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Best Triathlon of All-Time - Duration: 10:53.
- The Joe Montana of triathlon.
In my opinion, he is the best triathlon lead of all time.
(upbeat music)
And there's an exit from the river just about 150 meters
that way.
Kim has a look on her face right now.
- I'm devastated right now - She just found out
there's no Santa Claus (laughs).
(upbeat music)
What's up, train-iacs?
Today, there are some very big things happening.
What's up, train-iacs?
Today, there are some very big things happening.
Maybe calls for a little bit of a history lesson
to understand how big and important this podcast
that I'm doing later today is.
Doing it with Mark Allen.
I'll tell you straight out, he is like the Wayne Gretzky,
the Michael Jordan, the Paylay,
the Joe Montana of triathlon.
In my opinion, he is the best triathlete of all time
and he was a part of what I think
and what a lot of people think is the best triathlon
of all time,
like single best one-day race.
And if you haven't heard of it, this is the Iron War
that happened in 1989 between Mark Allen
and Dave Scott.
For six years, Dave Scott, the man,
was going into Kona and basically it was his biggest race
of the year.
He would get beat up throughout the course of the year,
be injured, but he would always show up
in Kona, ready to race and he would win every time.
At the same time, Mark Allen, his nemesis,
would come in, and for the life of him,
even though he was basically going undefeated
throughout the rest of the season, for years on end,
he could not beat Dave Scott in that race.
So coming into the Ironman World Championship
in Kona in 1989, you again had Dave Scott,
Midwest, hard-working, defending champion,
tough-as-nails dude going after probably the fittest,
most natural triathlete
ever to have walked the earth, Mark Allen,
ready to clash again.
What ended up happening is, the gun went off
and they swam.
Dave and Mark were excellent swimmers.
Mark was a former all-American swimmer
and he stayed on Dave Scott's toes the entire race.
Got out of the water together.
They go out on the bike and they race 112 miles together
and they came off the bike literally, again, together.
Went through transition together and then when they got out
onto the run, Dave Scott said, "You know what?
"I got to dump this guy."
And they brought the pace down to like, five minute miles
and as soon as Dave Scott would bring up the pace,
Mark Allen would answer.
As soon as Mark Allen would bring up the pace,
Dave Scott would answer.
And they're calling back and Mike Riley,
who is also on the podcast, the voice of Ironman,
"You are an Ironman!"
That guy, he said that he's back in the tower.
And they're calling in saying, "They're down to five,
"ten miles!"
And he's going, "What?
"That's got to be insane!
"That's not right."
But no, it was right.
They were pushing each other so hard, so fast
that both of them were thinking, "This is insane.
"We can't keep up this pace,"
but they kept going shoulder-to-shoulder
and they were literally,
(claps) as Mark Allen describes it,
bumping into each other because they were going so hard
and they were so close
that they couldn't control themself.
Then, with about three or four miles left,
they're still together having raced seven hours
and 40 minutes side-by-side.
There was a hill coming into the town of Kona,
and at the bottom of the hill, there was an aid station.
Mark Allen says, "You know what?
"At the top of the hill, I'm going to go."
And at that moment, Dave Scott reaches over
to grab a water, Gatorade, or something like that
and something in Marks' head said, "Go!"
And he hammered it and lost Dave.
And for the first time in the entire day,
Dave did not have an answer for him.
For the first time in your entire career,
Dave did not have an answer.
Mark Allen ended up winning.
(crowd cheers)
- To beat Dave Scott on what ended up
being his absolute best day of his career, you know,
was really something special.
(upbeat music)
(crowd cheers)
- Oh, you did it!
- Oh, oh, you did it!
Yeah!
- It was the passing of the title from the best
in the sport to my career, really.
(upbeat music)
- The competitive element of that race
couldn't have been any better.
You know, it was the perfect race for competition.
It was the perfect race to exploit our talents
and that day, his talent was just a little bit better.
- And still, to this day,
that marathon that they did,
officially, it's not the fastest marathon
ever ran in Kona, but back when their time was calculated,
their marathon time included the transition.
It took until last year for Patrick Lange
to actually beat that time, but it didn't include
the transition, so in my opinion, those two dudes,
almost 30 years later, still have the Ironman
Kona marathon record.
And it's a real testament to how badass they were
that 30 years of science and nutrition,
and training, and tech later,
that that is still the guttiest race ever.
Now the way that I told that, I'm sure it does not
do it justice.
If you are at all interested in triathlon,
which, like, all of you are,
is you need to go read the Iron War.
This book is so fantastic that I think I read it
in a day-and-a-half.
Kim doesn't do triathlon, hasn't ever read
a triathlon book.
She read it in the course of about three days.
It's so fantastic.
It talks about the emotion
and like, the self will required not just for these guys
to do triathlons and do well, but for everyone in triathlons
to do well.
It talks about the science of training
and the different methods of training,
and basically, the biggest thing about it is,
it's not about the gear you have, or the suit you have,
or the race you're doing.
It's about what you got in here and up here.
So I'll put a link in the description below
to where you can go and buy that book on Amazon.
If there is one triathlon book that you ever read,
it should be that one.
As always, if you did click through that link
and buy anything within the 24 hours
after clicking through that link,
it doesn't cost you anything extra, but it helps us out
because we get a small commission,
so much appreciated.
And yeah,
Mark Allen does not grant a ton of interviews
and we're interviewing him.
This is big stuff.
This is big, big stuff.
In other not-so-big-stuff news,
I have the morning swim in the Red River just dialed in.
(whooshing effect)
So nice this morning.
(upbeat music)
So I have a pretty sweet setup here figured out
now that I know that I can swim in that river.
I park here.
(upbeat music)
And there's an exit from the river just about 150 meters
that way.
(upbeat music)
Then, I take my bike,
I go down as far as I want to swim.
(upbeat music)
I lock up my bike, I swim.
(upbeat music)
I come back.
Aw!
Ah!
Hoob, hoob, hoob.
Massive rip in this, just from sitting on a hanger
all winter.
That's not normal.
So I swim down as far as I want to go,
I hop out, I go to work, I shower.
It's awesome.
Getting your training done
doesn't always have to be a ginormous production
as long as you're willing to suffer a little bit
of ridicule from the entire city
about working out,
swimming, and biking, and running
where people normally don't.
But besides that, totally enjoyable!
Here, I'll give you some context
of how convenient this is.
Headquarters is right
over there.
Ah, ah?
It's pretty nice.
Stick with me, folks.
You'll go a long way.
(loud jingling)
- His feet smells like poo.
- Who's excited for Mark Allen, though?
- Whoo!
- I want to know what was going through your head
in between that 1982, 1989 where you were so dominant.
- We obviously, I mean,
we've already now gotten into a bit of the Iron War,
so we may as well just continue there.
Taren assigned me the book as reading.
- It was assigned reading. - My reading assignment.
Yeah, if you want to be on this podcast, Kim,
you've got to read the book.
- So I read the book and it was really fascinating.
Do you feel it was an accurate depiction
of everything that happened at that time?
- To be honest, no.
It actually, Dave Scott and I
had a lawsuit filed against the author
and the publisher because so much of what was in there
had been, basically,
fabricated or interpreted by the author's mind,
I guess.
He never did one interview with us,
he never asked us one question.
You know, he put it all together
kind of in a sensationalized fashion.
You know, we settled out of court
and went our own ways, but.
- Kim has a look on her face right now.
- I'm devastated right now. - She just found out
there's no Santa Claus (laughs).
- I don't even know what to ask you anymore.
- Yeah! - Everything I know
is untrue. (man laughs)
Well, because he did go into a lot of things
from, you know, as far back as your childhood,
your relationship with your father,
all these kind of things.
You know, the mental challenges that you had
as far as breaking through some of those
self-imposed barriers.
So, I mean, I guess I have to ask you,
is any of that true (laughs) then?
- Not really.
My main purpose and goal for racing
was not to overcome any.
- I did have one more Iron War question for you, Mark,
and that was the fact that you clearly
didn't have a mustache when everybody else
(man laughs) seemed to have a mustache
in all of the footage. (man laughs)
- Cool.
- You could edit that last little part in about saying
Wayne Gretzky.
- Wayne Gretzky.
- Of triathlon.
- Of triathlon.
- Michael Jordan of triathlon.
That was awesome. - Mm-hmm.
- Big fan.
- Maybe. - Bigger fan.
- Big fan, bigger fan.
Yeah.
Train-iacs?
Like, we're spitting heat in these podcasts.
(loud exhale)
Go to triathlontaren.com/podcastinfo
if you want to be notified of when these are out.
