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What We Know About X-Men: Dark Phoenix So Far - Duration: 3:03.
- [Narrator] 2019 the X-Men franchise
will tackle one of the most iconic storylines
in comic book history.
Here's what we know about X-Men: Dark Phoenix so far.
Caution, flaming hot spoilers lie ahead for the uninitiated.
- How's that for a magic trick?
(intense music)
- [Narrator] Dark Phoenix is set to pick up shortly
after 2016's X-Men: Apocalypse
which ended in a cataclysmic battle
with the titular ancient mutant.
Apocalypse's plan for human extinction
was only thwarted when Jean Gray tapped
into her deeper powers,
unleashing unexpected fire and fury.
Those birdlike flames were an early hint
at the arrival of Jean's cosmic alter ego,
The Phoenix Force.
The super being was originally introduced
in the X-Men comics of the early 80s
with the landmark Dark Phoenix Saga.
Elements of this complex story
were watered down for 2006 X-Men: The Last Stand.
So fans are eager for Dark Phoenix to get her due.
No disrespect to Famke Janssen.
In the director's chair for the first time
is long time X-Men writer producer Simon Kinberg
who's determined to do the story justice.
Kinberg announced that Dark Phoenix
will send the X-Men to outer space
for the first time in film.
Additionally, in interviews with Entertainment Weekly,
he and his cast have called this
the most emotional X-Men yet,
with a strong focus on its female characters.
Game of Thrones' Sophie Turner
will be returning as Jean Gray
bringing the heat to Dark Phoenix's most crucial role.
- I saw the end of the world.
I could feel all this death.
- Jean, it was just a dream.
- [Narrator] Familiar faces James McAvoy,
Jennifer Lawrence, Michael Fassbender,
and Nicholas Hoult will reprise their uncanny roles.
While Evan Peters will again steal the whole movie
with one scene as the fleet-footed Quicksilver.
- You know for a guy who moves as fast as me,
I always seem to be too late.
- [Narrator] The younger mutants are also set to return,
so expect to see more of Tye Sheridan as Cyclops,
Alexandra Shipp as storm,
and Kodi Smit-McPhee as Nightcrawler.
Other reports have touted the resurfacing
of Olivia Munn's Psylock,
and on-set photos might confirm that
The Orville's Halston Sage will be making an appearance
as the musically gifted mutant Dazzler.
Joining the already massive cast is Jessica Chastain.
Credited simply as Smith.
Described as an otherworldly shapeshifter,
many fans assume she'd play alien empress Lilandra,
a crucial character from the Dark Phoenix comics.
However, Chastain was quick to dismiss those rumors.
What we do know is that her character Smith
wants to manipulate Phoenix for her own agenda
which will surely put her at odds
with the rest of the X-Men.
Originally slated for a fall 2018 release,
rewrites and re-shoots have pushed back the schedule.
Some sources have speculated the delays
were due to the impending merger
of Disney and 20th Century Fox.
After nearly 20 years of movies,
this merger could make Dark Phoenix Fox's last X-Men film
before the characters become a part of Marvel Studios.
Set for release on February 14th, 2019,
X-Men fans have a hot date set
with Phoenix this Valentine's Day.
And that's all we know about X-Men: Dark Phoenix so far.
(mysterious music)
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Please stop my dad from drinking so much!! [Hello Counselor ENG,THA/2018.09.24] - Duration: 28:04.
I will read the first one.
I need someone to be the dad.
- What's the point of resting? / - Okay.
(Sure)
I will give you a 50 cent bonus.
That's good enough.
Hello.
I'm 6th grader Jeong Yunseo from Changwon.
I get scared every night.
It's because my father...
"Yunseo."
(Hiccup)
(Incomprehensible speech)
(Hiccup)
"Wake up, Yunseo.
Ah!"
(He scared us)
The person who harasses me every night is
my father.
(Oh my...)
"Security guard.
Me?
I'm having such a hard day."
(I shouldn't be laughing)
Have a seat, sir."
Get that food out of your mouth first.
Swallow first.
I have food in my mouth.
"Let me tell you how tough my day was."
(Wailing)
"Sir.
Tell everyone to come.
Tell the neighbors to come."
The problem is...
"Dad. Why do you do this every time you drink?
You're embarrassing us."
"What are you talking about?"
(Do you have to ask?)
That's right.
He forgets everything the next day.
My father has signed a written promise
in front of my mother many times.
"If I drink again, I'll divorce my wife."
But!
Just a day later,
he drank again.
"I can't take this anymore.
Do you want to get divorced?"
My parents are close to getting divorced.
Please stop my dad from drinking so much.
Oh my. Oh my.
Does anyone around you have bad drinking habits?
This concern is similar to what I went through.
My family went through the same thing.
- Your dad? / - Yes.
He has passed away already,
but he would drink a lot.
I hated watching my parents fight.
Now that I look back on it,
my father must've been very lonely.
- Your dad too? / - Yes.
If you had that makeup and hairstyle,
your dad might not have drunk if you told him not to.
Your hair was black back then, right?
Yes, long, straight black hair.
When I was 5 or 6,
whenever my parents argued,
I would sleep with them.
Because they adored me so much.
I tried to act cute so they wouldn't fight.
I thought they would bring them closer.
I was wrong.
I shouldn't have been in bed with them.
(Embarrassed)
Why did I have to get in between the two?
(Now that I'm a grownup, I understand)
It took her courage to come here today.
Please come on out.
(She's worried about her parents!)
(Come on, yo)
(Jeong Yunseo)
(Special escort service)
(She takes her seat!)
How much does your father drink?
I think he and alcohol were enemies in a past life.
He goes out to drink 5 to 6 times a week.
Since he drinks so much,
I call him in the evenings.
"Where are you, dad?"
He says, "I'll be home soon."
But he comes home past 1 a.m.
Sure. It isn't easy to get up and leave.
Is it noisy in the background when you call him?
Yes. I can hear the tambourines.
(What?)
- Tambourines? / - Tambourines?
Karaoke. Karaoke.
Oh, karaoke.
The problem is that when he comes home,
he doesn't go to his room to sleep.
My mom, my sister and I would be sleeping.
He kicks us in the head with his foot.
(The worst drinking habit)
(This is a concern!)
- He harasses you? / - Yes.
- In your head? / - He kicks you?
Yes.
If we don't respond to him, he yells,
"Can you not hear me?"
He screams and speaks an alien language.
Alien language.
We can't understand him.
Around what time was that?
It was past 1:15 a.m.
1:15 a.m. That's so detailed.
It's not easy to know down to the minutes.
And he doesn't remember anything the next day?
No.
He doesn't remember but we try to talk to him,
but it's not easy.
Since he's so drunk
we can't understand what he's saying.
Mom got so angry that
she made him sign a written promise.
So he promised to not drink ever again.
I guess he never meant it
because the next day he went out again.
