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What OT Can Do For You : Learning Work Skills - Duration: 1:01.
I have a chronic illness that put me in a deep
depression, so that brought me to a whole new
understanding of life.
You ever make cookies before, or you started doing it when you
came here?
I start making them when I came here.
Yeah.
What makes OT a little bit different?
What's something that you like?
You give us the opportunity to say how we feel, what we feel.
To go out, go to meetings.
You know, cook in the kitchen.
I love saying that, cook in the kitchen.
What's always been the most important is seeing them
progress, and know the things that we've done here are helping them get their
lives back.
I'm proud that I could say this is home.
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TAYLOR SWIFT -- Create an Animatronic -- Look What You Made Me Do Parody CAS OC - Duration: 10:48.
Hi everybody. I'm Paula and I am an animatronic world that is XX luna moon
queen x AK and she says hello okay well i am going to try to create an
animatronic and again this is roblox animatronic world and they have an
awesome place back here where you can create your own animatronic but guess
what i want to do i want to do a create an animatronic and i want to do taylor
swift yes because what did she be beautiful as an animatronic so let's go
see if we can make Taylor Swift because certainly we can make our look really
beautiful and what should we start with well we got to ride this because
everybody rides this yes ok what do we start with for Taylor Swift okay this is
gonna be a hard one for me because I want her to kind of look pretty I mean I
know she's gonna be an animatronic okay and we can only work with so many things
wait that is a beautiful blue fidget over there look at that okay what am I
even doing okay Taylor what are you gonna start with or should we say tape a
and look what you made me do that that is what I'm saying look what you made me
do I don't know why but that song gets
stuck in my head like you have no idea okay let's see Taylor why can we start
with oh my gosh well look at that oh you're beautiful
yes okay shall we make her striped no because we have to start fresh with no
color and no I'm not gonna make her a pig I have no idea what to make her I
should have thought of this before I get it how about an owl that makes no sense
I know well goat squirrel we could make her a squirrel okay let's make her a
squirrel Taylor Swift is going to be a squirrel with a little fluffy tail and
it doesn't even look like a squirrel does it no it doesn't
can we put a dress on her let's see if there's dresses where do you find
dresses and well I guess we got to color her
body what should we make I said she has blonde hair whoa whoa I'm going to make
her body yellow that sounds good like a chicken yeah yellow like tika child no
we're not a child stop we are not a child we are an adult
let's get over here oh boy is that the body color entered my gosh I do this
every time what is this over here body color okay what color should Taylor
Swift be I mean she could be pink yeah but that doesn't make any sense
so let's make her this color it's kind of yellow I mean it's yellow right
that's yellow and I see her chest plate is a different color hi hello fidgety
you're pretty yes you are I love that color blue that is absolutely gorgeous
okay now I looked it up and her eyes are blue yes Taylor Swift's eyes are blue so
we have to go blue I don't know what color blue yeah that bus blue let's see
which one looks best for that let's go bright bright blue okay now that is
cheeks color do we have cheeks no we don't we can put cheeks on can't wait
can I do lipstick I want to do lipstick because she wears really bright red
lipstick okay material no we don't need that okay what is this oh I could tell
this is gonna be beautiful secondary body color okay I am gonna
make that red because we're gonna pretend like she has lipstick on how's
that and I need cheeks wait first let's try
to find cheeks where do you find cheeks eyelashes oh my gosh I can't get
eyelashes let's get eyelashes all those are cute look she has a little eyelashes
of course Taylor Swift would have eyelashes right oh of course that just
makes sense okay where's the chest fur I don't think she has that Oh toy cheeks
they're red well that that's okay that's okay
she has toyed cheeks I want to give her lipstick but I guess we can do secondary
color and that could be red get your butter movement just get it move it oh
look at the little first and that is a little boy and what is that pink a
little bit tail oh my gosh this epic tale that's huge
okay so secondary body color let's go red because that's gonna be beautiful
and it's gonna give her oh she has a red outfit and red on her tail beautiful oh