We just had The Grip, Mark Allen!
That was the best.
- So cool.
- All right, guys.
- Go outside! - You're free.
- Don't poo on the floor.
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#3 Vlog || MUSEUM TIME || HOLIDAY VLOG - Duration: 11:12.
Good morning everyone!
It's Mon-
It's Monday today and it's almost 10 o'clock
We're going to a museum today
Or two museums actually
We're going to - eh - Scheveningen today
That's like near the Hague
We'll see you guys there!
We're at my dad's work right now
Eehhh
He needs to pick something up
Soooooo
We're just standing here
Doing nothing
I'm really tired 'cause I
I went to sleep at around 1 AM
and we had to get up at 8 am
and we were actually planning to go at 9
But it's alright 10
So that doesn't make any sense
I'm pretty exhausted
So we arrived - eh - at Madurodam
It's a bit more cloudy than I expected it to be
I thought it was gonna be really sh-
Eh
Sunny and all
We had to ride fo-
drive for like an hour or so
So we're inside now
It's really windy here as well.
I didn't expect it to be this crowded
Especially on such a cloudy day
We're just going to walk around
Look how adorable! They are so small
Oh my God, they actually have fish ...
They actually have fish
In there
So we're kind of at the end
Of Madurodam
And we're wondering what all these buildings are
So we're going to see a show in a bit
ehh
It's called
This is how big
Nnn
The Netherlands are
So apperantly it was a film about soccer
Dutch
soccer
And how we won
ehhhhh
the European championschip
In - eh - 1980, if I'm right
And now there is - ehhhh
Soccer
Play ground
Thingy
And you play games here
Which are involved with soccer
So that's really funny
My father and my brother have been sticking around here
So I'm sticking around as well
But it was really funny-
Sor- Sorry if you can't see me properly
I'm really trying to get a good stance
But uhm
It was a very interesting show
I'm just going to wait until my brother and father have finished playing soccer
Hello guys, we're back home
In the end we decided not to go to the second museum
Because it was actually very late
Aaaand
We actually went for some shopping
so
I bought a shirt
and
eehhhhh
some pants-
some jeans
and my brother bought some shoes
so we really succeeded
and we're going to barbecue today
because of the hot weather and 'cause of the sun
so it's the perfect weather to go barbecuing
and I'm really happy that we
that we
are going to barbecue because
barbecues are delicious
'morning guys!
I literally just got out of the shower
It's Wednesday today
It's 8:30 am
aand
we're going to a very
very special
museum today
It's a museum about the space so
I'm really excited-
I'm - I'm really looking forward to going there
I'm by the way using my tripod right now
so I can just use my hands around freely and just
This is really nice
Yea, I don't have to hold my thingy anymore
and it's just
Hopefully it will be
It will look better
this way
So yea, I'm going to take my tripod with me
y'know, as a selfie stick
'cause you can use this as a selfie stick as well
I'm pretty sure-
I'm pretty very sure that it will be really helpful
I'm just going to do my hair right now and
Put on a little make-up
and just get ready to go
So I just did my make-up and my hair
And I also prepare my lunch and I had some breakfast as well
We are a bit in a rush because my dad is still not at home
And he was supposed to be at home like 10 minutes ago
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( voice on recording ) Hello. Cíao.
Cíao.
( recording ) How are you?
Come va?
Coma vey?
( recording ) I'm fine.
Lo sto bene.
Lo sto bene.
You know, I am so glad
we finally got the chance to go out.
Yeah.
Sorry, my work schedule's been so crazy.
The restaurant is right over here.
You are going to love it.
The sangria is to die for!
I am so sorry.
Why- why are you sorry?
Well, Gloria told me about how your wife, you know...
( phone vibrating )
I am so sorry but I have to head to the ER.
Is it an emergency?
Well, it's the emergency room
so I'm thinking there's a good chance.
Go save lives!
( giggling )
Ok.
Bye!
So these things are safe, right?
Yes, absolutely.
We haven't taken anyone to the hospital yet.
Ok.
Alrighty.
Have fun.
See ya.
Oh.
So, Gloria.
Aren't you going to ask me how my date with Becky went?
You're the one that said you wanted to get back out there.
And you thought Becky was the one I needed
to get back out there with?
No, she's the war story.
The what?
The story you tell about how horrible it is
to be dating again.
And you know who you're gonna tell that story to?
The girl who you actually want to be out there with.
One more and the board's clear.
Hi. I'm Dr. McCormick, and you are...?
Sarah Conrad.
Uh, what happened?
Uh, well, I picked a fight with gravity.
And gravity won.
Alright, well let's take a look.
Ow, ow, ow.
Ok.
Can you move it?
Not without profanity.
On a scale of one to ten,
how embarrassing was whatever caused this?
Uh, about a 23.
Ok. I'll just put down "tripped on curb".
Thank you.
You're very welcome.
Uh, we're gonna send you over to x-ray.
Do you want anything for the pain?
Yes, please.
I'd rather not add "ugly crying"
to the list of things that have embarrassed me today.
Ok.
Uh, you're gonna need someone to drive you home.
Is there anyone we should contact?
Uh, I guess Maggie.
She's my sister-in-law. Slash best friend.
So how do I get a hold of Maggie?
Teddy, I'm looking at this estimate and I'm just worried
that if we spend this much money on bookshelves
we won't be able to afford, you know, books.
So I really think we sh-
why are you wearing a suit?
Because I don't wanna do what I'm about to do
in jeans and a tool belt.
What are you about to do?
Maggie, I love you.
I have since the moment we first met, right here.
When I came in to give you your construction bid.
And so...
Maggie Conrad,
will you do me the honour of marrying me?
No.
I mean, ye- yes!
Of course I'll marry you.
You scared me.
Why would you say no?
Because I mean yes, just not... yet.
Well, I didn't mean we have to get married right this second.
I haven't even told Sarah that we're dating yet.
Maybe it's time.
We've talked about this.
Sarah puts on a brave face,
but she's not over losing my brother, Scott.
I just don't know how to say to her I'm sorry you're sad
over losing the love of your life, but hey,
here's this amazing great news.
I just... I feel guilty.
Is that dumb?
No.
But I think that-
( phone ringing )
Memorial Hospital?
Hello?
It's silly, really.
I was... um...
She tripped. On a curb.
Well, I'm glad it's just your wrist.
When the hospital came up on my phone I was like oooh...
I told you, she's a worrier.
I am not.
Doctor, is there anything that we need to be worried about?
Uh, no.
It's just a small fracture.
You can follow up with your regular physician.
The cast should be off in four weeks.
Keep it dry and don't lift anything heavy.
You mean like the stacks of books that have
to go in our bookstore?
Exactly.
I swear I didn't do this on purpose.
Uh-huh.
Thank you again.
Yes, thank you.
It was nice meeting you.
You too.
Ok, let's get you home.
It's only been a couple of hours and I already have an itch.
Tea.
Huh?
A cup of tea would be nice, huh?
Ok.
I've never seen you so excited about tea before.
Uh, where did I put that kettle?
Hey, did you talk to him about that, um,
invoice for the bookshelves?
We should really do something.
We're going way over budget.
Ok, I know.
But don't worry about it.
Sarah, seriously.
Are we being crazy here?
I mean, we quit our jobs at the PR company, we-
We hated our jobs at the PR company.
Yeah, but they paid us a lot of money,
which we're now just dumping into this big pit downstairs.
I can afford it.
Trust me.
My brother wanted to take care of you.
He wouldn't want you spending all the life insurance money.
The bookstore was his dream.
I know.
Oh, Maggie.
I'm sorry, it just hits me every now and then, you know?
I know.
Ryan.
Ellie, Nate.
What happened this time?
Donna Chemsky is what happened.
Here we go.
It was supposed to be a friendly game of tennis
but she turns it into a bloodsport.
These two are gonna kill each other one of these days.
I mean, who knew that living in a retirement village
could be so dangerous?
Why didn't you page the doctor on call?
I mean, it's one of the benefits you get
from living in that community.
Because you weren't on call, you were here.
You're our doctor.
Thank you.
I'm honoured.
( winces )
Ow.
I don't think it's broken but I'm gonna have you sent
over to x-ray just to be careful.
I don't have time for it to be broken.
I gotta plan a wedding.
Three years we've been dating.
Three wonderful years.
We're gonna wanna run the conduit through here
so we get some extra light in that back room.
Teddy.
Maggie.
I can't believe we're engaged.
I know.
Maybe it'll be more real when we tell people.
Teddy.
