Good morning, how are you? So today we're going to talk about the ugly truth of
The blind spot number two and I want to tell you I'm sharing this over I'm going to tell you that
Why this is such a problem
This is one of the number one reasons that things are holding you back from having every single thing that you want
You I promise are
Hey Carla, I promise that what's going on for you is
This blind spot which is asking I'm just gonna say right now asking for permission all of the time
So whether you're joining me live whether you're joining me
you
Know in a replay welcome
Welcome welcome
and
I want to encourage you to think about this and if you know already that this is a problem if you already know that
You continue to?
You know ask people
For their opinion. I want you to share I want you to give me like thumbs up like high-five like you get it
you know a little bit of
lovin, so the reality is is when the more often we are asking permission from
people right
I used to ask have to yeah
Carla says she's have to ask for permission all the time the more often we are asking permission from people
the more often we are giving our power away and the blind spot comes in about our
Fear and our fear that we do not really trust ourselves
We don't really trust ourselves and in the comments in the description
When you share I will get back to you. And also I have a fear assessment tool
I want you to click on that and download that and really analyze where you're judging
Where your attitudes are where your fears are where your feelings are where your reactions are
because see the truth is is part of our blind spots and
This is the second blind spot. I will put a link in the other blind spot we talked about which is a
fear of judgment
Right. So this is the next layer of that fear of judgment asking for permission I call asking for
permission actually as
people-pleasing poison
It is
Poison when you are asking people, what do you think about this? And what do you think about that?
what do you think about this and
then you choose your
Behavior your follow-through your ideas your creativity your business your niche or this your that based on
all these other people in their opinion and the more that we do this the more that we undermine our
Esteem our worth all of these blind spots and all these fears that we're talking about
And again, I will link everything in the comments in the description
So make sure you give lots of loves and hugs and hearts and comments
when the more we do this
the more is the
Erosion of our esteem the erosion of our self-worth the erosion of the lake the big life that we really want to have
So what do we do when we look at people pleasing poison our asking for permission and how is this different than codependence?
You see some of these blind spots interferes you me not obviously bless. Alright, you might not even be aware of them
Or you may be very well aware of the fact that
You know you keep having to ask your mom your sister your cousin your brother now
I'm not talking about those of you who have hired consultants or coaches or
Legitimately you're asking professional people to assist you. I
Mean we all need some help. I'm not an expert in every single area. I don't know every single thing. I've taken cooking classes
I've done this I've been right but this is when it's that chronic
Need to look outside yourself
Look to other people. So how does this look like with codependence?
You see what happens frequently with women is we have this big dream
We have this big goal and we keep waiting to live it out
You know life is going by like that
we keep waiting to live it out because we keep testing the waters because our fear is is that that
Other people are going to be left behind. Our fear is other people aren't going to come with us our fear
is that
What we want is just so big we need to seek outside of ourselves to get a yes you go for it
Yes, you can do that. Yes, like be a badass
Yes be a powerhouse. Yes. Make a lot of money. Yes, was that way, whatever it is. Yes get that divorce
Yes, learn work/life balance. Yes. Go for a new business yet. We need to seek the yes from within
And so codependence is when we are tempering our behavior
Because of someone else's response we temper our behavior
Due to other people for other people's response, this is why I call it people-pleasing poison right? We're come
We're like really just putting our own needs. Our own ones desires feelings, etc. Aside for somebody else now
I know already
Alright that there's some of you who are moms that are like, well, you should never put yourself first, you know, okay
So I want you to think about this is it that you want to teach your children to?
Constantly be seeking others people's approval or are you wanting to teach your children to have to self-actualize?
To really like own what they want
Follow through on their desires their dreams their goals their mission and life their cravings their callings their longings
And you know what?
you can't teach what you don't know you can't role model this if you have an
Adopted Nisour yourself and this is why it's such a blind spot a lot of times
We think well Mary, I'm just asking somebody else because you know, I want to know well, what do they think about this?
Ok, of course
I'm not saying don't have friends don't get opinions occasionally
But there's a big difference between and I hear me, right? There's a big difference between
you know getting somebody's opinion and
Modifying your real knowing within based on that other person's opinion
You see sometimes let me give you some example
Let me give you one example really concretely, you know every now and again, I'll bounce something off my husband John and you know
What he says to me, he's like Mary
I'm not your ideal client and I'm like, yeah, I know sometimes I just want to talk. I don't actually want an opinion
I'm not seeking permission
Sometimes I just want it, you know, like hey, what do you think about that?