you're pretty look at that you are so pretty this person here has no idea I'm
trying to make Taylor Swift and if they knew they would just be like oh my gosh
that's terrible okay what about paw pads what are these
I don't know what those do at all look look at the bottom of my feet all those
adorbs look at that oh gosh I am sold on the fall pads
those are just cute okay what about a bunny tail we could give her a bunny
cowl although it probably just stuck it on top of my tail it did look it's just
stuck there okay never mind that was stupid
unibrow no I don't want to give her cute eyes cute eyes could they still be blue
though I'm afraid to change them okay well we need a dress where do you find
dresses because Taylor Swift needs a dress and she needs beautiful hair
because everybody knows that Taylor Swift has beautiful hair and why is that
red not really red on my chest and the supposed to be her lips look it's not
even red I am so let down we have to go back did well stop we have to wait no
okay I can do this okay
secondary collar I want bright red much better okay I don't know why I thought
why does it still look dark on my tail no I want bright red on my tail too it's
not gonna do my tail very good okay but we have those little feet look at those
feet those are adorbs okay we need clothing clothing that's
what we need and we need a little dress because Taylor Swift needs a dress she
can't not have a dress seriously and it would be nice if we can have a nice
dress and there's no dress what hey how's this even possible
shoes color pants color where's the dress didn't there used to be a dress is
this all there is too close this is it
okay well Taylor I guess you're gonna get a t-shirt and pants how's that oh
that's beautiful what can we change into something else
oh we're just probably but nevermind just forget it
wait remove clothes oh my gosh I'm naked no wait what where is the dress I have a
so let down by this I wanted a dress what's back here
okay hair we can't get a dress what can we get beautiful long luxurious hair
baby's hair wait huh oh my gosh okay so um hair
color no this is like baby Taylor Swift and her hair color is blonde is
seriously blond right and all this beautiful look at that oh my goodness
Taylor Swift she is she just is cute and she I mean it doesn't look at all like
Taylor Swift but who knows okay well this this is her but we need
clothes she can't go run naked okay gosh and there's no dress okay this is
beautiful okay well what is this
Oh oh my what take that off how do you get that off remove clothes get that off
that's terrible my gosh oh okay well she can just show everybody her support of
animatronic world that's it right here Taylor Swift supports animal Tripp
animal tronic world what animatronic world what is wrong with me okay well
there you have it guys oh she needs pin looks like no pants or
pants did I miss pants shorts
okay we need shorts they're little shorts there you go look look at those
feet again that's just adorable isn't it okay well there you have it that is
Taylor Swift and I know it's a disaster it is seriously a disaster it doesn't
look at all like her and oh my gosh guys let's go time anyway guys I am gonna go
you have fun and you need to come and play roblox animatronic world because it
is the neatest five nights at freddys place I have ever seen I just love it
and their sister location find nights at freddys and find ice at Freddy's 1 2 3 4
5 6 7 8 9 10 yeah I know that does it go up that high but it's really cold but
anyway there you have it Taylor Swift and pinky that that one over there is
pinky and isn't she cute so anyway I will talk to you later you have fun bye
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Aquila, Food Truck Manager and Chef part 1 - What I do and how much I make - Duration: 4:10.
My name is Aquila, I am 27 years old.
I am the food truck operations manager
as well as the general manager
for Jamaica Mi Hungry, and my salary is variable.
So Jamaica Mi Hungry is a food truck and catering company.
We also have a restaurant.
We started off in 2012 as just a personal chef
and small party events company.
We got our first truck on the road 2015.
Opened up our first restaurant in 2016, and now we're here.
We have two trucks, two food trucks,
a catering van, a restaurant, and we're working
on growing and expanding some more.
Jamaica Mi Hungry, our food style
is Jamaican cuisine with a little bit of a twist.
The twist is pretty much all the crazy, imaginative,
fun things that came from our chef Ernie's head,
(laughs)
mixed with some of our just creativity and fun.
So my current role here at Jamaica Mi Hungry,
I am really pretty much in charge
of running the food truck itself.
So making sure that we have what we need on the food truck,
everything from the paper supplies to the food.