I know, I know. It's fine.
We can wait.
But I really just wanna go run and tell everybody
I have ever met in my entire life
so you might have to put a muzzle on me.
I can think of another way to shut you up.
Oh, I don't know, I don't see anything.
Are you sure?
What happened?
Wasn't wearing his safety goggles.
Yeah, stupid me.
Thought I had something in my eye, but it's ok.
You sure?
I know a really good emergency room.
No, it's all good.
So hey, have you guys figured out a name
for the place yet?
Oh, please don't get her started.
So, how about, um, "By the Book"?
But it's b-u-y the book.
Stop.
"Follow the Reader"?
I'm begging you.
"All the World's a Page"?
Ok, I quit.
( laughs )
So my cousin Rosa...
No.
( laughs )
She's beautiful and smart, very well-travelled.
What aren't you telling me?
Nothing.
Ok, she may have spent a little tiny amount of time
in prison.
There it is.
But it wasn't for anything serious.
Honestly, it's a funny story.
No. No.
No.
You better appreciate this.
Maggie, don't worry.
There's nothing we can do until the permit office
opens tomorrow morning.
I'm gonna go to yoga.
I'll be back in an hour.
Ok, I gotta go.
Bye.
Hi.
Look what I did.
Dr. McCormick?
Sarah.
Conrad.
Oh, yeah, right.
Hi.
How's it holding up?
Ah, it's ok.
Hurts a little when I go bowling, but...
Maybe just try to use a lighter ball for now.
I will.
Those are beautiful.
Oh, thank you.
My wife... loved these flowers.
I'm sorry.
What was her name?
Harper.
I'm sorry, it's just no one ever asks that.
How long has it been for you?
Uh, a little over a year.
You?
Nine months.
I come here every Sunday just to talk to him.
Tell him all the stupid stuff that happened to me this week.
( laughs )
I have to get going, but um...
thanks again for the wrist, Dr. McCormick.
You can call me Ryan.
Ok. Ryan.
I'll see you around the cemetery sometime.
It's better than seeing you in the emergency room.
Good point.
( laughs )
Ok, I'll see you later.
Ok.
Bye.
Bye.
So we're agreed then?
Outdoor ceremony, not a big wedding.
Not small, either.
Medium.
A medium-sized wedding.
Yes.
Hey, we haven't talked honeymoon yet.
What about Paris?
That's what I was gonna say.
I've always wanted to go.
Up high.
We are good at this engaged thing.
( muffled ) So a guy walks into a bar and says "ouch"...
Is that Sarah?
'Cause he walked into a bar.
With his face.
I was late getting here today because there were
these two fish in a tank
and neither one of them knew how to drive it.
'Cause it's a tank.
Come on.
That one was... was pretty funny.
No, not really.
No?
Ok.
What is she doing?
Bombing.
Longest five minutes of my life.
Mine, too.
It's like a car crash.
You don't wanna look but you just can't not.
Knock knock.
Knock knock.
You're not very funny.
Uh, well, that's- that's my time.
Goodnight.
Wait, don't you wanna-
No.
She can never know that we were here.
Why not?
Because she didn't tell me,
so obviously she doesn't want me to know.
I can't imagine why though, we tell each other everything.
Um, hi.
Secret fiancé?
Almost everything.
Come on, hurry.
Thank you again for the concert last night.
I had so much fun.
So did I.
I was actually thinking that we could have a band like that
for our reception.
Oh, sure.
That could work.
Unless you want something different.
I don't know, I hadn't really thought about it.
I don't care if you have to stay up all night,
I want those shelves done by tomorrow.
Ok, you're the boss.
What is it this time?
Snooker.
My patented behind-the-back shot isn't as easy
as it used to be.
Can you send Ryan out?
Uh, Dr. McCormick is off today.
Dr. Peters is on call.
You know what, never mind.
I'll- I'll be fine.
Dr. Peters did not kill Arthur Kupnick.
He's a very capable physician.
Yes, but he's not our physician.
I'll page Ryan.
Hi.
Hey.
I saw your car so I just thought I'd say hey.
Ok, hey back.
Well, uh... bye.
Wait, wait.
Uh, it was good talking to you last week.
I don't know, it kinda felt like we...
Understood each other?
Yes.
Yeah.
People who haven't lost someone get so weird
when you talk to them about this stuff.
Yeah, and even when you do
it's like you're speaking a foreign language.
Yeah.
Hey, listen, there's this place I stop by sometimes
after I come visit Harper.
What kind of place?
It's a diner.
And the good news is it serves the best pie
in the entire world.
What's the bad news?
The bad news is it's served
by the most sarcastic waitress ever.
Ok, now I have to go.
The best pie in town
served by the most sarcastic person in the world?
I mean, what more could you want?
Ok, great.
Well, you uh, follow me?
Sure.
Ok.
I just got to Sarah's.
Well, Teddy, if you want a check for the electrician
first thing tomorrow
I have to go where the check book is.
I have to run some errands
but I should be at your place in 20 minutes.
Or maybe 30.
Maybe while I'm hunting for this check book
I'll find a clue as to why Sarah thought telling jokes in public
was a good idea.
No, I'm just kidding.
I'm not gonna snoop.
Ok, see you in a bit.
Ah-ha.
Victory.
Ooh, nearly empty victory, but victory nevertheless.
Ok, what is going on with you, Sarah Conrad?
Hi. How are you today?
Never been better.
It's like I'm living in a movie with cartoon birds.
What'll you have?
Um, well I'll go with the strawberry.
Oh, I'll have the strawberry as well.
I've had it before and it's great.
I'll send your compliments along to the chef.
( laughs )
Ok, she is the most sarcastic person in the world.
I told you.
Uh huh.
But the pie is definitely worth it.
How did you find this place?
Actually, Harper found it.
Yeah, she was all about the hole-in-the-wall,
off the beaten path places.
She used to say if it had been reviewed
by more than ten people on Yelp she didn't want to eat there.
( laughs )
So...
Well, Scott was the complete opposite.
He would research everything.
Every article, every review.
He'd even look at the menu online
and decide what he was gonna have before we got there.
That's nice.
Do you mind me asking how it-
Oh, uh... cancer.
You?
Car accident.
That looks delicious.
Yeah, I spend a lot of time on the presentation.
I love her.
Wait 'til you taste the pie.
Wow.
Yeah?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah, it's really good.
It's really good.
Maggie?
You up here?
Teddy?
What're you doing here?
Looking for you.
Why?
It's only been... two hours.
I'm so sorry.
You wouldn't answer your phone,
so I figured you were either in the hospital
or snooping through Sarah's stuff.
And I came here first.
This is terrible.
Yeah. It's an invasion of her privacy.
No, it's terrible because I haven't found anything.
Why was she doing stand-up comedy?
And her wrist?
I'm sorry, I don't believe that curb story.
We're leaving now.
I just need-
How would you feel if Sarah was going through your stuff
and she found your-
I don't know, your bridal magazines?
I don't have any bridal magazines.
You don't?
No.
Anyway, the point is it's not right being here
and we're leaving.
Ok, fine.
But if she's joined a cult and I could have saved her life
by going through her stuff it is on your head.
That pie was incredible.
So was Ethel.
You were right about about everything.
Thank you.
You're welcome.
It was really nice to talk to you.
Again.
Yeah.
It's nice to laugh, you know?
I don't know about you but I hate how everybody
just expects you to be miserable all the time.
And yet you're expected to put on a happy face
so you're not bumming everybody out.
Exactly.
Well, we should form our own little support group.
It's a deal.
Same time next week?
Same time next week.
Do you ever get discounted for your loss
because you're young?
Oh, all the time.
It's better that it happened now before you got too invested.
You've got your whole life ahead of you.
At least you didn't have kids.
That one's the worst.
( laughing )
You're making this up.
I am not.
You actually proposed to Harper with a ring in a soufflé?
I thought it was romantic.
And she swallowed the ring?
I swear to god.
( laughing )
You're an emergency room doctor.
How could you not see this coming?
You ask her.
No, you ask her.
I don't wanna ask her.
You're the one that wants the cherry pie recipe.
You want it, you ask her.
Don't-
Hey!
( clears throat )
Uh, excuse me?
You rang?
Uh, can I bother you for um, some more, uh, napkins please?
Thank you.
My pleasure.
( laughs )
I panicked.
Hi.
Sorry I'm late but um...
ta-dah.
Has it been four weeks already?
Mmmhmm.
Congratulations.
Thank you.
It feels so good to make a fist again.
You know, I just wanna hit something.