But there have been other times in my life
Where I was
In a horrible relationship and I lost myself. I lost my ability to figure things out myself
I lost my ability
To trust myself
I was so codependent on that person. It was so abusive
and you know
Sometimes we have these things happen in our lives as women and it takes a little get getting back in the game
It takes a little bit of trial and error to actually trust our own opinion our own self-worth our own steam our own
Confidence it takes a while to build this, but I'm telling you
This is a skill that you can build self confidence
And going for it and you know getting out of the way and stop dicking around and learn to make sure to happen
These are all skills that you can learn and you just actually forgot how because the life got in the way
so today the ugly truth about
people
asking for permission people-pleasing poison is it erodes your
Confidence in yourself. So today
Actually, I'm going to challenge you for the next several days. I want you to not ask
anyone for their opinion literally do not ask for
Their opinion and the opinions are how do I look does this look good? What do you think about this niche?
How much should I charge do you think this sounds good? I'm planning on saying this
Don't ask
Have been following me and thank you and you know, I always say like ask for what you want. This is not the same
There's a difference between asking for more money asking for the raise
asking to clean your shit up around and out of asking for your desire and
asking for permission
Asking for someone else's input because you are not sure of the answer
So today for the next couple of days I challenge you
Listen to yourself trust yourself
Don't ask anyone's permission
for anything
Let me know how that goes. Leave me a comment
I'll get back to each and every one of you and make sure that you're following me that you've subscribed
You've done all of those things to get notification and i'm looking forward to sharing the other
three blind spots again
I will link these all together in the comments as they
Are loaded so that you can make sure that you don't miss out on a single one
these all impact your life your business your relationships and
if you need a little more support get that, um
Assessment tool so that you can really it's a fear breakthrough workbook. You can go through it have it handy
I'll talk to you later. Enjoy the day
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Rey Mysterio Jokes About Canceled WWE Wrestlemania Plans to Side With Donald Trump - Duration: 1:47.
Hi Friends welcome to C4E Wrestling News Rey Mysterio Jokes About Canceled WWE Wrestlemania
Plans to Side With Donald Trump Donald Trump is a WWE Hall Of Famer and current President
of the United States Of America His policies are controversial but we won't get political
here This is all about Trump's role in WrestleMania 23 According to former WWE writer Court Bauer
Rey Mysterio was in line to be Donald Trump's choice to represent him in a hair vs hair
match at the show of shows Plans obviously changed but as Mysterio thought about this
concept he told Al Jazeera how interesting that choice would have been in retrospect
Mysterio said Imagine some of those images popping up at this time if I was that person
if WWE went with It would have been interesting to see those pictures floating around these
days Donald Trump with the Mexican-American wrestler Rey Mysterio WWE history has the
capability of changing all the time with every new decision the company makes It might not
have been that big of a deal at the time for Mr 6-1-9 to represent Donald Trump at WrestleMania
but the fact WWE picked Bobby Lashley instead means that Mysterio won't have to explain
himself in 2019 Friends what are your thought about this Have your say in the comments section
below
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Hardy Wraith (My favorite thing about Hardy Fly Rods ... Don't be too SURPRISED! 😆) - Duration: 4:49.
Hi it's Anni from Kajana Club -fly fishing community. Hardy Wraith.
Pretty cool name. That's my favorite thing about the fly rod at the moment.
Let's see if there's something else that I like about it.
That's my new Hardy Wraith.
Let's see what it does.
Ok.
Let's do a first test cast with the Wraith.
So. I had a funny idea for a video, that I would set up the rod, drive a bit and
do a test cast. And then make it seem so that I caught a fish pretty much on the
first cast. But then what happened? I caught a fish pretty much on the first cast.
sometimes reality is...
Hardy Wraith. Here goes.
Okay. It's winter and about half a year later than what you just saw.
I had to go to the garage and get the rod because as I said it's winter. But anyhow
as I was editing this episode I've realized that I the only thing I said in
the beginning let's see if there's anything else that I like about the rod
and then I didn't say anything. So if you are expecting very detailed fly rod review with
functions and and and details and technicalities and stuff don't this is
not the channel for that but what I did like about the rod it's very light it's
really good for casting mmm also maybe the the fly line is also much better
than what I had before that could be it eater and besides those things
This is the super detailed review of the Hardy Wraith fly rod. And still the
number one thing is the name I love it because that's my sense of humor that's
pretty cool name. That's it. More on the next episode.
Oh, and if you liked this video please click the like and share it with your fishing
buddies and make sure to subscribe to my channel thank you for watching and I'll
see you in the next episode
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RUSH LIMBAUGH RAISED EYEBROWS WITH ONE TRUTH BOMB ABOUT TRUMP - Duration: 5:30.
RUSH LIMBAUGH RAISED EYEBROWS WITH ONE TRUTH BOMB ABOUT TRUMP
Rush Limbaugh has a knack for understanding politics like no one else.
And this time, he jumped into the fray over President Trump's new emergency order to
secure the border.
What he said is raising eyebrows across the political spectrum.