Making sure that we have staffing for the truck,
knowing where the truck is going, how to get it there,
making sure the truck is always clean inside and out.
Managing the staff, putting together the schedules,
scheduling our prep time in the kitchen,
ordering food that we need to have done for prep.
Coming here to cook the food, which I do
a little bit less of that now because I'm trying
to really grab a hold on the trucks,
and of course driving the trucks.
So my job is to take the trucks out
and make sure that they're not getting scratched
and crashed, and nobody's getting hit.
(laughs)
Also once we pull up on the location, I serve the food.
I make sure that our customers are super happy all the time.
I kind of take the lead on making sure
that our customers are just getting
the customer interaction piece going,
making sure that the customers are aware of who we are,
making sure we know who our customers are.
We've had customers that have been following us on the truck
for the past two years, and they come every day.
Making sure that I know what they have
so I don't even have to let them ask for it.
I'm like, "all right, I see you, gotcha."
(laughs)
The most difficult part of my job
is probably how physically demanding it is.
We are up on our feet all day,
which doesn't really bother me
but other than that, I do love it.
We were without a website for a little while
because we had one that was built
a while ago and it wasn't working.
So I took some time over the winter when it was kind of slow
and I just hopped on a website and just really
forced myself to sit there and learn how to build one.
Last year, it was like, I don't know.
A week seemed to be like 14 to 15 days before it ever ended.
My salary is very variable and a big part of that reason
is that I'm so invested in the business
and making sure that the business is always successful.
When I first started working with the company full time,
we were teeny, teeny tiny and now we're growing
to be this huge thing. We just want to make sure
that we're able to maintain that, so we're able
to maintain the lifestyle and the job that we have.
So over the winter time for example,
this past winter we did-- or actually this past summer
we did a lot of investing in opening up the restaurant,
getting lots of things done there.
So over the winter time it was a crunch.
The trucks are not going out as much,
not making as much money. A lot of people--
Not as many people want to come out in the snow
or in cold weather to get food from the food truck.
So the sacrifice was made in terms of the salary
to make sure that the food truck can keep running
so that we can come back and get a salary
in the summer time. (laughs)
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BMW G 310 GS | Everyday Adventures: Episode #2 Do something you've never done before - Duration: 1:25.
You've just got this one life. But it's a journey I'm in.
Everyone is just trying… trying to get through it. Make sure it's not boring and it's not wasted as well.
There is a certain sensation about riding motorcycles that I find synergies with a lot of other things that I do.
I'm away every weekend in a different part in South Africa – meeting new people, like experiencing new places and new sounds.
It's almost as though when I'm on a bike or even on a surfboard, like I see the lines in front of me.
And one thing links into the next.
It's just me and whatever is around me.
That sensation is… it's awesome.
And I love that journey and that is part of my life, you know.
You get to do what you love and you get to be what you're want to be.
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BBC 6 Minute English - What can't computers do? - Duration: 6:19.
Welcome to 6 Minute English, where we bring you an intelligent topic and six related items
of vocabulary.
I'm Neil.
And I'm Tim.
And today we're talking about AI – or Artificial Intelligence.
Artificial Intelligence is the ability of machines to copy human intelligent behaviour
– for example, an intelligent machine can learn from its own mistakes, and make decisions
based on what's happened in the past.
There's a lot of talk about AI these days, Neil, but it's still just science fiction,
isn't it?
That's not true – AI is everywhere.
Machine thinking is in our homes, offices, schools and hospitals.
Computer algorithms are helping us drive our cars.
They're diagnosing what's wrong with us in hospitals.
They're marking student essays…
They're telling us what to read on our smartphones…
Well, that really does sound like science fiction – but it's happening already,
you say, Neil?
It's definitely happening, Tim.
And an algorithm, by the way, is a set of steps a computer follows in order to solve
a problem.
So can you tell me what was the name of the computer which famously beat world chess champion
Garry Kasparov using algorithms in 1997?
Was it… a) Hal,
b) Alpha 60 or c) Deep Blue?