Wow, I'm shaking in my boots.
What'll you have?
How is the banana cream today?
Like a little slice of heaven.
Two?
Sure.
So are you finally going to tell me what actually happened
to your wrist?
Well...
number 37.
"Ride an electric scooter."
Didn't go well, huh?
Not so much.
My gosh.
Are you doing all of these?
I try to do one once a week.
Scott wrote that when he got sick and, um,
things just happened so fast
that he wasn't able to do much of it
so I'm gonna do it for him.
That's...
Stupid?
Oh, no. It's amazing.
It's incredible.
Are you doing all of these by yourself?
Yeah.
I actually haven't told anybody about this.
Not even Maggie?
No.
I feel a little bad about not sharing it with her,
but... I don't know.
I wanted something for just between me and Scott.
I totally get that.
I wish Harper and I had something like that.
Hey, what're you doing here on a Sunday?
Matt's coming tomorrow to do the plumbing.
That doesn't look like plumbing.
No, but the wires are where the plumbing needs to go.
Got it.
Well, I was just on my way to the farmer's market
and I stopped by to see if Sarah needed anything.
She's not home.
She's not?
How long are those yoga classes?
If she's even doing yoga.
Maggie.
I know, I'm letting it go.
At least I got to see you.
Hey, I wanna show you something.
So I've been looking around
and I found this great place nearby.
It has a botanical garden, flowers, streams, a gazebo...
Ok.
It's a gazebo where they do weddings.
Ok.
You're really not getting where I'm going with this?
Yeah, it's- it's beautiful.
I love it.
Well, here's the thing.
It's a very popular place so if we want it for next summer
we kinda have to book it now.
Now?
Well, I don't think we're ready to do that, are we?
Anywhere nice is gonna require advanced planning.
I mean, we really should talk about this.
We did talk about it.
Outdoor wedding, medium-sized.
I think we need to be a little more specific than that.
We will.
Absolutely.
There's just so much to do with the bookstore and,
you know, the whole Sarah thing.
And we've got plenty of time.
Ok?
Ok.
So if you ever need a hand with, you know,
with the list...
Really?
Yeah.
I mean, as long as it's not jumping out of something
or off of something or...
Are you afraid of heights?
I work in an emergency room.
Gotcha.
I mean, unless you don't want my help.
I'd totally understand.
No, I think it would be fun.
I just don't know what I would pick.
Well, just close your eyes and point.
And whatever it is we have to do it.
Alright, there's no take-backs.
Ok.
You ready?
Can we just jump off of something instead?
♪ I come from Alabama with a banjo on my knee, ♪
♪ I'm going to Louisiana, my true love for to see, ♪
♪ Oh Susannah, don't you cry for me, ♪
♪ For I come from Alabama ♪
♪ with a banjo on my knee ♪
( applause )
That was so much fun. You killed it.
That was fun in a horrifically embarrassing
I-will-deny-that-that-ever- happened kind of way.
But still, fun.
Thanks for doing that with me.
Is there anything else on the list that I can help you with?
No, I- I don't want to inflict this stuff on you.
Oh, it's nothing inflicted,
I mean I... offered.
I know, and I appreciate that.
I do, it's just um... the rest of the stuff on the list,
it's more um... like, solo stuff.
I totally understand.
Um, but I'll still see you on Sunday for pie?
Absolutely. I wouldn't miss it.
Ok. Um, see you next week.
Ok. Same time.
Hi, is this the emergency room?
Is Dr. McCormick on call today?
He is?
Yes!
Great.
We have a little emergency.
( knocking )
Hello?
Hey, Teddy. Come on in.
Hi.
I was looking for Maggie.
Oh, she um, stepped out to the bank.
Is there anything I can do for you?
No, it's ok.
I better get back.
Ok.
I'm sorry.
( laughs ) It's ok.
Sorry.
Don't worry about it. It's ok.
I keep saying I'm gonna get rid of this stuff
but then I just... I don't do it.
It is a lot of stuff.
Yeah.
I'm not a crazy hoarder, I swear.
Good.
I'd hate to think I'd turn around one of these boxes
and find your cat or something.
No, just junk.
Doesn't look like junk to me.
This was our honeymoon.
In Puerto Rico.
He got so sunburned.
We were supposed to do this salsa dancing lesson
but he was like "don't touch me".
We never did learn.
You know, sometimes you shouldn't wait.
You might lose your chance.
Oh, it's ok. I got all this.
You sure?
Yeah.
Ok.
Hey, Ryan? It's Sarah.
Hi.
Hi.
Thanks for coming, I know it's not our usual Sunday.
That's ok, what's up?
Well, um, I kinda need some help
with something else on the list.
Oh.
Are you game?
I don't know, do I have to sing?
No.
Then I'm game.
Number 87.
Really?
( Salsa music ) ♪
Well, you did say you were up for anything.
Sometimes I need to learn to keep my big mouth shut.
Are you dancing?
What?
N- no.
Uh, yes you were.
You weren't doing it very well but you were dancing.
Hey, I got moves.
I do.
What's going on with you?
I am taking a salsa dance class.
( laughs )
What made you think that was a good idea?
I... I'm helping a friend.
A friend.
Oh.
Does she have a name?
Her name is Sarah.
Sarah.
Ok.
How did you meet?
I told you.
We met at the hospital and then I ran into her at the cemetery.
Oh. The one who's husband died?
Yes.
Ryan, you know I love you, right?
I know.
And we need to find a way to tell your husband.
I'm being serious here.
I had a friend a few years ago who lost her husband.
She met a widower at a support group.
They started dating but eventually figured out
the fact that they lost their spouse
was the only thing they had in common.
It broke her heart and I just...
I want you to be careful.
I get it.
But right now it's just dancing.
With a friend.
( vibrating )
Guess who?
Dance, dance.
( Ellie ): ...I think candles.
Of course, the head table...
Hey. I got your page.
What's going on?
Hey, Ryan, what do you think?
About what?
The room.
We're gonna have the reception here.
You paged me to show me the room?
No, no, no.
We want to show you where we're having the wedding, too.
It's outside on the lawn.
Ellie, Nate, we discussed this.
You're only supposed to page the on-call doctors
for emergencies.
But this is an emergency.
My son, Cliff.
I've told you about Cliff.
He called a little while ago
and he can't make it to the wedding.
I'm sorry.
But here's the thing.
Cliff was gonna walk me down the aisle
and now that he can't do it
I've been thinking about other men in my life
who are special enough to do that for me,
and all I could think of was you.
You've always been so good to us.
We could always count on you.
Even when you were going through your own hard time
you were still there for us, so...
So what do you say?
You wanna walk an old lady down the aisle?
I would be honoured.
Yeah!
Wonderful!
( laughing )
Good, now we can check off one of the big things off the list.
Yeah, now we just gotta check off the other big things
like the flowers and the caterer and the DJ.
We haven't even thought about our first dance
at the reception.
You know, I might be able to help with that, too.
( salsa music ) ♪
♪
Thanks again for everything.
I feel lighter on my feet already.
It's really nice to meet you guys.
You too, sweetheart.
And we'll see you on Thursday at the next class.
Sounds good. I'll be there.
You too.
Look at that face.
Ok, I wanna be them when I grow up.
Right?
How do you get there?
Like, just that happy and settled and comfortable
in your own skin.
It comes with age, I guess.
Yeah.
I don't know if I'll ever have what they have.
A second time?
I mean, most people don't get that once.
They are very, very lucky.
Yeah.
Have you um, started dating yet?
I don't know if you'd call it "dating".
It's more like exercises in futility.
That bad, huh?
Yeah.
I went on this one date with this woman, Becky.
She was all about healing energies and the spirit world.
She was so completely sure that Harper
was just all around us.
Your wife was on the date with you?
Oh yeah.
Oooh.
Yeah.
That's so weird.
I just told you my war story.
What about you?
Oh, no.
I mean, I'm not there yet.
I mean, I sort of feel like I should.
Some people think I should, but um...
It's not a schedule.
You'll be there when you're there.
Mmmhmm.
Yeah.
I appreciate being able to talk like this, you know?
It's nice to have this in common with someone.
Yeah.
I still don't understand what the problem is.
The problem is you originally wanted tile in this area
so we were planning on prepping
the sub-floor accordingly.
If you want to put carpet in there
we have to prep it a different way.
Ok, well, why do we have to decide right now?
We're still weeks away from the opening.
Because if we don't get the sub-floor in
then we can't finish the walls
which means we can't finish the bookshelves
which means you're gonna have a bookstore
with giant piles of books sitting on unfinished floors.