- The very next day? / - Yes.
- The very next day? / - Yes.
Since he signed a written promise,
did you hope that he wouldn't drink for a few days?
Yes, of course.
So how did you feel
when he came home drunk the next day?
I wondered if he really is our dad.
I wondered why he ever made a promise.
It's quite confusing.
Since this keeps happening, did you come today
because you're worried that they'll get divorced?
My parents recently had a fight in the kitchen
where they threw and broke plates and bowls.
Was your dad drunk at the time?
Yes.
Mom said, "How can you be so selfish
and not notice my presence?"
When I see her cry after their fights...
- It's heartbreaking. / - Yes.
I wanted to cry with her.
Sure. You must've been so scared.
I'm glad you came here today.
- Let's meet her dad now. / - Yes.
Let's meet her father now. Hello.
Hello.
Look at him.
(Clap clap clap)
Not many people are applauding.
How did you feel when your daughter sent in
her concern and you were told to come today?
This is not even a concern.
I was quite perplexed.
How can you say that this is not a concern?
Don't show your temper. Don't throw anything.
You don't think it's a concern for your daughter?
Drinking is part of the social life for men.
I work in construction.
Two men can't have coffee together at night.
I drink about 7 to 8 times a week.
(His liver is hard at work every day)
How much can you drink?
I can't drink a lot.
About 3 bottles of soju.
I also drink soju with beer and then beer.
After that, I black out so I don't know.
(Speechless)
Why do you harass your family
by kicking them when you get home?
I don't remember doing that.
That's the problem!
That's the problem.
Don't you ever think it's wrong
that you drink until you completely black out?
I pay good money to drink in order to black out.
(Doesn't think he has a serious problem)
That's nothing to be proud about.
If I do bad things after I get drunk,
my friends and acquaintances that I drink with
would call me and tell me the next morning.
But I've never gotten a call like that.
Your family tells you what you did.
Do you think it's not possible you did that?
Or are you too embarrassed to admit it?
- Be honest. / - Is it half and half?
Are you saying that you didn't do those things
- because no one has called you? / - Yes.
Strangers are different from your family.
Then why did you sign written promises?
You must've admitted that...
She told me to sign it.
We would end up arguing if I don't sign it.
That's the problem.
You signed it just to get through that moment?
Yes.
It must've been a big concern for you, ma'am.
What do you think about what he has said?
Before Yunseo turned one,
I went out to pick up my drunk husband as always.
She was crying so I asked him to hold her.
He said yes.
But Yunseo was crying even harder.
So I turned around and saw that
her head was by his feet
and her feet were by his chest.
He was holding her upside down.
He was too drunk.
So Yunseo was crying from that.
I didn't know he would drink this much until now.
Dad must remember this incident.
You remember it because it was a big thing, right?
I remember it a little.
He's trying to deny it again.
He knows because I told him about it.
Yes, but I do remember her calling my name.
(He's just trying to deny everything)
He must've been quite drunk then too.
Have you gotten in a big fight recently?
Yes, I was in a car accident recently.
I got a flat tire
and the bottom of the car door cracked.
Of course I called my husband.
I thought he'd come and waited an hour.
I waited but he never came to help me.
That's terrible.
So I called him.
"Oh, right! You were in a car accident. I forgot."
He never showed up at the site.
- He never did? / - No.
How upset were you?
I said, "It's either alcohol or me."
He signed a written promise that he wouldn't drink.
I thought it would at least last a few days.
That evening, my kids and I went out to eat.
It was raining heavily and I didn't have my car.
So I called him, "Can you come pick us up?"
He said, "Oh! I'll be right there."
We waited and waited for him.
- He never came? / - He never came.
You should've just told them that you can't go.
Why did you give them false hope?
Regarding the car accident.
Don't most husbands rush over to their wives?
Of course.
I was drinking at the time.
She should've called emergency services, not me.
They will sort everything out.
Did I hear that right?
Even if she called them first,
shouldn't you have gone to check on her?
Even if I had gone, I would've been no help.
They would've been more help to her.
(Drinking always comes first to him)
If your friends ask, "What was that call about?"
"My wife was in a car accident."
Then don't they say, "You should go to her?"
How can I tell them that while we're drinking?
What?
It rained out of the blue that day.
- You remember that day? / - Yes, I do.
She could've come home with an umbrella.
I can't go pick her up because I was drinking.
She's not a young child.
Why didn't you tell her to take a cab home
because you were drinking with your friends?
I told her that I'd go but as I drank more...
Are you just unable to say no?
"I can't go. I'm out drinking."
You're getting mad for the wife, right?
Yes. I'm boiling up inside. What do I do?
Drink some water.
She thinks you're putting alcohol before her.
What do you think about that?
I want to acknowledge her too,
but as the breadwinner...
Who isn't a breadwinner here?
Between your family and your drinking friends,
who's more important?
Of course my family is more important.
But they will always be there for me.
Friends seem to be more important for you.
You said you signed a written promise.
You also made a promise to go out drinking.
You keep that one but not the one with your wife.
That means your friends are more important to you.
The written promise doesn't specify the date.
(Speechless)
Just because I signed the written promise
doesn't mean I can't go out to meet people.
You can refrain from drinking.
That's hard to do because...
- It's part of being a breadwinner. / - Yes!
I have to make ends meet.
I work in that kind of industry.
When he doesn't drink, is he a family man?
No!
We ask him to go out or go see a movie,
but he just ignores us.
He just lies down and plays with his phone.
Have you gone on a family trip at all?
We went to a water park recently.
He went in with us but we hung out by ourselves.
Then we made an announcement to look for him.
Where was he?
Where was your dad?
He was sleeping in the shade.
He was just a helper to get them inside the park.
Was there a ride you wanted to go on with him?
He never really hangs out with us,
- so no. / - You don't expect anything from him.
You can get everything on your mind out today.
A few years ago, I entered elementary school.
All my friends' dads came but not mine.
We had about 4 school performances,
but he only came once.
What about your younger sister?
My sister got pneumonia one time.
We went to the ER but he was out drinking.
So it was just mom, me and my sister.
Shouldn't you be there for them
when they're sick or on special occasions?
I work so I can't take the time to be there.
If mom can be there, she can go for them.
Then when would they need their dad?
In a true emergency.
You weren't there when your daughter was sick.
- You weren't there after the accident. / - Tell us then.
When is the time that you have to be there?
When they're threatened by others.
- Threatened? / - Yes.
(What?)
That's too dangerous.
Many people other than you could help them.
But school recitals or sports days aren't crucial.
If your daughter always feels that
you love her very much,
she would've understood why you couldn't be there.
But you never show your love to her
and that's why she's getting upset.
I don't think I did anything wrong.
That's what you've been doing wrong.
(Does he only care about alcohol?)
When else was he not there for you?
I had a miscarriage in my third pregnancy.