I'll say Deep Blue.
Although I'm just guessing.
Was it an educated guess, Tim?
I know a bit about chess…
An educated guess is based on knowledge and experience and is therefore likely to be correct.
Well, we'll find out later on how educated your guess was in this case, Tim!
Indeed.
But getting back to AI and what machines can do – are they any good at solving real-life
problems?
Computers think in zeros and ones don't they?
That sounds like a pretty limited language when it comes to life experience!
You would be surprised to what those zeroes and ones can do, Tim.
Although you're right that AI does have its limitations at the moment.
And if something has limitations there's a limit on what it can do or how good it can
be.
OK – well now might be a good time to listen to Zoubin Bharhramani, Professor of Information
Engineering at the University of Cambridge and deputy director of the Leverhulme Centre
for the Future of Intelligence.
He's talking about what limitations AI has at the moment.
I think it's very interesting how many of the things that we take for granted – we
humans take for granted – as being sort of things we don't even think about like
how do we walk, how do we reach, how do we recognize our mother.
You know, all these things.
When you start to think how to implement them on a computer, you realize that it's those
things that are incredibly difficult to get computers to do, and that's where the current
cutting edge of research is.
If we take something for granted we don't realise how important something is.
You sometimes take me for granted, I think, Neil.
No – I never take you for granted, Tim!
You're far too important for that!
Good to hear!
So things we take for granted are doing every day tasks like walking, picking something
up, or recognizing somebody.
We implement – or perform – these things without thinking – Whereas it's cutting
edge research to try and program a machine to do them.
Cutting edge means very new and advanced.
It's interesting isn't it, that over ten years ago a computer beat a chess grand master
– but the same computer would find it incredibly difficult to pick up a chess piece.
I know.
It's very strange.
But now you've reminded me that we need the answer to today's question.
Which was: What was the name of the computer who famously beat world chess champion Garry
Kasparov in 1997?
Now, you said Deep Blue, Tim, and … that was the right answer!
You see, my educated guess was based on knowledge and experience!
Or maybe you were just lucky.
So, the IBM supercomputer Deep Blue played against US world chess champion Garry Kasparov
in two chess matches.
The first match was played in Philadelphia in 1996 and was won by Kasparov.
The second was played in New York City in 1997 and won by Deep Blue.
The 1997 match was the first defeat of a reigning world chess champion by a computer under tournament
conditions.
Let's go through the words we learned today.
First up was 'artificial intelligence' or AI – the ability of machines to copy
human intelligent behaviour.
"There are AI programs that can write poetry."
Do you have any examples you can recite?
Afraid I don't!
Number two – an algorithm is a set of steps a computer follows in order to solve a problem.
For example, "Google changes its search algorithm hundreds of times every year."
The adjective is algorithmic – for example, "Google has made many algorithmic changes."
Number three – if something has 'limitations' – there's a limit on what it can do or
how good it can be.
"Our show has certain limitations – for example, it's only six minutes long!"
That's right – there's only time to present six vocabulary items.
Short but sweet!
And very intelligent, too.
OK, the next item is 'take something for granted' – which is when we don't realise
how important something is.
"We take our smart phones for granted these days – but before 1995 hardly anyone owned
one."
Number five – 'to implement' – means to perform a task, or take action.
"Neil implemented some changes to the show."
The final item is 'cutting edge' – new and advanced – "This software is cutting
edge."
"The software uses cutting edge technology."
OK – that's all we have time for on today's cutting edge show.
But please check out our Instagram, Twitter, Facebook and YouTube pages.
Bye-bye!
Goodbye!
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WHAT WOULD BRUCE WILLIS DO!? How To Have Tough Conversations - Duration: 18:46.
