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Rich people found to be more charitable if given a sense of control

A pair of researchers, one with Harvard Business School, the other with the University of British Columbia,

found that when soliciting donations from wealthy people, it pays to offer them a sense of control.

In their paper published on the open access site PLOS ONE, Ashley Whillans and Elizabeth Dunn describe their study.

The researchers began their study by noting that recent research has found that people tend to respond more positively to agentic self-concepts than they do to more generalized themes.

To that end, they designed and carried out a study to test the idea as it applied to charitable donations.

The study consisted of composing and then sending letters to 12,000 Ivy League alumni who earn at least $100,000 annually.

Those targeted held positions in public corporations, which meant their income was verifiable.

The researchers wrote two versions of their letter, both of which were geared toward asking for a donation to help with community action activities.

But the phrasing was different. One letter was written in such a way as to give the reader a feeling of control: "Sometimes, one person needs to come forward and take individual action."

The other was written in a more general sense: "Sometimes, a community needs to come forward to support a common goal."

The researchers then compared how much individuals donated.

They found that those who had received the letters offering more control were more generous.

They gave on average $432.

Those sent the more general letter, on the other hand, gave on average just $270.

The difference came to an average of 1.5 times as much.

The researchers suggest that the difference consisted simply of giving prospective donors a feeling of more control over how the donated money would be spent.

They further suggest that their findings indicate that in the future, those conducting charity drives might gear their requests in ways that offer some degree of control to prospective donors.

They might find they get more in return.

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Fantasy Premier League tips: New player prices – How much do Almiron and Suarez cost? - Duration: 2:58.

 The January transfer window is big business for Fantasy Premier League managers with thousands looking to shake up their squads after the deadline

 Bosses are always on the lookout for new FPL differentials while big-money signings always generate heated discussions about player prices

 There are a number of new arrivals worth considering ahead of GW25, including new Arsenal midfielder Denis Suarez

 The Spanish ace has arrived on loan until the end of the season and is expected to be deployed in a similar role to that of Aaron Ramsey and Mesut Ozil at the Emirates

 With the potential for goals and assists, Suarez could be considered a steal at just £6

5million in FPL. Meanwhile, there is even better value to be found at St James' Park after Newcastle shattered their club transfer record for Miguel Almiron

 The Paraguayan will hopefully solve the Magpies' attacking issues and will also be a big boost for those managers owning striker Salomon Rondon

 Priced at just £6m, Almiron could be a huge differential in the second half of the campaign – but how much do other January arrivals cost in FPL? DEF: Chris Mepham (Bournemouth) – £4

5m DEF: Leandro Bacuna (Cardiff City) – £4.5m DEF: Antonio Barreca (Newcastle United) – £4

5m MID: Denis Suarez (Arsenal) – £6.5m MID: Bakary Sako (Crystal Palace) – £4.9m MID: Youri Tielemens (Leicester City) – TBA MID: Miguel Almiron (Newcastle United) – £6

0m MID: Samir Nasri (West Ham United) – £5.5m FWD: Dominic Solanke (Bournemouth) – £4

7m FWD: Peter Crouch (Burnley) – TBA FWD: Gonzalo Higuain (Chelsea) – £9.5m FWD: Karlan Grant (Huddersfield Town) – £5

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COREIA DO NORTE x OTAN | Comparativo de Força Militar (2019) - Duration: 3:31.

Military Power Comparison

North Korea vs NATO

Total Population

Land Area (km²)

Defense Budget

Active Military Personnel

Nuclear Weapon

Tanks

Armored Fighting Vehicles

Multiple Rocket Launchers

Self-Propelled Artillery

Towed Artillery

Army

Attack Aircraft

Transport Aircraft

Trainer Aircraft

Attack Helicopters

Helicopters

Air force

Aircraft Carriers

Submarines

Destroyers

Frigates

Corvettes

Minesweepers

Patrol Boats

Navy

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Prova do Anjo Fiat Circuito: Maycon e Tereza completam desafio - Duration: 1:34.

