sometimes when Tristan has to leave to go run an errand I'll record another
video because then she can't tell me to not record another video that day what
is up everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul where we talk about the
problem but focus on the solution and if you're new to my channel my channel is
all about mental health and what I like to do is bring in different topics from
the YouTube community to try to teach you how to improve your mental and
emotional well-being so if you're into that kind of stuff make sure you
subscribe and bring that notification bell now before I get started real quick
announcement I know the holidays are coming up and you're wondering what to
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merch sale going on for Christmas go check it out so yeah contrary to what
the title seems like of this video I'm not hating on youtubers all right this
is just a video of that perspective perspective is a huge huge part of our
mental health I've made videos about perspective before but today it kind of
sparked you know me wanting to talk about perspective again after I was
watching Philip DeFranco and just kind of give you a point of reference when it
comes to perspective right you know working in an addiction treatment /
mental health facility perspective is something that just always fascinated me
right you could have two people who show up on the same day go through the same
treatment have the same thing because everything is the same one
person says this place sucks I hate it therapist sucks everything everything
sucks worst experience of my life right you have the other person saying this
place saved my life like that is just some of the most fascinating stuff on
earth right like how is it that some people have this positive perspective
and other people have a negative one so I was watching Philip DeFranco today and
they were talking about the YouTube story thing tweet YouTube again
YouTube's been holding out on me my channel is growing and yeah I don't
have that story feature yet I don't know why I would love to give you that
stories anyways DeFranco highlighted this tweet and to some creators saying
is this really where YouTube should be focusing with creators like prank
gameplays writing I really love how YouTube spent their time making a story
feature instead of fixing the things that are broken like sub boxes and
recommended than just the site in general that was really interesting to
me like as a newer youtuber who started to grow it's really fascinating to see
what other youtubers complain about right because my experience is so much
different so this youtuber was talking about you know the recommendations and
the sub feed and all these are the things right below my channel has grown
almost 20,000 subscribers in the last month alright that is insanity and I
love all of you who are subscribed and coming along this journey with me you're
all amazing but a lot of you have told me that I was recommended to you right
so when I see when I see another youtuber saying that the recommendations
isn't working I'm like huh why is that because it's working out really well for
me now that's not to say that YouTube is
flawless and things aren't working but something that I try to do I talked
about locus of control a little bit about Scott Williams video but let's
talk about it again what can hang and can't I control a lot
of you don't get notifications even though you have notification bells turn
on and stuff like that and some of you are taking this in control - so the way
I take it your control is I'm on Twitter and every time a new video goes up it
automatically post to Twitter we have the discord server now every time I post
a video it goes on discord like if you're following me
on other platforms you're in control and you don't miss any of my videos right
this is the third video today you might have watched all three of them so that
is the way people like me and you are taking control of the situation that
might seem outside of our control and I hope that makes sense
now something that I've noticed and this is this is something I mentioned in a
jacksepticeye video I did a while back our brain focuses on what we train it to
focus on okay so if you focus on the negative if you keep focusing on the
negative you're going to see the negative right and I do research I'm a
very analytical person I try to find out what's working what's not working
whether it's with my own mental health whether it's with YouTube whether it's
with my job whether it's with my relationship whatever it is so when I
see other youtubers complaining about certain things I go and I check out
their channels I have a lot of other youtubers to see what they're doing and
the number one thing I see especially especially for big youtubers is the the
lack of effort that they put in okay so let's just let's have a quick little
nerd talk about how YouTube's recommendations work YouTube recommends
things based on the algorithm right so one thing that I had going for me is I'm
talking in mental health with youtubers that you're already watching or that
you're looking at or whatever so what's happening is I pull that information in
my title my description and my talent so the algorithms like okay this person
just watched a video about that person maybe they'll want to watch this video
from the rewired soul I put all that information in there so the algorithm
pushes it out to you that's why you're getting recommended videos but I often
see youtubers who are complaining about the recommendations and then I look at
their titles descriptions and tags and they're doing nothing
they're doing nothing I'm like how is the algorithm supposed to recommend your
video if you're not giving it any information to recommend your video to
other people does that make sense so people are so focused on thinking that
the system is broken or not figure ways to use the system and get there the
content out to a larger audience and this is just something I want you to
take into consideration like are you hitting roadblocks at your work because
you're only focusing on the problem and you're not focusing on the solution
right I sent out an email by the way if you're not signed up for my email list
