Hey guys, it's Alex Beadon here
Today I want to show you exactly how I use Instagram stories
This is the question I get asked all the time
and today, I'm going to show you all of my tips and tricks
So what I'm going to do is actually plug in my iPhone
straight into my computer
so that you can see exactly what it is that I'm doing on my iPhone
Let's dive in.
So obviously if you want to create a story
what you are going to do I swipe to the right
which is going to open up your camera
Now you can see what filming really looks like
So I'm just going to take a picture and show you what I would do
to edit it.
So let's just say that I want to take a picture of my laptop
and maybe we can put my tea there
create some kind of nice fancy thing
Oh yea, by the way, I'm in pajama pants
the truth is out
fancy on top, party on the bottom
So we are going to take this picture
Maybe like that
Cool
And as you can see the first thing I did was swipe to the left
So that I could edit it
And obviously there are many different options here
I quite like that one so i'll stick with that one
Then I'm going to add text
and I really like to mix both
written word text and then also drawn on text
So I'm going to write
Today is a Sunday
So I'm going to put Sunday
I press done
And as you can see I'm just resizing this here
You just resize it by doing *this* on the screen
Sunday, and then I will take my little pen tool up here
I'm going to press this
This little icon down here, and this basically shows you how
big is your brush
So if you go all the way down, this is as big as it is
If you go all the way up, this is as big as it is
So it's really cool because it allows you to
experiment with different sizes of brush
which a lot of people don't know about
A lot of people are like, how do you hand write your captions
And I'm like, I just use the brush tool and make it super small
So it looks like a pen
Anyway, so I'm going to write "Sunday filming"
Done
Sunday filming - Complete
Now, let's go a little bit further with this shall we
So if I take my brush tool again
as you can see there are multiple brush options at the top
We have the pen, we have what I like to call the highlighter
We have what I like to call the glowy pen
and then we have the eraser
I'm going to go with the highlighting option
Im going to choose my pink and I'm going to make the brush really really big
and I'm just going to draw straight through this 'Sunday' here
so we have Sunday in a nice bright pink colour
And then I'm going to look at it and think, okay this looks good
what else can I do to kind of make this better?
I'm going to pick my pen brush again
and I'm going to go over that initial 'filming'
with pink
I think that looks messy
I don't think that looks good
so if you want to undo something
all you have to do is press at the top left hand side of the screen
Undo, undo, undo, undo
until it's all gone
So I think this is good for now
Maybe what we can do is add a little
drawing at the bottom, maybe something like that
I'd prefer it in white, so I'm going to choose the color white and go like that
Sunday filming- cool
Next thing I'm going to do is add some emojis
I LOVE using emojis
If you follow me on Instagram you will know this
It's just like the best thing ever
So instead of using the emoji sticker option up here
I don't like using this because it takes forever to find what you are looking for
I just tap as though I'm going to add text
I try to search for the emoji that I want
Actually, you know what I'm going to go for
I'm going to go for this filming emoji here
Sunday Filming
Move that down there
It's cool because you can make it really really big
You can make it really small
Yo can put it where you want
I'm going to put it down there
Another thing people always ask me about is
putting multiple text items
So just to show you, I'm going to write down
'This is my'
I'm going to make that really small and put it up here
Then I'm going to put microphone underneath
A really cool tip is
putting spaces between each letter of a word
Jus to make it look a little bit different
So M space I space C space R O P H O N E
Microphone
This is my Microphone
*dun dun dunnnn*
Now another thing to keep in mind guys
I never like to bring things all the way to the top up here
because Instagram actually put your name up there
So I try to avoid the top and the bottom section because I know Instagram put stuff there
So I'm just going to put ' This is my microphone '
*dun dun dun*
Another thing that I like to do to highlight special words
Is I will go to microphone
I will select all
copy it
done
I will create a new text
paste
turn it into pink
and make it small so it goes directly on top
So 'microphone'
So as you can see this doesn't look really good because the pink on brown isn't a good mix
So what I'm going to do is move the white one
move the pink one back in
and put the white one on top so the pink is just the background
there ya go, microphone has a little bit of a shadow now
which looks cool
another thing you can do is
'This is my'
and bring it over here
'This is my'
and then ' Tea'
Now what we are going to do here is select the pink
and then at the very top where it says 'A'
I'm gonna click on that
That gives you a nice solid pink background
Which I think is really really pretty
If you click the 'A' again
You get a transparent pink
which is also really nice
So I will stick with that
So we've got, this is my microphone, this is my tea
I think 'This is my microphone' is missing a little bit of pink
So I'm going to take the highlights color and bring it up about 50%
and just go like this
So there is a little bit of something going on
maybe I can do that over here again
so there is some kind of consistency
looks good
next thing i'm going to do is take the white pencil
and just pint ' This is my microphone'
this is my tea
Sunday filming
There you go, there you have it
We didn't actually add any emojis which is hilarious
Oh no, we did add an emoji
I'm going to add more emojis
I know that there is a microphone emoji
That's actually not the microphone I'm looking for
So let's try and find it
I'm gonna go to the emojis
Gonna go all the way over here
Where are you little microphone, oh there you are
It's like a podcasting microphone, it's super cute
So, this is my microphone
again, we don't want to put it too high because we know Instagram likes to cover it up
This is my microphone, this is my tea
We are going to take out little.....