I should probably talk to Sarah about it.
Maggie, why do you have to make everything so hard?
Just make a decision and commit to it.
Are you mad at me?
No.
I just... it's been a long day.
I'll talk to you tomorrow, ok?
Hey, Sarah.
Yeah?
What's on your bucket list?
Well, I don't have one.
Me neither.
What would be on yours?
Lots of stuff.
Going places I've never seen before,
learning about more than just medicine.
There is one thing.
I don't know what made me think of this.
What is it?
You're gonna think it's stupid.
You and I have sang karaoke and danced together.
We are beyond stupid.
I've never flown a kite.
What?
Mmmhmm.
Me neither, and I've always wanted to.
Really?
Yeah, ever since I was a little kid,
I can't believe I never have.
Yeah, me neither.
Something else we have in common.
I guess so.
So should we?
I think we should.
Alright.
To the first thing on our bucket list.
And I just happen to know the perfect place.
Teddy, hey!
What do you want?
I want the tile.
I do.
I've never wanted anything more in my entire life
than the tile.
I know that you want me to tell Sarah
so that we can get on with this.
It's not about Sarah.
It's about you.
Me?
Maggie, I proposed to you almost six weeks ago
and you haven't picked up one bridal magazine.
You don't care what kind of band we have at the reception.
You don't even want to book a venue.
That makes me worried.
No, don't- don't worry.
That's my job, remember?
You're the one that's supposed to be focused on
the goal and pragmatic.
I'm trying to be romantic.
Maybe hopelessly so.
Don't say that.
What else am I supposed to say
when my fiancé won't even wear her engagement ring?
So do you want it back?
No.
Do you want to give it back?
No.
Well, what're we gonna do?
Alright, it's taken us almost two weeks
but we finally have an afternoon off at the same time.
Yes, we do.
It's windy, but not too windy.
Check.
I think we're ready.
I think we are, too.
Sarah Conrad?
Yes.
Go fly a kite.
( laughing )
Who's is in the air?
( laughing )
Yes.
Yeah!
( salsa music playing ) ♪
Ooh!
You think anybody would believe that we did that on purpose?
I doubt it.
Bright side?
Hit me.
Floor was here to break our fall.
I like the way you think.
One more time?
Yes.
I think we can do it.
I think we have to try.
You sure?
Mmmhmm.
Ok.
Got it, got it.
Woah.
We're gonna get it this time.
Ok, 'cause I don't think the floor can take much more.
See, you put pressure on the situation now.
I'm sorry.
Oooh!
I'm sorry.
I thought that we had decided on the yellow.
You did.
But this is not yellow, this is gold.
That's not gold, that's yellow.
I'm sorry, but this is gold.
It's maybe even a little bit orange.
Are you blind? That is yellow.
Ok, fine. It's yellow.
What was that all about?
Oh, just a difference of opinion I guess.
Gloria.
Gloria, there is no way that I'm trusting you to set me up
on another blind date.
I am sure that your cousin Rosa is a nice girl but I-
Gloria, I'm heading into a tunnel.
I think I'm- I think I'm losing you.
I- no, I- c-
I know it doesn't look like much now
but the uh, gazebo is gonna get decorated for the vows
and the aisle will be here.
A DJ instead of a band?
Yeah, we're both really into raves
and it's hard to find any good cover bands.
They fall for it every time.
( laughs )
So listen, I'm going to that book fair in Portland
this weekend.
Right.
I remember you telling me about that.
I was wondering...
maybe you'd wanna go with me?
I don't think I can get away.
Oh.
There's just so much going on, so much left to do,
I'll probably be working all weekend.
Ok.
Got it.
I'm sorry.
No, don't worry about it.
We can go another time.
Portland's not going anywhere.
Ok.
See you tomorrow.
I'm gonna tell her.
I'm gonna tell Sarah we're engaged.
Really?
Yeah.
After next week.
What's next week?
It'll be a year since Scott died.
And I think once we move past that
Sarah will be ready to move on.
And what about you?
What do you mean?
I love you, and I believe you love me.
But something is keeping you from me.
Something is stopping you from being with me.
And it's not Sarah.
Hi.
I wanted to ask you about some pies.
Really?
What a surprise.
Asking about pies in a pie shop.
Yeah.
I'm doing a favour for some friends.
Actually, they're not friends, they're patients at the hospital
that I work at and for some reason I told them
I would help them with their wedding-
Are you gonna get to the point where you order pies soon?
Because if you're not, I probably should sit down.
( laughs )
So this whole sarcasm thing,
is it gonna make the process any faster?
Because if it's not then maybe I should go sit down.
You're funny.
Hmm.
Not as funny as me.
I'll let you think that,
because you're the one with the pies.
Smart move.
Lemon meringue.
Sarah, did I leave a...
Wow, look at you.
What're you all dressed up for?
Uh, it's just a thing for class.
Your yoga class?
Yeah, um... you know, they have hot yoga?
This is fancy yoga.
You get dressed up.
It- it unites your mind and your body or something.
Um, what're you doing here?
I thought you were going to Portland?
I couldn't find the credentials for the book fair
and if I don't have them I can't get in, so...
did I leave them here?
Oh, uh... I don't know.
Maybe they're here, maybe you left them downstairs.
I would never leave them downstairs.
Ok, um... well, maybe they're here.
Look around.
But, uh, I've gotta go.
Ok. I'll be back on Sunday.
Ok. Drive safe.
Hey, Maggie?
Yeah?
Um, there's nothing that you... wanna talk about?
What do you mean?
Fancy yoga?
I love you.
I love you.
This is it.
Yep.
Last class.
Final grade.
Last dance.
Last chance.
Ok, now I have Donna Summer in my head.
I'm sorry, just shake it off.
Ok.
( clears throat )
You ready?
I'm ready.
( Salsa music ) ♪
( applause )
That was phenomenal!
Yeah, that-
That was great!
That was wonderful!
You looked fantastic!
You nailed it.
"Be a stand-up comic at Open Mic Night."
Oh, Sarah.
So...
do we need to...
Talk?
Yeah.
Probably.
Maybe... I don't know, maybe we don't need to talk about it.
Yeah.
Yeah, I mean, sure.
What's- what's there to talk about?
So I'll see you next Sunday.
Same time.
So, uh... about that thing we said
we didn't think we needed to talk about.
Yeah?
I still don't think we need to talk about it.
Oh.
I think we should do something about it.
Wait.
What?
Uh, when we talk about the story of our first kiss
can we say that it happened somewhere more romantic
than this parking lot?
( laughs )
Absolutely.
Sarah?
Have you seen the...
trash cans?
Uh, sorry.
I was just doing a little bit of spring cleaning I guess.
I see that.
Good for you.
Hey, uh, Teddy?
I know this is totally inappropriate,
I realize that, uh, but um...
Maggie has been upset about something lately.
I think you should talk to her about this.
Well, I tried but she just won't tell me.
Please?
I just really want to help.
Sarah, Maggie and I...
Wait, are you...
are you seeing each other?
Oh.
How long has that been going on?
Uh, six months.
Six months?
What happened?
Did you break up or something?
We got engaged.
You got engaged?
You're engaged?
Maggie's engaged?
That's amazing!
I'm so happy for you!
You are?
Yes!
Of course I am!
You're wonderful, she's wonderful.
Why wouldn't I be happy?
She thought that it might make you sad
because of your husband.
Well that's...
that's exactly why I was keeping secrets from her.
She was gonna tell you after the anniversary.
What anniversary?
The day your husband...
uh, it's next weekend, right?
It's the 23rd?
That can't be right.
That can't be.
I... I can't get rid of any of this stuff.
It's- it's too soon.
It's too soon.
All of- all of this is too soon.
Sarah-
Can you go?
I'm sorry.
Just please go.
( humming )
Has anyone told you that humming's annoying?
What?
No it's not.
And I'm sorry, alright?
Happy people hum.
Annoying people hum.
Why are you happy?
Well, let's just say that I'll probably have a plus one
for Nate and Ellie's wedding next weekend.
Oh. Cemetery girl?
Let's not call her that, alright?
But yes, Sarah.
I found out that we have more in common than just our loss.
Ok, good.
And I told her my war story.
Your what?
Remember you told me that I would tell it to the one
I was ready to be out there with?
Well, she's the one I wanna be out there with.
Hmm.
Look, I know you're concerned and I love you for it.
And maybe you're right.
I mean, we both have a lot of baggage
and it might be hard,
but I think that she is worth the effort.
Hmm.
Please, just be happy for me.
Ok, you can hum.
