well no but I feel like lately the last year has been really like all work crazy
like nothing a break not whatever yeah you know and that's been kind of hard
yeah that's been a learning curve I mean just learning how to like work and
maintain everything especially with you because you're like so in it over a
Ryland's Channel Shane Dawson and Ryland Adams just opened up about their relationship and
now that all of the Jake Paul series is over they opened up about how Shane
might be a little bit of a workaholic and how they're trying to maintain their
relationship this is an excellent excellent mental health topic for all of
us this is Chris from the rewired saw we talked about the problem but focus on
the solution and if you're new to my channel my channel is all about trying
to help you with your mental health so what I try to do is pull different
topics from the YouTube community or pop culture they're trying to teach you how
to improve your mental and emotional well-being so that kind of stuff make
sure to subscribe and ring that notification bell so yeah I don't even
think I'm subscribe to Ryland Adams but based on the videos I've done
research on YouTube YouTube was like yo Oh check out this new video that he just
posted with Shane Dawson it was like alright I'm eating lunch you're that comfortable
eating it in front of you cheater are you kidding me for a very long time
because like Shane's hustle so much and you know there's passion and this
dedication and all that because I can definitely relate but this can
definitely be something that is challenging for our relationships so
anyways here's the clip where they kind of talk about the rough patch they hit
while Shane's been working really really hard on his whole series well no but I
feel like lately the last year has been really like all work crazy like nothing
rate not whatever yeah you know and that's been kind of hard yeah it's been
a learning curve I mean just learning how to like work and maintain everything
especially with you because you're like so in it which is great I mean it really
is because it's changed everything and you love what you're making which is
everything anybody could ever want you know what's interesting we've never
really talked about our issues which is good but like on YouTube because I feel
like I bet you met like in real life I was like I hope so we're like I started
to like quite the long haul with each other to not talk about any issue um no
we don't really do that I guess that's a good thing so I guess people don't know
because it has been a rough like six months because I've been working a lot
up and I haven't like been showering and I've been like staying up all night
wearing the same shirt for the entire month but I mean it's because you and
our schedules are 100% off because you'll start editing at 2:00 p.m. and
then you're so deep in it that you don't go to bed until 7:00 a.m. and then it's
it's been like a patch of like learning how to work in navigate a relationship
but luckily I think we love each other enough to want to fight that fight you
know yeah I mean I think I feel like we're gonna have a really good life I'm
excited well I hope so one thing I will say is it is kind of interesting
like I remember throughout watching Jake Paul series like Ryland Adams wasn't in it that
much a lot of it was Shane Dawson was a few times when they you know film some parts
at the house and Ryland was there and Morgan was there and you know a lot of
us you know we thought about you know like Shane how's his mental health and
he's going through a lot what's Ryland been going through right so I think I
think what they said and how they kind of ended that part was like yes like
absolutely like Ryland is in it for the long haul and he knows like you know
that Shane's gonna work in my chain is now taking this time off which was you
know kind of a mental health break for him but he also can spend more time with
Weiland which is awesome but Rylan can kind of see that and one thing that
makes relationships difficult is when one person is that kind of workaholic
and the other person is trying to pull them away from it difficult relationship
where you're working and the other person wants you to make money they
wanted all the things that take a lot of work but they didn't want me to work and
it was really I'm like what are you hoping to do right so it's nice to see
how their relationship is where Ryland kind of sees that Shane is doing this
thing and it's something that he loves and then Shane is taking some time to
spend with Ryland before Shane jumps into his next venture
so yeah what I'm always trying to do with my channel is take things that
you're already watching and say like hey how can we learn from this what what's
happening in our lives like can we relate to this what can we work on so my
son you know a lot of people ask me about work-life balance how do you do
this so I have a brain that just goes goes goes right I'm not doing something
like my brain tells me that I'm being useless
that's what I can slip into depression sometimes I get anxious like I have to
be doing something and this can be an issue this can be a very big issue when