We are going to take our little cup of tea
and put it over here
this is my tea
and Sunday filming
and what i'll do as well
Something that I like to do
is take sparkles
because you know, I have <b>The Spark Loung</b>e
Clearly
Clearly <b>The Spark Lounge</b> is my thing
So I kind of like to add little emoji reminders
that are on brand
so for me, the sparkles do that very well
I also have a pink heart and a
yellow heart that I use all the time
So I like to try and use emojis that represent my brand
that might be something that you want to do as well
So I will just resize these, put them all over the place
So it feels nice and magical
So the more effort that you put into things
Like I made this post the other day
and I basically said that your content should stand out as much as possible
by basically creating stuff that's hard to replicate
Most people are not going to take the time, effort and energy
to put emojis all over their Instagram stories
so by doing that, it sets you apart from the rest
One more thing I'm going to add
is my little heart
my little yellow heart
one after the next
Sunday Filming
and then I'm just going to tag myself
@alexbeadon
by the way guys, if you are watching this and you have never heard of my before
go and follow me on Instagram
I'm @alexbeadon
Easy to find
So, I'm just going to put that down here
So that if it does get featured on someone's explore page
They know exactly where to find me
whoops
So, there we have it
We have Sunday Filming, ready to go
So let's just go ahead and just add this to story
You can see down at the bottom left hand side it says add to story
Voila my friends
You have just added a picture of video
that has been decorated to your story
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How Hollowness Under the Eyes and Cheeks are Often Related and Treated Together - Duration: 7:43.
Thank you for your question.
You submitted your question with a single photo with an arrow pointed to your area of
concern.
And you're stating that the under eye correction that you had with a filler is unequal and
your doctor is unable to fix it.
And so you're looking for guidance as to what to do to help your current situation.
Well, I can certainly share with you my approach to patients like yourself of course without
the benefit of other views and of course a physical examination but I can certainly give
you a perspective that I help counsel my patients on and dealing with type of issue.
A little bit of background, I'm a Board-certified cosmetic surgeon and Fellowship-trained oculofacial
plastic and reconstructive surgeon.
I have been in practice in Manhattan and Long Island for over 20 years.
And helping people with the under eye area whether it's puffiness, hollows as well
as facial aesthetics both non-surgical as well as surgical solutions has been a big
foundation of my practice for now more than 2 decades.
So I'll share with you first how I counsel my patients when I evaluate them for rejuvenation
in this area.
To begin with, I take photos, from the front, 3 quarters views and side views and help patients
understand that when they look in the mirror and they see a hollow under the eye, well
very often, it's also in the context of the face also having relative asymmetries
in terms of the relative prominence and projection of the cheekbones.
And that's a very important factor.
Because when I look at someone, when I look at the eyes, I just don't look at the eyes.
I look at the eye as they relate to the cheek area and this can be very helpful in planning
a strategy that can optimize the rejuvenation.
So when I look at your face and the area where you point the arrow where you're concerned
about the asymmetry and the indentation, I would also point out that the cheek area,
the eyelid to cheek junction, there's less volume as well as maybe some less volume in
the most prominent part of the cheek on that side called the malar eminence.
So I help educate my patients about this because when you do a filler like Restylane in the
tear trough which works extremely well, if there is no support in cheek volume, then
it's like sitting on a ledge and you can have these elevations, relative indentations.
So what I frequently do is I combine the filler under the eye with a filler on the cheeks,
again, looking at the eye and cheek as one continuous area.
Now we use a method called Structural Volumizing for the cheek area and this is important because
when you think of what we're correcting, we're trying to correct the volume at the
bone level.
It's also important to correct volume at the deeper fatty compartments of the cheek
as well.
This way it looks more natural and it blends as if without creating surface irregularities
and not looking overdone.
Now that's the art of doing this.
Now that's a suggestion for you to explore is that not to necessarily just keep adding
volume along this rim but to also consider augmentation in that cheek area to balance
out with the other side.
There is nobody who has a perfectly symmetric face and that's just what I explain to my
patients is that we're beautifully imperfect.
However, it's understandable that if there's an obvious difference that's drawing the
attention of people around you but that's not productive.
You want to try to do something about that.
If your doctor is unable to assist you with this, find a cosmetic surgeon, someone who
knows this area very well who does a lot of fillers at the under eye area and the cheek
area.
Like I said, in terms of technique, there are many different ways to do these injectable
fillers.
And I feel, of course, the way I do these procedures with blunt cannulas and my understanding
of anatomy as a surgeon has given me a certain perspective that's different than someone
who hasn't operated in this space, people who are coming from, let's say, superficial
level not naming specific specialties directly.
But certainly I feel like, from my perspective as a surgeon, I think that Structural Volumizing
and these compartments around the eyes, I have been definitely been successful with
this.
And I think that is a key to helping you maximize the symmetry that you're trying to seek.
So again, meet with qualified, experienced doctors in this area and learn about your
options.
And I think that you should be able to get an improvement.
You may need to dissolve a little bit but I don't think it's likely that it would
be necessary.
But certainly, the key is to have balance as good as possible and to understand.
I guess the take home message here is, understand how the eyelid and cheek are really connected
and how enhancement can really create a more balanced appearance.
So I hope that was helpful, I wish you the best of luck and thank you for your question.
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Molecular Hydrogen Is Great! But How Much Do You Need? - Duration: 1:10.
Nick: So from a perspective of use, how long would a session typically last to gain some
benefit and would you ever entertain doing it a few more times during the day?
What's the frequency?
Tyler: Because the hydrogen research is still so much in its infancy, it's very difficult
to say these are the correct doses, this is the correct concentration and all these different
things, but what is being done right now, like I said, they're doing some great clinical
trials in China.
I've mentioned last time that they've already collected over 20,000 patients worth of data
in various protocols and things.
So what's being recommended, what's being done right now has been shown to be fairly
effective.
There's an inhalation session of maybe 30 to 60 minutes at a time, maybe slightly longer,
and then one to three times a day.
There's actually an inhalation machine here at the show, I just found out.
Actually, I know they're coming from Japan.
I'm good friends with the researchers there.
They're a research company actually and they developed this product, so now we have another
way.
You have the hydrogen-producing tablets.
You have the other method, the hydrogen water.
