Youtube daily so Jun 5 2017

The time of happiness

When I was in high school, a student liked bullying me.

who?

His name is Boat.

He bullied until I cried.. He made me in trouble.

I didn't want to have a fight or any problem with anyone.

the best I could do was telling my older brother.

P' Bank asked me "Who?"

We walked into cafeteria and you pointed at the guy.

We thought nothing and went to buy some food to eat, right?

After I bought my food and came back to sit, I felt some ice hitting my back repeatedly.

They threw some ice to my back.

What I remember is like this...

The guy was flying.

You threw him away.

I was stunned.

Golf had the older brother as idol but I was teased by my older brother.

He let his friends tease me. They was chasing me to stab me using rose prickles.

Is that Mike?

Yes

There were about 3 people. At that moment, I was very afraid.

I went to hide in the restroom. I locked myself inside a room and cried.

I was crying until his female friend came to help me.

"Are you ok? Let's come out. I'll protect you from your brother."

I remember it clearly.

He kept teasing me until I'm grown up.

Don't lie

At first, I saw my close friend do this. I questioned what he was doing.

You was supposed to help me.

Oh...It's kind of fun.

But I liked teasing her because she actually was the drama queen of house.

I have a story to share.

No, I must share this story.

Everyone must know this story of Ying.

Ying was a drama queen who deserved an Oscar award since she was a child.

Ying was a drama queen who deserved an Oscar award since she was a child and I was really angry.

I forget many stories in my childhood but I never forget this one.

Tell me

She was a drama queen....

Stop!! I'll tell the story by myself

On that day, we stayed home only 3-4 people, including dad I remember.

On that day, the house was silent. It happened in Mom's room.

I remember I was hiding in the restroom.

She came in to do something.

I just suddenly appeared to peekaboo.

Ying was like this...

What she did is falling down on the floor and do like this.

She made her belly waving like this...

That made Mike get punishment.

I was like this...

I was in trouble.

Then, Ying screamed like this...

The belly was waving like this.

I was stunned.

At first, I focused on her belly.

She acted more and more.

Yes, after peekaboo, she acted like a little child was shocked.

Her belly was waving like this.

Dad came in and asked "Mike, what did you do to your sister?"

Then, I stunned.

Listen, do you know when I was a child, all of you liked teasing me?

No, it isn't true. There was the reason why we tease each other.

I was angry at him because he liked to call me "pig" but I couldn't do anything.

But you shouldn't had revenged me like that.

After that, dad hit me badly.

You started first.

What I saw after she fell down with waving bally on the floor was...

She stood up when I was being hit

"No more, no more" Then, I turned to see her face looking at me like this.

and she walked away.

Really?

At that moment, I would remember it until the end.

You stared first.

What did I do? I just was kidding you.

Did she smile like that?

Seeing Mike was hit made you happy, right?

Do you remember her face when she was a little girl?

Next from Leonardo, I'll give the Oscar to you.

One more story

So good life

The first story is a good story. You were a hero helping the brother.

This one must be another good story. So good life.

This one is also good.

When I was young, I like doing exercises and playing sports like ping-pong and basket ball.

Don't call it playing a sport. It's like fighting.

He played ping-pong like this...

I can play ping-pong because he taught me.

I keep playing until I'm good on his level. Forehand and backhand like this.

For basketball, he taught me but he didn't taught me how to jump without the impact on the knees.

So, I'm not tall.

I did it in the right way

Do you remember what you did in the hospital?

When?

we played chasing in a children's playroom.

I don't remember.

I remember you...

I got kicked in the balls. I felt searing pain. You got it. I had never felt that feeling.

I'd like to tell Golf's balls isn't the same size.

I felt like it's back inside.

It's searing pain that day I remember.

Golf-No-Ball

I felt pretty fun.

Actually, I hadn't done something crazy and had fun like this for a while.

I hadn't done activities for a long time.

This time is the good memory of this year.

It's might be only 2 days of out 365 days

but I think...

the duration time or no of hours can't tell the happiness we can make.

Today, I came to help P'Golf to make so good memories, my feeling...

My feeling about P' Golf is always good.

So, today made my feeling more bonded.

As the brother, I feel good spending time with younger brothers and having fun together.

which is hard to have time together since we have many siblings and each one has own duty to do.