A Prova do Anjo Fiat Circuito, iniciada na manhã desta sexta-feira, segue rolando

Após Hariany e Isabella encerrarem o desafio, a segunda dupla, formada por Maycon e Tereza, também termina o circuito

Eles precisam completar um percurso, a bordo de um Fiat Argo, até conseguirem formar a palavra 'Argo'

A próxima dupla, formada por Alan e Hana, encerra a disputa pelo Anjo. Os vencedores serão aqueles que conseguirem completar o desafio gastando menos combustível

Confira em detalhes tudo o que rolou na disputa no programa ao vivo desta noite, logo após O Sétimo Guardião

Maycon e Tereza participam da Prova do Anjo — Foto: TV Globo

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How Do Conspiracy Theories Work? - Duration: 14:27.

Conspiracy theories and conspiratorial thinking are around us all the time, from eccentric

friends who question whether we landed on the moon to the fact that a majority of Americans

believe that Lee Harvey Oswald wasn't the only person involved in the JFK assassination.

Let's take a look at how conspiracy theories work.

Before we begin, we should clarify the difference between a conspiracy theory and a conspiracy.

A conspiracy is a fact about the world, a situation for which there's good evidence

that two or more people worked together -- conspired -- to commit an illegal or immoral act.

A conspiracy theory, on the other hand, is an allegation or claim that an event was caused

by a conspiracy.

A conspiracy is something that is known as a result of investigating the causes of an

event; a conspiracy theory is the result of rejecting the evidence that explains an event.

Actual conspiracies include the plot of Roman senators to assassinate Julius Caesar, the

1953 Iranian coup that overthrew the democratically-elected prime minister orchestrated by the U.S. and

the U.K., the Watergate break-in, and any time two or more people get together to rob

a bank.

Let's look at five common characteristics of conspiracy theories.

First, the presupposition that nothing ever happens by accident, that chaos or randomness

does not, and cannot, explain significant world and historical events.

Most conspiracy theorists would accept that any one of us could get hit by a car while

crossing a street due to completely accidental or random causes, like the driver having the

sun in their eyes for three straight seconds right as you crossed in front of him.

But the conspiratorial world view is that events of major significance, at least significant

to humans, never occur this way.

More on why this is later.

Second, the idea of a small group of people in power pulling the puppet strings behind

the scenes.

A good example is the old anti-Semitic canard of Jewish control.

The core here is that there's a cabal of Jews controlling events in secret for their

own benefit.

So it's been said that Jews control the media, the Federal Reserve, Wall Street, Hollywood,

that they were behind historical wars and revolutions, and even that they seek world

domination.

The most influential expression of these ideas is the Protocols of the Elders of Zion.

The text was a hoax plagiarized from earlier sources, first published in Russia in 1903

and purported to be the minutes of a meeting of Jewish leaders at the end of the 19th century

conspiring to take over the world.

It's been debunked many times, but its popularity and influence continues to be significant.

Henry Ford funded the printing of 500,000 copies that were distributed in the U.S. in

the 1920s, and it was cited in Hitler's Mein Kampf and in Nazi propaganda.

More recently, it was referenced in Hamas's Charter and continues to be read in multiple

languages.

And this is a feature of most conspiracy theories, that a small and powerful group (supposedly

the Jews in this case) have orchestrated a big, nefarious scheme behind closed doors.

A third common trait of conspiracy theories is that "official" stories are considered

to be propaganda used by those in power to brainwash most of the public.

Think about the Warren Commission Report, the 888-page document submitted to President

Lyndon Johnson in September 1964 concluding that Lee Harvey Oswald acted entirely alone

in the assassination of JFK.

Attacking the Warren Commission and its report is a key feature of JFK assassination conspiracy

theories.

One of the main points is the single bullet theory, often ridiculed and called the "magic

bullet theory," which the Report used to explain how one of the three bullets fired

by Oswald hit Kennedy's neck and Texas Governor John Connally's chest, wrist, and thigh.

The supposed implausibility of the same bullet behaving this way is commonly cited and was

even the focus of a key scene in Oliver Stone's JFK and a parody scene in an episode of Seinfeld.

To any of you wondering whether only magic could explain what the bullet did, this has

been modeled and analyzed many times and found to be completely consistent with the laws

of physics!

Fourth, skepticism.

Now, this is actually pretty interesting.

Conspiracy theories often appeal to our usual sense of skepticism, but take it to an irrational

extreme.

They take advantage of the fact that it's easy to sow doubt in us simply by asking questions

that appear to expose inconsistencies in official accounts of events.