Now you have this inhalation machine.
Hydrogen is becoming very common as it is already in Asia.
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Tony Robbins: How to Increase Your Influence ( Tony Robbins Success ) - Duration: 23:27.
Our next subjects is rapport in your notes anywhere you want there's no place
for just right rapport is power rapport is power earlier today we said anything
you want to achieve anything you want to learn master experience there's somebody
out there who has a life experience the understanding the network a capital the
thing you need to be able to achieve it but they're not going to give you what
they want or there are give you what you want rather a need until you first give
them what they want need and you're not going to find out what they want need
until you first get in a relationship of rapport if you don't do that you're
never to learn anything rapport is power what is a relationship of rapport
rapport means total responsiveness between people when someone is totally
responding to you and you're totally responding that your and rapport
there's that connection if that spark that happens in certain communications
or relationships now everybody wants to create rapport have it but most people
only get rapport with people who are like whom themselves or they lose with
everybody else which means you've got a very limited world so we want to take it
to a different level so let's say for example if I said to you right now guys
I want you to go out to a local restaurant a bar and I want you to meet
somebody and I want you to develop rapport with
them I connects with them how many feel like you do that no problem say I and if
you're not raising a hand you're probably selling yourself short of
course you could how would you do it though you walk in this restaurant a bar
you meet somebody and you engage them in conversation by asking a few what
questions now is it possible to ask a few questions and have a conversation go
boom just die is that possible yes or no so questions don't create rapport
questions are a tool used to dig for something what are you digging for we
ask these questions you're trying to find something in what that's right so
write your notes rapport is created by a feeling of commonality before is created
by a feeling of commonality for is created by salient commonality we people
we feel like we have something in common with someone there's a spark now here's
the problem if rapport is created by affinity of commonality most people try
to get rapport by using words but you've already learned something what
percentage of our communication skills are words what percentage seven percent
which means you're leaving at 93 percent of your skills which is why most people
don't get rapport with a large number people yeah what are you talking the
restaurant embargo hi what's your name where are you from why are you here and
first one says my name is Abbey I'm from Iraq I'm a terrorist I'm here to kill
people and you go amazing me too
now see words don't always work do they but there is something that always works
to get rapport and that's something called matching and mirroring matching
and mirroring now mastercam mirroring came about 35 years ago when it's we've
all done matching marrying our whole lives but the person who pointed out was
Milton Erickson dr. Erickson was a genius what he did was he was a medical
doctor but he also was a psychologist and a hypnotherapist probably the best
that ever lived but people will come to see him who try to change everything
anywhere else in their life nothing at work they see him for one session he
handle it and the reason is because he understood something he understood that
you have both the conscious mind and a subconscious mind and he knew the
subconscious is more powerful it's a part that makes your heart beat a
hundred thousand times a day without even think about so he knew if he could
influence your subconscious mind he could change anything and that's what he
did but here's how he did it he had polio so he was in a wheelchair so he
spent an enormous amount of time studying people and he began to notice
something about human beings that when human beings got together if they got in
rapport a relationship of responsiveness they became like each other in a variety
of ways what he called they mirrored each other
now I've taught this for 25 years I'm sure you've heard of it I've written in
my books and it's been taught in a variety of it areas now but it's one
thing to know it intellectually understand it's another thing to know it
what you're doing it that's what I want to get you do tonight so you have a real
experience of it that you won't forget but here's the basis of it people like
people who are like whom themselves and people don't like people who are not
like themselves to be more specific right this now people like people who
are like themselves or who are like how they would like to be people like people
who are like themselves or are how they would like to be people like people are
like themselves or how they would like to be so questions I'd like you to think
of someone you really really like a lot and then if you would raise your hands
this person is either like you or they're like how you want to be if
that's true rich and say I of course that's why I like them now think of
someone you don't like I'm sure you like everyone but if you once were a nun
spiritual person and filthy feelings some of you don't like raising it up
they're not like you or they're not like how you want to be if that's true raise
your hand say I and that's the opposite people don't like people who are not
like them or are not like how they want to be that's the bottom line of it so
this concept Erikson noticed he used it in the following way watch me if you
came to see dr. Erikson instead of talking to you intellectually and trying
to get through to you he'd go right to the jugular by getting your nervous
system connected to him getting rapport so if you came to him and you said dr.
