it is said that in India politics cricket and cinema are celebrated the
most. well I would say not just the most but the only three things. of course if
you don't count the festivals. otherwise were just the best place for Dairy Milk
celebrations to be sold. cutting aside education, family, and religion, these are
the three things we mostly indulge with. the three things we look up to - to keep us
functioning in the form of a system, to zealous in the form of a victory, to be
entertained in the form of an escape and since politics and cricket are often
occasioned but yet not always like cinema so what we usually have around us
is cinema and what we usually do in our leisure time is being entertained. being
entertained either by the fictional tales of the actors of a movie or the
fictional tales of those actors' life. one way or other it's just the filmgyan we
want - a fallacy and it's because in India movies sedate us, makes us numb and
seduce us to believe that all is well. pretty much everything that is missing
in our life is shown in a Bollywood movie. its plot is scripted specifically
to fill the lackings of our real life. the tragic end of our love stories gets
perfect ending there. our dreams and aspirations that are stifled by our
neighbors, our parents and sometimes by sharma ji's son are soared high in a theater
with immense possibilities. the compassion and kindness and civility
that we often forget to show to others or sometimes narrowed by our religious
Creed are amended in a 3 hours fictional tale. the criminals and corrupted leaders
those who rob us and deprive us of our rights are only brought to book in the
climax of a movie and thankfully the sensuality in our love that was always
censured by moral policing is now making its way into our life uncensored through
the screen. so for a common man in India be it a kid who aspires to be an
artist but made to do engineering or a teenager is too shy to convey his
love or will never be able to because of love jihad, or a mother who has been
taking rounds of a court for years and years without even a glint of justice on
her way, would always resort to a typical Bollywood movie to intentionally confuse
their life with a 3-hrs fictional script that precisely caters what he or
she wants. we don't visit theaters to explore or to know or to be curious. we
just good to be illusioned, to feel that all is well,
to get a lifestyle that we do not have and sometimes those actors who sell us
such lifestyles captivate us so much so that we end up buying their identity as
well. we start following them recklessly, walking like them, talking like them,
dressing up like them, and sometimes even assessing our situations in life as they
would and such fanaticism doesn't just cost us our identity but what worse is
when those actors, whom we follow so enthusiastically, take law in their hands
we instead of protesting against them become their henchmen and try to absolve
them of their immoral behavior and all of these stem from one fundamental
problem and that is our meager lifestyle. if we could make our life a bit
entertaining in itself, we won't have to borrow it from the movies. give us the
freedom in choosing our career so that we could make our work as entertaining
as a movie, give us the flexibility in expressing
our love beyond religion and caste so that we won't have to reciprocate it
from the character of a film, ensure us a just governance and justice for all so
that there wouldn't be any mother or anybody who'll have to console herself
with just a movie. and with all these we won't just make
our life more meaningful and have a better lifestyle but we would free
movies in India, from the shackles of our need. movies won't be made anymore to
compensate for our life. it won't always be good vs. evil, or actions defying
physics, or so heavily carried with romantic love. it would rather be a
point of view, a unique perspective of the director, or we might better call it
an art
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So, you've been thinking about your gender a lot recently.
You've been googling information about surgeries and hormones and what it means to be transgender
and what it means to be non-binary and trying to figure out what words fit for you, and
what steps you want to take to transition from there -- if any.
I know how you feel.
I was in your shoes just two or three years ago.
I was confused about what I was feeling and what that meant for my identity and my life.
And I don't talk about that a lot online anymore.
I try to not talk about my personal life as much any more cause holy shit the internet
can be such a heartless, hateful place.
But this is something that I think I really need to talk about, because what I really
could've used when I was trying to figure this out was someone to tell me that there
was hope if I decided to identify as trans.
So now I want to be that for other people.
If you're watching this, and you're questioning your gender, I want you to know that there is hope.
I can't guarantee you anything.
I can't guarantee you that you will be happy, or that you will find a girlfriend or boyfriend
or partner who will love you.
I can't guarantee you that you'll land your dream job, or that your family will accept you and love you.
But I can guarantee you that there is hope.
That these things are not unreachable.
When I was questioning my gender, I thought that if I identified as trans, it would mean
the end of my life in so many different aspects.
I thought I would never find a girl who would love me.
I thought I would never be able to travel.
I thought I'd never be successful in my career.
I thought I wouldn't be able to make friends.
I thought I would never be able to be confident in my appearance.
I thought I'd never feel comfortable in my own body, wearing clothes that I liked.
I thought that it might be worth it to stay in the closet just to ensure that I could
still succeed in at least some of those aspects of my life.
I thought maybe lying to myself and to those around me might be a worthwhile sacrifice
to make sure I maintained a certain quality of life.
But eventually I took that leap.
I decided to be honest with myself and the people around me.
And it has been a journey since then, with some really high highs and some really low lows.
But I'm finally at a place where I feel fantastic in my own skin.
I have friends all over the world who I love and who I rely on.
I have a girlfriend who loves me, and I love her.
I'm doing what I love, and travelling pretty often, and getting invited to cool events
like the GLAAD Gala a couple weeks ago.
At that Gala, I stood on stage and said this:
"As a trans non-binary person, and as a lesbian, I'm constantly working on being the representation
in the media that I wish I would've had as a kid."
And that was a really powerful moment for me.
Standing in front of this huge crowd of important, influential people and telling them all these
aspects of myself that I was once deeply deeply ashamed of.
But if anyone from GLAAD asks, just tell them it was really cool and casual and I'd love
to do it again next year.
I was also invited to Goalkeepers 2017, an event put on in New York earlier this week
by the Bill and Melinda Gates foundation to discuss the progress of the Global Goals.