I set the date for the surgery which happened to be
the day his friends were coming from Seoul.
He told me,
"It's not an important surgery."
(What are we going to do with him?)
"It won't take long. Can you go by yourself?"
So I went by myself to get the surgery
and came back home by myself.
As a woman, I was so heartbroken.
The surgery is as hard as giving birth.
He should've been there.
It must've been tougher psychologically.
He should've been there to comfort her.
The child that they made together died.
It's a big deal.
I reserved a condo with my friends
a month before.
(Sigh...)
My friends were coming a long way to see me.
Are your friends stupid?
If you had explained the situation to them,
they would've been understanding.
I didn't think that far.
- You never told them about it? / - No.
I'll ask again. Is it your family or your friends?
(Friends or family?)
Of course my family comes first.
Just words.
Why were your friends more important
when your wife had a miscarriage?
I made that promise first so I had to keep it.
Then why don't you keep the promise with her?
(Oh, I'm going crazy here)
When we won the gold medal at the Asian Games,
goalkeeper Jo Hyunwoo had an injury.
But Coach Kim Hakbeom told him,
"You're a big help just by standing in the field."
His presence was quite important!
That's what a dad is.
Just by being there with them
they can feel safe and supported.
It's wrong to think that you can't do anything.
I wish you would listen to them a little more.
Let's meet the husband's friend now.
He refused to come here at first.
I'm his friend Choi Gangnam,
but I'd like to cut off our friendship as of now.
I never knew that he argues with his wife
in front of his children.
Does he usually call first
to go out drinking?
I'd say 30% is for business.
70% is him reaching out just to drink.
He enjoys drinking.
Yeah, he just likes to drink alcohol.
Does he have bad drinking habits?
He called me when I was at home.
He said, "The fortuneteller told me to be good
to my friends. I'll be really good to you."
After he said that, he started to cry.
Why didn't you call him the next day?
"Are you out of your mind?"
I did.
He said that he doesn't remember anything.
He didn't remember it at all.
You said earlier that you would change your ways
if your friends told you about your habits.
- But you said they never called. / - Yes.
Your friend did call you.
What's wrong with crying after drinking?
You didn't do it just once.
You are too lenient on yourself.
You are so lenient on yourself from head to toe.
(Grow up!)
I think you raised your child well.
Your son looks so reliable.
No, he's not.
That's not your son?
Not at all. You're going to cause trouble.
- You don't know who he is? / - Who is he?
He's our neighbor who lives on the first floor.
- Your neighbor? / - From the first floor.
A neighbor who lives in the same building.
He must be here to be on television.
I think he has a lot to say.
- Tell us who you are. / - What's your name?
I'm 5th grader Kim Taehyeong.
He's big for a 5th grader.
Are you here to be on television?
Yunseo seems to have a hard time
so I came to tell you what I've witnessed.
- Tell us. / - We have a witness.
I went over to Yunseo's place.
Her dad came to me drunk and started to tickle me.
He's not usually like that so I was perplexed.
(He must've been really perplexed)
Yes, it's annoying to be tickled.
If a person suddenly comes to tickle me,
you wonder why he's doing that.
What else have you witnessed?
I was on my way home on my bike
and I saw Yunseo and her dad arguing.
She was mad that he broke the written promise.
Yunseo's mom came over to our place and
yelled at her dad for drinking over the phone.
- You heard a lot. / - Right.
He knows everything.
He's just a neighbor.
I want him to go to a hospital
and get help to quit drinking.
What about your dad?
His liver isn't so good, so my dad can't drink.
I see.
He is so mature.
Do you think you'll drink when you grow up?
I don't think I should.
Will you be good to your wife in the future?
- Yes. / - Go home early every day?
Yes.
(We now know how you feel)
It hurts my ego a lot that my wife yells at me
in front of the kids.
I know what I did is wrong,
but she could talk to me when we're alone.
I'm not a housewife. I have a job too.
- You have a job? / - Yes.
I work, do house chores and raise my kids.
All I ask him to do is to drink moderately.
But he drinks every day.
Whether he's drunk or not
- he talks to me about my looks. / - What?
"You're so ugly. I can't take you out.
Who would look at you?
You know drunk people tell the truth, right?"
That's what he tells me.
He's just a complete drunkard.
When I don't understand something he tells me,
"I can't talk to you because
you don't understand anything. You're stupid."
So I can't be nice to him.
How can a husband badmouth his wife
about her looks?
I don't want her to gain weight like a pig.
(Angry)
What did you say?
I'll yell at him for you.
What did you say?
(I'll make you pay!)
(Smiling like a fool)
If you want to have their respect,
why don't you respect your own wife?
I do respect her.
How is that respecting your wife?
I may not express it well but I do respect her.
Does he tell you something nice like,
"You work so hard with your job and kids."
He says, "Must I say it out loud?"
(Don't fight here)
Let's meet their younger daughter this time.
Do your parents argue often?
Yes.
Do you like your dad or not?
- He's bad! / - He's bad?
- Why is he bad? / - Why is he bad?
He does bad things to mom, Yunseo and me.
What does he do?
He hits us on the head
and tells us that we're ugly.
He even tells his girls that they're ugly?
He told you that you're ugly?
(Nod)
He's a liar.
You are so beautiful.
You're beautiful. Become an actress in the future.
(Smile)
How cute.
You said that your parents argue a lot.
Yes, mom goes like this and says,
"Let me breathe.
Or I think I'm going to die."
How do you feel when you hear that?
- I'm sad. / - You're sad.
I'm sad that mom talks about a divorce often.
- You don't want to hear it? / - No.
- Are you scared? / - Yes.
She's just a third grader.
I just don't understand how a third grader
could say things like that.
What would you like to tell your dad today?
Go ahead and tell us.
Please quit drinking
and please don't harass us.
She's not asking him to play with her.
She's asking him not to harass her.
What breaks my heart is that our youngest calls
her dad first when I get home from work
and start to prepare dinner.
"Where are you, dad?" Then she comes to me.
"He's drinking again! Just divorce him!
It's better to divorce him!" She says it first.
Oh my goodness.
(Whenever their parents fight)
How did you feel, Yunseo?
I wanted to cry with her.
Sure. They must've been so scared.
I'm glad you came here today.
How do you feel about this, sir?
If I heard this as their father, I...
I've heard this before.
Then how can you continue to drink?
What breaks my heart is that...
This is ridiculous.
Both girls are scared that
their parents are really going to get divorced.
But she feels like if mom says it first,
it could really come true.
That's why she's saying it first.
Even as a stranger, it breaks my heart that
a 10-year-old girl is feeling that way.
(Dad isn't listening to his daughters at all)
No matter how much you love drinking...
Has she told you how she feels?
Yes, a few days ago.
What did she say?
She told me, "Do you know how scared I was
when you and dad fought?