It's very hard to gather like this.

If you ask me whether I can find the definition of so good life, I think I got the answer.

because the so good life is all the things around me, close to me.

which I feel spending time with it makes me happy.

For me, it's staying with my siblings or the beloved ones and travel together like this.

As I said, it's not easy to be available in the same time.

It might be easier spending time together in Bangkok,

but It's hard to travel upcountry to bring back our childhood memory.

After I had this chance, I feel it's fun.

It seems like we were young again... about 10 year ago.

My so good life is spending time with my family.

No matter the place we are is the most comfy or the most cruel.

That makes me know family won't leave us although we have many obstacle.

This point gives us the real happiness.

Pichaya Nitipaisalkul

We had never brushed the teeth together like this for a long.

Let's speak clearly.

I said we had never brushed the teeth in the same room for a so long.

Do you have to do that?

Is it beautiful?

It's beautiful, isn't it?

It's a small ball like it. we drop the serum on it.

Can I eat it?

Don't eat it. Crazy!!

For more infomation >> [Eng Sub] Golf&Mike @ Life's so good EP1-3 - Duration: 10:23.

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[Eng Sub] Golf&Mike @ Life's so good EP2-2 - Duration: 13:43.

Our lives will be good or not. It's depend on our creation or our design.

The design doesn't have any right or any wrong.

It depends on how much we satisfy, focus on own self and choose the best thing for us.

because the so good life is ours own and we can design it.

While we have activities, we don't when the good moment happens.

Once it happens, we will remember it for long.

How do all the things give me happiness?

I feel I take a rest with my siblings... my family... my beloved ones around me.

I'm happy although sometime we just talking about nonsense matter but it makes me happy.

because we have fun talking without thinking so much.

Usually, we spend time working or doing something which we have to think a lot.

At this moment, I've spent time with something simple and my reality since they are my family.

To have the so good life, we have to let ourselves on.

Can we free ourselves from what we are carrying?

Can we free yourselves from something that we feel it's our burden?

If I travel or do whatever with taking something to heart,

the life can't be good, nothing's good, whatever I do isn't good.

That's it... for my so good life.

Family activity

This is the leading person.

She knows which place is good and manage everything.

Hotel, air ticket, where to go, what to eat, which restaurant and everything. I manage all.

Tour by Ying

The most difficult thing is handling the visa for me.

The impressive activity - Maldives

It's the most fun trip since the first thing is...

No cell phone signal

Yes... As we are a big family, if we go to the place which has a shopping mall, we won't stay together.

But in the Maldives trip, we had activities together. We stayed together a lot.

If we go to Japan or Korea, Ying wants to go shopping for cosmetic. I wants to go to model shops.

Mike wants to see...some sex toys.

What?

I'm just kidding.

Usually, the one who said it wanna go.

Everyone has their own target. So, we separate to go shopping.

In Maldives trip, the internet and wifi wasn't good that time.

So, we didn't use wifi.

They might mean to do that.

It could be.

It seems like we have time for each others more to take pictures or jump into the water

For having meals, if you go somewhere else, sometime this one wants to have this. that one wants to have that.

In Maldives, everyone has to eat together at the same time.

Only one choice

or no other choice for us. That made us stick together.

Don't say like that

That's good things since we had activities together.

Now, my siblings aren't children anymore.

P'San is busy working while P'Bank has his own work to take care.

Mike has to go back and forth between Thailand and China often.

Ying is grown-up already.

Everyone has the own life.

They have responsibilities and works.

However, we are siblings and we won't leave each others.

Nitipaisalkul Family

Each one in our family has different character.

For Dad, he is chill and easy.

For Mom, she is kind of serious.

She always puts her full effort.

Is she, Ying? Why do you smile like this?

All clothes, face and hair

I didn't say anything.

She always prepares everything for everyone.

Suppose someone forgot to bring a toothbrush, she will have extra one. She has everything.

If we forget to bring anything, ask her.

She's like Doreamon. Her bag has everything.

It has a small pot for boiling instant noodle, just in case anyone want to have noodle.

It has everything. it has chocolate powder for drink.

She even prepares underwear for Mike.

What? Why?

