What People Do When They Don't Really Love You
I try to lace my work with optimism because a guiding principle in my own life has been that the most tragic things in our lives almost
always precede the most incredible.
I think that, at any given point, we are faced with the choice of whether to move on with what the universe gives and takes or to hold on
and bury ourselves in our own misery.
I do not perch on a high horse preaching this, because I have been in those depths, and I know what it's like.
I also know that there are few issues that will destroy you faster than matters of the heart.
But what I must tell you is that while teaching myself to climb out of that sadness and attachment-laden-misery,
I realized something that is a bit more realistic than optimistic, but so invariably true that it's worth giving attention to.
When someone loves you, you will know it.
If someone cares about you, they will find a way to be with you.
If they do not, they'll make excuses.
Sometimes they won't even be sure whether or not they love you, so you'll see them going back and forth trying to figure it out.
Love is not something that requires brain work.
It is not a riddle to be solved or a mystery to be uncovered.
It just simply is, and we just have to let it be, or not be, naturally.
I generally believe that people differ so much in their experiences and that no two situations are exactly the same,
so it's difficult to generalize something about love and romance, but I make an exception for this.
I know many of you are probably reading this conjuring up all the reasons why so-and-so did in fact love you but they just couldn't be with
you for this reason or that reason and why that was so valid and why I have no idea what I'm talking about.
That's okay if you want to think that, I won't stop you.
But the truth is that what you're holding onto is someone who doesn't love you enough to put you first and make it work.
And if I believe in anything, I believe that we all deserve to be with someone who wants to be with us as well.
So what we have to learn to do is to accept the love we aren't given.
To realize that although we put someone on a pedestal, that does not mean that their judgment determines us.
It's simply a mindset, one that we have to change if we want to get out.
People can love you a little bit, and they can love you enough but not enough to make it work.
It is not an all-or-nothing situation.
We have to stop thinking that it is, and that when the cards don't fall in our favor, that it defines some part of us as being unworthy and
unlovable.
Because to combat that idea, we hold on as fiercely as we can to the reasons we are loved, until letting go is our idea– not theirs.
But we all end up, one way or another, okay.
We're all on different rides, but they all end the same way.
You do not need somebody else's love to be whole.
You do not need their permission to go on with your life.
What you do need is your own love.
You need to let yourself go on.
Their love isn't stopping you, because that love doesn't exist.
It is only you who is holding onto what you believe should be.
And what you will realize, sooner or later, is that most of your life is defined and chosen by what you compel yourself to believe should
or shouldn't be.
Release yourself from the cage you built.
You hold the key to your own freedom.
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DO NOT GET MARRIED Unless You Ask Your Partner These 11 Questions!
Some good relationship advice before considering marriage is to take the time to ask questions
that plumb the inner depths of your partner's personality and psychology.
Here are eleven questions you can ask to his or her suitability for a marriage partner:
1 – Why do you love me?
– This is a questions that lovers have asked each other from the beginning of time, but
it does provide real information about their psychological and social needs in a mate.
If the focus seems to be on what you have or what you can provide materially in the
marriage, you might need to look elsewhere for an authentic commitment.
2 – What are you goals and are you willing to adjust them for the relationship?
– This question can reveal what priority the relationship has in the overall life plan.
If the individual is more to achieve life goals and expects you to do all the adjusting,
it could be an unfavorable sign.
3 – Do you know how to compromise?
– Compromise is the essence of a good marriage.
A person who shows an inclination to feel "it's my way or the highway" is not
a good candidate for the negotiations and compromises that marriage requires.
4 – What's your relationship with your family?
– A bad relationship with family can indicate issues that could affect the marriage.
Similarly, someone is too close to his or her family may be so enmeshed that the marriage
may not come first.
Relationship counseling can help to resolve these issues.
5 – Why do you want to spend your life's journey with me?
– This answer can tell you about the expectations of your partner and whether relationship therapy
might be needed to create healthier expectations about your role in the marriage.
6 – Can you keep the romance alive?
– Someone who understands the value of keeping romance alive will actively work to invigorate
the relationship over time.
