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If you're convinced your break up isn't the end.

If you can't stand the idea of being "just friends".

If you want your ex back and you're willing to do anything to make it happen.

Then you must follow these six rules or you'll lose them, guaranteed.

Hi, I'm Jessica Boss, and I'm on Youtube to share the proven relationship secrets that

I've built my career as a relationship specialist around.

These tips have helped so many of my clients restart love with their ex and they can work

for you too.

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Let's get into it.

Rule One: Don't text them more than once a week

I know you're afraid they're going to forget about you but there's nothing less

attractive than someone who won't leave you alone.

Whether or not this breakup is the end, you two definitely need some time apart and you

can't have that if you're blowing up each other's phones every second of the day.

I'm sure you know what it feels like to have someone you don't want to talk to constantly

contacting you.

You never want to make your ex feel that way.

By all means, if they text you, respond, but if they're not reaching out and if they're

barely responding, don't text them.

A good rule is to text them less than once a week.

Because even if they seem to be responding positively, there's a chance they're just

being polite.

Rule two: Don't date their friends

Dating during your breakup can be helpful to the process.

It can give you confidence, make your ex jealous, and get your mind off your sadness, but there

are some lines you don't cross.

Don't date, hit on, or have sex with your ex's friends, coworkers or family.

If there's any doubt, steer clear.

You'll look like a complete jerk and many people won't forgive that kind of betrayal.

Rule three: Don't have sex with them

I get it, you want to, they want to.

But sex with an ex is like a bald guy with an earring, it's not a good look.

If you got dumped, you shouldn't let them continue to use you for sex.

You're giving them comfort and helping them get over you.

Get your rocks off somewhere else and leave them with breakup blueballs if you ever want

them to come crawling back.

Rule four: Do NOT tell them you miss them

You want them to know that they hurt you.

Trust me, they do.

If you complain to them about the breakup you'll only be a source of sadness, insecurity

and resentment for them.

They can't make you feel better.

No one ever responded to "I miss you" with "Okay, let's get back together then."

It just doesn't make sense.

The knew you'd miss them when they dumped you and that didn't stop them.

It won't change their mind now.

Rule five: Don't complain on the internet

It can be cathartic to let loose a veiled post about how mad you are at your ex.

But first, you're not as subtle as you think you are, and second, you look petty as hell.

Nothing good ever came from a subtweet or a selfie with tears in your eyes.

Talk to your friends, your family, or a therapist.

That's what they're there for.

Outside of about ten cute animal videos, the internet has never made anyone feel good,

and I'll give that the Jessica Boss guarantee.

(The Jessica Boss Guarantee is not applicable in Alaska or Hawaii, please contact your doctor

before you drunk text your ex at two in the morning on a wednesday.)

An unwritten rule when it comes to getting your ex back is to go to JessicaBoss.com/video

That link will take you to Brad Browning's ex back guide.

He's a really smart guy and he goes into extreme depth on all the steps to take to

reattract your ex.

A lot of people I know have found it really helpful.

Rule 6: Do more, not less

It's important to take a couple of days to recover after a breakup but don't let

it turn into a week, or two, or more.

I know you feel like shit, I've been there, but if you listen to that little voice in

your head telling you to lie on the couch until they come back to you, you're never

going to get your ex back.

This time is SO important.

Don't waste it on self-pity.

Get out in the world and do what needs to be done.

Stay active, see your friends and family, Follow through on your obligations.

Even if you feel like you're just keeping up appearances, do it.

Like a very sad shark, you need to keep swimming forward or you won't make it.

This will get your mind off your ex, give you positive reinforcement, and make you more

attractive to them going forward.

Show them you can function without them even if you feel like you can't and you'll

both be better off.

Don't let your breakup break you down.

These are the six golden rules that I have my clients follow when they begin trying to

win back their ex.

These aren't the only steps you'll need to take but they help minimize risk and maximize

your chances of saving the relationship.

What about you?

Do you have any more rules that I'm missing that you followed to get your ex back?

Please comment below and I'll let you know what I think.

You might even inspire my next video.

Thanks for watching, bye!