Erickson them I don't know this is a waste of time I've tried everything and
I don't know I think I should just go he would do this he'd go I'm sure it looks
that way on the surface but you haven't tried this so you haven't tried
everything and I think you should stay the person go oh something about this
guy I like you know he's not over-the-top you know
I mean he's like really real there's just somebody in the field down home and
real to me right if you came to see mr. dr. Erickson I've tried it there's a
waste of my time I'm out of here he'd say you sit out you haven't tried
everything you've not done this before you're staying right here
okay goes hey I'm like this guy's got some spunk kick ass maybe he could do
something see he became like the pee blues communicating with and what it was
is whatever they put out he sent the same message back like biofeedback
and didn't train them to him so that when he didn't told their unconscious
what to do their brain just did it that was his power now we all do this
naturally to want us some fun gone tonight or a singles bar and watch
people when they first meet and then you can see when the before happens if they
finally sit down and they'll start to lean in the same direction start nodding
your head at the same tempo if one's tapping their foot often you'll see
other one tap their foot the volume and tone of their voice will start to mirror
if they're on the pour into outer border you'll see them interact opposites of
this nature now if you want to be effective then mirroring is so easy we
do it naturally but here's the problem most people wait till they have enough
words in common then they put the voice in common in the body in common but
where's only 7% it will work all the time and by the way do we judge people
in a matter of seconds by their style yes or no that's right
right this your note style is more important in substance initially style
is more important in substance initially that sounds terrible but it's true style
is more important than substance initially I notice I say initially if
you don't have any substance it's not going to last but you have lots of
substance and no style and people never hear a word you say no one will ever
going to know what you believe I give an example how many of them are dealt with
somebody whose tone of voice alone drove you up a wall and you couldn't listen to
anything they said they like Dennis trill tonality everything rhythm so I
could say I okay so that style gets in the way of substance now let's give an
example let's say you and I want to mirror something we want to put
something to feel connected to us and we're going to do it on the phone
what are some aspects of the voice that you could mirror that would make them
unconsciously immediately feel connected to you what does the mask that you tell
me okay tone of voice wisely just said as a perfect one because if you're
talking like this and they're talking like this and I say well I don't know
what do you think you're not going to feel very comfortable through time total
voice is HUGE if you mirror someone for the voice they will feel connected to
you not even know why what else besides tone of voice could you mirror on the
phone okay tempo what kind of person talks
with this put of complaints like I'm talking right now what kind of people
talk at this particular place well in front of the country to talk at this
pace I'm aware where one pilot country where and their equities or one New York
could be a good example how do people talk more like this feel
about those fast talking city slickers do they trust them no they don't know
how to say the word dog you house fast walking person feel about slow talking
person running Mary Mary we think Mary waiting there today
there he goes well well watch nobody's ever seen this mismatch between two
people right what else besides speed volume loud talking people who do they
like they love loud talking people they know you're a real man you're a real
woman to two off lights loud talking people deaf people like loud talking
people but how to quiet talking people feel about those loud talking people
they're obnoxious aren't they and of course intelligent people talk
like you and I do don't they do we judge people in a matter of seconds by their
volume by by their tone by their tempo yes or no
you better believe we do what else could you mirror on the phone terminology key
words there's certain words people use again and again if you sell real estate
and somebody comes in and says I'm looking for a magnificent home do you
want to say oh I have a fantastic place to show you know I have this experience
myself once and somebody says no no I got a fantastic place fantastic and
magnificent maybe the same to you but I guarantee they aren't for the other
person if you mirror their words they will feel her they will feel understood
and they will also feel you're a smarter thing what else besides words tone tempo
volume accent well only if you really have that accent if you trying to
duplicate it it's not really your accent you're going to break reform right what
about the body what could you mirror in the body if you
were there in person welcome to miracle posture is very powerful really upright
your upright they're more relaxed you're more than that what else gestures watch
this if somebody's talking evil are funny when they're making important
points people have idiosyncratic gestures idiosyncratic mean gestures
that are all their own so if you're talking to Scott he says I don't think
so I think we ought to do this and he makes this funny little gesture when
he's talking about what he really wants to do if you turn back to him and say
you know that's a great idea can I ask you a question though what if we do this
instead you make that same emotion with your hand and looking to be like a
friend you think I'm kidding you go out tonight
at dinner and you find somebody who's on an angle to you or in front of you don't
even look at them just mirror them for five to ten minutes they reach from the
glass each big last glass is empty no one's going to notice just reach for the
glass they bring it up they bring it down bring it down
they reach this work reaches before five to ten minutes five minutes usually ten
minutes max after you notice five ten minutes we'll have some fun leads for
your glass and watch what they do they'll reach for it like that it's
called pacing and leading it's also known as in train
it many of you know that if you go to an old clock shop where they have those old
grandfather clocks so they have the little pendulum that once they whine and
those pendulums start out different and they all end up in sync called
entrainment women know this but most men don't
so I'll just share this with you women have the ability to like clocks with
other women when women hang out together men they literally end up having their
periods at the same time so that all the men are crazy during that time it's a
true ladies yes or no if they are poor their periods become insane so women's
periods can come in sync you could get rapport with a stranger across the room
and all you going to do is mirror them for five or ten minutes and make a
change right it'll make it happen all right how many home so what else besides
posture could you mirror in the body what else gestures we already said what
else facial expression most of us if someone's telling you a story and
they're like really into their story and they're making these faces do you sit
and look at them like this no you look back to make the same stupid
look back later what about eye contact a lot of business people and sales people
on top a total lie they've been taught like if you're really truly going to
influence someone you must look directly into their eyes and not break eye
contact for 45 straight minutes this way they know you really mean it there's
only one problem with that problem is people like people who are like whom
themselves so if you got somebody just stares in your eyes and doesn't blink
for 45 straight but it's going to freak you out what kind of person steers your
eyes and doesn't break eye contact aliens that's who most humans look away
right so if they look away give them a break and look away don't make them
crazy now if you meet somebody who like locks eyes with you and doesn't break
eye contact you lock eyes right back you keep them on for 45 minutes don't know
you're an alien - it'll build rapport what else what else besides eye contact
facial expressions gestures posture come on what else breathing breathing is very
powerful one of the most powerful if you breathe that the exact same taste as
another player soon you will feel what they are feeling
period but you got doing for the same location the same tempo and breathing as
magnificent because it really hooks you to this person how many of you can think
of a time in your life when you were breathing at the same pace as another
person and you felt really close for some reason