Consider NASA's footage of the Apollo 11 moon landing.

Conspiracists love to point to the appearance of a waving American flag as the pole is being

fixed into position by the astronauts.

They say, there's no wind on the moon, so how could the flag possibly wave?

This is a perfectly reasonable question.

Of course, there's also a perfectly reasonable answer.

When the astronauts placed the flag on the ground, it vibrated the flagpole and flag

and the inertia in the vacuum of space led to some movement of the flag that looked like

waving.

Also, the astronauts accidentally bent the horizontal rods holding the flag in place

several times, which created the appearance of a rippling flag in the still photographs.

Lastly, and very importantly is the the unfalsifiability of conspiracy theories.

If you disprove any specific point or argument made by conspiracy theorists, they either

claim your "evidence" is fake and/or part of the official propaganda story, or they

accept it and immediately move on to the next point.

So to take the moon landing example, if you explain why the flag appeared to be waving,

a conspiracist might say, "yes, sure, but what about the fact that there is no blast

crater when the lunar module landed?"

Or, if you point to an aspect of the photos that disproves their point, they answer "those

images were doctored by NASA."

In this way, confirmation bias causes conspiracy theorists to take any evidence they encounter,

even evidence which contradicts their theories, and incorporate it as further proof of their

conclusion.

So why is it that some people buy into conspiracy theories?

We live in a world that is, in many ways, full of complexity and chaos.

Terrible things happen for no good reason, scientific explanations can seem completely

counterintuitive, and an event that changes history can occur by accident.

It's difficult for many people to accept that a lot of what happens in the world is

by coincidence or through causes outside our control.

Some of these people turn to conspiracy theories because they can provide reassurance that

what's happening in their lives, or the things they see on the news, have identifiable

and comprehensible causes.

There's been a lot of research, especially over the past 15 years, aimed at understanding

the psychology of those who believe in conspiracy theories.

Conspiratorial belief correlates with certain personality traits, such as intellectual curiosity,

a strong imagination, cynicism toward politics, and distrust of authority.

Psychological studies have found that belief in conspiracy theories also tends to correlate

with belief in creationism, the paranormal, superstitions, and New Age beliefs.

Conspiracism has also been tied to a tendency to see patterns where there are none.

A 2018 study by psychologist Joshua Hart gave cognitive tests to over 1200 American adults,

and also asked the participants what they thought about statements like "The power

held by heads of state is second to that of small unknown groups who really control world

politics" and "Groups of scientists manipulate, fabricate or suppress evidence in order to

deceive the public."

Those who agreed with the conspiratorial statements were much more likely to identify non-existent

patterns when shown randomized visual images, and they were more likely to interpret nonsensical

statements as profound.

So on portions of the test that had nothing to do with politics or conspiracies, the conspiracists

tended to attribute meaning and intention where non-conspiracists did not.

Some researchers have also suggested that conspiratorial thinkers suffer from what's

known as "proportionality bias." in other words, when someone has trouble believing

that an event with large-scale consequences can have a small-scale cause.

For example, that a lone gunman would assassinate JFK, that someone as famous as Princess Diana

could have been killed by a simple car accident, or that a mere group of 19 terrorists could

create the devastation of 9/11.

Assuming that these were all high-level government conspiracies would maintain the proportionality

between the causes and the consequences, and it's an understandable impulse.

But of course, significant events like these do often have spontaneous, small-scale causes.

Believing in conspiracy theories also provides an insider's sense of being "in the know."

Conspiracy theorists and their followers form groups that know "what really happened"

and "how things really are."

So although we can understand and maybe even empathize about what drives people to believe

in conspiracy theories, it would be a mistake to discount the dangerous real-life consequences

of many conspiracy theories.

Belief in conspiracy theories has led to physical violence and terrorism, such as the 1995 Oklahoma

City bombing.

Many people who subscribe to conspiracy theories have a misplaced distrust or animosity toward

institutions that in reality are beneficial to society, or in some cases they can even

develop a hatred toward entire groups of people.

Conspiracy theories about vaccines and autism have led people to not vaccinate their children

against deadly diseases.

And surveys have shown that people who believe climate change to be a hoax are far less willing

to reduce their carbon footprint.

