We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
National Competition on Worries!
Here are our guests. He's a great actor
who always leaves an impression.
Actor Kim Eungsoo.
She's a cute comedian. Kim Minkyoung.
They are part of the handsome boy group.
ASTRO's Moonbin and Cha Eunwoo.
(Oh yeah)
They're so handsome.
You two are so handsome.
Just sit here and look pretty, okay?
(I'll take care of broadcasting)
Kim Eungsoo and I go way back.
We've known each other well for over 20 years.
How does it feel to be here for the first time?
You said you watched the past episodes.
Yes.
I watched the past episodes.
(Savoring it?)
I enjoyed watching them.
We dealt with many interesting stories.
I enjoyed watching the program because
I'm a man with many concerns, too.
What kind of concerns did you have?
I hate hearing this comment.
It's because I've played a villain quite often.
I went to a temple and the monk said,
"Oh geez.
I really wanted to kill you."
(An honest Buddhist monk)
I asked, "Who are you talking to?"
It was because I was a really bad villain in a drama.
You must want to play a nice role for a change.
I've played many nice roles.
(Glare)
We can't tell.
(You have a thousand faces)
By the way,
I was surprised to hear this from the production staff.
They said Moonbin's mom wrote her concern about
her son to Hello Counselor.
For real.
I was surprised to get the call, too.
Since I am often curt with her, she told me she'd
send in her concern to this program, and she did.
Didn't she do it to make your name known?
A concern about Moonbin. Like this?
She had a big picture in mind.
I sleep a lot, too.
How much do you sleep?
He never wakes up when we tell him to.
We have to wake him up for over an hour.
He would doze off like this on buses or subways.
I had a friend like that, too.
You have to say, "Whoa, check out that girl."
(He will wake up 100%)
"Whoa, that girl." He'll wake up.
Minkyoung, do you have any concerns?
People ask me when I will get married.
I've been single for all my life of 37 years.
You've never been in a relationship?
Never.
This is so embarrassing.
I guess I'm better off than Minkyoung is.
I've done it once or twice at least.
I've at least kissed.
(Ha ha ha ha ha)
I've kissed, too.
We really didn't have to hear that.
- I've kissed before. / - How many times?
Please stop!
(We'd like to turn back time)
Three concerns are here. Let's look at the keywords.
"Non-communicating brothers."
"An embarrassing concern."
"My husband is addicted!"
I don't think anyone here could live like this.
Hello. I'm a housewife in her 50s who is heartbroken.
I have two grown up sons.
They're 22 and 25 years old.
They don't speak to each other at all.
(Younger son) Mom, have you seen my shirt?
Did he take it?
Could you please ask him for me, mom?
(Mother) You can ask him yourself.
(Ring, ring)
(Older son) Mom. There's a package.
Tell Yongju to take it.
(Mother) You can tell him yourself.
What is wrong with you two?
They haven't spoken to each other
for 8 years already.
- Unbelievable. / - They're brothers.
The problem is that my husband and I
live in Yeongju, Gyeongsangbuk-do.
My two sons live together in Bundang.
They live together and don't speak to each other?
Unbelievable.
But whenever something happens
I must be the one to deliver the messages
from Yeongju.
She's the messenger.
That's not all.
(Mother) Hello? Yongju.
I think your brother had a fever yesterday.
How is he doing now?
(Younger son) I don't know!
How can they be worse than being strangers?
They are my most precious sons.
Please help me get them to speak to each other.
They live together...
But how do they not speak to each other?
I think this is due to the problem of nature.
The problem of nature means that
their house is located in a bad area.
(Ha!)
(The new prospect of solving concerns?)
Let's talk to the mother first.
Please come on out.
(Kim Yeongmi)
(Welcome!)
So they haven't spoken to each other for 8 years.
Your older son is 25, and the younger one is 22.
8 years ago, the older one was in high school and
the younger one was in middle school.
They live at home like
they are strangers.
If one comes out of his room, the other one goes in.
They do that even now as they live on their own.
So one comes out and the other always goes in?
Then if the other comes out, the first goes back in?
(They are like night and day)
Do you know when they became like this?
I don't know. I think they started to drift apart
as they went through puberty.
- You don't know what caused this. / - No.
They were like that when they lived with you, too?
Yes.
Then how did you decide to leave the two and
live away from the city to do farming?
At first, I was worried about the two,
so my husband went to live in Yeongju first.
But he couldn't do all the work by himself
so I had to move, too.
But even when I'm in Yeongju,
I must become the middleman between the two.
If one can't find something,
he calls me.
"Mom, have you seen a hat that looks like this?"
Then I have to call my other son.
"Have you seen a hat that looks like this?"
"No." Then I have to call back my son and tell him,
"He hasn't seen it. Look for it again."
This is how they converse to each other.
They don't know each other's phone numbers?
No, they don't.
They don't?
They could ask, but they aren't interested.
They're not interested. I gave them the numbers.
But they don't want to know each other's number.
I think you are the one to blame.
You shouldn't let them put you in the middle like that.
You should tell them to take care of it and hang up.
That's what I did at first.
I told them to take care of it. A registered mail came.
They didn't tell each other about it,
so the mail was returned to the sender.
This went on for months.
Since this repeatedly happened,
I couldn't hurt others in the process.
So I decided to become the middleman.
