Yo, yo.
Are you all ready for another episode of detox and tangents car talks episode 3?
Feeling super passionate right now and inspired so I just whipped out the camera see what
comes out.
You know I had a group of eight guys over for the - it was nine guys actually.
Ten of us total: me and my business partner and eight guys for the retreat.
The first ever The Detox Dudes retreat and it was fucking amazing really amazing.
But there was a lot of bro talk, you know, a lot of guy talk.
I just learned a lot and realized a lot and realized how much other stuff we need to detox
aside from physical supplements.
There's so many other facets of our existence that need to be detoxed in my opinion.
Is that better?
Whatever.
I'll just keep it like this and you'll see half of me.
You know like a few of the guys were on Tinder and in Bumble and stuff like that.
And a long time ago, I used to mess around with that stuff and I just realized so much
about it recently.
I mean not recently.
I've known about it but I can more deeply see the core of all that stuff and I would
even lump Facebook into a similar category.
And what I realized is that these things completely take away from our ability to be our truest,
highest self.
I mean Facebook if you could use within moderation I think it's a good tool.
But Tinder and Bumble and stuff like that online dating, what I realized is that the
stuff is garbage because the first thing you're judging somebody on is their physical appearance
which if you're connected to yourself at all you realize that physical appearance is really
tough to convey in just photographs because there's so much fuckery going on right.
First of all, people don't really look like their photos.
Second of all, if you're attracted to someone's photo, energetically you could be so unattractive
to them.
So it's like you're literally, you know, people think it's saving time by sifting through
online dating first or like swiping left or right.
You're saving time because you're only going to meet up with people who are physically
attracted to.
But you're actually wasting a shitload of time by sitting on your phone and sifting
and swiping when they're missing tons of experience in person and you're missing any of the potential
fireworks that could be happen in person which transcend physical appearance.
We all know people who we normally would not be physically attracted to but because of
their energy or something about them or their eyes or something about them, you can totally
change your perception on them.
And that, you know, Tinder doesn't allow us to do that and you know it's like a mass hijacking
of a sexual energy that takes all that energy and basically wastes it and blows it onto
this this device you know.
And it's like you know a lot of people say 'Well it's not a big deal' but I really do
think it is a big deal actually because it's so hard to really, truly value yourself at
your highest potential and your deepest core and then go ahead and like put yourself on
this website and wipe left and right and look for all these you know quick flings you know.
And I think even quick flings should even be be tossed out you know.
It's perfect not everybody.
I can't speak for everybody.
For me, I no longer have any interest in any quick fling because when you have sex with
someone, you're exchanging deep energetic connection, super deep core connection and
you're swapping auras, and you're swapping etheric energy, and you're taking on all their
junk and they're taking on all your junk.
So, you know, it's really like you want to do it with somebody that you love, with somebody
that you deeply connect, with somebody who you know, who you admire, and who admires
you.
So I just don't see the reason for a quick fling anymore you know.
This is the way Tinder is marketed for and you know it's like
I don't know.
It just has a bad it just has a bad flavor to me - Tinder and online bathing.
And I think honestly I think what people fail to realize is that there are people around
the world right now who specifically are here to be put in in place with you to provide
maximum potential growth to each other.
It's called a soul bump or soul contract where there are people here specifically for you
at your stage of the game who can act as an exact mirror for you, showing you all of your
shit and showing you all of your good stuff to basically provide you with the maximum
potential catalyst for growth, the largest catalyst for growth.
And there's probably people in every single state in the country or every single part
of the world that you know that you can get this with.
It's not just one person right like one soul mate you know.
There are many, many different people who are who are here for you and I don't think
that you find that on Tinder.
I think you find that by being present and being open, energetically open and available
and watching what's actually happening and listening to the Universe.
Because all the Tinder and the digital bullshit, that takes us away from our true Wi-Fi - that
true Wi-Fi connection with the divine you know and intuition.
And that's the stuff that leads you to the next part of your journey.
So, anyway, you know detoxing Tinder, detoxing online dating, I think is huge.
Detoxing the news I think is huge you know.
Just for what?
For what?
Why watch that shit?
It just makes me depressed and sad and like anxious and makes me fearful.
You know like when I watch some stuff if I put the news on and I see if there's like
a robbery or car theft, I just go immediately into fearful thoughts and no part of my day
actually changes.
None of my actions change except I'm now more fearful.
So it's just like a virus honestly and you know what else what else...
There's so much to detox.
This is what I wrote my book on.
I wrote this whole mini e-book on this subject of what needs to be detoxed aside from your
body because there's so much and I realized that it's impossible to heal on physical supplements
alone.
You got to detox your life in a deeper way and you know stuff like faulty relationships
and toxic relationships and what else.
I mean you know money.
Money is another huge thing that should be cleaned up.
You know people are, including myself, I'm guilty of it.