The more complex a problem is, the more complex the solution tends to be.

So some people find comfort in falsely assessing problems to be more simple than they actually

are, because it would mean that the solution is simple.

If the MMR vaccine causes autism and the medical community is ignorant about it, then the solution

is simple: don't trust the medical community and don't use vaccines.

It's much less palatable to consider that autism has complicated genetic causes that

aren't yet fully understood, leaving us for the time being with no easy answers.

Of course, you might be watching and thinking to yourself, sometimes powerful people do

conspire.

Sometimes the public is being lied to by the powers that be.

Well, there's a difference between healthy skepticism and habitually getting caught up

in conspiracy theories.

One method you might use to tell the difference is to consider how implausible it would be

for a huge number conspirators to keep everything a secret.

Benjamin Franklin once wrote, "Three may keep a secret, if two of them are dead."

Physicist David Robert Grimes has developed a statistically-rigorous formula to determine

how long it would take for a conspiracy to be exposed, based on the number of people

that must have been involved.

Basically, the more people involved in the conspiracy, the faster a leak would have to

emerge.

Grimes calculated that the supposed moon landing hoax would require the involvement of about

411,000 people and would be exposed within 3.68 years.

A hoax about man-made global warming would involve about 405,000 people and would be

exposed within 3.70 years.

So yes, some conspiracies are real, but we often find out about them through people leaking

information.

And we need to be reasonable about how improbable it would be for there to be no leaks whatsoever,

over an extended period of time, from a supposed conspiracy that involves a great deal of people.

Another method for finding the line between rational skepticism and misguided conspiracism

is to employ a critical thinking principle known as Occam's razor.

Occam's razor essentially suggests that, all else being equal, we should favor explanations

that require the fewest assumptions.

If we already have a reasonable explanation for why something happened, there's no need

to invoke additional speculation.

If your dog has a history of digging through your garbage, and you come home and find your

trash can flipped over, it's unreasonable to start hypothesizing about who broke into

your house to tip over your trash can barring some specific evidence to point you in that

direction.

We can also identify improbable conspiracy theories by recognizing when a conspiracy

theorist is frequently and fallaciously appealing to vagueness.

They try to explain something complex by giving reasons that are even more complex and nebulous,

leaving endlessly branching explanations, without ever arriving at hard facts or evidence.

Skepticism deals with facts-- proving facts, describing facts, questioning facts, while

conspiracy theorists are generally more concerned with attributing motives and analyzing an

event in terms of its significance and how it fits into a larger narrative.

In contrast with rational skepticism, conspiracists tend more to understand and explain things

in terms of their meaning, rather than how they came to be and why.

But it should be easy to understand the appeal of conspiracy theories and why so many people

fall into this habit.

Many conspiracy theorists seem to feel like they're fighting in a war between good and

evil.

And as mentioned before, they often enjoy feeling like they're "in the know," which

can be validating.

Just think of all of the conspiracy theorists who go around calling people "shills"

or "sheep."

As humans, looking for patterns is in our very nature.

But it's possible to overdo it and connect dots that have no business being connected.

And like I talked about, there are studies pointing to the notion that there might even

be broader personally traits at play that cause people to go down this road.

We have to acknowledge that we live in an unpredictable world, filled with randomness,

coincidences, and accidents that can have hugely profound consequences.

And jumping to unsubstantiated conclusions about conspiracies is almost never going to

get us closer to understanding how things really work or solving our problems.

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Maycon acende abajur do Quarto Ouro e acorda Alan - Duration: 1:02.

Após conversar com Paula e Hariany na sala, Maycon vai para o Quarto Ouro dormir

O brother, que divide o colchão com Alan, acende o abajur ao lado da cama e acorda o catarinense

Maycon troca de roupa e se deita ao lado do administrador, que volta a se deitar

Os dois dormem. Maycon acende a luz e acorda Alan — Foto: TV Globo

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10 Things to do at PEANUTS Celebration at Knott's Berry Farm (NEW Attractions / Shows & Treats) - Duration: 5:23.

Hello Bloggineers, we're at Knott's Berry Farm for the Peanuts Celebration.

This festival is uniquely dedicated to celebrating the beloved Peanuts characters.

And we're going to show you the ten fun things you can do here.