What do you mean? Does Mike forget to bring his underwear?

Why?... Why do we wear it?

We don't have to wear it... Chill chill !!

For P'San, he is a whatever guy.

Actually, Mike and Golf are similar... We depends on Ying.

Mostly, Ying takes all control.

My family is like this.

All the male are whatever guys.

The female are leading girls.

Really?

Sometime, you didn't agree with me.

Give me example?

The New York trip

"I didn't want to have this. could I have that instead? Why, Ying?"

In the New York trip, I pitied on myself.

I caught you up later

Golf and Ying spent all our money.

Both of them were broke. Who had to give them the money?

When I go abroad, I rarely spend money.

Mostly, I spend money on eating, no shopping.

So, I have more money left.

When I caught you up in New York later, they were broke.

They spent all their money in a few days.

I didn't exchange enough money, then Mike came.

I went and I'm like....God.... or treasure.

It's not like that.

I was generous. Before leaving, I gave them my money.

No, it's money for the room we shared

No, I gave you all. I didn't even count it.

It's not enough.

In New York, I sacrificed my sofa I usually slept for him to sleep.

The sofa that the sun would be shining on your face in the morning, right?

Let's talk about your parents

Talk about my parents, I think they are pretty good.

because they could take care of 5 children. It's very difficult.

5 children were like 5 fingers which were different.

They could grow children to save from all the bad things in the world.

I think they are pretty good.

and they gave the love to their children quite well.

Sometime, I wonder why Mom likes complaining.

When I was a child, I didn't understand.

Once I'm grown-up, I understand.

Every Mom loves all her children, but their communication might be not the same.

Sometime, it makes us feel why she complains a lot about this matter.

At the end, she has good intentions inside her mind.

If we look at her purpose, we will see she really wants us in a good position, happiness, the best thing.

We have to try to understand her. She might be like this for long.

How to say... it's like she is adult. We must understand that she wants the best thing for us.

For Dad, he works very hard. Sometime I feel...

He is my idol in working, having a dream,

but I feel he works too much.

Sometime, I feel eventually we work since we want the family happiness.

I see he wants his family happiness because our family is a big family.

So, he does everything to ensure. he doesn't want to worry about anyone getting stuck with anything.

He wants to see everyone success in everything.

He wants all his children settle down.

Nitipaisalkul Family

Let you talk first.

No, I want to be the last.

You put a lot of effort. Let you first.

You put a lot of effort.

both my physical and mental effort

At this moment, I rarely stay in Thailand,

Mostly, I shoot a drama/movie in China.

I work abroad.

Now, I'm a leading actor in China.

I played Chinese period dramas/movies.

Currently, I'm running a business.

I just started a new business.

Actually, I've planed for one year.

I did some experiments and many things. I've learned for about one year. I keep it secret.

but now it's been launched.

I've been pretty tired because I did all the things by myself,

such as draft the concept, photoshop the pictures. I learned by myself.

This is the comeout.... Esparma which is the word of Spanish.

It's a facial cream....it's kind of skincare.

I feel awkward to say something like this.

It's like this inside the box.

For me, I have nothing much right now.

I've just graduated and work with my Dad.

I have my own company name Medea Empire which is an agency and production house.

For me, I have the drama "Sai Lub Ruk Puan" to be aired on Channel 3

and the drama Ubat Ruk Tawa.

For my own business, I didn't set up it seriously right now.

I'll start it and keep you guys updated later.

In the mean while, I play on Periscope. You can watch me live.

Our family is crazy on Periscope.

It is the good memory of this year.

Although it's only 2-3 days of out 365 days, I think...

the duration time or the number of hours can't indicate the happiness we can make.

As the brother, I feel good spending time with younger brothers and having fun together.

which is hard to have time together since we have many siblings and each one has own duty to do.

It's very hard to gather like this.

My feeling about P'Golf is always good.

So, today made my feeling more bonded.

The journey to discover my so good life today is fun, tired and out of energy.

They all are mixed.

But it made me know the so good life is existing

It depends on what we will choose which one to have in our life.

All activities I did today have more meaning because I was surrounding with people who made my so good life.

We travelled together, relieved, and had memory together again.

I did what I wanted to do and I were a child again

And this is my so good life.

and I will keep it with my best.