I've chased and I spent months and months and months sometimes chasing money and then
I look back and like first of all I didn't make any more fucking money than I did when
I was chasing love.
And second of all, time went by really fast.
I wasn't present and I didn't enjoy any of it.
So chasing money needs to be detoxed because the truth about money is that it's a form
of energy and it carries an energy and just like every other facet of life, the way to
truly - it sounds crazy but for all you guys out there, the way to truly get laid or find
an amazing woman, it's to actually stop caring.
If you find an amazing woman or not, it's like as soon as you get to a place where you
don't care anymore, then all of the wealth and riches comes your way.
And it's crazy because when you stop caring about things like for instance you know, I'm
making pretty decent money now and I don't actually need anything.
No material goods really make me happy except like supplements and healthy food.
So it's like you achieve material wealth or you know for me I can't really say I'm wealthy
but like, you know, I've been moderately successful past year.
But there's nothing to buy.
There's nothing to spend it on so it's like what the fuck you know.
So the same is true for like women.
You gotta just be happy with yourself and do the work and then what happens is there's
a natural void that's created in the universe.
A natural void.
Once you accept yourself as you are and you stop chasing, there's a void that's created
and the universe naturally seeks to fill that void.
So as soon as you stop caring, that's when it all happens.
So as far as money, money can't be chased.
If you keep chasing it, it keeps running away.
So there's an amazing book called 'Busting Loose From the Money Game' which I highly,
highly, highly recommend.
Life-changing book basically talks about how money is our money is nothing more than digits
on a computer screen.
Money is all an illusion.
There's no such thing as safe money or smart money.
There are countless stories of people losing every penny no matter how safe of a place
they kept their money in and there's people of the stories of people accumulating extraordinary
wealth in an extremely short period of time.
And basically the essence of this book is that you know money needs to be treated as
a form of energy and a form of appreciation.
And the flow of money is what needs to be accepted, not the accumulation of wealth but
the flow of it.
So the influx and the outflux both need to be appreciated and accepted.
So you have to be happy to pay your bills right.
Like now one thing I do is I literally go on my credit card statement or anytime I pay
for something, I literally pay for it and I'm like even if it's like as something as
annoying as rent or another thing is the water bill, I'm just like 'Thank you so much divine
God for this ability for me to pay for this water, for me to pay for this amazing space
that I'm living in.
I'm so grateful that I can have the ability to pay this money and do this.'
And it feels really good what you do that.
Feels really, really good just to constantly express appreciation.
It's completely life-changing.
So yeah I would say the chasing of money needs to be detoxed and then the money virus of
like thinking that money is everything.
I think the true jewels come from chasing health with everything you have, just chasing
happiness with everything you have, every penny, every ounce of Chi, just chase that
happiness and let all the rest drop off.
What else...
What else...
I mean I just detoxed Facebook.
I can't stand Facebook.
I mean there's something about my personality, my addictive self where I just cannot handle
Facebook.
It's like I seem to like I just find myself mindlessly scrolling on there for hours and
checking it every couple of hours and I just can't seem to figure it out.
Why I'm it's almost like feeling almost like I'm possessed to check it like it's some sort
of spell.
And there's all kinds of like dark stuff on there and heavy videos, emotionally heavy
videos, and I don't know I just I'm realizing that you know like we miss so much with the
digital world.
And the universe is trying to talk to us at all points in the day all the time and I feel
like I lose my ability to listen when I'm just totally drowning in Facebook and all
that online stuff.
So yeah guys if you're out there, I would detox I mean definitely detox Tinder and all
that shit.
Girls too.
I would just detox it.
See how it makes you feel right, like the ultimate test right.
Don't take anyone's advice.
The ultimate test is see for yourself, know for yourself.
Almost anybody I talk to when they're using Facebook and they're using Tinder, they don't
feel good like there's something about that just feels draining instead of invigorating.
And I really I really agree with that.
So now I can't say for sure about the Facebook.
I think it has a lot of positive benefits but I know from a deep place that Tinder and
Bumble and all that shit that some of the guys we're using at the retreat, I think it's
just poison.
The news is poison.
And then honestly another huge, huge thing is to detox masturbation and porn.
Wow.
I mean if males stop jerking off, I think this world would be a completely different
place.
What's happening is that men are essentially taking their Chi and their Jing and all their
life force and they're busting it into a fucking tissue or into the toilet.
And biologically, they're losing their charge.
They're losing their force on the planet and also they're falsely telling their bodies
that its mission accomplished right.
We're here to survive and replicate and procreate.
And when you ejaculate, you're basically saying to your body 'Oh, good job.
Mission accomplished.
We did what we need to do this week or today.'
And that's bullshit because you haven't gotten any closer to what you need to do which is
you know whatever it is that you need to do: make money and create a life and create an
empire and create a business or create anything that you're here to create.