The number one thing you can do here at the Peanuts Celebration is the specialty food.

The Snoopy cookies look really yummy.

[Brother] Mmm. I want some Charlie Brownies.

The second thing to do here is watch The Music Goes Round and Round.

We're joining Sally, Schroeder, and Snoopy in a retrospective of music.

The next thing to do here is Pig-Pen's Pig Pen.

We're gonna meet the newest member of the Peanuts Gang and some of his animal friends in the barn.

They actually have pigs here. So this Pig Pen

and this is Pig-Pen's pig pen.

We're about to meet Pig-Pen.

Say oink, Brother.

And if you can't get enough of him, you can catch them at the crazy Kirk Kirk the Hillbillies show.

[Krazy Kirk] Well ladies and gentlemen, we are honored to bring him on the stage.

[Krazy Kirk] Pig-Pen!

[Krazy Kirk] Pig-Pen!

Now we're watching Space Beagle, which is new this year.

And Cousin decided to join us.

Let's redo that intro animation.

Back to the show.

The fifth thing to do here is Woodstock's Bird's Eye View.

And this is normally the Sky Cabin.

We're grabbing a seat on Woodstock's nest as he takes us on a breathtaking journey above the entire Peanuts Celebration.

[Brother] I see our car in the parking lot.

The next thing you can do here is the Peanuts Sketch School.

The resident art teacher is going to show us how to draw our favorite Peanuts characters.

We grabbed our pencil and clipboard, and we're finding a seat in the Bird Cage Theatre.

I hope to draw Lucy today. Because she is really crabby.

And here comes Mr. Noel.

[Mr. Noel] Now what we're doing to draw our pal Snoopy today, the art world we call this a portrait.

[Mr. Noel] A portrait by definition is a picture or a representation of a face.

[Mr. Noel] The first thing we need to do is draw the main shape of his head.

[Mr. Noel] Then we're going to add some details to make him look like Snoopy.

We're starting off by sketching the head which is about the size of an orange.

Next, we're adding the snout.

[Brother] I wish I had an eraser.

And lastly we're drawing the eyes and the mouth.

Tada! Here's our masterpiece.

The seventh thing to do here is A Trip to Beagle Bonanza.

[Brother] All aboard!

[Conductor] There is no eating, drinking, or smoking while the ride is in motion. Have a wonderful day.

Guys, put your ice cream cones away.

We're riding on this kid-sized train for a journey with the Peanuts Gang.

[Brother] Choo! Choo!

Number eight thing is the Peanuts Cowboy Jamboree.

We're joining Franklin, Linus, and Sidesaddle McGee as they challenge us for some of the rootinest, tootinest games this side of Calico.

[Sidesaddle McGee] So I'm going to take it from you just like this and that person on the end,

[Sidesaddle McGee] they're going to toss it right into that ring, just like that.

Brother was chosen to participate in this game of Mrs. Knott's pie toss.

The number nine thing...

[DJ] All right everybody. You got a couple more seconds to make sure that everybody's got some headphones here. We don't want to leave anybody out.

The number nine thing to do here is Spike's Disco...

[DJ] Man, one station is so good. I don't know if I want to change it or not.

The number nine thing to do here is Spike's Discoteca de Silencio.

And we're putting on headphones and listening to music. But you guys can't hear anything.

This is a new addition to the festival this year where we're strapping on a set of headphone for the most fun we'll ever have being quiet.

And the tenth thing you can is Woodstock's Music Festival featuring Jelly of the Month Club.

The family-friendly band is back with a brand new show.

[Brother] Wah-wah-wah-wah-wah-wah-wah-wah-wah-wah-wah-wah-wah-wah. There's nothing like a brand new show.

And after the performance we even got to meet the band again.

We had so much fun at the Peanuts Celebration. Get your tickets at knotts.com.

Please hit the subscribe button and remember to look for your own adventure.

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How Do Feelings Influence Our Life? - Duration: 11:16.

Okay. If you saw the title of this video, you've got 2 grown men here to talk

about feelings. -I know, right? -And how feelings influence our life.

Alright. So, I'm excited for this video because as I've gotten older and I've...