Pichaya Nitipaisalkul

For more infomation >> [Eng Sub] Golf&Mike @ Life's so good EP2-2 - Duration: 13:43.

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Doreko Reel #1 - My journey so far. - Duration: 2:14.

I live a simple life

I am a simple person

and there are many more like me.

I haven't yet gone to the biggest clubs,

I haven't yet been to the maddest parties.

My journey so far

has been about the everyday people.

The ones who work late hours at the office,

and just want to loose for a while!

There is a madness in these people,

an animal inside them,

trapped,

gasping for air,

I set it loose

and I..

am proud of that!

*live audio*

But my dreams are bigger

My eyes are on the horizon

The road

is long.

and I am more ready for it than ever before!

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So grat - Duration: 0:25.

I am so

grat

I mean great

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[Eng Sub] Golf&Mike @ Life's so good EP1-1 - Duration: 15:01.

Good morning

I thought we'd be there for a month.

The first light is the starting point of new day.

Golf still remembers about that day

The day I as a boy holding the hand of my younger brother to follow the dream.

I never thought the two little boys can make something great.

but I could touch on that day was the power of love from people in the whole country .

They gave it to me. I felt it's very great.

At that second, all I know was I had to make the people seeing us happy.

I never thought the spotlight shining on me that day would make me come so far like this.

The journey to discover the so good life of Golf-Pichaya Nitipaisalkul

The beginning of Golf&Mike

I remember I cried on that day.

On that day, we debuted on the first floor in the lobby of GMM building.

Many people came. It's about 300 people which was a lot for us.

Team had red carpet for us

The moment when we came out of the elevator and saw the lobby's crowded with fans.

It's such a great thing at my age of 18

What is Golf's so good life?

Back to my definition of so good life, I don't know what it is.

If it means working or doing what I love, it's right - so good life.

But it's still work.

Umm...I have to do something to discover it.

because If it is about work, I discovered a lot. I keep on discovering.

I don't know my real definition of so good life.

From my whole life, I grew up with working. After finish working, I'm back home.

I stay home everyday and go working again.

In the morning, I wake up and go to work.

As it happens like this, I come up with the idea.

I asked the team to discover my so good life.

Beyond working, I really don't know what my so good life is.

So, I'd like to discover it.

The buddy to discover Golf's so good life

Actually, I'd like to choose everyone in my family.

but the one I'd like to choose most is...

I had a lot of moments with... when I was a child.

I used to...... it is Mike !!

because Golf and Mike are brothers who are about the same age.

In the past before we were duo singers,

we went shopping with mom together,

we went to Australia to visit our aunt together,

we spent a lot of time together.

He had no one. He had no choice, correct?

Right?

It's only me.

It's Golf&Mike. We always stayed together. Life's so good.

Who does he should stay with to have so good life? Staying with me is extremely good.

Why? Staying with me is comfy.

Actually, It's good he chose me because I rarely have time to rest.

because Golf&Mike grew up with working.

Everything is work. Life is work and work is life.

We don't know how to spend our lives like a real life.

In the journey to discover my so good life, the one I'd like to go with me is Mike.

I'd like him to see it with me and share the so good life together.

So, the journey is meaningless without him.

When we were Golf&Mike, we went this place for concert, then back to the hotel.

No time to chitchat, watch movie and hang out.

I'd like to have that moments and do many activities that we had no time to do when we were duo singers.

I feel that moments is priceless.

Can I put my hand in the water?

Let's try

This is my favorite food, Mantis shrimp!!

Mike likes eating mantis shrimp since he was a child. He likes seafood.

It's like a dinner date, isn't it?

Yes, why did you choose Phuket?

because it reminds me my childhood when the parents took me here.

I take you to bring back the memory when we went to the sea.

In the past when we're children, we often went to upcountry with family.

We went to Pattaya, Hua hin and Cha-am.

That's before we've stepped in showbiz

Do you remember when we were children, you jumped in the water and drowned?

Then, Dad jumped in the water to help you.

I don't like any water sports.

I remember when dad jumped in because I was there but I couldn't help you since I couldn't swim well.

Dad did like this.

I can't bring back the memory.

So, I take you...

take me drown again.

No, I take you to the place where can bring back the memory in our childhood.