So in my early entrepreneurial days I had started this newsletter or newspaper
around personal development essentially I wanted something positive for people
up there that they could read that isn't doom and gloom and all the sort of
negative news and hysteria and all that sort of stuff and so in this process I
learned a lot about myself and about people and I remember distinctly this
one story where I was meeting with I want to say a gentleman but he was more
like a piece of garbage so I was meeting with this piece of garbage and the
meeting was set up on the pretext of them buying advertising in the paper I
didn't know a lot about what they were doing kind of what their interest was
but I had met someone who worked for him at this networking event and she had
said you know your paper sounds great it's perfect for us why don't you come
and meet with me and the owner and we'll just essentially finalize the details
that's at least how it felt like to me that is not exactly how it happened so a
couple things happened here I was going to this meeting and in true young ENFP
fashion I was late so I actually I got their own time but I was running there I
had a winter coat on so by the time I got there I was sweating I was stressed
I was anxious not a good start and one of the things I'm going to talk about
later in this video is the importance of planning when it comes to talking about
money negotiations charging clients all that
sort of stuff so I get to this meeting and I'm already sort of stressed just
from being late there and we get into the conversation and very quickly he
takes charge it turns out one of the things he taught was a negotiation and
not in like a nice both people win way that I might but in a how to steal
people's homes when they're going broke you know how to take advantage of people
sort of negotiation I didn't know that at the time I learnt it quite quickly so
we're going through our meeting and basically he asks a lot of questions
that bring me down highlight that insecurity I had right putting me in a
state where I was feeling more and more nervous about my business more and more
insecure and and he switched it around where
basically he proposed that he would get free not Artic not sorry
advertisements but he would get free articles in the paper so he would write
articles that would be essentially self promotional and put those in the paper
and then maybe maybe if they got a lot of results he might look to spend some
money and advertise and in this state I was so uncomfortable with being
uncomfortable with confrontation with negotiation and I was feeling such so
low in that state that I actually went along with it and I left that meeting
and I felt really bad like right as I was walking home from this meeting I was
feeling pretty terrible and I was thinking about it
and I realized you know what it basically happened that I had totally
given away part of my business essentially that I'd been taken
advantage of and it was my own fault because of how I took myself into that
meeting and that may be a feeling that you're familiar with it may be something
that you're trying to avoid but I want to go through some of my lessons from
that meeting but more generally talk about money like how do you talk about
money with your clients how do you deal with difficult conversations and that
feeling that maybe you're not worth what you are worth where you're uncomfortable
with charging the right amount or getting money for your services and just
go into all that so it's gonna be a bit of a longer video but I'm gonna try to
make it as comprehensive as possible and so it will cover everything you need to
know to address this area of your life and business and of course if this is a
problem for you in your business then I think it's probably worth spending 20-30
minutes here to get it dealt with because that will have a huge positive
impact for you so when it comes to issues talking about
money there's different opinions on why we have it you know you go to a
therapist and they probably say well as a child you might have seen your mother
giving the mailman some money and those caused some issues for you right you
might hear some personal development speakers talk about it's because you
don't value yourself enough and you should just charge $20,000 for
everything you do no matter what because you're the best
I don't think either of those approaches are that helpful the therapy approach of
looking at her childhood sure that's probably related to it but not that
helpful really to reflect on it at this point and the personal development
approach of just charge a buttload of money in my own experience it doesn't
work that well because on an unconscious level you don't really believe it yet or
what happens is you end up charging way more than you should and you're not
actually providing enough value so in the economy of things that doesn't work
out well for your business right because ultimately what you should aim for when
you're charging is the right amount of value for what you're giving your client
so if you're good at what you do you're delivering good results you should be
charging a lot not an insane amount but you should be charging roughly the fair
amount maybe the fair amount plus 20% extra you know for your hard work and so
that's the goal of where we want to get my theory is one of the main problems
that holds back a lot of people especially my wonderful YouTube fans
here is around discomfort with confrontation is around avoiding
difficult conversations that ultimately comes down to what motivates us and
you're a really empathetic person you can feel that vibe in a conversation of
a difficult question or difficult topics and if you're like on the myers-briggs
personality type if you're in an f-type you probably have a very high sense of
empathy and you can read a room very well right so you know that it's a bit
uncomfortable to maybe address money or do this and if you're pushing someone in