I love personal development. And so I've learned about how emotions are

actually a powerful tool. -Mm-hmm. -We typically bottle up our emotions or we

we hide our emotions. We apologize out sorry for crying. But emotions, they're

important. -I was giving a training to a group of executives and I made this

statement and it cut a little bit of flack. -Hmm. -The statement was, "Every

decision we make, is an emotional decision." And this executive on the front

row, he's like, he's got his legs crossed. He's like, "Ah, Dr. Paul, I don't think so."

I said, "What do you mean? Tell me more." He said, "I make my decisions based on data."

-Mm-hmm. -"Give me the data, I'll process the data, we'll analyze the data." And I said,

"Then how do you know when you've got the right decision?" -And...? -"Well, I just...

I'm satisfied..." -"Wait, satisfied? That's a feeling, isn't it?" I feel good about it, it

seems right to me, I'm satisfied with today. See, this is all

emotion. -So, even if you're looking at the data, there's a point where like, "Okay, I

feel that we've looked at the data enough." It comes to a feeling, okay. -Yeah. There's

3. So back in in psychology 111, alright? When you're just getting your

introductory psychology class, we talked about the cognitive triad. The cognitive

triad is basically what you think, what you feel and what you do. And those 3

things are tied together. You cannot separate them. So what you think affects

how you feel. How you feel affects what you do. What you do affects how you think.

And it goes both directions and so, if you picture a triangle with these

3 things. -- Think, feel and do at the points of the triangle. And there's

bi-directional arrows between each one because they all affect and impact the

others. -What does this mean for somebody who...

This is kind of a new information to me. Meaning, they've been bottling up

emotions or they don't feel that, "I'm not a very emotional person." Or maybe it's

the executive that's like, "I make all my decisions just by looking at the data."

How do we then use this knowledge if emotions are such a big, important piece

of our life and of growth and what not? What is this? -You know, the first

step I think is obviously to acknowledge it. Just acknowledge it. We are emotional

beings. It's how were created. And maybe the example that I shared upfront

couldn't help with that. -Okay. 0Because it might not seem that making a decision

based on data is an emotional decision. But realize there comes a level of

satisfaction or where you feel. Feel that that it's the right answer after having

studied the data. And so, even something as simple as that is driven by emotion.

So, let's just acknowledge it. How we feel impacts our behavior. And because those

3 -- Think, feel and do are so inextricably tied together, we can if we

want to shift or alter one of them, we can work on the other 2. -Okay. So, if

there's the decision or or something happens, I have a feeling. One, step 1 is

just to acknowledge. "Okay, I'm feeling something." Does it... Is it helpful then to

kind of pause and think, "What am I feeling?" Like, "Am I feeling angry.?" -Oh yeah. -"Am I

feeling let down?" -It's interesting. They've done studies before

where they have people just come up with feeling words. And people always come up

with happy, sad, mad and then they get a little stuck. Can we really...? Can we expand

our vocabulary a little bit around feelings? Anger is a secondary emotion.

Meaning, it typically comes up after a more primary emotion occurs. Something

like disappointment, sadness, loss. And because we don't know exactly how to

deal with those primary emotions, we converted over to a secondary emotion.

-- Anger. Because I know what to do with anger. It's a much more active acting out. More

expressive kind of an emotion. -Okay. So if I'm feeling angry, I might then pause and

think, "Okay, where is this anger coming from? Ah! I'm feeling disappointment

in the outcome." -Disappointment is a really common precursor to anger. -So, what

would then be the next step? If I recognize and acknowledge the emotion...

-Hm-hmm -...what can i what can I consciously do?

-Once we're aware of it, we're in a position of choice. Until you see it as a

choice, it's not. So, that awareness is huge. And if you become aware that, "Hey,

I'm feeling some disappointment." Well, think about it, Nate. Are you can handle

disappointment differently than you would handle anger? -Mm-hmm. -Yes, you will.

And there are appropriate ways to address that disappointment which are

more likely to create a positive outcome for you than if you were to act out in

anger. -So, I mean in my mind, this is something

that I'm... That I'm learning and I'm practicing. So, if I discover I'm

disappointed about something and I remain kind of conscious about this, I

then have a choice. "Okay, I'm feeling disappointed. I have a choice to either

go this direction or to go this direction." -Mm-hmm. -And I mean really, that

keep that keeps me in control. -Right. Which gives you additional choices too.