Anything you're supposed to do.
So obviously, you know there's something here you're supposed to do.
So yeah what I realized is that by doing that, first of all you'll feel drained and some
Chinese medicinal use to say that you only have a certain amount of ejaculation in your
entire lifetime believe it or not.
And as far as healing is concerned, it is essential.
All my clients who don't who all my clients who don't listen to me in that regard, the
male clients and I'm like 'Dude, trust me on this one.
Once every eight days at an absolute maximum otherwise you're going to have a tough time
healing.'
If they don't listen to me on that, it's almost like they have no chance.
That's how important it is.
You got to cultivate your Chi, really start cultivating it in your body and allowing your
body to use it for healing, for spiritual growth.
And I think porn is just it's poison, absolute poison.
You know a few times a year whatever if you have to do it.
But to do it every week or every day is absolute poison.
It's whatever.
I don't have to go too deep into it but it's it's just very toxic.
It's not real love, it's not real sex, it's all imagery, it's all acting and it really
fucks up it fucks up our neurotransmitters.
It fucks up our connection to sexual energy and our relationship to it.
So yeah I would say to detox masturbation for sure, for sure, for sure as much as possible
for the healing journey.
I think I really think this world would be a different place without it.
But for women, it's different.
You know actually in French and in Chinese medicine and in French like some traditional
French I guess European medicine or whatever the followed, they used to call the ejaculation
petite mort which literally means little death.
So there's a reason for that.
So yeah I mean you know you want to cultivate that energy and use it.
It could really change your life.
Really, really transform your life.
And furthermore, you know, there's this concept of leaking that I was talking about with the
guys who were over.
There's this concept of spiritual leaking.
It's very important to try and seal the holes, the leakages in our vessels of consciousness.
If our vessels are like this boat, this boat that you know is in the ocean and it's going
somewhere.
We don't know where it's going but it's going somewhere.
I would say that the physical toxins, the toxins like heavy metals and plastics and
estrogens and parasites are like an anchor right.
Big ass heavy anchor that's preventing us from going anywhere.
So you have to cut the anchor before anything happens.
But you can cut the anchor, you still need to seal the leaks in your boat and this is
done over many, many, many years.
I'm still working on this every day, sealing my leaks.
In fact, I'm probably leaking right now to some degree because I'm not speaking from
pure genuine rounded place right.
I mean I'm hyper and I'm excited and I'm passionate right.
So this concept of leaking is like you want to forge a life for yourself where you're
not spiritually, energetically leaking.
What that means is like lying, stealing, not being honest with yourself, doing things to
please others instead of pleasing yourself.
Forms of sexual leaking are like porn, excessive masturbation and excessive sex, unconnected
sex.
All of these is an energetic leaking.
You know the biggest one is probably just honesty right.
Just being truthful to yourself.
It's huge, huge, huge.
And leaking with money right.
Like not paying things that you know you need to pay, not paying things on time and being
stingy and thinking that there's an exception right.
So we come from this connected place sometimes and we're like 'Oh.
I know that I have to like I know that I have to pay my bills.
I know that I have to be honest.'
And all these stuff matters when you're really connected.
It's like it's all you know that being truthful and karma and all that stuff makes total sense
when you're connected.
And then when you're not connected, you're like 'Oh, well.
It's okay.
If just one time, I just delay the paying of this bill or one time I just don't do this
or one time I lie.'
The way you do one thing, you do everything.
It's so true.
If you can forge a life for yourself where you do everything with integrity.
Everything.
Every action, every bill you pay, every conversation comes from a place of integrity, of truth,
of depth.
That's when your life can start transforming right in front of your very eyes.
Integrity is the number one most important thing to seal the leaks of our vessel, of
our vessels.
Some people don't even know what integrity is.
It takes years to even feel integrity.
But integrity is just acting from a deep place that transcends your earthly desires and transcends
your immediate gratification.
It's like always speaking from a place of truth instead of speaking from that place
to please in the moment.
There's so many conversations that we have with people where we're talking to someone
and we say things knowing they're not true simply to please the person and prevent them
from experiencing a little bit of pain.
Especially for people like me who are very sensitive.
I'm always trying to please people because I know how hard it is for me when people tell
me the truth.
It hurts me so I can't give that hurt to anyone else.
But when you're not being an integral, when you're not telling the truth, you're dancing
in the dark.
Dancing in the dark, my friends.
It's not just about detox.
It's not just about physical detox.
It's about spiritual, emotional, psychological detox.
So anyway sorry that I was a little scattered.
I'm just driving right now.
I really enjoyed that and there's a new flavor of The Detox Dudes coming alive right now.
That meditation retreat really, really just changed me.
Something shifted inside of me so I'm really excited to bring my new, my newest best self
on camera.
We'll see what comes next.
All right, you guys.
Love you all.
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