By yourself.
In your car.
Where no one can hear you.
I can still hear you.
( voicemail ) Hi, this is Sarah.
I'm unavailable right now.
Please leave a message and I'll return your call
as soon as possible.
Thank you.
( beep )
Hey Sarah, it's Ryan.
Did you know that it's Ellie and Nate's wedding next weekend?
Of course you knew.
They invited you and we talked about it
and you said you were going.
Anyways, it's Saturday the 23rd, next weekend.
Um, call me.
Maybe we can talk about it this weekend over pie.
Same time?
Bye.
( message alert )
( door opens )
Hi.
Hi.
Is... is everything ok?
No.
I can't do this.
I'm not ready.
Sarah-
Do you remember the first time you realized
you'd gone a whole hour without thinking about Harper?
Or the first time you realized that it had been days
since you said her name out loud?
The first time you realized you were starting to forget
what she looked like?
Your heart breaks all over again.
I'm sorry.
On the house.
Thanks.
Sarah?
Are you ok?
Teddy called me.
I'm so sorry I didn't tell you-
No, don't.
Let me explain.
You don't have to explain.
I get it.
We both spent the last year
trying to keep the sadness from me.
You were so worried that I was sad
that you kept a huge secret from me.
And I was- I don't know- putting on a brave face
so no one knew how sad I really was.
Sarah.
Maggie, I love you.
I'm happy for you.
But I just need to be sad right now.
Ok.
So that's the whole story.
I'm sorry.
Aren't you gonna say "I told you so"?
No.
I did tell you so, but I'm not gonna say it.
You must love being right all the time.
Not all the time.
She's barely left her place in three days.
I can't get her to talk.
She's just-
She needs time.
But-
You need to stop worrying so much.
And the reverend asks
"who gives this woman's hand, blah blah blah",
and you say-
Her family and friends gathered here today do.
Very well done.
So um... Sarah called.
Said she couldn't come to the wedding.
Is everything ok with you two?
It's fine.
She's just... going through a rough time.
I'm sure she'll be alright.
That's a shame.
I thought you two made a wonderful couple.
We were never a couple, really.
Just friends.
Those are the best couples.
( recording ) I like you.
Mi piaci.
Mi piaci.
I hate you.
Ti odio.
Ti odio.
I miss you.
Ti mi manchi.
I miss you.
Who gives this woman in marriage to this man?
Her family and friends gathered here today do.
By the power vested in me
I now pronounce you husband and wife.
You may kiss the bride.
( cheering and applause )
He'd be so annoyed right now.
Who?
Scott.
He would hate that we're being all serious and sombre.
He'd want us telling scandalous stories
of all the dumb things he did.
( chuckles )
Like the bear story.
I haven't thought of that in years.
Or that old cabin by the lake.
Mmmhmm.
Didn't you bring somebody with you that time?
What was his name?
William.
Whatever happened to William?
Who knows.
We obviously weren't soul mates.
Teddy is though?
Yeah.
Hmm.
I'm sorry.
No, I don't want you to be.
You weren't the only one keeping secrets.
I already knew about this.
I saw it by accident last week.
And it really helped explain why you were telling bad jokes
at that open mic a couple months ago.
You saw that?
Why didn't you just tell me?
I don't know.
I guess, well, for the same reason
you didn't tell me about Teddy.
And I didn't tell you about Ryan.
Ryan?
I met a guy.
Do you remember the doctor in the ER when I broke my wrist?
Yeah.
Yeah, that guy.
So he lost his wife, too.
And we talked a lot.
We talked about everything.
About Scott, about his wife.
How they died.
What they were like when they were alive.
What it felt like to be alone.
We understood each other's sadness and,
well, in a way I think we made each other a little less sad.
Sounds like he was helping you get over Scott.
But I don't want to get over Scott.
You know?
Like... I'm just not done.
We're not done.
♪
One for you and one for me.
It was a nice wedding.
Yes, it was.
What's wrong?
Nothing.
Ryan, I spend more time with you than I do my own children.
I know when something's wrong.
Sarah.
Cemetery girl.
Yes, but could you please stop calling her that?
I thought she wasn't coming?
She's not, but I just thought that maybe...
I don't know.
Listen. I know I had my reservations
but it was good to see you happy.
Though I could have done without the humming.
Happy people hum.
Sociopaths hum.
Well, you don't have to worry
because I don't think I'll be humming anytime soon.
Well, that's what I'm saying.
If I have to choose between you being happy and humming
or being miserable and not,
I'd rather see you humming.
How do you feel about whistling?
I will break your lips.
There's the man of the hour.
I'm pretty sure that's you, Nate, not me.
Eh, we can both be man of the hour.
Besides, my work is done.
You still have to give a toast this evening.
I do?
I didn't- I didn't prepare anything.
You've got plenty of time.
Oh, don't worry about it, sweetheart.
You're an ER doctor.
You're good under pressure.
Hey, we should- we should- sorry.
Looks like you got work to do.
And, unlike the hospital, I won't be doing it for you.
Oh, I think you're mixing the fiction with the biographies.
Most of these biographies are about dead people
so I don't think they're gonna care.
Our customers might.
We're two weeks away from opening
and still don't have a name.
Right.
Hey, what about "That's the Way the Bookie Crumbles"?
Stop it.
How about "The Bucket List"?
Opening the book store is the first thing on here.
How many of those have you done?
A little more than half.
It's gonna take a while to get through it.
You're not actually gonna do all of this, are you?
Yeah, of course.
Somebody has to.
Why?
I mean, don't get me wrong.
I loved Scott.
I would have done anything to make him happy.
And I love that you wanna do all of these
but this is his list, not yours.
Don't you have things that you wanna do?
Yeah, but you know, I- I can do things on the list
and things for myself at the same time.
But have you done anything for yourself?
Look around, Sarah.
This was Scott's dream. Not yours.
And the stuff upstairs are from your life with Scott.
Not your life alone.
Name one thing that you've done for you.
( laughs )
I flew a kite.
You did?
Mmmhmm.
What made you do that?
I don't know, I've always wanted to do it
since I was a little kid.
No, but what made you actually do it?
Ryan.
I have to go.
Hey.
You being in love with Teddy,
that would have made Scott really happy.
( lively music ) ♪
Whatcha doin'?
I'm just trying to figure out what to say for this toast.
Whatchu got so far?
Uh... "The bond between two people who love each other
"is strong no matter how old it gets."
No.
No, no, no.
You're right. It's terrible.
What's wrong with me?
When you're in the ER and you have to help a patient,
do you have the whole thing written down?
Do you know everything you're gonna do?
Of course not.
So how do you handle it?
I just wait for inspiration to strike
and then I go with my heart.
Sounds like a good plan for your toast.
No, no, no, no, no.
Ugh, you've got to be kidding me.
No.
Oh, come on.
Please? Please, please-
You almost got me fired last time.
I'm sorry, but this time it's really important.
It's for-
For your list. I get it.
No, no, no.
It's not for the list. This time it's for me.
( sighs )
Woohooooooo!
Maggie?
Maggie, are you here?
I got your... message.
You look beautiful.
Thank you.
I don't understand.
Have I ever told you about the time
when Scott and I were little
and we were so convinced we could catch Santa Clause
that we laid out booby-traps.
No.
Or when he and Sarah got married and I walked him
down the aisle because it was the only way
I could get him to agree to walk me down the aisle
one day at my wedding.
Oh, Maggie.
I want you to know who Scott was.
'Cause he was a really cool guy.
He would have really liked you.
And he would have been so mad that I almost ruined
what you and I have because I didn't know how
to do something as big as get married without him.
Ask me again.
Maggie Conrad, will you marry me?
Yes.
( Ellie ): Thank you, Hester, for that lovely toast.
( crowd laughs )
Ok, so who's next?
Uh, uh, Ryan.
Oh, Ryan.
The lovely man who walked me down the aisle.
He's a doctor, by the way.
Look at that face.
( crowd laughs )
Hi, I'm Ryan.
Uh... uh...
I met Ellie and Nate in the emergency room,
which they visit way too often.
( crowd laughs )
You know, I didn't really prepare a toast,
I was just hoping that inspiration would strike.
Uh, I lost my wife, Harper, about a year and a half ago
and after that I said "that's it".
I mean, I had the love of my life,
but that book is closed.
But seeing Nate and Ellie,
who both lost people they loved very much
and yet found love again,
I'm seeing them and I'm wondering
who says you can only have one love of your life?
Love arrives into your life when you need it most.
You just have to be willing to find it.
The book isn't closed.