Anger typically leads to one of 2 choices. Fight or flight? It's a threat

response and the limbic system in our brain responds to threat in a

chemical way by secreting chemicals into our bloodstream that facilitate

either fighting or fleeing. Getting the heck out of there. -Okay. So that obviously

is a big separation between mankind and animals. You know, we have prefrontal

cortex in our brain that allow us to have this ability

to think. And so... But it's all... It sounds like it's also a level of maturity. As we....

As we learn to recognize the emotions and get down to the root and then choose...

You know, make a conscious choice of what we're going to do in that emotion. It takes

practice. -And I'm thinking about something you just said about our

ability to think and this cognitive ability. Which is centered in

the prefrontal cortex of our brain. It sets us apart from the animals. That's

both good news and bad news. -Okay. -Okay? I had a colleague of mine share an example

that there's a herd of gazelles out in the African Savannah. And they're they're

running from a lion, okay? And the lion reaches up and swats one of them on the

hindquarters leaving a big gash. But it escapes, okay?

Moments later, after the dangers past, the gazelles are out there grazing on

grass. Flicking flies with their tail. They're

off to their gazelle business. Even the injured one is in pain but just going

back to its gazelle thing. They don't ruminate about,

"Oh, that nasty lion." They don't keep it alive in their thinking. They go on with

life. Because we have the ability to think like we do. We'll keep that lion in

our life perpetually. -Wow. And it continues to injure us and cause our

feelings to come up. So, it's both good news and bad news that we can think

about these things. -Okay. So, let's go there. What can we do about that

then? If we have... If our cognitive ability gives us that disadvantage? -Yeah.

Awareness is the key. When we become aware of something, we're actually at a

level I call metacognition. It's thinking about thinking. And that's what puts us

back into choice. It creates a little space and that's where choice exists. So,

becoming aware that, "Wait a minute. Am I being attacked by the lion right now?

Well no, I'm not. Why do I still experience it?" You know when you go to a

movie and you're kind of drawn into the movie and it feels like you're in it for

a while. Well, why don't you run screaming out of the theater when the lion shows

up on the screen? Because you know at some level it's a movie. What if we knew

at some level that this story we keep replaying in our mind is a movie? -Yeah,

it's not going to happen in the past. It's not... -And it's a movie that we have a

private screening to. Nobody else could see it it's just us. -Okay. So what's

what's a practical application or even an exercise of how we can become

better thinkers that our thinking? -Once you're aware of it, pause and actually do

what you just said. Think about your thinking. And use the movie analogy

if that's helpful. Is this real? Is this now? Is this here? There's this a mental

movie. This a mind movie that I am watching. Should we think about our thinking five minutes a

day? 5 minutes several times a day. 1 minute? -Oh, man. -Where do we start? -I did...

I'm a full-time psychologist. I'm doing that all day. -24/7. I'm thinking about my

thinking? -Well, raise it to another level. If you're just blissfully going about

your life, never thinking about your thinking, then try being mindful for a

bit. Think about your thinking. Just see what that does to you. aAd as you practice it,

it gives you more control over what you're experiencing. It's pretty cool.

-Alright. Thanks for watching this episode. I have a great idea. If you want to be

able to think about your thinking more, something I think would be helpful to

subscribe to his channel. Because it talks a lot about this and it will bring

it. Live On Purpose TV. Obviously, like and comment, subscribe. If

we're on YouTube. Share it if you're on LinkedIn. And I'll see in the next

episode.

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Mobilidade em #bicicletas: Estratégia Nacional de segurança e promoção do uso - Duration: 1:34.

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Do You #LoveTheJoint? Win Free Chiropractic Care for a Year! - Duration: 0:52.

Hey everyone, it's Jesse here with The Joint Chiropractic.

This month, we are spreading the love with our 2019 Love The Joint contest.

We will be randomly selecting 5 lucky patients to win a year of free chiropractic care.

You heard me right, a year of free care.

To enter, all you need to do is take your best selfie, post it to Facebook, Instagram or Twitter,

and tell us why you love The Joint Chiropractic.

You'll also want to be sure to tag us using @thejointchiro and also use the hashtag #LoveTheJoint to be eligible to win.

We will be selecting the winners Friday, March 8th so be sure to stay tuned.