anybody think of a time like that see I used to do a lot of sexual therapy for
couples and when you help people in this area you get to practice because people
pay anything they'll fly anywhere to get this part of their life handled so I end
up with a six-month waiting list no exaggeration I mean every single day
booked and people if you calling me based on referrals because I helped
their friend let me be like I gotta see it got to go see you now and I'm like I
got a six-month waiting for your lunch time I'll buy your dinner
look I really how about I refer you to somebody I've trained it wants to be
much I know it's gotta be you so here's how I would deal with it I would say
okay I will give you one of my lunches if you take an assignment I give me but
first you got to answer some questions honestly here's the first question when
you make love do you breathe in unison while you're making well and apparently
the guy will go ahead can I say let me explain you're here telling me about all
these things you're upset with each other about and you talk about these
things too you're blue in the face but the real problem is you don't feel
connected you don't feel well and I said you don't have that feeling of total
oneness with each other and delicate more about this not going to change it
so if you really want to change this I suggest you do this and if you do what
I'm telling you still need me I'll give you one of my lunches sighs I want yours
I want to do I want to go home and I want you to make up for an hour and a
half minimum and while you're doing it I want you to breathe in unison the entire
time with each other because what happens is you feel totally connected as
one out of who knows three four dozen people I asked to do that only one
person ever called us back and wanted to be able to do session but the bond is
there so try it not now later this evening plus the great thing about
mirroring somebody's breathing it's very subtle no one's going to jump on their
chair and say would you stop burying my breathing and they're not going to
notice so you got breathing you got posture you got gestures you got facial
sessions you got eye contact what else could you mirror come on use your brain
the answer I want to see if you come up with it come on what else could you
mirror proximity good what does proximity mean proximity means
everybody has a certain amount of space that they need to be comfortable it's
different for every single person you're going to meet in your life
so if I come walking up here like this and I start walking let's say along here
and I walk up to this lady here she's comfortable right now
can I come here I'm right on the edge of her comfort zone
come on right she you can see it in her face how do I know because the muscles
are neck when ain't face my aunt and all tightness you stop breathing that's a
clue now that doesn't mean she doesn't want you to come closer but that's the
first moment of her starting to feel impact and I come right back to here
there we go now she's breathing again how many could see the difference you
see it you see all of a sudden here but she's reading it so this is more comfort
once little bits here versus here how many have somebody do this where
they get this close to your face and you just want to punch them how many others
experience and they almost always have bad breath do don't they so when
somebody and are there people like that to get this smokes in your face yes or
no now if you pull back though you just broke rapport because that's what they
need to feel good so you got to like hang in there with those people so it's
different for every person that you need so how do you know you just guess no you
use your sensory what acuity you have acute sensitivity see what's the impact
on getting here's it's working oh I can come closer or not where is it and it
can change Jules I'm going have initial reaction and they let you closer but you
pay attention because it you don't do this breaking rapport in this area
people don't even think when you're in their space and everybody's got
different space who here freaks out when somebody gets too close there's some
people I'm sure in this room that are total freak outs about this you ma'am in
the black what's your name please don't want to come down come on
give her hand come on give her hand
Lisa come on down here come on down and run down here Lisa run down here run
down here run down yet oh it's your face oh there we go
it's the face see she's one of body-block me did you know that you can
boom we can hit bodies that's okay but the face watch what happens if you get
in the face are you enjoying the seminar let's spend your favorite part not this
far where you going now
notice once you get too close to her face did you see that how many saw that
instant reaction okay she Nellie pulls back she snaps to the side because some
people most people have like a force field who have this experience hers is
more just the face and you got close closer to her chest or something like
that they they'll do one of things so this kind of person backs off but most
people are more settled you get too close here's what they do they start
coming you'll see them as they're talking to you they're kind of wavering
back and forth and you notice their ass is moving them further and further back
from you right or they'll do this they'll turn sideways because what does
that do creates a sense of space okay so everyone's different now hers
hers is not the body and she's kind of being playful now here with this as well
but the face normally is something for her that's in effect now she's going
different she says okay I'm comfortable with you give him thank you very much
now there's another one that's critically important that's touch now
you can get more rapport by touching some people to buy anything you could
ever say but again you can have some sensory acuity you can't go up though he
looks like a touch of a man I love your hair love your hair really good that's
really cool really good you do that you could get killed but he's a nice man so
didn't kill me so we got to notice there's no sign of man shake hands
like he shake hands he puts one hand top together Genesis he reached over he just
shook his hand immediately bring the other hand on top like this and when he
does it some people to shake your hand they like squeeze it see if they can
break a few of your blood vessels you know just to show they're a real man
other people they got that fish handshake and a
but if they this year you got to fish them back yeah here we go
fish fish right because that builds rapport but in his case it's like boom
boom right you get more connection rapport with him with that plats than
anything you could ever say thank you so notice how does a person touch somebody
like even if some business notice how the business woman or man touches their
assistant in a non-sexual way and this notice if they come along and he comes
hi honey goes thanks a lot Tony hits me like this three times on the shoulder I
come back and I say thank you John I'll get more important by that touch to
buy anything that I could say to him so touch and proximity are huge huge now
you might say well this is interesting Tony but what are you suggesting are you
saying something like okay they sit down I sit down look to mirror everything
someone does that report it's not like they lift their leg you lift your leg
they lean forward you leave or they sit back they you sit back you don't to do
that although believe it on it you can do a lot of people not even notice but
for example you get rapport just with a leg position and maybe the tone of voice
because physiology 65% communication if you're sitting there let's say let's say
you cross your leg like this can I cross my leg like this while we're talking yes
or no it'll feel comfortable to you please start bouncing your foot like
this packing for time outs my foot same tempo if I do
by the way I goose for a while and then if I don't like it I could slow it down
in the stores now that's tasty I'm leaning in it but if you do this if they
clap their leg and now they go ahead and cross you don't uncross the moment and
cross wait to go to say something and say you know what because when you go to
speak speaking requires a change of physiology and they'll ever notice what
you're doing very unique now it is true if you know they lean forward are you
saying well right they lean forward I leave more they lean back I lean back
they cross the leg I cross might they pick their nose I pick my mouth exactly
no you don't do everything and if you start going like this when they're
mirroring you start going after about 20 minutes ago what's wrong with you but
you'd be surprised you can mirror people and be mirroring almost everything
they're doing and they rarely have ever noticed it right
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DIY SLIME! HOW TO MAKE SLIME!! - Duration: 9:32.
Hi guys!!
