Sir, you have more than enough time in the afternoon
to play with your kids and help with housework
before you leave for work.
I think I help her out a lot when I'm home.
I mean, I even put my younger son to bed.
I sleep beside him when he falls asleep.
- Gosh. / - All dads help out like that.
- Great job. / - He puts his younger son to bed
- and sleeps beside him. / - You're a dad.
He's your son, for goodness' sake.
Sooyeon, do you stay at home all day with your kids?
I go to a kids' cafe so that my children aren't bored.
- That's common. / - Occasionally, right?
- Many moms go to kids' cafes. / - I do it for my kids,
- Right. / - but he thinks that I go out for fun.
That's what he thinks about you doing to a kids' cafe?
She just lets the kids play and drinks coffee.
What's wrong with having some coffee?
- She can't really... / - She lounges around.
go into a ball pool with them.
Does he say that he'll go out when you tell him
that you're going to the kids' cafe?
He said he'll go fishing before work.
- Fishing? / - He goes fishing?
- You two should meet. / - Fishing is so in demand.
(Nice to meet you.)
When you tell him that you're going to the kids' cafe,
he goes, "You're going out, so I'll go fishing."
He says, "You're going to have fun there too."
Then he comes home after midnight.
He talks like a kid.
I think you can sound a bit mean and mischievous.
- You don't act your age at all. / - He really doesn't.
Sir, are you intentionally trying to sound immature
because your wife is a lot younger than you?
I think living with her has made me become immature.
Hold on.
- Wait. / - What does that mean?
- Are you trying to blame your wife? / - He's still...
- He's digging his own grave. / - He sure is.
Everything he's saying is working
- against him. / - You have no filter.
You're not filtering your thoughts at all.
I get a sense that he hurts your feelings often.
He says things like, "What do you even know?"
His emotions show on his face.
Does he sound condescending when he says that?
- Yes. He also talks with a stern face. / - I see.
I always do my best not to get on his nerves.
She's worried she might annoy him. I must say,
that must be so exhausting.
When are you worried that you might annoy him?
When we go out for food,
he does ask me what we should eat.
But when I suggest pasta, he goes,
"What?" He makes it obvious that he doesn't want it.
Then he says, "I'll drop you off there."
"I'm going to go have hangover soup."
- Gosh, how childish. / - What was that about?
Why does he do that, seriously?
- Why on earth... / - Your wife is so stressed out.
- Seriously... / - It's like a comedy skit.
- Why do you even ask her? / - "What? Pasta?"
(It sure can be a comedy skit.)
"I'll drop you off there."
Are there things that you can never do because of him?
You can tell us all about it if that's the case.
I have to ask him for his card even when I want coffee.
- Does that mean he controls the money? / - Seriously?
You use your husband's card?
She has to ask him for his card.
This is a recurring topic today.
- Granny's card. / - Mom's credit card.
(Every single family member came up.)
Even when I want to go grocery shopping,
I tell him that I need to get groceries,
- and he says, "Again?" / - "Again?"
That must hurt your self-esteem a lot.
- "Again?" / - He should really give you more freedom.
Does he not give you money for living expenses?
No, I just borrow his credit card when I need it.
- My goodness. / - He didn't even give her his card.
Do you need his approval every single time?
I think I'm doing my best to be frugal.
Even when I tell him that I need to buy things
for our kids, the first thing he does is sigh.
It must hurt your self-esteem so badly.
- That's horrible. / - Even when I...
Complete sets of children's books are pretty pricey.
I picked up a part-time job for two days to buy one.
(She worked part-time to buy it.)
- You worked part-time? / - Yes, for two days.
(We're getting so frustrated.)
That's so petty.
It's not like she wants to buy clothes for herself.
What is this, Sir? You're being a financial bully.
That's why she's always tiptoeing around you.
She doesn't want to get on your nerves.
- This is crazy. / - You should give her a credit card.
We moved to a bigger house recently,
- so our debt has gone up. / - I see.
I'm being thrifty because I think we should
save every penny to pay off our debt soon.
How many times in a month does your wife
buy coffee for herself?
I think it's about five or six times a month.
Do you think that's a lot?
I think they're useless expenses.
Why do you not let her take care of your finances?
Is she too young to be entrusted with it?
No. I did let her handle our finances initially,
but she had a hard time
keeping a ledger.
Are you currently keeping a ledger, then?
No, I'm not.
(What is wrong with him?)
So she has to keep a ledger
but you don't have to do it.
I don't have time for it because I work.
I have a question. Since you control the finances,
you must make various efforts to increase your savings.
Have you managed to save up quite a bit?
As you know, the economy is bad now.
- My business isn't going too well now. / - Right.
- It must be difficult. / - He owns a small business.
As a breadwinner of the family, it is very stressful.
I get it.
I'm actually looking for a job now,
but it's not easy because I'm considered old.
- It's a vicious cycle, / - It must be stressful.
- and it stresses me out a lot. / - Right.
I do understand him. He's being frugal as he wants
to pay off the loan quickly due to the interest.
But does he try to be as frugal as he wants you to be?
He doesn't want me to spend money,
but he goes out for drinks and calls relief drivers.
You know that there's nighttime surcharge
- for taxis, right? / - Right, the surcharge.
He spends money on those things.
- My gosh. / - Once, he really hurt my feelings.
My first baby was in a breech position,
but he was worried that C-section would be too costly.
