys ass.
3.
You are effortless
Because you need less attention, are less loud, and talk less, you come across as effortless.
This is attractive to women.
Now, of course, you still need to understand how attraction works and how to talk to women.
But these are skills you can learn.
I know many men that are good with women, both extroverts and introverts.
The point I'm trying to make is the following: Introverted men that are good with women have
an effortless style compared to extroverts.
To the woman, it looks like she's doing all the work.
This makes her even more attracted to you.
4.
You are a master at getting women to invest.
Now, I'm not talking about getting them to invest money.
I'm talking about getting them to invest time, energy, and thoughts in YOU!
You see, because you listen more than you talk, other people have a tendency to talk
more in your presence.
When you make women talk, they invest in the conversation.
They open up.
They invest time and energy in you by doing so.
But it doesn't stop there.
Because you reveal less about yourself, she'll try harder to figure you out.
She'll think about you when you're not around, meaning she'll invest in you even
after you're gone.
Why does this matter?
Easy.
The more a woman invests in you, the more she'll become attracted to you.
She'll think you're special, because why else would she be thinking about you so much?
5.
You know what you want
What do women want?
This is the question men have been trying to figure out for ages.
The answer?
Women want a man who knows what he wants!
You introspect more than extroverts.
You like being on your own to recharge.
This give you more time to think things through.
Therefore you know what you want much better than extroverts do.
This is attractive to women.
6.
You are better at qualifying women
Knowing what you want also means knowing what you like and dislike in women.
This enables you to qualify women much better, and come from an authentic place.
Qualifying women means you ask them questions to see if they live up to your desires.
For example, if you like sporty women, you could ask, 'Do you play any sports?
Why is this important?
When you ask women qualifying questions, she'll perceive you as being picky.
Now tell me something.
What kind of men are picky?
Men with options of course.
So by asking her qualifying questions, she'll assume you have a lot of options with women.
You must because otherwise you wouldn't ask these questions.
Here's the point: Women love men with options.
Why?
Well, because of the attraction principle of pre-selection.
Pre-selection is one of the most powerful attraction triggers within women.
It means that women feel attraction for men if they know other women are attracted to
them.
See, that's were most men make a HUGE mistake.
They try to keep their criteria broad.
They think that the broader their criteria, the more women they can find as a match.
They believe this increases their chances.
But in reality, the opposite is true.
The more picky you are, the more success you'll have attracting beautiful women.
That's because of the pre-selection effect implied by your picky behavior.
P-U-As have this figured out, and they use lies and fake qualification questions to achieve
this.
The difference is that you actually know your preferences.
You care about the answers.
Therefore, you'll ask AUTHENTIC questions.
It will be real.
Women will feel it.
They'll become attracted because of that.
7.
You are a challenge
Introverts usually have a deeper understanding of things.
This is because introverts process information from many more angles.
So what, Well, because you have a deeper understanding of things, you can offer different perspectives.
You can challenge her more during conversations.
Women love men that challenge them.
Also, when you are able to show them a different perspective, it shows your intelligence.
As you know, intelligence is attractive to women.
Plus, when you educate her on something, you position yourself as an authority.
Think about it.
Who else has done this in her life?
People of a higher authority.
Examples: her father, teachers, bosses, etc.
Women feel attracted to men of authority.
Why do you think so many young girls fall in love with their teacher?
Although, be careful not to come across as someone who loves to lecture her.
8.
You have a stronger inner game
Yep.
And before you say anything: I don't care if you don't feel confident at times!
You know why?
Because most extroverts don't feel confident either.
But you know what the difference is?
When you learn about inner game, and put your mind to it, you'll improve much faster than
extroverts.
Why?
Because inner game is all about understanding and connecting with your inner processes.
This is something that comes much more easily to introverts than extroverts.
9.
You have a stronger outer game
Again, before you say anything: I don't care if you don't know how to talk to women.
Want to know why?
Because most extroverts also don't know how to talk to women.
The difference?
Again, you process things at deeper levels and from different angles.
Thus, you are able to get a deeper understanding of things.
This includes dating strategies, tactics, and skills.
If you put your mind to it, you'll get a deeper understanding and mastery of dating
skills than most extroverts.
But here's the deal: you need to look at dating like any other skill that you've
learned.
Once you do this, it won't take you long to improve your love life.
10.
You are a great listener
Because you are such a great listener and because you process what she says from different
angles, you have a power extroverts can only dream of.
You are able to explain her problems and thoughts better than she can explain them herself.
That enables you to "get" her at a deep level.
The only problem you have is that you need to learn how to do this without falling into
the friendzone.
Luckily, that's easy.
The only thing you need to do is to add escalating touch to your conversations.
When you combine escalating touch with your listening skills, here's what women will
say to their friends about you: "He just gets me!"
11.
You need less attention
Introverts need less attention.
In fact, you love time on your own.
As simple as this seems, this is powerful.
Why?
Because it makes you less needy.
Neediness is the number-one killer of attraction.
Women feel that.
In fact, here's a little experiment you can try on your next date.
Tell her this: "You know, I'm the kind of guy that needs time alone to recharge.
I know it might be strange to you, and many women have difficulties with this.
But that's just who I am."
I bet you the farm that she'll say she understands.
Watch how she grows more attracted to you after you say that.
Play to your strengths at a moment like this.
You like time alone.
Be upfront about it, and you'll understand how your introversion triggers attraction
naturally.
No need for lies, manipulation, or P-U-A routines.
12.
You are better at one-on-one conversations
Extroverts usually do better in big groups.
That's because they get energy from people.
And in social settings, that can be an advantage.
But dates require one-on-one conversations.
That's where you shine.
That's because you prefer deeper conversations with just one or two people, instead of superficial
small talk with big groups.
So while extroverts typically have an easier time meeting new people, they are usually
worse on first dates.
You, on the other hand, are better on dates.
13.
You're better at creating deep bonds
Not only are you better at one-on-one conversations, but you love to go in deep in conversations.
Creating bonds is something that comes easily to you.
This is one of the most important skills you can have to succeed with women.
Are you sure about this?
But I always get friend-zoned!"
Well That could be, but it's not because of your connecting skills.
It's because of a lack of other skills.
You don't get friend-zoned because of something you do.
Instead, it is because of something you didn't do even though that's also important.
Let me say that again.
It's not the presence of something that gets you friend-zoned.
It's the absence of something.
What you lack is escalating touch.
If you add escalating touch to your ability to create deep-bonds, you'll be a modern-day
Casanova in no time!
Well, that's the 13 REAL Reasons Why Introverted Men Are So Damn Attractive.
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