7 – Can't you work through the rough patches.
Someone who dislikes conflict or who cannot work out differences will make a poor marriage
partner.
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– If you intend to have children, the previous family experiences of your partner can have
a significant effect on his or her ability to parent.
9 – Can you commit to grow with me instead of away from me?
– This answer can tell you whether the person understands the nature of close relationships
and the constant maintenance they require.
10 – Will you continue to grow in the relationship?
– A person that continues to have hobbies and interests that are separate from the marriage
will make a more interesting and independent partner.
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– An individual that will continue to hold that relationship in memory as a valuable
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Hi everyone. I'm rincey and i am one of the contributing editors over at book
riot and i'm back with this week's reader question. So it was announced this week
that Michiko Kakutani is going to be leaving the new york times as a book
critic. She has been there for I think like 30 plus years. She's considered like
one of the most influential book critics out there and it's sort of like an end of
the era sort of situation that's happening here. But it kind of had me
thinking a little bit because like when the news was announced, there were
certain people who were like very shocked by it and like were talking
about it, but there was like another group of people that I follow like
bookish people that I follow who did that notice, did not care, did not pay
attention at all to the announcement. And so my question for you guys this week is
do you guys actually read the New York Times Book Review. It's a pretty
straightforward question but we could talk about it a little bit down below.
Like the New York Times Book Review was something that helped me a lot when I
was in college. I had a New York Times subscription while I was in college and so I
would obviously get the Sunday paper and I would read the book reviews. And
while they didn't necessarily like super influence my reading, I definitely read
them and I use them as a way to just like keep up with what books were coming
out. But once I found basically like the bookish Internet, I stopped using the
New York Times book reviews for reviews. Like I sort of enjoy seeing the other
ways that they cover book stuff. Their straight reviews don't really do much
for me anymore. And so it's been awhile since I've read any reviews really
except for like a handful that were pointed out to me from other people.
So yeah, I thought I would just ask to see like if any of you guys actually utilize
it at all, whether you enjoy reading it or you actually get recommendations from
the reviews or any other sort of like "established paper" sort of reviews.
There are very few out there that are left. The Chicago Tribune has one, the Los Angeles
Times still does book reviews, but less and less papers obviously have book
review sections and I think a lot more people are turning towards the internet
and things like Goodreads and Amazon reviews to get their book
recommendations. So yeah, let me know down in the comments below. Let's talk about
it. Have you use the New York Times Book Review or read the New York Times
Book Review or any really like a newspaper book review or any like even
magazine book reviews. I would be interested in knowing if you
pay attention to any of those at all and if so which ones and why? Or if you don't
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Things To Do In San Francisco - Ep. 038 - Duration: 7:57.
Things To Do In San Francisco
grab your coat a hand full of glitter
and enter the land of fog
fabulousness with us
goodbye Mexico
hello San Francisco
come with us
and see some things to do
in San Francisco.
of course you want to see
the Painted Ladies
and the Golden Gate
and Tino, he's an Apple addict
and he wants to see the Apple HQ's
this city is on a our travel list
for a while
so we thought
why not let's go
and by the way
it's cheaper to fly from San Francisco
back to Europe
in 1848 the first Chinese immigrants
two men, one women
settled here in this area in San Francisco
Chinatown is grown since then
and is now the largest Chinatown outside Asia
I think I picked the wrong sandwich
oops
yeah oops
because I saw .. later
they also have...
one with homemade Nutella
Hmmm!
So I am gonna grab one
well that was nice
let's go to the next highlight
we're arrived at Alamo Square
and there you can find the candy colored houses
they became famous
because of the serie Fullhouse
in American architecture
these houses are called
painted ladies
and that's when there are used at least
three colors or more
and that give these houses more visible details
this is a cool evening
we met Caroline
and she showed us hidden places
of San Francisco
Thanks for hanging out with me guys!