It was hard to overcome that fear."
She said that to you?
(Her life should be full of smiles)
(What did the kids do wrong to deserve this?)
Your kids don't deserve this, sir.
Your daughter never told you this?
That she's scared when you two fight?
She never did.
- You heard it for the first time? / - I did!
She said that she did.
Did you tell your dad?
(She told her dad)
Did your dad apologize?
No.
You're always lying.
You must be embarrassed.
We're not here to criticize you.
- We want to change things. / -Yes.
Yunseo is here so that all of you can be happy.
I know it but I just can't get myself to change.
You've become a slave of alcohol.
That's how my family was.
My parents ended up getting divorced and
I currently live with my mom and my stepfather.
Whenever my parents fought,
I became more cautious
and more scared.
It influences the kids a lot at this age.
I'd like to ask you this.
Is there ever a time
when mom and dad look happy?
When they went to see a movie with
my aunt and uncle, they were smiling.
She's smiling as she talks about it.
You're happy just thinking about it, right?
- When was that? / - When was that?
On Chuseok and Seollal.
Just twice a year?
Yes.
Do you wish every day is like that?
Yes.
Could you tell us what you ask of them?
Spend time with us at least 2 to 3 times a month.
Dad, drink moderately.
We don't want you to fight in front of us anymore.
Please say a word to your sister now.
I'll protect you.
Even if you drink every day,
drink moderately so that you don't hurt them.
Can you promise us that?
I won't drink a lot.
I'll call you so that I don't drink too much.
(No response)
Does he always keep his words?
(No)
They've lost faith in him.
I can't promise that
I won't drink at all.
But I'll try to drink as little as possible.
You will show them that you can change?
I'll do my best.
(Please keep your promise this time)
Alright.
Jinyoung, is it a concern or not?
I hope you get to reflect on what's more important.
I think it's a serious concern.
I want him to think long and hard about this.
I think it's a serious concern.
Press the button.
Like I said earlier, drinking isn't the problem.
The kids are in fear and are hurt by their dad.
I think it's a concern.
Press the button if you think it's a concern.
(What does the audience think?)
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Please stop.
How many votes did they get? Please show us.
I think everyone in the audience pressed it.
The last digit is a 7. Out of 200.
(They definitely got over 100 votes!)
197?
No way.
- 157 votes. / - They got many votes.
Good work today.
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Please help me so that my children can live in a world without bias[HelloCounselor ENG,THA/18.9.24] - Duration: 26:32.
"Superman's Grief."
After talking about the first concern,
I'm sure Yunseo's dad has many thoughts.
Please pay attention to this one.
Hello. I'm a father of two girls, ages 7 and 14.
My daughters call me Superman.
I cook breakfast for them, do house chores
and go to work to earn money every day.
Then what does he go out to drink?
This is a complete opposite concern.
When I'm asleep from exhaustion,
my girls come and kick me in the head.
(Gratifying)
That was ad-lib.
- You scared me. / - It was a joke.
Do I do these things by myself?
Yes, I do.
To be honest, I'm a single father
raising my two daughters alone.
It's tough being a single dad raising two girls.
"Dad, I need pads."
"Oh, okay.
Let's see. Which one do I need to buy?
Okay. I'll be right back."
But... "Oh my goodness. Look at that man.
He's standing in front of the pads section."
It's not easy because of what people may think.
I try very hard so that
they don't notice their mother's absence,
by my younger daughter...
"Dad! We have a performance tomorrow at school.
They are telling us to bring our moms."
There are so many things that I just can't do.
This is what's most upsetting.
"Hey! Why does your dad take you to school?"
"Well..."
"What a poor girl."
People are biased about them being without a mom.
This is what upsets me the most.
Please help me so that my children can live
- in a world without bias. / - Thanks for coming.
(We'll help you!)
This really isn't easy.
It sounds like he's doing a good job already.
He's very dedicated to his girls.
I think he's an awesome father.
He's taking care of both of his daughters too.
What broke my heart as I read this is
Koreans tend to say things out too loud.
"Why is a man standing in front of pads?"
- Right. / - They don't need to say that.
That's why he's hurt.
Seyoon is raising two kids.
He watched the kids to give his wife a break.
You said that you had a hard time?
If you've never done it, you wouldn't know.
I try to do this more often,
but that day was so tough for me.
But at the end of the day, my son told me,
"I am happy that I spent the whole day with you."
All the hardships just melted away.
The hardships melted when you heard that?
Yes. But he's doing this every day.
- Imagine that. / - He even works.
He's a true Superman.
Where can I find a guy like you?
There's none left now.
They are all gone.
As his girls grow up,
he'll have more concerns.
Please come on out.
(Who's the single father of two daughters?)
(Here's the real Superman)
He looks so nice.
He is well-built.
(Kim Gihyeong)
How did you end up raising two girls by yourself?
My daughters are 14 and 7 years old.
Their mother left us, not wanting to raise them.
So I've been raising them by myself for 3 years.
It's tough.
I work from 2 to 8 p.m. every day.
I cook them breakfast, take them to school.
Then I come home and do house chores.
Since I work until 8, I can't cook them dinner.
So I make dinner before I leave.
- The problem is... / - That's amazing.
They have different tastes.
One likes spicy food but the other one doesn't.
- You cook separate things? / - Yes.
I make spicy beef and soy sauce-based beef.
You even think about their tastes.
(Dad's homemade dishes made with love)
So I'm curious about
how other people do it.
I heard that most single moms or single dads
get help from their parents or relatives.
But my parents live in Canada, so I'm by myself.
You're completely alone.
If you are busy looking after your children,
how do you manage your social life?
How do you do your social life?
That's so important for men.
He'll be left out in the society.
Tell us. When do you go out?
You don't see your friends?
I can't.
You gave it up for your kids, right?
Yes.
Your family is always home.
What's so important about that?
- Kids can be on their own. / - Sure.
Please stop.
You're quite used to this life now,
but what is the toughest thing you face?
The toughest thing is people's bias.
I used to own a private institute.
But after the divorce,
a rumor went around that it was my fault.
But it was actually the other way around.
Students started to leave.
But I was more worried about my kids getting hurt.
They became kids raised by an unethical dad.
I was worried that my girls would be hurt.
So at the time, I couldn't stay in Korea.
So you left and came back?
Yes.
Did anything happen to hurt your kids?
My older daughter once asked me,
"Is it okay to invite my friends over?"
I said, "Sure.
But you should tell their moms that I'm a single dad.
If they are okay with it, I'm okay with it."
That's understandable.
But no one called back.
It was the same thing for my younger daughter.
She makes dates with her friends every weekend
to go to the kid's cafe.
She asked me for my phone number.
I gave her my number and waited for them to call.
No one called me.
Why is that? Just because he's a single dad?
It's a lot for them.
I understand how other moms feel.