The next chapter is just starting.
So to Nate and Ellie's next chapter
and to next chapters everywhere.
( crowd chuckles )
Hi.
Hi.
Uh, I have a very important question for you.
Ok.
Why were you wearing that helmet?
( laughs )
Well, I had another fight with gravity,
but this time I won.
I'm glad to hear it.
That was a good toast.
I guess inspiration struck.
Mmm. I guess so.
I'm really hoping that that happens for me right now.
What?
There's something I need to say
and I just don't know how to say it.
Just go with your heart.
When Scott died it took over my whole world.
The book store, the bucket list.
Even you, at first.
Our conversations, they were always about what we lost,
you know?
It was always about Scott.
Mmm.
But then one day I realized
that it was starting to be about you,
and that scared me.
Because I thought, in order to let you in,
I had to let him go.
I couldn't figure out a way
to make room for both of you in my heart.
And now?
Well, we're always going to love them.
But that doesn't mean that we can't love other people
or be loved by other people, and that's...
that's an amazing thing to think about,
because how lucky would we be if we'd had loves
like we had with Scott and with Harper
and we were able to do it all over again?
The book's not closed.
No. We're just starting the next chapter.
Hurry up, Sarah. They're waiting.
I know, I'm coming. Don't worry.
I never worry.
Uh huh. Let's go.
( applause )
Hello everyone, welcome to our grand opening.
Um, we have some refreshments inside
including some amazing pies
courtesy of Ethel's Hilltop Diner.
( laughs )
Um, before we open the doors
I just wanna tell you a little story.
So once upon a time,
uh, my husband Scott wanted to open a book store.
In fact, when he got sick
it was the number one thing on his bucket list.
He died before that could become a reality.
Uh, but his sister, Maggie, and I worked really hard
to keep Scott's story alive.
And then a funny thing happened along the way.
Opening this place became my story, too.
Our story.
A new story.
And I can't wait to see what happens next.
So, ladies and gentlemen, welcome to...
The Next Chapter.
( applause )
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That Time Mozart Pirated a Forbidden Piece of Music from the Catholic Church from Memory - Duration: 9:37.
Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart is known for many things, few
of which we care to cover on this site because you probably already know all about them.
Instead, we prefer to cover things that you likely didn't know, like that the alphabet
song was based on a tune by Mozart, or covering his extremely adult themed works that included
a bit of an obsession with all things scatological, and the significantly more family friendly
subject of today- that time Mozart pirated a cherished choral arrangement from the Vatican,
reportedly all from memory.
That piece was Miserere mei, Deus (literally, "Have mercy on me, O God"), which was
based on Psalm 51 and composed by Catholic priest Gregorio Allegri sometime in the 1630s.
Although today Miserere is regarded as one of the most popular and oft recorded arrangements
of the late Renaissance era, for many years, due to papal decree, if one wanted to hear
it, one had to go to the Vatican.
The punishment for ignoring the ban on copying this music is widely stated by many a reputable
source (as well as Mozart's dad, Leopold) to be excommunication from the Catholic church.
(Although I couldn't find any primary documents that back Pope Urban VIII, or any other Pope,
ever making such an official decree, and various pirated versions of the music are known to
have existed during the moratorium without anyone seeming to have been excommunicated.)
Nevertheless, there was indeed a ban on copying the music that lasted for almost a century
and a half.
To add to the mystique surrounding the piece, it was only allowed to be performed publicly
on two specific days during the Holy Week (the week before Easter)- Holy Wednesday and
Good Friday.
(And if you're curious, see: Why Determining Easter's Date is So Confusing) All this,
combined with the superior acoustics of the Sistine Chapel and the unparalleled talent
of the Papal Choir resulted in the piece becoming an almost mythical entity, with people travelling
from across the globe to hear it performed in all its glory.
Though the Vatican refused for many years to ever release a copy of the sheet music
for the piece, by the mid eighteenth century the Church had been cajoled into gifting three
copies to prominent individuals.
These individuals were the King of Portugal, famed composer and Catholic friar Giovanni
Battista Martini, and Emperor Leopold I.
In regards to Emperor Leopold, he seems to have heard the piece on a visit to the Vatican
sometime in the late 1600s, becoming enamoured with it.
Leopold used his influence to convince the Pope to give him a copy of the sheet music.
He then summoned the finest singers he had at his command and arranged for a performance
of the piece to be held in the Imperial Chapel in Vienna.
By all accounts, the resulting performance was lacklustre and dull.
This supposedly resulted in the Emperor believing he'd been cheated and given an inferior
copy of the music, sending a courier to the Vatican to explain to the Pope what had happened.
Apparently upset himself over his orders not being followed, the Pope subsequently is said
to have dismissed the Maestro di Cappella who'd provided the music.
As it turns out, Leopold had indeed been sent a genuine copy of the sheet music.
However, over the years the Papal Choir had added many embellishments to the original
work that were not reflected in the sheet music, nor were they seemingly ever written
down.
The story goes that the Maestro di Cappella eventually got his job back when this was
explained to the Pope.
Whether that oft' told story is perfectly accurate or not, Emperor Leopold would later
enshrine the copy of Miserere he'd been given in the Vienna Imperial Library.
This all brings us to 1770 when a 14-year-old Mozart was touring around Italy with his father.
After arriving in Rome, Mozart attended the Holy Wednesday Tenebrae, during which he heard
Miserere in full.
Later that day, Mozart, who was already considered a musical prodigy at this point, transcribed
the entire 15 or so minute piece from memory.
He is also rumoured to have attended the Good Friday performance later that week to hear
it again, helping to improve upon his unauthorised copy.
(Popular myth states that he smuggled his copy into the performance in his hat and corrected
it on the spot.)
Despite knowing that copying the piece was taboo, Mozart's father, Leopold, was reportedly
impressed that his son had managed to transcribe the song from memory, writing in a letter
to his wife dated April 14, 1770:
You have often heard of the famous Miserere in Rome, which is so greatly prized that the
performers are forbidden on pain of excommunication to take away a single part of it, copy it
or to give it to anyone.
But we have it already.
Wolfgang has written it down and we would have sent it to Salzburg in this letter, if
it were not necessary for us to be there to perform it.
But the manner of performance contributes more to its effect than the composition itself.
Moreover, as it is one of the secrets of Rome, we do not wish to let it fall into other hands.
Unlike the other, authorized copies of the piece that existed at the time, Mozart's
supposedly included the multitude of flourishes and ornamental embellishments employed by
the choir that were of fundamental importance to the arrangement, but, as previously stated,
not in the original music by Allegri.
All this said, while that is the widely reported story, it should be noted here that it isn't
actually clear from evidence at hand how accurate Mozart's copy of the piece was, as it has
unfortunately been lost to history, and going off a boasting father's account is somewhat
suspect.
However, for those who support the idea that Mozart made a perfect copy, it is noted that
Miserere is an amazingly repetitive piece, with the gist of most of the arrangement coming
in the first few minutes.
It's also often stated that a short while after transcribing Miserere, Mozart was at
a party with his father when the topic of the tune came up in conversation, at which
point Leopold boasted to the guests that his son transcribed the legendary piece from memory,
prompting some amount of skepticism from the attendees.
However, in attendance at said party was a musician named Christoferi, who'd actually
sung it while a member of the Papal Choir.
After looking over the copy made by Mozart, he supposedly confirmed that it was a faithful
reproduction.
Mozart in 1777 with his papal insignia Mozart in 1777 with his papal insignia
Whether that party anecdote actually happened is as difficult to determine as many other
details of this tale.
But what is 100% verifiable fact is that news of this supposedly extremely accurate unauthorized
copy of Miserere eventually reached Pope Clement XIV (perhaps even via Leopold Mozart himself
spilling the beans to the Pope in a letter).
The Pope then summoned the young composer to Rome while Mozart was travelling through
Naples.
However, rather than being upset or excommunicating Mozart, the Pope was impressed by the young
composer's musical ability and initiative and instead awarded him the Chivalric Order
of the Golden Spur– essentially a Papal knighthood.
This, perhaps, gives credence to the notion that Mozart's copy of the work must have
been reasonably accurate, as presumably the Pope would have checked with his Maestro di
Cappella concerning Mozart's transcription before awarding such an honour.
This knighthood was something Mozart seems to have been extremely proud of, including
frequently wearing the cross medal that came with being knighted.
He also took to signing his name Chevalier de Mozart.
However, in a letter to his father dated October of 1777, the 21 year old Mozart reveals that,
during a concert in which various nobles were in attendance, Mozart wore the mark of his
papal knighthood and the nobles mocked him for it, after which he seems to have ceased
wearing it and further stopped signing his name with the title.