a certain way so asking for money for instance your sense of empathy might
actually mess with you there where it makes it uncomfortable and that makes
you uncomfortable so you just avoid the whole conversation which is cool until
you're homeless and having to go back to some crummy job or something like that
it's better to deal with that issue and get comfortable getting paid the funny
thing is is most people in business do not have this discomfort so if it's
something where you're uncomfortable with it actually creates
more problems it leads to not discussing a money issue when you should which will
lead to you maybe resent in your client or delivering subpar work because you
feel like you're being underpaid and then you're delivering worse work so why
would anyone ever pay you more be you know you can see where this goes right
there's a few practical steps you can take
ultimately dealing with uncomfort and just getting used to talking about money
I think is the solution here because it becomes like a muscle you build it you
get used to it it becomes easier and easier first thing that you can do with
this you know in the movies I've recently been watching this show Burn
Notice it's like my weird it's a ten year old or five year old show that I
just picked up and I watch when I want to watch something and they explain a
lot about the spy world for you and one of the things they explain is if you're
dealing with a transfer so for instance you're negotiating a kidnapping with
someone or you're bringing them the package and they're bringing you the
money you want to have ideally control of the location the meet point and you
also want to scout it out first get there ahead of time know all the entry
entrances the exits are there gonna be people around figure all that out you
want to control where things go down well the same thing is going to apply
with negotiating with clients right so if you are really uncomfortable talking
on the phone about money you know talking face-to-face that's something we
want to deal with them we're gonna get to those in the later bits of advice
here but initially then to help you control where you do that negotiation
when you're on a consultation call and you should always get on the phone with
people don't do business by just email but on that call say hey I don't I don't
go into the details of pricing on this call I take my notes I step away and I
figure out the right amount for the project and then I'll send you a
proposal by email that way you can step away and you don't have to fight that
discomfort head-on if you are someone who has a lot of trouble with dealing
with you know talk about money that kind of thing
then at least it's what I've even found with myself
in the past is I would actually lower my price like I would go into a sales
meeting and think okay I will charge $3,000 for this and then I would feel my
nerves co during the call and I might say it's $2,000 and just like what did i
do why did I just randomly drop it it was because I wasn't comfortable with
that discomfort and with that conversation so find the location
basically take control of where the meeting will happen and where you will
plan or start where you will bring up price and that will give you a lot more
power to be comfortable with it same thing goes in general to taking charge
of the sales process so if you just get on a call with a potential client and
say hey like what's up what are we doing they're gonna say how much you charge
how much does it cost blah blah blah and you're gonna get into
that awkward conversation if you take charge so you get on the call and you
say alright great so we have about 45 minutes here what I like to do in these
first meetings is get to know you really well as a client so can I ask you a few
questions about your business and get to know you better
and they'll say sure then you lead the way you run that interaction and you
don't have to worry about it being taken into areas where you're not yet
comfortable second thing here is to step away so this is most relevant in person
if you're dealing with this but it can also apply on a Skype call or a phone
call I've had meetings like this I told the story earlier right about this
really uncomfortable meeting what I should have done is said hey I just got
to run to the washroom and go to the washroom and get my head on straight
right you go you do a little pump up speech for yourself maybe you just shake
it out a little when we get in the state of like nervousness and anxiety it
changes how we can think it changes our bodies and stepping away just for a
minute if you're on a Skype call with the client say hey I just need to go
grab a glass of water or you know use the bathroom whatever you want to say it
that's your decision do that step aside to the other room
move your body a lot shake it out refocus on your plan
come back so being okay to step away and having that plant say to yourself before
the meeting okay if I start feeling really anxious now I'm going to say I
need to go get some water and step away and then come back refreshed and
refocused and have that plan before you go into the call because once you're
feeling all nervous and awkward about it you're not going to have sort of the
capacity in terms of your thoughts to actually think to step away third thing
is being comfortable with confrontation being comfortable with asking for what
you want it's a muscle like so many things in how we behave right it's a
pattern we get used to so if every time in your life when you've had a
confrontation maybe it's from having an overbearing parent maybe it's from you
know being bullied in school where if you stood up like you've got used to not
standing up for yourself that's got wired into your brain and there's a
cliche in the self-help world but it's actually one of those true cliches which
is how you do anything is how you do everything and so if you have this
pattern in your life of avoiding confrontation that pattern is going to