Moms tend to create a group chat room
and exchange pictures.
They could feel uncomfortable about
contacting a kid's father.
Sungeun, you'd know more about this.
Now that I think about it,
I have many group chat rooms with other moms.
If someone's dad were to join us,
it would feel a bit uncomfortable.
Now that I think about it, I can understand them.
(I understand)
Do your girls understand why mom is gone?
My oldest daughter went through it so she knows.
My younger one doesn't ask for her mom,
but it's sad that other people keep reminding her.
That's sad.
I went out to send her off on the school bus.
Other kids asked, "Where is your mom?"
My daughter looked perplexed
and I was so heartbroken.
That's why I drive her to school myself
so that she doesn't have to face that.
It's sad to read her school newsletters.
"Play-with-mom homework." "Ask mom."
That's what's written there.
- That's their homework? / - Yes.
- Is that true, Sungeun? / - Yes.
Rather than saying, "Homework with parents,"
everything refers to mom.
They do that because in Korea, people assume that
dads are too busy to spend time with their kids
so the homework is mostly for mothers.
It'd be nice to write down
"Spending time with mom and dad" instead.
I got worried that my kids would face bias
so that's why I came here today.
If I talk about this on television,
I thought people would be less biased.
- That was a great idea. / - What a great dad.
I'm sure there are many other people
who are in the same situation.
Let's meet his precious daughters now.
Hello.
- Hello. / - Hello.
She's so cute.
The younger one is so cute.
Her smile is so beautiful.
Did you know about your dad's concern?
I didn't know he was this concerned but
I knew to a certain extent.
Younger one. We'll talk to you later. Put it down.
I feel like I have to ask her something.
Tell us your name. What's your name?
Kim Ieun.
Kim Ieun? Hi. We'll talk to you later, okay?
Okay.
- How cute. / - How cute.
Your dad talked about the slumber party.
How did you feel when you couldn't invite them?
I was sad.
I wanted to show my house to my friends,
but dad said no.
I didn't know that my friends' parents said no.
- You just found out today? / - Yes.
I didn't know people were so biased.
- I'm a bit disappointed. / - I see.
Did you ever face people's bias?
People think I'm the mother when we go out.
They say, "Your wife is so young."
What?
It's perplexing.
That shows that people's picture of
an ideal family is to have both parents.
We went to Canada once
and we were detained at the immigration office.
They thought dad was kidnapping us.
He needed to show documents to prove who he is
but he didn't have one. The police asked me,
"When did you see your mom? Is he good to you?"
They let us go after they asked those questions.
I wondered if they would've asked if I was with mom.
Canadians are the ones who are biased.
(It was upsetting then)
The younger daughter.
It's your turn now.
It's finally your turn!
Do you know why you are here today?
- No. / - She doesn't know.
Do you know what broadcasting company this is?
I sincerely apologize.
How do you get to kindergarten?
I ride in dad's car.
Does anyone ask why your dad takes you?
Yes.
How did you feel?
I was surprised.
You were surprised? Why?
They asked out of the blue.
You should ask, "Why does your mom drive you?"
(Right)
Let's practice.
Why does your dad drive you to school?
Because my dad loves me very much.
That is awesome.
That's touching.
I have tears in my eyes.
Be honest with us, Ieun.
Are you jealous of those who come with their moms?
- A little bit? / - No.
- Not even a little bit? / - No.
You give them so much love that
they have the brightest faces.
I can't see their mom's absence in them.
You'll be performing at school?
Yes. "Song of the Tree."
"Song of the Tree."
Can you sing a little for us?
Would that be okay?
Go.
One, two, three, four.
♪ It's a great day today ♪
♪ It's sunny ♪
♪ A sweet song like the bird ♪
♪ The tree sings for us ♪
(Good job)
Sir, did your girls ever sing to you?
- Not even once. / - Not once he says.
It's just that you don't remember it.
Yunseo is saying, "We did!"
We did!
You don't have any problems as a family.
But you're having a hard time because of
the prejudice you face.
"How can a dad do it? How can a man do it?"
I get that a lot.
I really don't like to hear that
so I dress them up differently every day.
My daughter has to pack different things each day
like PE uniforms, bathing suits or aprons.
I don't ever want to make a mistake.
So I do my best to pack everything right.
You might be better than most moms.
- Moms tend to forget things. / - Sure.
When other moms say, "I forgot!"
I am overjoyed.
(Impressive)
Other people tend to worry about you
because you only have one parent, right?
People think it's bad or it's different.
Many people wonder
if I only have a dad,
who would do the housework?
You help him out a lot, right?
Well...
I don't do much because he does everything.
He does everything so his girls wouldn't.
He is making sure they don't miss their mom.
That's very impressive.
Some of your friends may not know this.
They ask me, "Why do you always talk about dad?"
I just say, "Because I like dad better."
Once this is aired,
all of your friends will find out.
I don't have to worry about it anymore
- so this is better. / - She's all grown up.
She's so mature.
You raised your daughter so well.
"I'm not wrong. I'm correcting those
who are wrong." I like the way they think.
It's great.
If they were boys, it'd be easier.
Some things are hard to talk about with them?
I was putting away clean clothes.
I saw some really dirty, old and small underwear.
It was my oldest daughter's.
I couldn't help but cry.
So I went out and went to the underwear section.
I remember buying a whole bunch of underwear.
Here's another story.
One morning, I saw that
her mattress was wet.
I didn't get her sanitary pads
- and she didn't know either. / - You both.
She was only in 7th grade.
So I went out to get her some,
but I didn't know what to buy.
Wings, regular, oversize...
(Please stop!)
(Ha ha ha)
You're a professional now.
Now I look at underwear often.
I buy bigger ones in advance.
- Because she won't tell me. / - I see.
It'd be easier if she talks about it first.
I guess she's embarrassed about it too.
When I first started my period,
I couldn't tell dad.
Luckily, my grandmother in Canada helped me.
It is true that I can't talk to him about this.
Why couldn't you ask him
to get you bigger underwear?
I felt bad about asking him to do that.
That's why...
Isn't there anyone else she could talk to
other than her grandmother in Canada?
A relative? Or an aunt?
There's no one. I don't have a sister.
I don't know who I can talk to.
When I'm waiting for my children's school bus,
I run into the other mothers.
You could talk to them.
I'm a strange man to them.
I don't know what they would think of me.
You're just another parent.
You are all parents.
It'll be easier now. "Hello.
I'm the single dad from Hello Counselor."
It'll be much easier.
You should worry less about that now.
I'll tell you some good online communities to join.
Whenever you need help, call me.
Then later...
"Please stop calling. From Jung Jogook."
Until then, you can talk to her freely.
(Stare)
- What? / - Huh?
You strange man.
I sometimes see you as a strange man.
(Why you)
Strange man.
(They get along so well)
Since you're here, ask us any questions.
Let's say this is a meeting of parents.
