Hey, gorgeous. It's Denise here from LuckyBitch.com.
Today, we're talking about why you need a Lady Mafia for your business.
What's a Lady Mafia, you ask? Well, it's my term for a group of friends or
mastermind buddies who you know will always have your back. These are your
ride or die friends and mastermind buddies. These are the chicks who help you when
you're feeling scared and remind you that you are an awesome business lady who
can do anything. What if you are seriously lacking in this area? How do you find
them and what if you've actually outgrown your current Lady Mafia?
I'm going to be tackling this topic and more in today's video. Let's do it.
Let's get real here. Business can be scary. Really scary, some days.
You need to have girlfriends who not only get your business, but support you no
matter what. These are the people that you call when everything's gone wrong
during your launch, which totally happens. Who you know will pick you up and tell
you that it's okay or give you a kick in the butt when you need them to.
These are the friends who celebrate your successes, celebrate your ah-has and
also celebrate your business screw-ups. But, the truth is that you can really
outgrow people around you. It's sad, but true. If you're working on your mindset,
your business and your money blocks, sometimes your fellow Lady Posse aren't
really doing it as well. You might outgrow them soon if you haven't already.
What happens next? Well, you need to upgrade if you want to grow. If you're in
my Money Boot Camp, you know that we talk about upgrades a lot. Upgrades are
one of the techniques you can use to get closer to living your first class life – the
one that's going to make you feel abundant and like a money magnet – and you do it
incrementally. How do you use that to upgrade your Lady Mafia? First of all,
I want you to have a really honest check about who you're hanging out with.
Are these friends who maybe have said they want to start a business, but maybe
they moan about it or they can't quite decide what to do or it's too hard and
they don't get through the resistance? Maybe they say they'll do things, but it
takes them months to actually get into action. Maybe they're big on ideas,
but they don't actually do it and have lots of excuses why.
If you're on fire with ideas and enthusiasm, but your Lady Mafia likes to sit around
and winge, then you're just not an energetic match anymore.
I'm really sorry, but it's likely that they'll start to bring you down or keep you at a plateau.
When that happens, you might have decreased business motivation and that's
going to reflect in your bottom line. Even if you're not in business right now,
that kind of energy can really stop your manifesting mojo in its tracks.
What do you do? First of all, check your own energy. The first thing to do when
you suspect that it might be time to find or upgrade your Lady Mafia is to check in
with your own energy when you think about the people around you.
You don't even have to meet up with the group in person or have in person Lady
Mafia to think about this. Think about your business groups. You might have a
drop in your energy when you think about them or when you participate in those groups.
Maybe you're kind of always irritated about what people are posting or what
they're talking about. Maybe you're even eye rolling about some of the moaning or
complaining that you see happening in there. Or, you just think, "I don't want to
hang out with these bitches anymore." These are all signs that it's time to think
about upgrading the people around you. You might think, "Denise, you are way harsh.
These people are my friends and I can't just get rid of them." That's not what I'm saying.
All I'm saying is your mindset is the most important thing to success in your
business and manifesting your first class life. Sometimes you do outgrow friends on the
way to leading this life that you're consciously manifesting for yourself.
When you're in business, it's no different. You might outgrow some of your
mastermind buddies or some of your business forums. If you're unsure about
how to find another Lady Mafia to master- mind with, it's totally, totally possible.
You might think, "Where are these people? I don't know where they are." Well, open
yourself up to it. If you need to upgrade, I've got some ideas for you on how you can do it.
First of all, don't just think that everyone in your business groups are a write-off.
Some people might want to go with you. You could suggest that you all study a
mindset or a manifesting course together – for example, one of my courses – or
you could read a book together – like one of my books like Get Rich, Lucky Bitch for example.
Remember, you can't make everybody take the journey with you, but you also
can suggest stuff. You can give them a chance to get on the manifesting train
with you. But, if it takes a lot of energy to keep everyone motivated and enthused,
maybe it's not worth it and you have to face the fact that it's time to cut your ties
to some of those groups. It could be as simple as leaving a Facebook page,
leaving a Facebook group, not going to meetups anymore or arranging other
activities for yourself. Now, this might sound really hard right now, but you have
to clear the space sometimes and create a vacuum and then get really specific
about what you want and then it will happen fast. If you actually feel like
you need help in manifesting, whether it's finding new friends, finding a new Lady
Mafia or getting some new business acquaintances or even clients, I've got
a manifesting course for you. It goes through the exact process I use whenever
I want to manifest anything. Whether it's friends, new clients, new mastermind
groups or even new business ideas to take my business to the next level.
You can get that free manifesting course – and recently we've upgraded it so if
you've gone through it before, do it again. It's at LuckyBitch.com/formula. I'll take
you through that very specific five step formula to manifest anything you want,
including finding a new Lady Posse or Lady Mafia. Alright, gorgeous.
Get that at LuckyBitch.com/formula. Guess what. No matter what you're trying
to manifest right now, it's totally your time and you're ready for the next step.
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