13 Struggles Only GUYS Will Understand!
13. Being expecting to make the first move all the time- It is usually expected that
men should be the ones to make the first step, but to be straightforward and honest, rejection
sucks. And that is one of the reasons why most men hang back because they don't want
to be turned down. Surely, it would make more sense for a woman to approach a guy she likes
instead of the other way around. But this dates back to chivalry and tradition. Thankfully,
we're now moving past this norm and breaking barriers for both genders to make the first
step in any setting. As from the traditional standards, I'm sure men would be appreciative
and wouldn't mind the woman making the first move as confidence is sexy.
12. The Fighting Double Standard- When it comes to fighting, there's a horrible double
standard. Whether it's at a party or a bar, men are expected by society and their peers
to keep their cool and to walk away from the situation. But that's pretty hard to do
when the guy at the bar is dishing out some pretty insulting comments about you, your
buddy, your mom and your girlfriend. Despite the fact that he's drunk and he probably
doesn't know what he's saying, there's another expectation to stand up for yourself
and not to let him get away with what he's doing. When confronted with a sticky situation
like this, a man can either walk away and be considered a pansy or fight and be considered
a violent mad man.
11. Morning wood and random e- Just because a guy wakes up with a b, doesn't necessarily
mean he's in the mood to get it on. And why does it always seem like random e pop
up during the most inconvenient moments?! Ahem, no pun intended. Whether you're on
your way to an office meeting or in public, you have to think fast to cover yourself up.
This is something a girl will never understand and every day is a struggle to try and urinate
with morning wood. Medically speaking, nocturnal penile tumescence has many reasons behind
it. Full bladders, restricted blood flow or physiology can all be attributed to it, but
luckily there are a few ways to hide it.
10.Living up to Masculine Standards- Everyday men have to deal with the constant pressure
from society to conform to gender roles and be masculine in every single way. As a child,
boys are told that they shouldn't cry and that they should learn to "man up" when
something bad happens. Guys are expected to grow beards, watch football and pretend not
to have any feelings. Aside from society, men are ridiculed from their friends and even
women to stick to dominant gender roles. As if every man should know how to fix a car,
be handy with tools, be buff and strong, or be the one to go downstairs at 1 am to check
out that noise your girlfriend said she heard.
9. Regularly Readjusting- Guys are always rearranging themselves, whether it's an
itch or sitting in an awkward position, you have to take care of it fast! Some guys try
to hide it more than others, and some guys have no problem just fixing themselves in
public. Whether you're crossing your legs or getting sweaty down there, it's incredibly
annoying and terrible to ignore, so you don't care who's around as long as you fix yourself.
Especially on hot days, sometimes your manhood sticks to your pants or your wearing tight
clothing, but you do it to avoid wedgies, chaffing and being uncomfortable.
8. Trying NOT to come off as being creepy- Unbeknownst to men, there are many ways a
guy can accidentally come off as creepy to some women and children. But most men try
their best to avoid being a creep. Sometimes when a girl is walking home alone in the middle
of the night, and a guy is walking behind her, he is pretty much aware that the girl
is probably scared or when a man waves hello to a kid playing on the playground, the mother
might think he's trying to abduct her child. While there isn't much a guy can do to avoid
being labeled as a scoundrel, just know he is well aware of this. There is a culture
of frenzy surrounding men being mistaken as a predator when it comes to social interaction
with children and women, but it doesn't mean every single guy out there is a bad one!
7. Being expected to pick up the check all the time- Ahh, the old age question of who
should pay while on a date? Whether it's your first date or fortieth date, men are
always expected to pay because that's always how it's been. If it's your first date
and you don't pay, you might not get a second date. If you ask her to pay or split the bill,
it makes it look like you're cheap! But in today's modern society, things have changed
quite a bit. If you guys have been together for a while, then it's okay to talk about
splitting the bill, and I'm sure a guy would appreciate the gesture if his girl offered
to pay once in awhile.
6. Getting hair everywhere-Once you start entering the stages of puberty, you'll start
to notice the rapid growth of hair everywhere! Whether it's on your chest, out of your
nose or on your face, you might find it difficult to maintain. Sometimes you'll get just enough
hair to rock a sweet beard and sometimes you'll just have rough patches that sort of look
like a mustache. While some of it can be attractive, it does vary from man to man. But the most
annoying part is shaving and getting the hair everywhere! And I mean, anywhere from the
sink to the floor, it can be tricky to clean up after too as you'll find hair in every
crack and crevice.
5. Dealing with hair loss- As you age, a lot of changes start to happen which can include
losing your hair. Dealing with hair loss can be troublesome especially if it is severe.
There is a big stigma with men and receding hairlines; men are pressured to look younger
instead of embracing their true selves. This leaves them worried and wondering if they
should go completely bald or keep what you have and try to cover it up. Some men have
even resorted to hair regrowth products and hair dye once they spot a few gray hairs coming
in to keep themselves looking young. But honestly, hair loss is normal and happens to many people
regardless of age or gender.
4. Urinal Rules- Women have their own set of rules when using the public restroom, but
if you thought men had it any easier, think again! There is a list of unspoken rules when
using a urinal for men that eliminates the hassle. There are buffer urinals, meaning
you never want to select a urinal next to someone that is already in use to give that
person privacy. Most urinals are chosen from the outside working in and if both urinals
from the opposite side are being used, then wait for a center one to be open. There is
also no talking and no eye contact ever! Plus, cleaning up after yourself is a must! Whether
you leave pee spots on the seat or leave a mess of soap and water in the sink, you pick
up after yourself!
3. Hover hand- This phenomenon takes place whenever a guy is nervous to pose with an
attractive female, resulting in the ever so awkward and cringe-worthy hover hand. The
hover hand has since haunted men because pictures capture these moments forever, but don't
worry fellas! This isn't your fault. Sometimes, you don't know what to do with your hands.
Do you keep them on your sides or would that just look bad? And if you put your hands around
her, you also don't want to come off as a creep. So what do you do without crossing
the line but attempt to be friendly at the same time? You hover hand.
2. Shaving- Everyone shaves, but men and women have different struggles when it comes to
shaving. Women can shave and their legs, and if they cut themselves, they can cover it
up with a band-aid or pants. However, when a man shaves his face, he must be extremely
careful not to nick himself. If he does cut himself, he has to be patient and stop the
bleeding with toilet paper pieces. Not only does he have to deal with comments from people
teasing him and pointing out the obvious that he cut himself, but he has to wait a few days
for the cut to actually heal and hope that it doesn't leave a noticeable scar.
1. Getting hit in the groin- Television shows and movies make it comedic when a guy gets
hit in the crotch area, but getting hit down there is no laughing matter. Whether it's
personal injuries, sports or carelessness, genital incidents can cause some serious damage.
First off, it's extremely excruciating. Not only can it cause numbness and tears,
but getting hit in the groin can have a long lasting effect on fertility. The Daily Mail
reports at least 10,000 men visit emergency rooms every year to treat groin injuries with
18-28 years old making up forty percent of these trips to the hospital.
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