Don't think of this as a television program.
What do you want to know?
They only talk to moms about boyfriends.
I listen to them like a friend.
"Don't tell dad. I'm only telling you."
Then it makes me happy.
If you open up to her,
I think she'll open up to you too.
Should I set a curfew? Am I interfering too much?
I think 9 or 10 p.m. would be good.
I think 2 or 3 a.m. would be good.
For me personally.
I must be out until then for something to happen.
I need to get married. But she's in junior high.
It may be hard at first
but talk to each other and work it out.
Once you set rules, it'll become easier.
Her face is already blushing.
Are you dating someone already?
No.
Me neither.
Sure.
That's Iji's friend.
Hello.
- Hi. / - Hello.
Are you two best friends?
We've been friends since we were 5.
- You two are besties. / - Yes.
She's quiet, studious
and she has many friends.
She was the class president last semester.
Have you known about this for years?
I found out about it last year.
My parents got in a fight
and I talked to her about my concerns.
She said, "My parents are divorced too.
I'm hanging in there as well.
Cheer up." That's how she comforted me.
What a good friend.
Since you're her best friend,
how do you feel about having a boyfriend
when she's still single?
(Tell us)
I don't have a boyfriend but...
(A big catch!)
- Iji has a boyfriend? / - What?
Her voice is trembling.
Did you promise Iji that you wouldn't say it?
I tell her when I like someone,
but she tells me after it happens.
(First act and then report)
After it happens?
She already had a boyfriend.
Can you give us an example?
(Her soul has logged out)
Like what?
Well...
Can I tell them?
You already did.
You already told us everything. Just say it.
I can't because...
- It's better that she doesn't. / - Alright.
Did you break up with him? Or are you with him?
No, I don't have a boyfriend.
My friend used to have a boyfriend.
You did too!
(Their alliance is now gone)
(He can't laugh)
(Let me go cry by myself for a while)
Dad's friend is here as well.
- Hello. / - Hello.
I've known him for over 2 years now.
He wants to come play badminton often.
But he can't. "Ieun wants me to play with her.
I can't go today."
"Iji is sick and we went to the hospital.
I can't go."
He can't come about half of the time.
Even when he does come, he only plays
for an hour and goes home.
His focus is only on his children, right?
Yes. Everything is about them.
You can already tell by what he has said so far.
He always worries about what to feed them.
Even when kids have both parents,
they often go out to eat.
Or get delivery food.
Right. But he doesn't do that.
He feels like he must feed them
homecooked meals every day.
That's hard to do.
He's a great father.
He sometimes goes out when I'm asleep.
Ieun wakes up and calls dad.
She calls dad?
He comes straight home even for no reason.
I feel bad because dad's free time
was ruined because of me.
I feel like he couldn't have free time
because I didn't take good care of Ieun.
- You are all too kind. / - Right.
- Too kind. / - What a kind family.
They may end up fighting from being too kind.
Iji is much older now.
But I guess Ieun asks for you often?
She is always by my side.
She loves to touch my armpits.
(I like dad's armpits)
She goes like this.
- She's obsessed? / - Yes.
She looks so peaceful when she touches it.
Even in an elevator or at a restaurant,
she's always touching me.
You must look after your armpits well.
Sometimes she kisses my armpits.
- Your armpits? / - Yes.
She'll cry if you get your armpits waxed.
Where did it go? Where did it go?
What's so great about dad's armpits?
It's prickly so I like it.
That's why you like it.
She's been enjoying that since she was young.
You can't sleep unless you touch his armpits?
I do sleep without touching them.
- You feel peaceful when you do? / - Yes.
What about your sister?
She doesn't have hair
- in her armpits. / - I see.
(Why does she sound so serious?)
They're doing so well. You don't need to worry.
You raised them so well.
You are too worried about them
feeling their mother's absence that
you're trying to do everything for them.
She likes to write.
- Iji? / - Yes.
I read her work.
The main character doesn't have a mom.
The dad in the novel always cries.
I tried not to reflect my life in the novel,
but I just ended up writing it that way.
I didn't know how to portray a mother.
That's why.
I feel like they are children with lots of scars.
I always feel bad for them.
You'll always feel that way.
This is what I'd like to say.
I lost my sight in college.
I got a corneal transplant so
I can see now but that wasn't real hardship.
The betrayal by family is even more painful.
I want people to be good to their families.
Dad was hurt so badly but
he was able to overcome it thanks to his girls.
His daughters helped him.
(I wouldn't be here today without you, girls)
(We hope the three of you are happy)
A single father wrote us today and he's here.
But there are so many types of families out there
including single mothers.
Just because they're different,
even if they don't mean it the bad way,
they may blurt out hurtful words
without realizing it.
Pastor Jang Gyeongdong.
He said, "Words I said without thinking
can hurt other people. But this also means that
I don't need to be hurt by words
that people say without thinking."
You don't need to be hurt by those words.
Just discard them.
Please say a word to your daughters.
Just do as you've always done.
I feel loved
just by your presence.
I will continue to do my best.
I will do my best to raise them,
so please don't look at them badly.
Please don't be biased.
That is why I came here today.
Ieun. What would you like to say to your dad?
Dad.
Thank you, dad.
If we work hard,
I'm sure we can change people's bias someday.
I love you, dad.
(I love you too)
I want to reward him.
This isn't a concern.
Sungeun.
Raising children is very stressful.
You could explode one day.
If you can enjoy some free time sometimes,
that won't happen.
This is about people's bias.
This is something we should all think about.
This is a concern about people's bias.
It's a concern when we talk about people's bias.
If you can relate to his concern,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Please stop.
Stop.
Please show us the result.
(Announcing the result)
- "Superman's Grief." / - Not many people voted.
Did they get over 100 votes?
(Many people pressed the button)
The first concern got 157 votes.
What's the result?
116.
(They got 116 votes)
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Please help us so that my grandmother can live a comfortable life[Hello Counselor ENG,THA/2018.9.17] - Duration: 24:07.
"Please Stop."
I'm a 23-year-old college student from Seoul.
I get so emotional when I see a certain person.
It is my grandmother,
who is now 81 years old.
"Grandma. It's 2 a.m. Where are you?"
"I'm picking up recyclable waste.
I'm sorting them. Go to sleep."
Oh my.
My grandmother pulls her wagon and
collects recyclable waste day and night.
She works regardless of the weather.
"Oh, I have a headache. I'm dizzy
and I can't see very well."
She catches a cold often, falls down
and I had to call an ambulance several times.
She even got back surgery recently,
but she still goes out with a stomach belt
around her with a cane in one hand,
and a wagon in the other hand.
"Why do you work so much, Grandma?
You'll hurt yourself one of these days."
"I'm fine. Don't worry about me!"
I am so worried about my grandmother.
Please help us so that
my grandmother can live a comfortable life.