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Is it a good one? - Yep it's a good one!
many of you will think
nerd
but yes today I'm traveling through Silicon Valley
and more specific
heading to Cupertino
you may already know where I'm heading to
but this for those who don't know
yes that's where the headquarters
of Apple is based.
first stop: Blue Bottle Coffee
suddenly I realized in this complex behind me
they invented the iMac
the iPhone
the Apple watch
so much innovation and creativity
in this place alone
my first experience with the
Apple Macintosh was in 1995
when I studied graphic arts
and the first Mac I bought
was a white iBook
they almost finished their new headquarters
and of course I take
this opportunity to see it
and get a glimpse of the new headquarters
first flight with the new drone
and I saw the new headquarters of Apple
from above and look stunning
but I most say
I'm more excited about my first flight
experience
where are we going to?
to the Golden Gate Bridge
WHALES!
I think they are right
this one of the best burgers
I ever had
Yes!
going to the Netherlands
back to Europe
cross the Atlantic again
and then we have a adventure
real dream adventure I can say
why we love San Francisco
well the varieties of restaurants
and delicious food
but also the coffee culture
you can get so many different coffees
like espresso, cappuccino, latte
next week we step on board on
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DO NOT USE A JAKE PAUL VOODOO DOLL AT 3:00 AM || 3 AM WITH JAKE PAUL CHALLENGE VOODOO DOLL - Duration: 22:23.
back that's something I don't know what hopefully the ghost has entered into
Jake Paul's mundo he'll I am trapped in the stall who is this this is Jake what
is going on okay that's gonna be perfect guys it's gonna be perfect
Jake Paul where are you fired from Disney Jake you're not making any sense
did you or did you not were you fired or were you did you quit what's going on
what is up guys I don't know why I'm so excited it's been a couple of days since
I've uploaded and I literally realized I was like so hyped to upload a video
yesterday because today's today but okay so right now it is very close to 3:00
a.m. right so I'm technically in the next day but present day for you guys
but in the okay this is hurting I'm so excited to make a video I was like yo
I'm so excited I'm gonna make this 3 3 a.m. video is going to be great it's
going to do this it's going to do that but guess what
I can't upload it that day if I haven't recorded a 3 a.m. and the 3 a.m. is the
next day how can I not know this how can I uh-huh all right so I did go
to the progress of actually making the voodoo doll and it's right next to me
there's okay let me tell you this right now Oh Roo doo doll it's absolutely
positively 100% useless unless you go to the right process of getting a soul into
the doll and also 3a and the devil's hour now let me tell you something all
right if you like good luck you like I bet you
like good luck you like to I swear to god you do and you know what you want to
do like this video subscribe and also chat with a friend you know why because
it increases the chance of you getting more good luck treat life at the RPG you
play video games you probably know RPG is all right the more good luck you have
the greatest things you can accomplish okay you have a crush I swear to god
everyone has a crush okay guess what you can get that crush
you want to tell you how I'll tell you the more good luck you have
aka liking this video subscribing commenting sharing with a friend more
like you have the higher chances of you getting your crush let me tell you a
story there's a girl I liked oh there's a girl I liked okay
and I just smacked my monitor there's a girl I liked I have loaded a video
I liked my own video and I replied to someone else's comment and guess what
crush was all on me dude I swear right now I swear she was all on me I couldn't
get her off me dude that's like whoa back up just this is going so fast that
being said this is the doll you see this this little goofy guy Jake Paul and you
know it kind of doubles as a Logan Paul - do you guys want me to make a Logan
Paul movie at all comment down below if you guys want to you three am Logan Paul
voodoo doll video right now do it now I sound like a car salesman don't I swear
unless you want to buy a car cuz I got a car that can tell you with that being
said let's jump into the creation of the doll you're watching this video and
you're thinking to yourself dude it's too bright outside what are you doing
this is not 3:00 a.m. well in the last video I said if you guys wanted me to
make a voodoo doll and someone commented you'll make a voodoo doll shout out to
this guy I forgot your name my bad dude but you the G you read my mind and what
is up guys it is editing snowing see I first of all I just want to thank Gracie
for suggesting this video I called you a dude Gracie I'm sorry
I believe you're a girl I don't know it's 2017 anyways Thank You Gracie so