For official rules and entry details visit thejoint.com/lovethejoint.

Good luck!

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Diego especula sobre a Prova do Líder: 'Vai ser de habilidade' - Duration: 0:46.

Na área externa, Diego e Maycon conversam sobre o jogo e a Prova do Líder. O empresário comenta sobre o voto de algumas pessoas da casa e o barman lembra que se Diego pegar a liderança: "Se você pegar o Líder, votar na pessoa e não sai, ela volta com sangue no olho em você"

Em seguida, Maycon comenta que se a Prova do Líder for de corrida, Rodrigo e Tereza estão fora, por estarem machucados e Diego completa: "Vai ser de habilidade"

Diego especula sobre a Prova do Líder: 'Vai ser de habilidade' — Foto: TV Globo

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How Do You Know If A Girl Likes You - Duration: 4:16.

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Vareta do óleo esbranquiçada e com bolha: o que pode ser isso? - Duration: 1:02.

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EMPADÃO BACALHAU MASSA DO FLÁVIO VALLE - Duration: 0:23.

Empadão of cod pasta made by actor Flávio Valle, pasta melts in the mouth, delicious filling

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What Types of Girl Do Korean Boys Like? Korean Guy Ideal Girl Type - Duration: 3:08.

I will give you an answer about ideal type of Korean guys in general

And I also talk about my ideal type at the last!

Before starting to talk about it

Please subscribe my youtube channel and thumbs up !

In general, Appearance is really important to korean guys

And also depends on age , I think It can be changed

what they prefer about appearance

Let me describe what Korean boys prefer with 5 categories

Koreans think White skin is beautiful

Many Korean guys like bright(white?) skin more than dark skin

Like Irene from Red Velvet or IU?

Korean girls want to have a really really white skin or even pale…?

Basically, Koreans prefer to have a white skin

Korean boys like cute and baby face

Like someone who is looking young and feel like fresh..?

And Koreans are obsessed with size of face!

I thought every country is like that, But It wasn't

When someone has small face, Koreans think It looks more beautiful and they can have a good proposition

Do you know Average height of Korean guy?

It's about 173cm

If a girl is taller than him, he would feel a bit awkward , standing right next to him

I think Many Korean boys hope his girlfriend is shorter than him at least

168cm (5.6) of girl , How do you think about this height?

Many Korean boys think she is tall

Even If They have a specific height they prefer, but as long as she is shorter than him, I don't think he care about it much

Standard of weight as beauty , it's really skinny in korea

From What I've seen and lived in korea

I think Many Korean boys like skinny but curvy body

At this point, It's somehow different about curvy body

When I say about curvy body, It doesn't mean like latin American girls

I told you skinny but curvy, right?

Curvy body with small frame, do you understand…?

To western or latin American girls, Korean girls looks just so skinny probably

At first, I told you depending on age, It can be changed, right?

When Korean guys are young , It must be face ..!

It's like everything to them

But When they are getting older, It changes

I think about 25 or more than that, They start to see body more or see the whole appearance

At the last) My ideal type

I am not sure if you are interested in this or not, But I will tell you

I like tall girls and tanned skin

I wish someone who likes to exercise and have a bit muscles

I like sexy type of girl

I am not a typical Korean guy based on my preference ?

Even my friends agree with that, What I like or dream about is different with other korean boys

Okay! I talked about types of girls Korean boys like in general

It's about tendency, doesn't mean all Korean boys like that

But In one society, I think there are standards what stands for

I've wanted to tell you about it

So I hope it was informative to understand what Korean boys like

Thank you for watching my video, see you in the next, bye !

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How Do Robo-Advisors Work? - Duration: 1:10.

Robo-advisors are automated platforms for delivering some of the best practices that

human financial and investment advisors have developed over the years.

But how do robo-advisors actually work?

Each platform is different, but investing through a robo-advisor generally starts with

a questionnaire about your goals, timeline and sensitivity to risk.

Then the robo-advisor will pair you up with a curated portfolio that matches your needs

and preferences.

But it doesn't end there.

Once you've funded the account, the robo-advisor continuously monitors your portfolio.

As the individual assets in your portfolio rise and fall along with the market, robo-advisors

will look for opportunities to buy or sell investments, to keep everything in the proportions

that will help keep you on track to achieve your goals.

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