Was there ever a moment in life
when you realized that your parents
or your grandparents looked burdened?
For me, by the time I was in 6th grade...
(At such a young age!)
My parents were a lot smaller than me already.
(Minsang matured so early)
It's been a while.
They looked so small. My mom looked small.
(She can relate to it)
My father looked so small, too.
The problem was that I was too big.
You were undutiful too early.
JR and Ren, you are still young,
but did you ever feel that?
I felt the same way because
my parents both worked.
So my grandparents raised me.
When I was young, I was happy
to live with my grandparents.
But as I got older, I realized why
I had to live with my grandparents.
Sure.
Let's bring her out now.
Please come on out.
JR, Ren. Help her out.
(Who is concerned about her grandmother?)
(Special service)
Hello. I'm Kim Jihyeon from Nowon-gu.
(Nervous)
(Nice to meet you)
Your grandmother works every day,
not just once or twice a week to pass time?
Yes. She works every day without a day off.
She picks up recyclable waste with a wagon.
She hasn't been doing it for just a year or two.
She's been doing it for 17-18 years.
(Longer than they imagined)
Sometimes, she works until 2 or 3 a.m.
That's excessive.
Sometimes, she works all night.
She works all night, picking up recyclable waste?
(That's a lot)
Is there a reason why she works so much?
I think the biggest reason is responsibility.
Responsibility.
What kind of responsibility?
I have a younger brother.
My parents got divorced when I was 5.
We had nowhere to go, so Grandma took us in.
- You and your brother? / - Yes.
My grandmother had to work
in order to get us through
elementary school to college.
My grandfather was alive then, but he was blind.
I see.
So my grandmother was the only one who worked.
She's impressive.
It must've been tough raising you two by herself.
It must've been tough making ends meet.
We couldn't learn everything we wanted to.
But my grandmother did her best
to teach us what we needed and
guided us so that we wouldn't go awry.
How are things now in your life?
I was in school,
but I recently got a job at a hospital.
She doesn't have to work anymore.
We can get by with the money I earn
and funding we get from the government.
But she still insists on working so much.
Your grandmother just can't let go of her work.
That's upsetting.
In my case, my father was ill for many years.
But as soon as he was out of the hospital,
he would go back to work.
He had to farm and work...
That way he can stay healthy.
He felt like that was proof that he's still alive.
Maybe that's why your grandmother works.
She could be enjoying it.
But my grandmother isn't 100% healthy.
She's ill.
She got a back surgery and she has rheumatism.
Rheumatism.
Her hand joints.
That's very painful.
After she works for a day,
her hands get all cut up.
(Emotional)
It's heartbreaking for you as her granddaughter.
She's tearing up just thinking about it.
(Her hands show how tough her life has been)
She would fall down and get bruised.
If she works for 5-6 hours in the winter,
she gets a fever or catches a cold.
I had to call an ambulance several times.
If you are that worried about her,
you should try to stop her by force.
I argued with her many times
and I ran away from home once.
I told her, "If you keep this up,
I won't be your granddaughter anymore."
For a few days?
Did you come home right away?
- I left for a month. / - For a month?
What happened when you came back?
She had lost so much weight.
Even then, she insists on working?
She's very stubborn.
She doesn't care if I run away.
She still goes out to work.
(I'm very frustrated)
Why does she work so much even when she's ill?
Let's ask her directly.
Hello.
Hello.
She's so cute.
Be happy.
You too.
Grandma.
You couldn't work today because you're here today?
- Is that okay? / - I worked yesterday.
- You worked yesterday to come here? / - Yes.
Until what time?
I'm quite sick, so I can only pick up 3kg of waste.
I don't make much money.
They give me 3 cents per kilogram.
Then you get 9 cents for 3kg?
They give me 10 cents.
You worked and got 10 cents?
Yes.
I can't pick up any more than that
because of my back.
I have a stomach belt on like this.
Why do you work all day to get 10 cents?
Your granddaughter can earn money now.
If I lose my zone, I can never work again.
That's how I raised my babies.
But your granddaughter earns money now.
Please applaud her grandmother to thank her.
She raised her grandchildren so well.
When you were well,
how much waste did you collect per day?
200-300kg.
(Oh my)
How much did you earn that way?
They gave me 15 cents per kilogram.
So you earned $30 per day.
That's how you raised your grandchildren?
Yes.
(Shocked)
(How hard did she work for the past 17 years?)
You used to be able to do that,
but you are not too well now.
Since your granddaughter works,
she can pay for the expenses.
(No way!)
If I keep spending her money...
She's only 23 years old.
She has places to spend money on,
so Grandma wants her to spend money for herself.
I have nothing to pay her back with.
Let's say she gets married in 1-2 years.
I can't even afford to buy her a blanket.
Our family is on welfare.
We got financial aid when we went to school.
So that's taken care of.
My brother and I have earned money
by working part-time.
So I can finish college with that money.
You can finish college with that.
We can make ends meet with my salary and
the government money. But she refuses.
- She refuses to take your money? / - Yes.
She won't spend the money I give her.
She saves it up
so that she can give it back to us
in the future.
(You don't have to do that, Grandma)
I'm impressed.
Your granddaughter is worried.
She'd rather see you stay home and rest,
but you keep going out to work.
So I would like to ask you,
is there another reason why you insist on working?
Do you feel ill when you're at home?
I have depression.
- What? / - I have depression.
(They're surprised to hear the truth)
I had depression for 5 years after I took them in.
I even wanted to die at one point.
(Grandma...)
(She endured the hardship for her grandchildren)
(She still gave hope to her grandchildren)
(I will be the one to take care of you now)
So it's not just because of money?
People out there are still kind.
Some people give me water to drink
and some give me candies
and leave.
We understand now.
Did you know about this?
I did know about her depression.
But
I believe that she doesn't have to
overcome her depression by picking up waste
as she drags her wagon around.
With the money she earns,
she would buy us clothes with brand names.
But she buys cheap clothes for herself.
She spends more than half of the day working.
She has to eat while she's working.
She will pack leftover rice and side dishes
and eat on the street.
She eats on the street?
- Even in the winter? / - Yes.
She crouches on the street.
She crouches on the street and eats
to make sure no one steals her wagon
or her boxes.
(Heartbroken)
She wants to save money that way
and you don't want her to do that.
Why do you eat on the street like that?
Let's say I buy a meal for $10.
What's the point of earning money then?
But on cold days, you could eat ramen
in a convenience store.
I've never bought ramen in a convenience store.
- Because it's too expensive. / - Yes.
If I didn't live this way,
they wouldn't be where they are today.
It's such a rough world out there.
I paid $1,300 for their laptop
and someone stole it.
Who did?
So I bought them another one for $1,000.
You won't buy a 50-cent bowl of ramen,
but you got them another laptop for $1,000?
Then how else can they study?