President Donald Trump made headlines across the country this past week when he signaled
that he will be signing the recent compromise bill approved by Congress to fund just over
a billion dollars towards his proposed wall with Mexico.
However, Trump's agreement to the compromise bill wasn't the biggest piece of news.
Instead, the country latched onto the President's decision to declare a national emergency in
order to build the wall.
President Trump will now be drawing funds to construct his wall on the southern border
without having to grovel before Democrats in Congress to get funding.
But the decision hasn't come without controversy.
Across the political divide, there are a range of questions and opinions regarding President
Trump's bold move.
And Rush Limbaugh just decided to weigh in on the decision in a huge way.
Breitbart reports, "On this weekend's broadcast of "Fox News Sunday," nationally
syndicated conservative radio host Rush Limbaugh said President Donald Trump was right to declare
a national emergency on the U.S.-Mexico border to build a wall."
Limbaugh threw his support behind the President and declared that Trump's order was entirely
appropriate, considering the situation along the southern border is absolutely a national
emergency.
"We have an emergency.
This is an invasion.
The very existence and definition of American culture, American society, the rule of law,"
Limbaugh said.
"Why does nobody talk about the fact that millions and millions and millions of people
are breaking the law coming here illegally and that the Democrat Party wants that to
happen?"
In just two quick sentences, Limbaugh encapsulated the entire problem and boiled down to a simple
issue.
Trump didn't issue this order because he's interested in betraying the Constitution or
overstepping its bounds.
He issued the order because the United States cannot continue to allow an unchecked flow
of illegal migrants into the country.
Anyone who enters the country illegally has already broken the law.
And anyone who is willing to do so is most likely unwilling to assimilate into American
society and culture.
No nation can withstand an endless wave of people who share no bonds of familiarity or
kinship with the country they are moving into.
Immigration should be done by people who want to enter the country legally so they can become
American citizens and ultimately join the culture and society that has made up this
country.
And anyone who is unwilling to even follow that first step is exponentially unlikely
to want to follow through with the rest.
That is a recipe for disaster if left unaddressed.
Limbaugh added, "It is undeniable that we have a major immigration problem and a political
party that needs a permanent underclass of voters that wants that parade of illegal people
who are uneducated, don't even speak the language, they want them here.
It is a crisis."
Do you think the situation on the southern border is a crisis?
Let us know your thoughts in the comments section below.
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And now DreamWorks the Penguins of Madagascar
Cute and cuddly boys
So, please here you go Brad
Kuki have you discovered any science?
Walski hmm science new discoveries. Oh
Um, well yes, I've been experimenting with friends dimensional
I'm sorry. I'm sorry, but you can't rush smoke salmon puffs
They burn if you so much as look at them the wrong way the food isn't the problem Roger
That's the problem we're eating in a stinking sewer I know why no
Flushing does not a great dinner party make right. So I put on some show tunes. Yeah
Yes, something bold and prayer see a real 11 o'clock number
Reptile the sounds of the sewer are the least of our problems. Oh
I'm sorry guys, I've lived on here so long. I barely noticed the smell really. How do you get used to it?
Can't you can't get used to that? What are you insane? I
Buy a home. So why not leave many of your kind live quite comfortably in the South Florida area known as Gator alley. Oh,
I just got that
Alligator Gator. Yeah, we get it cool ski operation. See you later. Gator is a go
We'll need a large crate ten million Deutschmarks and a c-17 cargo jet on the runway in 15 minutes
I might need 30 minutes on the chest buster. They can jeopardize the whole mission. Whoa
Times Square you
Can't ask me to give up on my dream of singing at the Great White Way
No, I would rather live in the worst sewer in the Big Apple than in the best swamp in all of Florida
I hear you brother. Is that the heat it's the humidity
Okay, so I'll just stay put down here in this sewer on the banks of this raging river of Phil
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Josh Hazlewood exposes massive truth about Steve Smith and David Warner bans - Duration: 3:00.
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Malia Obama's secret Facebook account reveals her feelings about Trump - Duration: 3:00.
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RUSH LIMBAUGH SAID FOUR WORDS ABOUT TRUMP NO ONE EVER THOUGHT THEY WOULD HEAR - Duration: 6:38.
RUSH LIMBAUGH SAID FOUR WORDS ABOUT TRUMP NO ONE EVER THOUGHT THEY WOULD HEAR
Rush Limbaugh just made major news.
The top-rated talk show host confessed to a surprising truth about the President.
And Limbaugh said four words about Donald Trump that no one ever thought they would
hear.
Limbaugh made a special appearance on Fox News Sunday for an interview with host Chris
Wallace.
Like many in the media, Wallace believes Limbaugh and other conservative media figures are puppeteers
pulling Trump's strings.
During the government shutdown, many in the press – as well as in the Democrat Party
– accused Limbaugh of being the mastermind behind the government shutdown.