Today we are going to be making Slime!. Here are my brother and sister by my side making their own slimes.
The first thing you will need is a bowl to mix in the ingredients.
The first ingredient you need is glue. Pour the glue completely in the bowl.
Then, take a tablespoon of baking soda and mix it until it is all dissolved.
Continue to mix it and make sure it is all dissolved.
Take another tablespoon of baking soda and continue mixing it until it is dissolved.
Now let's add 5 (five) drops of saline solution and mix it.
This is how it is going to be turning out.
This part is optional, you can add glitter or/and food coloring. We are just adding glitter for this one.
A little bit more of saline solution so it won't stick to your hands.
And a little bit more of saline solution and continue to mix it to make sure the baking soda is completely dissolved.
Now grab it with your hands and play around with it to give it the slime texture.
I'm adding a little bit more of saline solution because my slime is too sticky. The saline solution will help for the slime not to stick to your hands.
And there you have it!! SLIME!!!!!
If you liked this video, please subscribe, give me a thumbs up and share with your friends and family.
Thank you for watching!!!
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How the FBI's Adopt-a-School Program is Working in Hawaii - Duration: 5:12.
So, six months ago we got together with the University of Hawaii and its forensic anthropology
department and we pre-staged a crime scene with two victims that we had buried in a shallow grave
on campus here.
We have five blocks of instruction.
Real basics on how to approach crime scenes that include crime-scene safety, search patterns,
how to engage in crime scene photography and sketching, and how to gather evidence and
take good quality notes.
With those basic skills, our students go ahead and are dropped into a two-day field training
exercise.
School number one that participates in this is Waipahu High School.
Waipahu High School is our socially, economically disadvantaged at-risk neighborhood.
So, we have a number of high-performing students with a high degree of resilience, but come
from a very different economic and ethnic background attending Waipahu High School.
School number two that we're partnering with is our privileged all-girls Sacred Hearts
Academy, a well-known high school here in the state of Hawaii that has a rock-star STEM
program.
These are very high-performing students that are highly driven.
When I first became a police officer back in 2000 over here in Waipahu, it was a completely
different neighborhood from what we see today.
There was high crime, a lot of truancy.
In certain areas of the neighborhood officers could not go in alone.
They had to go in with two or three officers; two officers that service the 911 call in
that area and one officer to stay outside and watch the cars to make sure the cars weren't
vandalized.
It was a really—it was kind of a rough neighborhood.
So, what we're really trying to do, ultimately, the outcome we're looking to achieve are
the drastic reduction of those numbers—can we reduce violence, can we reduce drugs in
that neighborhood to make that neighborhood a safer and better place.
You learned that you've got to work together as a team, and always as a team, because you're
never by yourself.
And we ended up finding two bodies of one male and one female.
And that was actually really cool digging it up.
It definitely made me feel more connected.
You know how different police stations connect to each other?
They barely know anything about the other police station.
Yet here they are.
They're working together to solve this case and try to bring justice to this victim of it.
We're taking a lot of the core values that would make successful people in general—not
only successful FBI agents or successful FBI employees.
But what are those elements that lead to long-term success?
And trying to see if we can implement some of that in the school.
It makes me feel really humbled to think that someone would go through all this trouble
just so I could have this experience of solving a real crime.
I think it was a great experience for both sides, to look at and learn from each other.
Thanks to Special Agent Laanui and the FBI in working and building our academy, I think
our students see law enforcement perhaps in a different light now for some of them.
Now it's, hey, you know, they're here to help.
That's my friend.
We keep injecting positive messages and positive things and building positive relationships
with people, eventually the only thing that could happen are positive things.
So, there is a neighborhood and a campus renaissance that's kind of taking place.
And walking on that campus now is absolutely phenomenal.
There is nothing but really advanced learning that's taking place.
And not only learning but a zeal and an excitement about learning that hasn't been there before.
And we're really fortunate to have been partnered with this school to help play a
role in some of that.
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How kids imagine life on a farm | Cadbury - Duration: 2:32.
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PIE FACE SHOWDOWN BEST FRIENDS SEE HOW WELL DO WE KNOW EACH OTHER PIE FACE CHALLENGE GAME - Karma - Duration: 15:18.
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BEAUTY IS LIFE TUTORIAL How to: USE EYESHADOW as a spectacle wearer - Duration: 3:04.
Hello dear Beauty Friends, I am happy to meet Nicole and to talk about our today´s beauty topic. Nicole, first of all: Hello.Hi Beatrix.
Nicole, you have a special wish- and I would be glad if you tell us more about it.
You are welcome. I am flying to Gran Canaria and as I am a spectacle wearer I would love to have the nice eyeshadow for my holidays, please, Beatrix.
Of course, I´ll have something for you. But I have to consider several factors:
Holidays are a special situation with sun and beach,
maybe you go out at night a little bit more than often
About your glasses: do you wear them always or sometimes?
I am wearing it constantly.
Good to know, then it could be a little bit more eyeshadow used than usual. One of my favorite subjects:
Find the right color for your character, looking gorgeous with your eyes and your hair.
I have chosen a turquoise tone as it fits perfect to your gold-blonde hair and your wonderful brown eyes.
It is a slight contrast to not having all brown in brown nuances which is normally nice but in this special case more fitting.
Do you dare to apply it yourself?
For sure, I can do it myself.
That is great. Take it like this.
Take the brush named luxury with the no. 1364, a superb brush.
Now let´s change
Take some eyeshadow on the brush and sway it softly on your eyelid. Close to the lashes. Wonderful.
And
Do you feel the bone over there?
That is the eye socket and up to that point you put the eyeshadow evenly spread on.
And take the other eyelid to have it steady
And you see, it does not blur under the eye, but stays on the eyelid where it should be.
And apply it while swaying back and forth
If you put it a little bit higher and „fade it out" as we Pros say, perhaps you heard it already.