When we were working together, we didn't have time for travel. Just working only.

If it's in the past, I'd feel annoyed.

Annoying!! because spoke so much. He's like...

At this moment, I understand him.

but when we were young, we often had a fight and a argument.

because I felt he was very demanding.

That made me feel like he intended to make me losing my face in front of others.

Was he showing off in front of others?

Today. I become him on that day.

Each of us had a lot of pressure.

As we has worked since we were young, we didn't know how to handle the pressure.

After we grew up, Golf grew up, Mike grew up...

In the past, I was straightforward and not compromised.

After I'm grown up, I know how to talk and compromise with my brother.

That makes us understand each other more and helps each other more.

You're crazy, Babe !!

I like Phuket because the sea is clear

and we can have a lot of seafood in any place,

especially shrimps, mantis shrimps and lobsters which is very delicious.

Lobster

Wait.

What?

Which one is the dipping source for this?

My so good life beyond working is I'd like to do something I rarely do it.

As of now if we talk about work, I did it all. I do what I'd like to do and keep doing something new.

But what I rarely do is Staying with the moments in my childhood.

What we did in my childhood was travelling with family.

If it's possible, I'd like to have the moment like that again.

Golf and Mike like about the same things. When we think about something. we think about it in the same time.

When he tells me, I'd say I just thought about it 2 weeks ago.

Our ideas are about the same.

I think it must be something extreme if he takes me to Phuket.

it must be something exciting, have an activity, do some exercise and...

That voice is like Golf's.

Unexpected situation?

The building's shaking.

Tell me what's going on. The house's shaking !!

The house's shaking. Tell me what happened !!

I chilled out here.

You chill out here, then I wanted to get inside.

Mike was giving the interview.

So, you didn't want to walk inside using that way.

I saw this door open. So, I jumped across the water.

I thought the door's open.

I jumped into it directly.

then, I fell down in the water.

I'm soaked.

I was sitting inside.

It happened like this.

No, he isn't stupid.

Only stupid can't do this.

Only stupid can't do

Discovering my so good life, I choose to fulfill my missing childhood.

Go playing without thinking anything, be my own self and release myself in the journey.

Sometime, I can find out the meaning of my so good life to share with others.

During that time, we enjoyed working.

Really?

We worked until we forgot... We had been working for long.

After many years went by, we felt...

In our life, we had no time for travel, ownself, sibling or family.

The activity to discover the so good life

I guess you won't take me to pay respect a buddha image or make merit.

it might be... diving or...

go shopping?

Are you crazy? I like making merit.

Whatever... it might be paintball or something...

I heard you wanna play paintball.

Stop guessing. Let me take you there. Let's see...

Whatever happens, I'll have fun most and discover the meaning of the so good life.

Actually, it's not for others, but myself.

Phuket Paintball

Let's put it this way. In practice, we have targets. one, two, three, four... eight.

Let's stand up and shoot

8 targets, We have 8 bullets which means 1 bullet per target.

Focus, then shoot

12

13

14

15

16

Let's watch Jack Sniper

I'll shoot from here.

That one... The small one

Don't shoot that. It's dangerous if the bullet hit the gas tank. It'll explode.

Whatever you want

It's almost... run out of bullets.

Let's face in the real field, but the gun is very high pressure. It's higher than regular.

Let's shoot at a distance.

Happiness from playing a real game and being in a real place.

It is better than playing in a room for sure.

This brings back my memory when we travelled together with the whole family.

I'm sure I'm happy with my so good life.

In the latest time I played, each team had 5 people. I shot 3 out of 5.

Mostly, I shoot a gun by instinct.

Wild animal instinct. That's right !!

Thank you

Opponent?

They are the locals. Tell them not put the whold effort to make us look good.

We can talk behind the scene. Make me look good... They should run out and act like they get shot.

Our team win for sure because I'm a sniper, Golf Sniper !!

Hide and shoot

For more infomation >> [Eng Sub] Golf&Mike @ Life's so good EP1-1 - Duration: 15:01.

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Weekly Thoughts: We Aren't So Different - Duration: 5:19.