- Who took it? / - Should've been more careful!
No! It's not her fault.
She left it in her locker and...
We're not scolding your granddaughter.
(Yeongja got yelled at)
My grandmother made a big decision
and got me the laptop when I got into college.
It's so heartbreaking.
I left it in my locker,
but it happens to be in a CCTV blind spot.
I never found out who took it.
JR, say something to the person who took
the laptop, even if it means you lose some fans.
(Out of the blue?)
You awful jerk.
I don't know what your life is like,
but it'll come back to haunt you someday.
Be careful.
Sunmi cussed very quietly.
(Refreshing)
Her boyfriend whom she relies on a lot
is here with us today.
Hello.
Hello.
He's so handsome.
He looks like a nice person.
Does your girlfriend rely on you a lot?
Since her brother is in the army,
she has no one else to rely on.
So she relies on me a lot.
When her grandmother works,
some people mistreat her.
She worries that her grandma would get harassed.
(Nod)
Some people mistreat your grandmother?
She also collects cans.
Some people drink their canned drinks
and throw the cans at her.
While saying, "You need these, right?"
What?
Some people tell her to leave because she's dirty.
Some people point fingers at her.
Whenever I see people mistreat her like that,
I ask, "Why work when you get treated this way?"
She says, "I'm not stealing.
I'm just cleaning up garbage
and selling it for money.
Don't be embarrassed by what I do."
It breaks my heart when she says that.
I respect my grandmother so much,
so it breaks my heart.
Sure. Your grandmother is a great person
and she deserves respect.
Do you also feel like
many people disregard her grandmother?
There is a man who also picks up waste.
He got in an argument with her grandmother
and then pushed her.
Her entire body was bruised and
she couldn't work for quite a while.
He's getting emotional, too.
He's so awesome. He's shedding tears.
There's a song.
♪ I even loved your pain ♪
He's such an awesome boyfriend.
Where exactly can you meet a guy like him?
(Hahaha)
Just tell me which area.
We only know where we to find great restaurants,
but not where to find great men.
We need to get information. Where?
- Gangdong. / - Gangdong-gu?
Gangdong-gu.
Aren't there many great restaurants there?
That's all I can think of right now.
When else were you surprised?
She almost got in a car accident
several times while working.
She works on the road sometimes.
There was a long crosswalk at night.
She was crossing it
and when she was halfway there, it turned red.
Sometimes cars whiz right by her.
Some cars honk at her.
It's so dangerous.
I was there
when a man said, "Crazy old hag.
Can you not see the light?"
One time, a drunk driver
crashed into her wagon.
My grandmother could've gotten hurt.
She almost got hurt.
There were many cases like that.
You might not have said this before,
but what's the toughest thing about your job?
People looking down on me.
- People looking down on you? / - Yes.
- People mistreating her. / - Mistreating her?
I would walk over to grab some boxes
and some people drag my wagon far away.
Why?
Just so that I can't work.
Some people are mean like that.
They are mean for no reason.
But I don't get in fights with them.
Your granddaughter doesn't want to
see you get mistreated by other people.
How do you want her to live then?
My grandmother loves to sing.
She would sing along to the radio.
She also like to play janggu.
She also wants to learn to read and write Korean.
She knows how to write her name,
but she never learned how to read or write.
So she wants to learn.
- She can. / - Right.
Two years ago, my grandmother and I went to
Chuncheon on a trip for the first time.
That was a great idea.
I begged her to go and she finally caved in.
We rode rail bikes.
She enjoyed it, right?
She thanked me for taking her on the trip.
How beautiful.
- She has lipstick on. / - She has makeup on.
- How cute. / - The rail bike.
- She has a facial mask on. / - Oh my.
How nice.
I am so happy to hear that.
What was the best thing about the trip?
She cooked breakfast for me
and woke me up to eat together.
(What a good granddaughter she is)
It must've been an unforgettable event.
I was very grateful.
We rode a rail bike
and she sang to me.
It was fun.
Your granddaughter said that
you like to sing and play janggu.
Why don't you go to a community center
and learn how to play janggu?
I will when I have free time.
- Right? / - Yes.
We brought a janggu for her.
Please perform a little for us.
(Unbelievable)
I will sing, too.
- Okay! / - She'll sing, too.
("Namhansanseong")
(Go, Grandma)
She's enjoying it.
Doesn't she look like a human cultural asset?
♪ I go up to Namhansanseong ♪
♪ And look down at the view ♪
How nice.
(A powerful voice)
She's good.
(Even a singer is surprised)
Yahoo.
You're doing well!
(A voice that's grown rich and deep with time)
(Scream!)
- That was good. / - She's so good!
That was awesome.
(Tee-hee)
She has a good rhythm.
- She's so good. / - You were the best!
- She was very good. / - The best!
How did it feel to play the janggu?
I sometimes play at home.
I play on turned-over bowls.
Because you don't own a janggu?
It's fun to do it.
Since you don't own a janggu,
we will give you one.
(You can do whatever you want)
(Have fun as you play the janggu)
What else would you like to do?
There's nothing else.
She majored in hotel management.
- Her major? / - Yes.
But she's currently working in a hospital.
- To earn money? / - Yes.
Let me tell you this, Grandma.
I earned money myself and paid my tuition.
It took longer, but I worked hard
and achieved my dream.
That's why it's more valuable to me.
Please don't try to do everything for her.
- Grandma! / - Yes?
You've done enough. You can stop now.
What would you like to tell your grandmother?
I don't know where my brother and I would be
if it weren't for you.
(Everyone can feel how the granddaughter feels)
Thanks to you,
we didn't go down the wrong path.
We grew up to be good people.
Please stop working
and travel around with me.
Let's buy matching shirts
and go on walks.
Live the rest of your life doing what you want.
Please promise us.
Let's do it!
"Don't cry! I will play the janggu at home
and learn Korean like you want me to."
She's crying.
Promise her that you'll stop working.
I'll stop.
(Yes, I'll stop)
She said that she'll stop.
(Relieved)
If you want me to, I'll quit.
How do you feel about learning Korean
from your granddaughter 30 minutes a day?
It sounds great, right?
That would be nice.
Her boyfriend can come and teach you, too.
That'd be even better.
Please keep your promise.
I was planning to rest
once you graduated college.
She's got it all planned. You can rest.
Let's just say she already graduated.
Boyfriend, take the mic from her.
Take it from her.
Keep her mic away from her.
Yoo Minsang.
From what I heard, I think it's a concern.
She still hasn't let go completely.
This is a never-ending tug-of-war.
It's a concern.
I think it's a concern, too.
I think it's a concern, too.
I think it's a concern, too.
I realized that the concerns I have are nothing
compared to the life she has lived.
I promised myself to live a fuller life.
Thank you and I love you, Grandma.
(Me too, Grandma)
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The last digit.
How many votes out of 200 did they get?
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