They claimed Trump was going to sign a compromise bill, but then Limbaugh pitched a fit on his
radio show and Trump cowered in fear of a conservative media backlash.
Limbaugh took this obvious fake news head-on during the interview.
"If these people in the media, Chris, really thought that I was telling Trump what to do
and when, they'd be calling me, they'd be asking me about it, they'd want to get
down to the dirty details," Limbaugh declared.
Limbaugh continued picking apart the so-called "mainstream" media lie that Trump was
nothing more than a stooge who sat around not knowing up from down unless Rush Limbaugh
or Sean Hannity weighed in.
Republican Presidents constantly face media insults about their intellect.
Even though Dwight D. Eisenhower oversaw the D-Day invasion, the liberal reporters at the
time considered him a fool.
Fake news reporters in the 1980s smeared Ronald Reagan as an "amiable dunce."
Today, alleged "journalists" paint a picture of Donald Trump as a couch potato who consumes
Fox News and talk radio to figure out what he's supposed to think on any given issues.
"People don't really believe what they're saying about this," the top-rated conservative
talk show host continued.
"It's just another effort to continue to try to diminish the president, diminish
Trump, as somebody who doesn't know what he's doing, can't do it without guidance
from the so-called wacko right."
Limbaugh flat out told Chris Wallace that he himself has no influence over White House
policy.
"It's not at all the way he's governing, and there isn't anybody doing what I do
that has a thing to do with actually making policy for this president," he said.
"He cares about what everybody thinks, but I don't make policy."
Trump has praised Limbaugh for having millions of listeners.
So if anyone holds the ability to push policy in any given direction, it is the American
people.
Limbaugh's program gives an outlet for concerned citizens to make their voices heard.
And politicians should be responsive to the concerns of their constituents.
Unlike other Republican Presidents – such as George H.W. Bush and George W. Bush – Donald
Trump actually cares what his base thinks.
The Bushes would lie to voters about their commitment to conservative principles on the
campaign trail and then govern like liberal Democrats once in office.
Trump keeps his finger on the pulse of his base.
Fake news reporters – looking for a way to attack the President without looking like
they are smearing the voters – cast the President as a windup doll for conservative
media.
But it's a lie that Trump supporters easily see through.
Do you agree that the media unfairly attacks President Trump as a puppet of conservative
talk shows hosts?
Let us know your thoughts in the comment section.
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you vs the guys she told you not to worry about (earrape warning) - Duration: 0:27.
Sonic: What a pieceful p-
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~WAAAAYYYYAAAYYYY~
rip
K: Prepare your anus.
~it~
~doESn'T~
AHHHH
There he goes
oh
We did it we stopped racism
THEREHEIS
Im too fat, gonna die.
let's all kill ourselves
ok
~I WILL RUN AWAY FROM ALLLLLLL of my FRIGHTS~
Y E E T
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Kamala Harris is caught off guard when probed about previous tweet on actor Jussie Smollett - Duration: 3:37.
Democratic presidential candidate Senator Kamala Harris appeared to be taken aback when she was probed about the latest allegations facing Empire star's Jussie Smollett's orchestrated attack
During a visit to a bookstore in Concord, New Hampshire, the senator from California was asked by a reporter to comment on a tweet made on January 29 about Mr Smollett's alleged assault which she called 'a modern day lynching
' The alleged attack saw two men hurl racist and homophobic abuse at the actor, who is black and openly gay, as he returned to his Chicago apartment
Police later arrested two Nigerian brothers but released them without charged.However nearly a month from the star's alleged attack, law enforcement sources in Chicago told CNN that Mr Smollett may have paid two stooges to carry out the assault
Smollett has strenuously denied any claims that he played a role in the attack.Following the attack the senator took to Twitter to write: 'Jussie Smollett is one of the kindest, most gentle human beings I know
I'm praying for his quick recovery.'This was an attempted modern day lynching.No one should have to fear for their life because of their sexuality or color of their skin
We must confront this hate.' However the recent revelations about an alleged rehearsed attack have now left the senator having to address her comments
When probed about her tweet Senator Harris said: 'Which tweet? What tweet?' She went on to say: 'OK, so, I will say this about that case
'I think that the facts are still unfolding, and, I'm very concerned about obviously, the initial, allegation that he made about what might have happened
'And it's something we should all take seriously whenever anyone alleges that kind of behavior, but there should be an investigation
'And I think that once the investigation has concluded then we can all comment, but I'm not going to comment until I know the outcome of the investigation
' Following the senator's response Chair of the Republican National Committee Ronna McDaniel tweeted: 'Now that she has the facts, why can't she even remember her divisive language? Why is she giggling about it?' The Chicago Police Department have declined to confirm reports of an orchestrated attack
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