Like this it is awesome
And? You want to have a look with your glasses?
I really would love to see it, Beatrix.
We change
I would say: the plane could leave.
How often did you apply eyeshadow before?
Very seldom, better to say barely never.
I heard about it, that is why I am surprised as you did a really great job.
Hopefully we will see you again, have a nice holiday and for you all: Have a good week and see you next week!
Bye
BEAUTY IS LIFE is Beatrix Isabel Lied.
On her own brand YouTube Channel the Beauty Expert and Cosmetic Expert Lied provides weekly tutorials for Make-Up, Styling and Skin.
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How to use multiple-color Chroma Key in VSDC Video Editor - Duration: 1:06.
Add your footage
Proceed to 'Video Effects' - 'Transparency' and select 'Background Remover'
Click the dropper in 'Properties window' and select a necessary color for Chroma Key
If one color isn't enough, click 'Add Additional Color' on the right
Preview your result!
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How to disassemble 📱 Sony Xperia X F5121 / F5122 Take apart Tutorial - Duration: 5:54.
Hello and welcome!
Dear subscribers, and viewers of our channel,
we glad to offer you a new video
in which we look at how to disassemble
📱 Sony Xperia X F5121 / F5122
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How to Delete an Instagram Account (Permanently and Temporarily) - Duration: 2:18.
Instagram has changed the way we keep up to date with friends,
family, celebrities and many more.
But the constant pressure
to diarise our lives and follow
what others are doing can be emotionally draining and time consuming.
If Instagram sucks time from your day
or gives you negative feelings it could be time to delete the account.
So without westing more time let's
o guys there are two ways to remove yourself from instagram,
the first method is tempriory which means you can return to the aacount
in case if you change your mind in future.
and the 2nd method is permannently,
it will delete all your photos and videos.
so first of all I show you how you can tempriorly disable your account
you can not diactive an instagram account
rom within the app. so you will need to go to
instagram.com on a browser.
you can do this on a Computer, mobile or tablet.
now login to your instagram page.
just tap on this person icon. hit on this edit profile.
scroll down to the bottom and here you can see
temporary disable my account option.
Now select an option
and disable your acccount. confirm this message
and that's it. now if you want to permannetly delete
your instagram account, I suggest you please take a full backup
of your instagram account.
you can do this for a third party tool called
Instaport. after backuping your account
it's time to delete it.
now from a browser go to instagram dedicated page
for deleteing account. links are given below in the discription box
if you are not logged in.
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How to protect profile pic of FB on single click - Duration: 0:40.
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How to Treat Wrinkles with Lasers While Limiting Exposure, and Still Maximizing Collagen Induction - Duration: 10:38.
Thank you for your question.
You're 29-years-old and you submitted two photos of close-ups of your eyes, one at rest
and one at expression.
And you stated in your question that you've been doing Botox® since you were about 24-years-old.
And you're asking about what's the best way to improve the lines under your eyes.
If it's a laser then you're asking for a specific answer and you're also asking
about a commercial microneedling device.
Well, I can certainly share with you my approach to developing a treatment plan for patients
like yourself in my practice.
A little bit of background, I'm a Board-certified cosmetic surgeon and Fellowship-trained oculofacial
plastic and reconstructive surgeon.
I have been in practice in Manhattan and Long Island for over 20 years.
And helping people improve the appearance wrinkles around the eyes is something we do
all day long in our practice every day.
So in the absence of both a more in depth history and a physical examination, I would
start by first inquiring.
When I see someone who is young like yourself as to what are some of the potential causes
of this degree of wrinkling which is from my experience, greater than what I would expect
from someone who is young.
And usually or often, there is history of excess sun exposure, maybe a history of the
use of tanning beds consistently and extensively as well as smoking history.
And of course, I'd also ask about medical history and other issues as well as the genetics
of these types of wrinkle issues in the family in terms of ethnic background.
People who tend to have lighter skin tend to have fine lines and wrinkles at an early
age as opposed to people who have darker skin types.
Now that being said, I also look into other medical issues whether it has to do with diet
with medications and other factors that could be contributing.
Also allergies, I'd look into whether a person has extensive seasonal allergies and
other issues that can cause an issue with eye swelling and eye rubbing.
Now that being said, the point of asking those questions about history, if there are variables
that I can do something about in terms of guidance and what to do or what not to do,
that also helps.
Prevention is very important and certainly you've been doing that by doing Botox®
to try to minimize the muscle activity that's causing the fine lines and wrinkles to occur.
Now to share with you my general approach, again, looking at someone who's young and
with the tools that we currently have, the point of your question as far as technology
is concerned is what do the technologies do to help improve wrinkles.
Well, when you think about wrinkles, you're thinking about essentially one major issue
which is loss of support in the skin and the support in the skin is generally focused on
one major protein called collagen.
Now collagen is important and all of the devices that are very openly and aggressively marketed
whether it's laser, thermal energy device or microneedling device are all focused on
induction of collagen.
Well, I would also say that one of the things that we have to be mindful of is degree of
trauma and the consequences of that trauma not only short-term but long-term.
You see, doing this for over 20 years, I have gotten to see the results of very aggressive
treatments on patients as they age and I would say that when a treatment is very aggressive,
the skin can actually become thinner and that is something that I would caution you about.
A lot of times people believe that a more powerful laser, a more aggressive microneedling
procedure or a very aggressive thermal energy device such as a focused radiofrequency ultrasound
is a good thing because it would induce maximal collagen.
But there is a balance there and sometimes, you actually cross the line and you actually
accelerate collagen breakdown.
So I would tell you that in my practice, what was always been essentially the gold standard
to help with under eye wrinkles for lighter skinned individuals has been some kind of
laser whether it was an Erbium laser or whether it's a CO2 laser.