Hey ya'll so this past week I started working at a new job and I am a cooking

/ music teacher for kids and that's why i have retainers in for these piercings

and i don't have in as many because i can't have all those piercings

around the kids and also have to cover up on my tattoos so that kind of sucks

but oh well. But I kind of just wanted to talk today about how everybody is not so

different and the reason that this was on my mind was because so this past week

you know when I've been working at the new place I've been getting trained and

I'm being trained with another new employee and we've been talking a lot

because we've been spending so much time together and I just it's so interesting

to me because I had said to her how I don't know if we would have been friends

in high school because we're from very different circles and we're very

different people and you know there's nothing wrong with that and people are

different but it really was just getting me to think in a new perspective because

you know sometimes it's very easy to put yourself in a box and put other people

into a box and sort of be like you know they're in that group I'm in this group

or you know we don't really hang out or I don't even know and it's just so

important to realize how similar we are and that every single person you can

have at least at the very least one thing in common with and it's so

important to realize that you know because we're not so different you take

anybody in the world and two people that think they're completely different

people and there will be something in common that they have or something that

they agree on you know and it's just so easy to categorize yourself or other

people or whatever and to just think you know we're not going to get along

because you think this or because I think you are like this you know and

it's so important to really listen to each other and just learn about other

perspectives I think it's so interesting we had me and the other girl had gone

out for lunch on our lunch break and I was just asking her all about her life

and other things like that just and I told her you know I think it's so

interesting to hear about other people's perspectives and to just try and

understand other people and you know that could also be just my personality

and you know one of the reasons I'm going into music therapy and stuff but

it's a really good lesson you know to really try and push yourselves to listen

to another person and really understand their perspective even if you don't agree

with it it's really easy to fall into the trap of having a very set strong

opinion about something and because you think you're right

you won't listen to anything-anything that even differs slightly from your

opinion and it's very easy to sort of you know point fingers at other people

and not realize that you're doing that and I I mean I find myself doing that

sometimes too you know like I'll make assumptions or judgments about people

that I don't even realize that I'm doing until something will open my mind like

when I first met the other trainee you know I was you know trying to talk to

her and be nice and things like that but I did have some sort of assumptions that

I'd already made without even consciously thinking them you know kind

of like you know she seems like this type of person and I man I feel like all

my weekly thoughts videos tie together somehow or maybe it's just because you

know it's my thoughts but this also relates to that other weekly thoughts

video about people will surprise you because people are so intricate and

changing and different and there's so many things that you can't know about

another person and that's what makes it so awesome and I mean it would be so I

don't know boring if everyone was exactly the same or had the same

thoughts about things and no one would grow no one would grow if everyone

thought exactly the same and it's important to have those people around

you that have different opinions and I'm not saying that you should be hanging

out with people that are toxic or have hurtful or harmful opinions because you

know even though you can connect with everyone and you know you can find

anything in common with people and realizing that we're all not so different

it doesn't mean that you should be spending your time with everyone in the

world you know because you have to take care of yourself and you know sort of

find that balance it's just so interesting to me how you know people

can connect no matter who they are no matter what their beliefs are whatever

because they're they'll have things in common we're not so different and this

is really obvious to me in the fact that no matter you know how primal or

whatever a people group is or whether they're from opposite sides of the world

there will always be things that are similar such as music you know no matter

what culture whatever there's always music and there's always these things

that are just very similar across cultures and that's so interesting to me

and something to point out about the fact that we're all very similar and you

know not so different. Thank you!

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I Feel Drained By This Relationship. Why Is It So Exhausting? | Corrina Gordon-Barnes - Duration: 4:57.

hi I'm Corrina Gordon-Barnes here to help you feel more peaceful and connected

with the ones that you love today we're looking at why relationship can feel so

exhausting why do we feel so drained and depleted in certain relationships so

maybe you're thinking of a family relationship or a relationship with a

friend or with your partner and in the movie version of relationships

relationships energize us they fuel us they recharge us

they're like havens that we can go back to and just plug in and

recharge our energy but the opposite is often true so today we're looking at

why that is and what we can do about that so you can come back into your

full energy so picture a play okay we're going to use this analogy picture a play