He said I should try exercising.
(Exercise to turn the baby around.)
He actually said that.
(Shocked)
Did you have to say that, sir?
(My patience has run out.)
(Yumi has reverted to being Yeongja!)
(I can't take this anymore.)
Gosh, seriously.
(Please come to your senses!)
I know I shouldn't be doing this,
but I lost my patience there.
That is absolutely crazy.
I'm so angry and sorry for her.
That must've really hurt her feelings.
- Were you trying to be funny? / - It's not funny.
C-sections are done under anesthesia.
I heard that it's bad for women.
The doctor said
that exercising could be helpful,
so I just said it to make her laugh.
- Can you say it in that tone again? / - Back then...
- My question is... / - But...
Why did he say that it's too costly, then?
As Dong Yeob said earlier...
- That's what upset her. / - If he hadn't said it...
- He's not good with words. / - He's expressing
- his concerns for her. / - He shouldn't have said it.
You said you brought up divorce
after the straw incident.
Did you try to talk through the problem together?
Yes. I think I tried to talk about it with her.
What do you think? He's saying he tried.
- Do you agree? / - When did he try?
(When did he try?)
- "When did he try?" / - "When did he try?"
(Whom did you talk to, sir?)
She asked me
while looking right into my eyes.
How would I know?
You should ask your husband directly.
Most people who come here don't communicate
- with their family at home. / - That's right.
Do the two of you communicate often?
No, rarely.
We mostly talk on the messenger.
- With your husband? / - At home?
You talk only on the phone?
- Most of the time. / - Via text message?
We usually use the messenger to talk to each other.
I'll give you an example. After your kids go to bed,
you must have time to talk to each other.
"You got through another day. Was your day stressful?"
I wonder if you two have conversations like that.
- To show affection. / - Not at all.
We just turn on the TV
- Do you sit there silent? / - and talk about TV shows.
What worries you when you think about your future?
My dad didn't spend time with me even when I was a kid.
- Your dad? / - I told my husband a few times
that I want him to spend time with our kids
so that they can feel close to him.
But when our kids cry, he goes,
"Stop! No more!" He yells at them.
- "Stop! No more!" / - He's strict.
- Is that what he does? / - Yes, he yells.
- To his kids? / - Once, my son cried in the car
and my husband said, "Stop crying or get off!"
- He told him to get off? / - Yes. My older son
tells him to go away when he goes near him.
- Seriously? / - To his dad?
- Really? / - He tells his dad to go away?
I'm so worried that they might become more distant
from him as they grow up.
Why do you think your son does that?
I've been trying to give my kids tough love,
but I think it has made us become a bit distant.
My wife and I had arguments about it,
so I told her that I'll take my hands off of them.
I thought it'll help them become less scared of me.
You should create an environment where they can talk.
It's not a good idea to cut off interactions.
You can be stern with them when you're scolding them,
but you should be able to embrace them afterwards.
Being stern all the time will drive them away.
The best thing you can do for your kids
is to show them that you and your wife love each other.
Show them that you cherish each other.
Have you ever shown it to your children?
I make a lot of effort to show it to my kids, but...
Does he make effort?
(Does he make a lot of effort?)
- What did he say? / - "When?"
She asked me, "What did he say?"
I'm sure there are things you want from him.
We're here to make things better for our family.
Please help me out with the kids and house chores.
I'd love to hear you say, "Thanks for all you do."
A heart-warming remark like that is all you want.
And please don't treat me like your subordinate.
- I see. / - You don't want him to talk down to you.
Could you express your love for your wife now?
Please express how you feel about your wife.
Tell her how much you love her.
Honey.
First and foremost, thank you so much
for marrying someone like me when you were 22
despite the huge age difference.
I guess I've been feeling too anxious and obligated
to make our life more prosperous for you.
(He's at a loss for words.)
- He's been under a lot of pressure. / - Yes.
I'm going to try to get a job again.
I'll also try to be more giving and helpful.
In addition, I'll do my best to help you
with the kids so that you don't even have to ask.
Please have faith in me.
Thank you for marrying me. I love you.
(Thank you for marrying me. I love you.)
He said he'll change and help you with the kids, too.
- You'll trust him, right? / - Yes.
Think of today as the turning point.
Let's have the guests vote. Dongjoo, you go first.
I think that he'll change
- from now on. / - He has to.
- Yes. / - I do think he'll change,
but it is a worry at the moment.
It looks like she's bottling up everything inside,
so I think that it's a worry.
Personally, meeting him today made me think
that I shouldn't live like him.
Hence, I'm going to press the button to cast my vote.
I'm curious to find out what the audience thinks.
Please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- In five, four, three. / - In five, four, three,
- and two, one. / - My gosh.
Time is up.
All right. The current winner received 158 votes.
Please show us the result for "The King's Woman".
(The result)
- Will it be 159? / - Will it win?
- No way. / - Gosh.
- It can't beat / - 159?
- the phone cables. / - Oh, gosh.
- Will it beat the chargers? / - He has 100 chargers.
- It'll be hard to beat that. / - Show us!
(It won!)
Did she beat him?
- Unbelievable. / - She got 159 votes.
- She won. / - Please proceed to the winner's seat.
This makes "The King's Woman" the winner of this week.
("The King's Woman" is the winner.)
Winner will receive a 1,000-dollar gift certificate.
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