At the current time, in a situations like yours, probably again without the benefit
of a history and a physical examination, I would consider doing something like a fractional
CO2 laser so I could get the benefit of collagen induction as well as some thermal contraction.
Now that's different from microneedling where microneedling is causing collagen induction,
however, the thermal element of that is not there.
But I would also suggest the use of something called PRP.
Now PRP is platelet-rich plasma.
Now this is derived from your own blood and it is a concentration of the wound healing
growth factors and elements that help stimulate collagen.
And the reason why I use it a lot and I've been doing this for many years now is that
with that goal in mind of stimulating collagen and understanding that there is a line and
limit when it comes to different devices, when you're talking about PRP, you can inject
PRP under the skin and do it with regularity with no fear of a negative consequence related
to a device where skin is being heated.
In other words, you're looking at the foundation of the skin being improved and we can constantly
do that.
You can't keep doing lasers over and over.
You can't keep doing microneedling beyond a certain level, the same thing with radiofrequency.
Basically those treatments are essentially to treat then wait and see how your body responds.
Well, we've learned a lot in our practice in the art of balance where you can use a
thermal energy device like a CO2 fractional laser to resurface some of the skin as well
as induce collagen induction, I should say, and at the same time, minimize and narrow
the risk so that you don't have to be overly aggressive because then PRP complements the
process in inducing collagen and then we can do that with consistency.
The thing about this strategy and any strategy in cosmetic dermatology is that you have to
have a little bit of understanding of the concept of observation.
You treat and you observe and then you further make decisions based on the skin's response.
A lot of times whether it's non-physicians or medispas, people get locked into a treatment
schedule, a protocol, a process, something that doesn't involve a lot of thinking.
But I would argue that if a physician who understands this and is thinking about this
critically with a greater depth of knowledge and experience, you can actually have a more
customized approach.
Now of course the Botox® would also play a very important role in terms of the ongoing
maintenance.
So I recommend that you meet with qualified, experienced doctors who do this type of work
a lot and learn about the strategy of using a device that stimulates collagen in conjunction
with PRP.
I think that from my perspective, that would probably be a good strategy for you.
So I hope that was helpful, I wish you the best of luck and thank you for your question.
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How to replace front wheel bearing AUDI A4 B5 TUTORIAL | AUTODOC - Duration: 17:10.
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Dead Wrong® with Johan Norberg - How Much Does GDP Capture? - Duration: 1:32.
GDP per capita shows that we have entered
a period of stagnation.
Our lives just don't improve the way they used to.
But that's probably dead wrong.
Because GDP is great at measuring the
output of wheat and steel,
but it's terrible at capturing human wealth creation
based on ideas and information or
improvements in quality, variety and comfort.
How do you measure something that's for free?
When people saved money for years to buy
encyclopedias in the past-
that showed up as wealth in GDP statistics.
Now that it's available for free online,
it's suddenly invisible.
So one way of measuring the
consumer surplus is to ask people:
"If this service or technology was suddenly gone,
how much would you pay
to get it back in your life?"
Joel Mokyr, the economic historian asks us
to consider anesthesia.
If there was no way of reducing pain,
what would you pay for anesthesia?
Well, it barely shows up in GDP statistics.
But if you ask someone when
they're about to go into surgery,
he'd probably be willing to pay something
that approaches his total wealth.
And consider the internet.
Almost no one would give up
the internet for a million dollars.
Infact, one study even showed that a third
would rather give up sex than give up the internet.
Which I think it's fair to say
shows that it definitely underestimates
its contribution to our well-being.
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How to download Clash of Clans hack or modded app on ios no jailbreak 100% working - Duration: 5:20.
OPEN YOUR SAFARI APP
TYPE WWW.TWEAKBOXAPP.COM AND THEN CLICK GO
NOW CLICK ON DOWNLOAD APP
NOW CLICK ON ALLOW
NOW CLICK ON INSTALL
TYPE YOUR PASSWORD HERE
NOW CLICK INSTALL AGAIN
NOW GO TO TWEAKBOX APP
CLICK ON APPS
SCROLL DOWN AND CLICK HACKED GAMES AND APPS
NOW YOU CAN SEE CLASH OF CLANS CLICK ON THAT AND HIT INSTALL
IT WILL START TO DOWNLOADING
IT WILL TAKE 5-6 MINS TO DOWNLOAD THEREFORE I SKIPPED THE DOWNLOAD TIME
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cabi Fall 2017: How Becky Styled - Duration: 1:41.
Hi ladies welcome to how I styled the collection.
SO this
season when we found out we were going to london
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DIY How to make nylon butterfly out of tights (ENG Subtitles) - Speed up #382 - Duration: 3:16.
Hi. Today I will show you how to make butterfly out of nylon tights.
I made this video by request from my viewer.
Detailed list of all needed items is in the description of this video.
Wrap a wire around a round container (make a circle).
Remove it...
...and make another circle.
Cut them off...
...and fold the end of wire.
Make second pair of circles but slightly bigger.
Improve a shape of both pairs of wings.
Wrap a wing by using tights.
Secure it by using thread.
Cut off an excess of nylon.
Do the same with all the wings.
Next, bind wings together by using thread.
Hide the thread by using a piece of tights.
Secure it by using glue.
Cut a piece of wire.
Fold it in half...
...and add beads.
Squeeze the wire.
Add a bead on the end of wire.
Fold the end (secure the bead).
To the same with second end of wire.
Glue the body to the wings.
Glue a couple of pearls to the wings.
And it's done.
This butterfly is a nice decoration.
You can attach it to a curtain or use it to make a hair decoration.
You can decorate your butterfly by using rhinestones, sequins or other small ornaments.
Please give a like to this video and subscribe to my channel.
That's all for today. Thanks for watching. Bye bye.
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