what's up everyone James here and now
the start of this video is going to be a
little bit of a somber one and for those
of you who don't know a few days ago
there was a very serious terrorist
attack in Manchester at the Manchester
arena which killed 22 people or at least
in the 20s many of whom were young girls
and left hundreds more in hospital with
serious injuries and I just like to take
this opportunity to send out my thoughts
and feelings to the families and friends
of all of those who were affected by
this disgusting act of aggression and
violence and I hope you will join me in
doing the same so thank you and on with
the video
so hello everyone and welcome to episode
6 of the myths of introversion this week
I will be taking a look at three more
common myths of introversion and will
be attempting to dispel them so without
further ado let's proceed on to myth
number 7 introverts are weird this is
one of the more unfortunate myths was
banded about I mean true introverts do
tend to be a little bit quirky they do
have some unconventional behavior
patterns but that doesn't make them mad
or dangerous in any way shape or form
well not completely at least
introverts tend to work within their own
worlds and minds rather than feeding off
of other people's and although this does
tend to you know produce some slightly
strange behavior at times usually their
behaviour is very unique so are
introverts weird
well introverts usually embrace
eccentricity and are usually eccentric
themselves so if that's your definition of
weird I suppose the answer is well yes
so carrying on to myth number 8
introverts hate people being quiet
thoughtful and sometimes skeptical can
make introverts come across as somewhat
people hating but nothing could be
further from the truth
introverts value people introverts place
great value in intelligence and calmness
and in people but only for
short periods of time
all of this can lead to introverts
coming across as a bit brusque and
short-tempered especially in hyperactive
environments do introverts hate people
no quite the contrary introverts value
people just in small doses and so we
come to the last myth that I'm going to
be covering in this video myth number 9
introverts don't like to talk now this
is one of the easiest ones to dispel I
am an introvert I'm talking to you
although come to think of it I'm not
actually talking to you because you're
not actually here I'm just sitting in in
a room
talking to a camera alone
I'm the stereotypical introvert aren't I
damn it anyway yes
put put put that on here just to put
it out of your mind just it yeah just
ignore that ignore that editing James
edit this out you probably won't coz
you're a bastard but carrying on
carrying on introverts don't just
verbalize any thought that comes into
their head at least not usually they
prefer to listen to what's being said
and form what they're going to say in
their mind and really think about what
they're going to say before they
contribute to a discussion this is why
around large groups of people introverts
tend to have a hard time getting a word
in
so instead choose to remain silent no
point in speaking out if no one's
listening
as a result introverts are falsely
labeled as not wanting to talk or having
nothing to say do introverts not like
to talk no they just speak selectively
and carefully and that's it for this
episode in the next episode I will be
looking at two more myths of
introversion and I hope you will join me
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