it's in the description but since I'm an email this morning or was it yesterday
morning I don't know but it was kind of like your way of doing things doesn't
work and a lot of it's because we're so stubborn we're so stubborn and we keep
trying to do things our way so in our mind our perspective says the world's
broken but in reality we're being stubborn and we refuse to change I hope
that makes sense but aside from this perspective of
youtubers just a few other things regarding my channel let's talk about
perspective some more so I've had a comment not too long ago earlier today
and they said Chris I absolutely love your channel I'm new here everything's
fantastic they said but watching your channel is becoming like a part-time job
maybe you should upload less this is just some food for thought
right and that's very interesting that's an interesting perspective because I see
other comments to say I love how much you upload I absolutely love it right so
all of you just so you get into the mind of Chris real quick for some of my
political news I follow the channel secular talk he has a podcast Kyle
kolinsky he's not always right I don't always agree with him but I usually
follow him anyways he uploads three four five six videos a day right so I'm like
okay I can do that in the field of mental health so that's kind of what my
brain is but anyways just to draw out that perspective somebody thinks I
upload too much other people love how much I upload another great one this is
one of my favorite ones he's my voice okay my voice and by the
way for any of you who are self-conscious about it like hopefully
this gonna help you like I do not care what people think about my voice I think
my voice sounds weird and nasally a lot of you have like said in the comments
like hey I love your voice I love your voice it's so soothing it's calming I'm
always interested to hear who you think sound like what are the last comments on
website Vince Vaughn I get the big show a lot
I get Andre the Giant all sorts of stuff but the interesting one is like what
people say you know I sound like is in my throat okay anyways what I'm getting
at is there's so many people who say how much they love my voice right and how
soothing it is and then there's other people who are like you have the worst
voice on earth right there's other people who say like my voice makes them
you know want to like shove a pencil in their ear or something crazy they say
your voice is annoying what's wrong with your voice and what I'm always looking
at I'm looking at the different perspectives and hopefully this kind of
helps you out but I just really realize like not everybody is going to like
everything about you the same way I don't like everything about everyone
else that's totally cool that's totally normal people are going to have
different perspectives and I think this is really important because something
that I'm trying to get you all to do what you wet may not realize is I want
you to share your stories because each of you has been through some type of
struggle and that is powerful that can inspire somebody that can give somebody
the motivation they need that day but what I hear all the time is my story's
not that good my story is not that inspirational that's all subjective
right your perspective of your story it might not be that great so for example
for example let's go back to my drug addiction if and I teach this to my
clients all the time like if I went to someone out on the streets just some
random person right or I'm in the grocery store let's not okay let's let's
do this let's pretend Chris is walking through the grocery store and there's
just some nice woman you know maybe she's a mom and has kids and you know
she lives in the suburbs and everything's great and I walk up to her
I'm saying hey excuse me miss and she's like what's going on kind so I'm like I
have not crushed up and snorted and oxycontin in over six and a half years
and she'd be like okay weirdo right but if I walk into a room filled with
recovering drug addicts I'd tell them that they're gonna
they're gonna give me hugs on my birthday that give me a little coin you
see what I mean so don't think that your story is not inspirational because some
of it some some some of these stories are very inspirational like for some of
you if you got out of bed this morning that can inspire somebody who hasn't
been out of bed for if you've gone through like any type of challenge maybe
you just went through a breakup or divorce or family issues but you're
still getting up and taking care of yourself or taking care of the bills or
whatever it is these are accomplishments so just remember perspectives are always
different and you need to use your story to go inspire people no matter what it
is I'm not telling you to make a youtube channel but I love when you do let's
start a blog join the discord we have on area for blogs and videos and at work or
whatever and it's just really inspiring like you guys inspire me to be a better
person each day even though you may not realize it just reading your comments
and some of you just share your stories in the comments and I love you for that
like when I read your comments like it inspires me I I read your comments about
sadness and tragedy but like I don't see the sadness and tragedy I see it as
overcoming you know what I mean I see it as perseverance so if if nothing else if
nothing else let's do this if nothing else let me just tell you this share
your information in comments or discord or wherever it is because you're
inspiring me if it doesn't inspire anybody else it inspires this guy let me
know down in the comments below like let's talk about perspective like is
there something that you noticed that maybe you don't like that other people
do like or something that maybe your glass is half-empty on and other people
are or vice versa let's have a conversation down in the comments below
alright anyways that's all I got for this video if you like this video please
give it a thumbs up if you're new make sure you subscribe and rate that
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next time
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