I definitely wasn't speaking or anything, but I was invited without reaching out to
them in anyway, which blew me away.
Barack Obama spoke, Malala Yousafzai spoke.
It was phenomenal.
And now, on the day this video is coming out, I'm with my amazing girlfriend in Greece
where we're celebrating her birthday for a week.
After this, we'll go back to London for a couple weeks and spend a weekend in Paris
before I head back to LA.
My life is surreal right now.
And I'm so so happy.
I literally never thought I'd be this happy.
But my point of this isn't to brag.
Well, like maybe a little.
But my point is more that there is hope.
I never thought any of this would be possible.
If you've just found my channel recently or this is the first video of mine you've
seen, what I'm doing might seem inevitable, it might seem like who I am and what I do.
But I promise you, just three years ago I wouldn't have been able to even dream of any of this.
And like two and a half years ago ish when I came out, I thought I was abandoning any
hope of being successful or happy in my life.
I was so, sooo wrong.
And one reason I'm kinda nervous about making this video is that I know I have a lot of
privileges that other trans people don't.
I'm white, I'm thin, I'm documented, I'm abled, I live in a pretty progress state,
I'm not rich but I have access to financial resources and health services.
I have a lot of advantages that other trans people don't, and I know that.
And I know it can come across shitty to see such a relatively privileged trans person
brag about their accomplishments online, but I have been through a lot regardless.
Because of my hypervisibility online, I receive transphobic harassment and comments from people
at an unbelieveable scale every single day.
I internalized a lot of that.
There've been really really dark times that I haven't spoken about online, and I don't
plan to speak about online.
But things have been hard.
And I feel like after taking so much shit day in and day out, my happiness and my success
is kind of like a big fuck you to all the people who told me I was an abomination or
that I've never be happy or whatever.
I have so much pride in who I am, and I want to show all the transphobes out there that
they can't harass us into non-existence.
We will be here, and we will exist, and we will be happy, and we will thrive.
And I fully believe that you can get here too.
It might take a lot of time, and pain, and sacrifices, but there is hope.
There are no guarantees, and society in many ways is stacked against you, but being trans
doesn't mean the end of your world.
The future is wild and unpredictable and it might take a bunch of years but eventually
you could get to a really good place.
I just want you to have that hope.
I want you to know that it's okay to identify as trans.
Shit's tough out here, but not impossible.
If you want to stay in the closet, I understand completely, and that's 100% your choice,
but if all you need is a little push, someone to say that there is hope for you if you come
out, I hope this can be that push.
If someone had been around to give me a little hope, I probably could've come out much earlier.
And look, I know this sounds super individualistic.
Like, "If you try hard enough, you can be happy as a trans person!" but that's not
what I mean at all.
There are circumstances out of our control that directly affect our quality of life -- especially
for trans people of color, undocumented trans people, disabled trans people, and poor trans people.
I don't want this to come across as like, "I did this, so obviously you should be
able to do this too!"
Just because one person from a marginalized group can achieve something doesn't mean
everyone from that group can as well.
That's for sure.
But all I want you to know is that there can be hope.
You can be happy.
You can find people who love you.
You can find family, even if they're not related by blood.
You can be comfortable in your body one day.
If you don't have this stuff now, if you don't have this stuff a year from now, don't
blame yourself for it.
It's not like you can be happy just by willing it to happen.
But please try to hold out hope that you can be happy one day.
There are a lot of rights we don't have, and there are still a lot of misconceptions
about us circulating in public, but until all of that changes, we still have to keep
on living life.
And I have to believe that we can carve out communities and spaces where we can be happy.
I hope all of that makes sense.
If you haven't come out yet, take your time, there's no rush.
Make sure you're safe.
But when you can do so safely, I want you to know that you can come out.
In the long run, it could lead to you being so much happier.
I know there's always going to be a fear that coming out could ruin your life, and
I can't speak to your specific situation, but I 100% felt that it would ruin my life,
and it didn't.
There is hope.
I really hope you can have hope.
If you're questioning your gender, I want you to know that whatever conclusion you come
to is perfectly fine, and you're not tied to it forever.
If you decide to come out as a binary trans woman but later decide you're more non-binary,
that's okay.
If you decide to come out as non-binary, but later think you're more of a binary trans
woman, that's okay too.
Choosing a label isn't permanent.
And if you think you migh be trans now, but end up deciding that you're just fine identifying
as cisgender later, that's okay too.
Do whatever makes you feel comfortable.
And good luck.
Remember, trans is beautiful, and there is hope.
I believe in you, and you got this.
So yeah, that's all I had for today.
Thanks so much for watching, and I'll see you next time.
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There's nothing else I can do!?
Yes, there nothing else
Isn't anybody's fault...
So don't balme yourself
Wait, talk to me!
Talk to me more, Kashuu!!
Like you used to do with me!
What would you do with them?
From now on, it's up to you to talk with them...
But....This is...
All this time...I can follow you...
I don't want you to go!
Honestly...How long you keep borthering me?
Forever, of course!
I can get stronger, can be happy with this world...
Because I love you...Kashuu...
That why I want you be with forever!
Look...
You should know I hate this so much, even than you thought!
This is why I leave you too!!!
I want to be with you and everyone...
Want to be together forever!
Why do things happen to us!? Damn it!
I want to stay with you...Aruji...
I want to be loved more...and...I love you so much, Aruji-sama...
BUT...I have to leave you behind...
That is not fair!
Why!?
I don't understand!
Damn it!
Run away...Aruji...
Run away this place!
Please, I can't hold that much longer...
Hurry up!!
Don't stand in here anymore!!
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