From what I've heard
I think there was an incident that started this.
What could it be?
Hello, sons.
(Who are the sons that don't communicate?)
Starting with the older brother.
He's such a bright person.
He's so handsome.
Please introduce yourself.
Hello. I'm the older son.
So you're the older one.
Hello. I'm 22-year-old Gwon Yongju.
I'm from Bundang, Gyeonggi-do.
That's how you introduce yourself.
(Wasn't I good?)
You really haven't talked to him for 8 years?
No.
Isn't it inconvenient?
It is, but
I feel more awkward with him than with strangers.
He's a stranger to me.
It's been too long. (I'm a stranger to you?)
You don't make any noise at him?
(Hey! Ha! Ah!)
How do you call him?
I don't.
Let's say you're out of toilet paper.
Your brother is at home.
That has never happened to me.
Why hasn't that happened to you? Darn.
It should've happened.
Let's say it happened. There's no toilet paper.
What would you do? Your brother is home.
I would just walk out of the bathroom.
He would just walk out as if nothing happened.
You would walk on all fours without wiping?
On all fours?
Your brother is at home.
You could just ask him to get you some toilet paper.
I can just open the door and get it myself.
But wouldn't it look weird to your brother
if you crawl out of the bathroom like this?
That's not a good look.
(How can you laugh?)
What about you, Yongju?
We don't greet each other when we meet outside.
Even when you run into each other outside?
I didn't even know he got a job.
- You found out today? / - Because they don't talk.
On the way here
he said he's been working for 2, 3 years.
I don't even know what kind of company it is.
But I'm not curious at all.
For example,
someone is about to attack your brother from behind.
He's facing you so only you can see.
Then I would call out to him.
- How would you call out to him? / - How?
Are you going to say, "Excuse me, sir?"
Excuse me, sir.
Sir, you're in danger.
Get out of the way.
How would you call him? By his name?
Hey.
What else would you tell him?
I would say, "Hey! Behind you!"
He would notify his brother.
What about you, Yongju?
I would just point.
What if he didn't see it?
There's fire and you would just point?
I wouldn't call out his name.
You wouldn't?
The building is on fire and you've evacuated.
But your brother is still asleep in his room.
Then I would call mom.
What?
The building is on fire.
How could this be?
(Things are so cold between them)
How do you feel listening to them, ma'am?
It's upsetting.
I think this is more than upsetting.
I can't come over to help right away.
I would die if something like that really happened.
I think the conflict between them is too deep.
What is it? What led to this?
You say you two are like strangers.
Then why do you call mom to relay your messages?
I'm afraid that things will be awkward
if I talk to him directly.
I thought it would be better for both of us
to relay the message through mom.
That's from your perspectives.
Imagine how your mom must feel hearing it.
There's nothing worse you could do to her.
I realize that.
That's why I only call her when it's urgent.
Where is my hat? That's an urgent matter?
You two really don't know each other's numbers?
No, we don't.
No, we don't.
You can't ask him, "Where is my hat?"
I don't want to converse with him at all.
Isn't it inconvenient for you to do this?
It must be very inconvenient.
It's inconvenient when he brings his friends home
and I'm at home, too.
They eat and drink in the living room.
He also brings his girlfriend home often, too.
It's a girl problem.
What do you mean? He brings his girlfriend over.
They both must've liked the same girl.
Why are you writing a novel?
That's why he's upset when she comes over.
She comes over when I'm naked at home.
I can't go to the living room, so I stay in my room.
I feel uncomfortable taking a shower or eating.
Do you bring your girlfriend home?
I've never done that.
Then you should tell your brother not to
bring over his girlfriend.
Well, talking to him is like
talking to my ex-girlfriend.
It's very awkward.
So you're living with your ex-girlfriend?
(You're like a brother to me, but not really)
Yongju. You and your brother aren't speaking.
Isn't it harsh for you to bring your friends over?
Is it on purpose to make him feel uncomfortable?
I didn't know he felt uncomfortable.
When my friends or my girlfriend come over,
they politely say hello to my brother.
But he just goes to his room without saying anything.
So you've never had a meal together?
Never.
Even when we eat out as family,
he and I sit far apart and don't talk to each other.
We've never eaten just the two of us.
What about you, Yongju?
We've never eaten just the two of us.
When he buys fried chicken, he could share with me.
But he eats the whole thing by himself in his room.
It's because of chicken.
It's because of chicken.
It was because of chicken.
What do you do about daily necessities?
We buy whatever we need at the time,
or our parents buy them for us.
No, I buy everything we need.
It wasn't your mother?
When we run out of something we need...
But he doesn't seem to care much.
So you thought it was your mom who bought them.
Is that right?
I thought it was mom. I've never seen him buy them.
He said it's always been him.
Why don't you thank him?
(It's too awkward for him to just look)
(He just won't do it)
Who does the chores? Like throwing out garbage.
I do the dishes and laundry. I clean, too.
You do your brother's laundry, too?
He puts his clothes out and I do the laundry.
You wash your brother's clothes?
I got too tired doing everything by myself
so I told mom about it.
She told my brother to take turns every week.
But he didn't clean no matter how dirty the place got.
I like to let things pile up and clean it all at once.
But things got clean on their own before piling up.
You've been enjoying that.
Do you wish to move out and be on your own?
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