In any event, impressed by Mozart and no doubt realising, both based on Mozart's transcription
of the work and the others that existed at the time, that the cat was out of the bag
(or perhaps simply not caring as his predecessors had), Pope Clement XIV got rid of the ban
concerning copies of the music for Miserere, ostensibly making it available to the masses.
However, due to the abbellimenti that the Papal Choir employed when they performed the
piece, compared to what the stock music said, for almost a century more the true Vatican
version of the song remained something you could only hear at the Vatican.
It wouldn't be until 1840 when a Catholic priest by the name of Pietro Alfieri published
the embellished version of Miserere that the world finally had what is considered to be
an accurate sheet music representation of the Chapel Choir
version
of song.
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How to Be Energetic All The Time! - Duration: 5:06.
Are you feeling tired and out of energy all day long?
Do you find it hard to motivate yourself to do even the little things?
When it comes to energy there are a lot of factors that affect your energy levels
and how energetic you are from the time you wake up until you go to bed
but in this video i will be covering only the one factor that has the biggest effect
on your energy and that factor alone will not only energize
you but it will also help you realize what other factors affect your energy and
get you to make them for work for you instead of working against you
The factor is: a life goal The reason behind you lacking energy is one
of two things The first is you don't have a goal
The second is you have a goal but you're not pursuing it
When you don't have anything in your life that you look forward to have or become
that means you're living in your comfort zone and when you're living in the comfort zone
your body produces very little energy because your body produces energy only when it needs
to so if you're not pushing it to produce more
energy then you'll end up having just enough energy to get by
But when you pursue your goals a nd expose yourself to new experiences and challenge
yourself to face your fears and get out of your comfort
zone you become animated and your body becomes full of energy
You become able to push so much further and exert so much more energy than someone with
no goal
To understand this even more let me tell you about Lucas
Lucas was eleven years old when his parents bought him his first computer
Before getting the computer Lucas was a great kid
He was one of the top student on his class and he was very athletic for his age
But after he got his computer and had access to the internet
He started getting into RPG Games and he was amazed at how many things he could do inside
the game It was like a new world to him and he wanted
to discover everything in that world After a while he got more attached to that
world that he started neglecting the real world
He got addicted to the Game and his performance suffered in real life
His grades had declined and he barely did any physical activity
He simply had no energy to do anything anymore He just had enough energy to sit and eat while
playing all day on his computer And when he had to go out and go to school
or somewhere where it was necessary for him to be he felt he was drained from energy
And Despite of all the attempts by his family to help him change his lifestyle because it
was not good for him he just didn't listen Years go by and he's starting to realize the
consequences of his choices He had no friends anymore except for the ones
he's made in the game He had poor eating habits and also bad sleeping
habits since he didn't care much about real life anymore all he could think about was
staying inside of that virtual world He didn't enjoy going out anymore and whenever
he goes to school all he can think about is the time he's going home so he can get back
to playing on his computer By this point he knew this was not the life
he wanted and it was time to change So he started to think about what he really
wanted his life be like then he started setting goals for himself
The moment he started pursuing his goals was the first time he felt alive in a very long
time!
He felt the energy running through him but he soon came to realize that some things would
negatively affect his energy sometimes So it was time to work on these to be able
work more effictively on achieving his goals So he started getting enough sleep, eating
healthy and working out because he noticed that these were the areas affecting his energy
A few years go by and Lucas now went to college and started studying what would help him reach
his goals He's now living a healthy lifestyle, has a
high fitness level and is the top student in his class
All thanks to having goals and pursuing them
So now unless you have a disease that's affecting your energy
if you want to be Energetic and have a lot of energy in your tank
All you have to do is find something that you would love to have in your life
Imagine what kind of life you want to have from all your heart and that would make you
happy Find out how to reach that life then set your
goals and start pursuing them!
After all if you truly want something, you will always find a way to reach it.
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Fontain: Which ones do u want?
Fontain: I want this one
Fontain: And I'll take this one
Fontain: Boring :)
Fontain: On the first pack
Fontain: Last pack
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is Kate Middleton pregnant again?
The Duchess of Cambridge's pregnancy is again included in one of OK! magazine's latest revelations.
As per the magazine, Prince William's lady love is not only pregnant with a girl but
with twins!
Previous Kate Middleton pregnant news claim that the royal icon is conceiving a girl.
According to reports, it is Prince William who's very determined to have a sibling for
their eldest son.
"She and William had been trying since January.
Will's told the queen he'd love to have at least two daughters.
With all the boys in his family, he's trying to even up the balance," explains the magazine.
The royal couple is reportedly ready for the second baby because of the Duchess of Cambridge's
quick recovery: "Everyone expected them to wait until George was a year old before trying
again, to give her body a chance to rebalance its hormones.
But Kate feels so fantastic and healthy right now, there's no reason to wait."
Another Kate Middleton pregnancy news came from The Star magazine.
"Little George is getting a sister, and Kate is absolutely thrilled.
She was really hoping the next child would be a girl, and having it confirmed has just
given her the best start to the year, Kate and William are ecstatic," claimed one source.
Ever since Kate Middleton's pregnancy news surfaced, betting companies have likewise
hosted several games challenging people to guess the name of the upcoming royal baby.
If Prince William's wife is indeed expecting a new child, surely it will never be kept
as a secret for a long time.
tell us your thoughts in comments below.
thanks for watching.
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Method #1
Turn off automatic time and select accurate time, date, month and year
Method #2
Enable Synchronize
update the time
Method #3: open Services
select Windows Time
set it to Automatic
right click and start
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Despacito is now the most watched video of all time on YouTube
Puerto Rican music stars Luis Fonsi and Daddy Yankee released a summer anthem thats been such a hit its managed to break a YouTube record weeks after it became the most streamed track of all time with 4.
Thats right, Despacito (that one song that youve definitely heard) has become the most watched video in YouTube history getting a staggering 3 billion views, knocking Wiz Khalifas See You Again out the park which now follows at close second place.
The Spanish track has been so popular that even Justin Bieber jumped on it for a remix. However, theres no official video featuring JB yet.
The singer's remix of the hit Luis Fonsi and Daddy Yankee song features Bieber singing in Spanish for the first time on record, though his momentary adoption of the language has posed the Sorry artist a few problems as he was unable to perform it live.
The 23-year-old even had a bottle thrown at him after he refused to perform the song on stage.
Justins not the only one thats jumped on the famous track, the minions have done their bit too so if youre a fan of the yellow organisms you might want to watch their cover below.
Listen to their cover here and let us know who you think nailed it in the comments.
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Amir Khan's wife Faryal Makhdoom is virtually unrecognisable from the time the pair got engaged
The couple began their romance back in 2012, when they met at a party in New York. They went on to marry in 2013, announcing their acrimonious divorce via Twitter just this week.
However, since the pair struck up a romance, Faryal has undergone a huge transformation.
From the demure and shy 19-year-old who preferred jeans and brogues with natural hair, she has since turned to cosmetics, has admitted to using cosmetic fillers, and has opted for a more garish style.
Faryal looked completely different in September 2013 (Photo by Mark Cuthbert/UK Press via Getty Images).
At the time she met Amir, who was then 24, she was studying political science and journalism at Rutgers University School of Arts and Sciences in New Jersey. Now Faryal runs her own cosmetics company.
In the early days of her relationship the Muslim couple were said to be devoutly religious, however, Faryal has since courted controversy with her tendency to bear more flesh than her religion deems acceptable, with it causing friction with Amirs family.
She previously explained her decision to have cosmetic work done: Because of lack of sleep, genes, dehydration, I get bags under my eyes and I wanted to get them lightened. So I went to my doctor, Simon – hes Kim Kardashian's doctor.
I like high cheekbones. I've never had plastic surgery. Fillers and plastic surgery are two different things and I want people to understand that.
Its been claimed that Faryal, 26, attempted to backtrack on their split after they announced it on Twitter, in which Amir accused her of cheating.
The posts were later deleted and at first rumoured to be the work of hackers, but it seems it may have been because Amirs wife got cold feet.
It's now been claimed Makhdoom contacted Khan in Dubai ahead of the video upload, with her parents also contacting his family, saying it was in their best interests to stay together for the sake of their two-year-old daughter, Lamaisah.
Amir has since confirmed the split in a Snapchat video. Just prior to the announcement of their divorce Amir also dropped the price of his £1. 6m mansion by £200k, suggesting he is after a super quick sale.
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