keep showing up and so changing that one way to do it is through fun and awkward
activities that you can do to basically get more comfortable being uncomfortable
the 4-hour workweek Tim Ferriss book addresses this I think he has four or
five comfort challenges and it's funny because it's a business book primarily
it's kind of a business and change your life type book yet it works in these
different activities and I think that's because he knows that if you're not
comfortable having difficult conversations and having these kind of
tough things like with your boss or with clients or whatever it is then none of
the advice matters right he can tell you or I can tell you okay this is how you
negotiate this is how you price your services this is what you should be
offering your clients but if you're not okay doing that because you're scared
say no or you're scared you'll offend them or you don't even know what you're
scared of you just feel really nervous and uncomfortable about it then none of
the other stuff matters right so a few activities you can do for this one that
I like is to go into well it could be a Starbucks or something
Starbucks is the best because they have ridiculous customer service so they can
never say no to you basically practice so there's two things you can do with it
one is complain about your beverage or your food now I wouldn't recommend doing
this just for no reason so make it a point that if you're actually not happy
you will always complain make that a rule for yourself to basically stand up
for yourself the other thing that I like the thought of to do is go to a
restaurant somewhere and make it like you're tipping so let's say the bill is
four dollars and seventy cents give them five dollars and say thank you and most
countries most cultures they will accept that as a tip they will take that 30
cents then go back to them and ask for your 30 cents back awkward right it's
gonna be uncomfortable right exactly if you can do that you'll be able to
talk about money with your clients there's more activities on this if
there's interest share your ideas for this below there's a bunch of others one
from the 4-hour workweek is to go into like a coffee shop and just lie on the
floor for one minute make it clear you're not dead like have
your eyes open so just lie there and if people ask what are you doing just
feeling nothing just lying here other things to do would be like to maintain
eye contact so you know when you're walking down the street and you see a
stranger you never be the first person to break the eye contact and you don't
have to take these for your whole life try it for 24 or 48 hours if I think of
some more I'll share them below in the comments as well but the point of these
is just to get used to having that uncomfortable conversation right in ways
that are in situations that do matter you know the tipping thing I said
you can always go back and give them the tip after if you want right you don't
have to take it and then you might be saying yourself well I'm so worried
about my reputation well then go back and tip them again after get your 30
cents go back to minutes later and give them a dollar and say sorry I just
needed that change for parking whatever it's getting comfortable with the
conversation the more you can do it in other parts of your life the more it
will be easy for you in the business side of things in dealing with clients
negotiations all that now you might have noticed at a few points me wearing this
wristband here rubber band and wondered about it and let me take you back
because this actually relates the story I told earlier about this meeting so
after that meeting with the client we got I went home and I was talking to my
roommate or flatmate at the time person I shared an apartment with and he you
know we're talking about it and how I was basically feeling like I got pushed
around and stuff and he said to me out of the blue you know what would Bruce
Willis do that is a good question and at the time there was this I don't
know if it was a phase or fad or whatever it was of people having what
would Jesus do bracelets and as much as Jesus could be a great role model for
many people there are times when you might find yourself trapped in an
airport trapped in a high-rise building with an unidentified number of vaguely
Eastern European terrors or perhaps in a business meeting with someone who's a
bit of an ass and trying to push you around and in those moments you don't
really want to be walking on water you got to be walking on glass it's not
about turning water into wine it's about turning some homemade chemicals into
explosives you can use to defeat the terrors and in that case this is where
what would Bruce Willis do come in and this I've had for about a decade now and
it is served as a reminder to stand up for myself in those kind of situations
and so I will do another video about role models and this concept from NLP
called modeling and how you can use that with your business as well
but quickly here that's where this came from is remembering you know what would
someone who stands up for themselves it doesn't take any garbage from anyone
what would they do and you know what would Bruce Willis do so the next time
you find yourself in a meeting this is the last tip of the video the next time
you find yourself in a meeting maybe being pushed around or maybe
you're not even being pushed around but you're feeling insecure you're not
standing up for yourself ask yourself what would Bruce Willis do thanks for
watching be sure to subscribe to the channel to catch more videos as I said
I'm now publishing less frequency less frequently about twice a week but longer
more comprehensive videos that I think can be a really great addition to your
educational library and contribute to your success thanks for watching this
Bart catch you in the next one
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25 Uncomfortable Things You Need To Do If You Don't Want To Regret Your 20s - Duration: 6:30.