so it's on a stage and if it's a well-written play then each of the

characters they have their own part okay they have their role they have their

script. Like Shakespeare said, "All the world's a stage" and everyone has their

part they know what to say they know when to come in they know when

to leave and it all just works really smoothly and entertaining and it's fun

and it's engaging because everyone's playing their part

now that's when there are adults who are the actors in a play; when it's

children it can look very different right if you think about a children's

nativity play you can probably imagine there's little Mary and she's totally

come out of her role she's totally come out of her part and she's bossing the

shepherds around and she's telling them what to do, maybe she's pulling them

and doing all this – and we do something like that as adults, in our life we

actually come out of our role we come out of our part and we try to play other

parts and we try to play the director so we think we know what others should and

shouldn't be doing or saying and we come out of our part and that's what gets

really exhausting. So let's look at this with an example let's imagine Jackie is

with her mother-in-law and she's at her mother-in-law's for tea

with her children and her dream is that her mother-in-law is really engaging with

the children and chatting and interested in their day at school they're having

this wonderful energizing encounter but what's actually

happening in reality is her mother-in-law has picked up a magazine

she's not really that interested in the children, she's reading her magazine kind

of tolerating the children being there until it's time to go home and Jackie's

really annoyed and she exhausts herself by coming out of her part and thinking

about what she thinks her mother-in-law should be doing instead, so she keeps

trying to bring her mother-in-law's attention to the children like "Ooh look what they did"

and "Ooh tell Grandma about what you did at school" and she's

just exhausted by the end of the day because she's been out of her part all

day; she's been out of her role the whole time and that is what has

exhausted her it's not what her mother-in-law was doing that has

exhausted her although she could definitely tell that story it was her

coming out of her role that was what depleted her and drained her so this is

your challenge this week is any time you're exhausted in any relationship

whether it's with your partner, family member or friend is ask yourself: "Whose

part am i trying to play here?" whose part am i trying to play and just notice if

you're completely in someone else's part just trying to kind of be in their role

or be the director or are you fully in your own role in your own part. If you're

not then that's the challenge: to notice and then bring all of your energy back

completely to your own role, your own part, 100% of your energy is

now yours to live your life and to play your part to the very best of your

ability and that's going to be what makes you feel satisfied and

energized and it's what's going to create really healthy happy

relationships. So that's the challenge for you and if you like this challenge,

you think this is going to be a good one and you want more relationship

challenges to have happier healthier relationships then come over to

CorrinaGordonBarnes.com & sign up for the free 7-day relationship challenge there's a

link just here and if you found this video useful then please share it with

everyone you know and subscribe to this YouTube channel

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What We Know So Far About the London Terror Attacks - Duration: 2:18.

For Complex News, I'm Natasha Martinez.

Almost two weeks after 22 people died in a suicide bombing attack at the Ariana Grande

concert in Manchester, two brutal terror attacks have occurred in the British capitol Saturday

night. It started with a van plowing over pedestrians on London Bridge and reports of

stabbings from people in the nearby Borough Market area.

Here is what we know so far.

London Metropolitan Police have confirmed as of Sunday morning that seven people were

killed in the attack. In addition, officers pursued and shot dead three male attackers.

It's also being reported that 12 people in east London have been arrested in connection

with the incident.

At about 10:30 pm local time a van mowed down pedestrians as it sped across London Bridge.

The van was headed toward London Bridge station on the south bank of the river when three

assailants got out of the van and attempted to stab members of the public including a

police officer.

Met Police Assistant Commissioner Mark Rowley said the assailants were wearing what looked

like explosive vests which upon further investigation appeared to be fake.

The stabbing incident occurred at Borough Market, with reports stating a man with a

massive knife charged into a restaurant just south of the bridge stabbing two people inside.

Witnesses tell the BBC that the attackers shouted, "This is for Allah".

The London Ambulance has issued an updated statement saying 48 people are being treated

in hospitals across London and a number of people were also treated at the scene.

Prime Minister Theresa May described the incidents as "dreadful events". At a briefing Sunday

morning outside Downing Street, she warned that Britain is in the grip of a spate of

copycat terror attacks and that although there was no direct link between the three incidents,

"terrorism breeds terrorism".

As news broke Saturday President Trump tweeted,

Whatever the United States can do to help out in London and the U. K., we will be there

- WE ARE WITH YOU. GOD BLESS!