much you are awesome keep it up back to the video I'm a hop
onto that I have all the materials alright I have all the materials I need
I think I hope to make this alright so today I'm going to be making Jake Paul
why Jake Paul had hundreds of youtubers but I could have done because Jake Paul
he's pulling into views and you know what the use mean huh so I have the
like tons and tons of yarn of different colors I'm thinking this for his hair
the skin is just going to be what I'm have this for a skin pair maybe like
pants uh I don't know shirt I guess oh he's going to be like
the American flag and then just like the blonde his head's gonna be a tennis ball
really bad one with that we got the glue gun
we have pink over there yeah okay black or brown I should say that's not black
is brown then we have this nice like purplish whitish purple color and I
don't say about that I'm not a color expert we got the sticks the popsicle
sticks we have a ton of these so yeah I think we should just start and see where
it takes us
you
you
all right so what's going to go down right now is we're going to have a
little mini ghost adventure okay this literally spirits and ghosts
everywhere okay so in this space that is my room we are going to be using an app
to find a ghost to get to go inside of the voodoo doll so we have some sort of
communication between us and Jake Paul okay let's do it
I don't know why it is that that's weird okay so we got the app right here in its
calibration as you can see we have Jake Paul right there
right here oh my god that's quick where is it okay to aged 960 cross the ground
Aaron its roll okay we're going to need
all right I'm not sure if this soul will be good we need to look for another soul
if you can find something a little bit more different since going to keep going
we might have to end up going to that ghost but let's see if we can find a
better one
spirit okay hold on seems like there's another spirit is this the same one it
is the same one okay all right so looks like we're going to
have to go with this spirit what we're going to see disappeared okay well never
mind now we have to find another one so let's
see okay
well the way that emoji lights up is so freaky what the heck okay a new spirit
okay this one is it okay here we go that's better so have a ghost 120 years
old okay this is gonna be perfect guys it's going to be perfect perfect perfect
perfect perfect okay so my hat came off with the light but so now that we know
that there is a ghost who is capable of being able to be going to a vessel and
help us communicate let's begin the process okay
okay I have brought over the light we're
going to need some candles so boom boom I got like a fresh set right there
obviously we're going to need something to light it up and I'm going to be using
the side of my computer too hard to host this event
okay so shout out to my computer so let's begin
okay so let's begin so get a get the candles first okay so three should be
enough go all right so let me show you guys my phone
oh six we have everything we need right here so let's start now that we know we
have a soul or a ghost I mean I kind of I really don't know the difference but
let's begin don't play with fire kids okay also you have our summon ghost or
make a voodoo doll of a famous youtuber get out throwing that out there there we
go perfect
let's give it a couple minutes the candles are going to attract the spirit
the ghost the 120 year old ghost I don't even know who that the law 120 years old
not Jesus I don't think it's Jesus that would be weird
but waiting for a response usually you should be able to tell when something
like this happens your guys the back it's moving do you guys see that look
well it stopped okay I think this means that something I don't know what
hopefully the ghost has entered into Jake Paul's voodoo doll all right let's
pick them up all right guys so there should be a spirit inside of Jake Paul's
house named for a second Jake Paul's booted all right here
all right you saw it I recorded it so I mean the Hat you guys have to have seen
okay the doll is movie that was a jerk into the side that means it's work
there's something inside of Jake Paul guru doll and hopefully we'll be able to
communicate with it had some water just getting hot in here
hell I am trapped in the stall hello yah we just said there's someone trapped
in here hello who is this this is Jade what is going on okay oh my
god okay it works okay um um okay how do we know you are Jake
I lost my Disney contract we're either no I was gonna say that what the heck do
you want just realized that series voice so hold on it's okay so this is what I
think this is what I'm hypothesizing right
we did this we did this um anything there's a ghost inside of the Jake Paul
voodoo doll who claims to be Jake Paul's is a communication going around but it's
series voice which makes no sense to me maybe that's just how they're using to
communicate it like the only way they can communicate it needs something so