25 Uncomfortable Things You Need To Do If You Don't Want To Regret Your 20s
1.
Have the courage to say when something isn't working.
2.
Have the courage to commit when something is.
3.
Take a look at yourself and ask: If I stopped growing tomorrow, is this the person I would want to be for the rest of
my life?
4.
Decide what doesn't matter, so you can invest your time and money into what does.
5.
Think regularly about how you would live your life if social media didn't exist,
if you weren't documenting your every move, or if you didn't have glossy, edited pictures to compare yourself to.
6.
Stop overreacting.
7.
Have something to talk about that isn't other people, and your judgments of them.
8.
Stop worrying about inane things like whether or not you are "fat." Nobody will be at your funeral blessing your life
because you maintained one pant size.
How you look is not an accomplishment.
9.
Ask questions about other people more than you make statements about yourself.
10.
Stop trying to have the most nuanced, complex opinions more than you try to be the kindest,
most empathetic person you know.
11.
Cut yourself some slack.
One of the biggest regrets most people have about their 20s is that they didn't enjoy them more.
And I'm not talking about "buy more expensive dinners, take another trip to Thailand" type of enjoyment.
I mean having the ability to take a deep breath and sip coffee in the morning knowing that you have done,
and are doing, your best.
12.
Read books.
13.
Learn how to be nice.
This is the most insanely powerful life hack, and yet the most overlooked.
Learn how to genuinely be nice to people.
This will get you farther than anything else.
14.
Live so death has nothing to steal.
Leave everything on the table.
Don't hold back your thoughts, your love, your creativity for another day.
That path leads you to becoming a fraction of the person you were meant to be.
15.
Stop saying you want to be in a forever relationship, and be in one.
Your soulmate relationship is something you build, not something you stumble upon.
If you don't figure this out, you will be perpetually disappointed by the person you end up with.
16.
Live within your means.
If you don't learn to do this when you have little, you won't be able to do it when you have more.
High-earning people can also be the most indebted and financially unstable,
because they are always living just a bit outside of what they can afford.
17.
Accomplishments don't change your life, habits do.
18.
Write a mission statement and use it as your guideline.
Define your most essential values and make sure your thoughts, actions and decisions align with them.
This is how you live an honest life.
19.
Don't burn bridges.
Learn to bow out of friendships, relationships, jobs and parties with grace.
20.
Ask for the truth.
21.
Be in the discomfort that's leading you to your bad habits.
Whatever it is that's holding you back in your life is actually a symptom of some unmet need.
Figure out what it is, and feed it in a healthy way.
Your external issues will start to dissolve as you do.
22.
Recognize the ways in which you've projected blame onto others.
"What you love in people is what you love about yourself; what you hate in people is what you can't see in yourself."
23.
Learn to seek purpose more than you do pleasure.
Pleasure does not change your life, it makes discomfort bearable.
Purpose makes discomfort worth it.
Don't let comfort be your first virtue.
24.
Home is where you make it, so make it somewhere.
25.
Break free from the illusion that what you see on Instagram is "real life." It is not "real life." It is a highly
curated, aspirational, photoshopped, filtered vignette.
Bonus!
26.
Learn to be happy here, now, today.
If you do not learn how to be happy in the present, no job, no partner, no success, no trip, no money,
nothing that you are working for will be as enjoyable as you think.
You cannot save up your happiness to be released when you think you deserve it.
You either have it now, or you have it never.
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