Less than two hours after the bridge attack, police warned they were responding to an "incident"

in the Vauxhall area, more than a mile away, but confirmed early Sunday it was an unrelated

stabbing.

As of now the suspects have not been identified and we do not know if it is ISIS related.

We'll keep you updated as this story continues to develop for all the rest of today's stories

subscribe to Complex on YouTube.

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Build the Wall - Duration: 5:40.

Every sensible immigration policy has two objectives: 1) to regain control of our borders

so that we decide who enters; and 2) to find a humane way to deal with the 11 million illegal

immigrants who now live among us.

Start with the second.

For both practical and moral reasons, America cannot and will not and should not expel

11 million people.

That leaves us with two choices: ignore them or figure out a way to legalize them.

Ignoring them hasn't worked.

But there is also a huge problem with legalization: it creates an irresistible incentive

for new illegal immigrants to come.

We say, of course, that this will be the very last, very final, never-again,

we're-not-kidding-this-time amnesty.

And everyone knows it's phony.

That's what was said in 1986, when we passed the Simpson-Mazzoli immigration reform.

It turned out to be the largest legalization program in American history -- nearly 3 million

people got permanent residency.

There was no enforcement.

We now have 11 million new illegal immigrants in our midst.

The irony of this whole debate, which bitterly splits the country, is that there is a silver bullet

that would not just solve the problem, but also create a national consensus behind it.

A vast number of Americans who oppose legalization and fear new waves of immigration would change

their minds if we could radically reduce new -- i.e., future -- illegal immigration.

And we can.

First, build a barrier.

Call it a wall. Call it a fence. Call it what you will.

Add cameras and sensors. Add drones. Beef up the patrols.

All that matters is that we regain control of the border.

Fences work.

The triple fence outside San Diego led to a 90 percent reduction in infiltration.

Israel's border fence with the West Bank produced a similar decline.

Even holier-than-thou Europeans have conceded the point: Hungary, Macedonia, Bulgaria,

Austria, Greece, Spain – why, even Norway — have all started building border fences to stem

the tide of Middle Eastern refugees.

Then enforce two other measures: a national E-Verify system that makes it just about impossible

to work if you are here illegally, and a functioning visa tracking system, since 40% of illegal

immigrants are visa overstays.

The wall/fence will, of course, be ugly.

So are the concrete barriers to keep truck bombs from driving into the White House.

Sometimes function has to supersede form.

And don't tell me that this is our Berlin Wall.

When you build a wall to keep people in, that's a prison.

When you build a wall to keep people out, that's an expression of sovereignty.

Of course, no barrier will be foolproof.

But it doesn't have to be.

It simply has to reduce the river to a manageable trickle.

Once we do, everything becomes possible – including dealing with our 11 million illegal immigrants.

So, let's fix that.

Track the visas, do E-Verify, build the damn barrier.

It's ridiculous to say that it can't be done.

And who would certify that the border is back in our control?

I would have a neutral party, perhaps a commission of retired jurists, issue the judgment.

Once they do, we legalize the 11 million, granting them the right to stay and work here.

We can't give them citizenship.

That's a bridge too far.

You don't get to join the political destiny of the country by entering it illegally.

But any children born here would be American – which means that over time

the issue resolves itself.

The American people are legitimately angry at the price American society has paid

due to illegal immigration.

But they are also a generous people.

Once they are assured that we do indeed control our borders, that anger will abate.

A national consensus will emerge.

Radical border control, followed by radical legalization.

No mushy compromise.

A solution requires two acts of national will: putting up a wall (along with E-Verify and visa tracking)

and absorbing those who broke our laws to come to America.

This is not a compromise meant to appease both sides without achieving anything.

It's not some piece of hybrid legislation that arbitrarily divides illegals into those

with five-year-old "roots" in America and those without – or some such

mischief-making nonsense.

If we do it right, not only will we solve the problem, we will get it done as one nation.

I'm Charles Krauthammer for Prager University.

For more infomation >> Build the Wall - Duration: 5:40.

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9 Tell-Tale Signs You're A Dancer | Season 14 | SO YOU THINK YOU CAN DANCE - Duration: 0:55.

Break time!

[dance music]

1, 2, 3.

Break time!

[dance music]

OK, let's do it again!

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