that's what they got uh honestly if you are Jake Paul I didn't I I swear I did
not think you're gonna say that so funny um I must stop speaking through Siri
hello what do you mean hello I don't know why I'm holding here closer up to
Jake what do you mean you can't communicate through Siri anymore he's
kind of frowning what the heck he doesn't seem to be happy look at that
what the heck look it's kind of tilting down a little bit it doesn't okay so he
can't communicate through Syria anymore so we're gonna have to find some other
way to communicate with him now there's a couple of things I could think of I
just need to make sure I just need to make sure okay so let's see okay guys so
we're gonna try something a little bit different okay I'm going to be setting
the doll down all right I may be setting it down somewhere over here just in case
you will be able to see him because I'm still being assessed and II will still
be able to communicate however he's gonna be sitting down over there where
he can be seen if you move as if he does anything they'll be seeing
make sure all right guys he's right there little guy he's right there so
we're gonna try to communicate within without Siri but through a Ouija board
okay so let me do the slide a little bit so you guys can see all right
Jake you're not making any sense did you or did you not were you fired or
where you did you quit what's going on okay Jake Paul did you get fired from
Disney all right okay it's keep our last guest okay Jake Paul were you fired from
Disney D oh you be e
al
I okay I sort of gods do you believe I swear
it's definitely that what the heck do you believe what I'm except
I couldn't really see him in my viewfinder but he looked like he just
disappeared okay so let me ask another question
okay Jake Paul is it everyday bro so did it go okay I I see what okay I see I see
what Josh started Jake tell me the truth did anything a lacks any dykes my my
hair looks like a mess I look like a what I don't even know what I look like
a coconut and I guys I am I am sweating super hard I see I swear
Jake is definitely trolling me dude Jake is that makes no sense
okay so first it was theory I usually G board I don't see it I'm not 100% sure
what I should be doing right now
okay so just as a tip just you know as an advice you never know what's going to
happen with a voodoo doll so you want to treat it and you want to really take
care of it and hold it very carefully because you never know what might happen
okay so as you can see we still have Jake Paul right here so there's still a
soul inside right now so what we need to do is we need to get the soul out then
we can end this okay so we're going to do it is okay so to get rid of a spirit
you want to have a flame like an open flame hold it up a little bit and the
flame will attract the spirit we'll take it out and the only way you can go back
in and back through the candles with as much visible fire light as possible okay
so we're going to do to get it close it immediately frowned what the heck dude
you know I don't think it's happy what Joe do down was freaky and it's
literally like you would think it would be burnt but it's not burnt like it
feels like a regular what the heck and it won't stop - dude okay I'm gonna keep
going try to get Logan Paul the spirit out of this so everything will be back
to normal okay it's a little bit closer closer it is the more intense it is okay
you okay it flickered so basically what does it mean when that flicker is okay
when the air is still and the flame flickers that basically means the soul
has passed through its come out and it's literally the spirit has pushed the
flame okay you can see Dana is crazy you started rounding out of nowhere to food
okay so it's over now there's not a spirit inside of the Guru doll
there's no means of communication with logan paul at this very moment unless I
know him which I don't so I mean this kind of youtuber I don't know every
other youtuber okay that being said I feel like this was a little bit more
peaceful it's a little more calm which makes me happy but I still was freaked
out because the Buddha literally moved put a soul as a soul there was there was
a ghost in my room all right I don't know if was a good ghost or a bad ghost
but from what I've seen it wasn't happy all of a sudden so I don't know okay
maybe you got angry because it doesn't have a vessel no more I don't know but I
want you guys to leave a like and subscribe all right because you don't
you if you don't ghosts will be attracted to you and you don't want it
goes to be attracted to you okay it's not a good not like oh wow he's cute
it's more like I'm gonna haunt this kid okay
so leave a like subscribe and also comment down below do you guys want to
see me do a logan paul voodoo doll at 3:00 a.m. okay I have no idea what's
going to be happening so comment down below if you guys want to see that all
right peace alright alright I want to keep saying
all right ah okay
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