I'm trying to find work-life balance because even when I'm spending time with
like Tristan or my son or friends like my brain is like no Chris you should be
being productive right now so if you can relate to that like I'm gonna try to
tell you like how I kind of cope with that how I find balance and all that
good stuff so I want to break this into a few different categories all right
there's work there's my son there's Tristan and then there's me all
right so yeah work is something like when I I'm competitive I'm always trying
to be the best and I just work a ton right I'm always trying to reach the
next level there's a matter if it's with YouTube or with the company I'm working
for whatever it is I work work work and I take work home with me I do stuff on
the weekends the new treatment center that I'm actually working for by the way
subscribe to our YouTube channel I'm gonna link it down to the description
I did some work on a Saturday to do some work that's difficult it is every day
for me is just a day Monday is an awesome day I'm so so because you know
is not having money anyway so much goals and dreams and stuff but my dad used to
work a ton and he didn't spend that much time with me so my mom was an alcoholic
my dad raised me know that it affected me so I try to be very mindful with my
son about how much I work because I'll be honest with you there's some weekends
where I'm just like Dylan I got to do a bunch of work just hang out play some
video games for a while I got to do this right and it's tricky for me so for me
those of you who don't know me I'm a recovering drug addict and alcoholic
I've been clean for about six years well my son was three years
I got sober and there's there's still guilt that lingers around from that even
though I've been sober longer than I was addicted in my son's life and my son
doesn't even remember that but there's this guilt that kind of lingers around
something I try to teach people is I just know that feelings of guilt or call
to action okay so if I ever feel that guilt I try to do something about it and
what I mean by that is I go spend time with my son
I I'll go hang out with him like this morning before I took him to school I
just wanted to take some time and do that like the way I man is just kind of
work-life balance is that I have to just create time slots like an organized mess
of a thinker and I just have to say okay here's some time here some time here
some time all right so then then you got Tristan Tristan the love of my life
the most beautiful amazing girlfriend on earth it's crazy because she is just so
so so so supportive just so supportive but at the same time like I can't take
advantage of that I need to find balance with her life she deserves time with me
she deserves time where it has nothing to do with YouTube where it has nothing
to do with work or whatever it is she's even called me out sometimes like Chris
you're talking too much about this and I'm like yes I get it like she deserves
time with me and you know because of how supportive she is like I owe that to her
to her so you know recently just like last week or two like our schedules have
been screwed up just because I was out of town she had to stay home for the
weekend and all of that but like at 20 doesn't
make time for her so like we see each other on the weekends so me and her will
just like binge watch Netflix and we'll just hang out and watch youtube videos
or whatever but like I try to spend dedicated time with her but she knows
how my brain works because sometimes we'll just be like hey let's watch some
YouTube then something just ignites that fire and I'm like baby girl I love you
but give me like 10 minutes I got a girl record a video right
she's like cool with it and then I go and then like while I'm editing videos
or hanging out or whatever I try to you know stay active and keep conversations
or get involved with my editing process and that's something I do with my son
too like my son his YouTube channel but like one thing I try to do is I turn my
my work and what I'm doing and getting the people involved in it so it's kind
of like two birds one stone right Wow you're starting to see all the balls I'm
juggling right I got work on the weekends I have my son on the weekends
I'm with Tristan and there's literally days like on Saturdays and Sunday works
like me and Tristan will watch like two or three episodes of something on
Netflix I'm gonna play video games with Dillon for a couple hours right like I
said the time okay okay cool cool now make sure Dillon's okay I'll make sure
she's okay and I don't know I'm very fortunate that both Dillon interesting
kind of balance with me and they know we also try to go out and do stuff for
example this Saturday we're going to this thing called vegan village where
all three of us are gonna go there I'm not bringing a camera I'm not gonna vlog
it or you know take picture as well make fake pictures that's just the three of
us time we get to talk in the car and
here in Las Vegas so I'm constantly doing this juggling act and like I hope
at this point in the video I hope you're someone who gets overwhelmed easily and
you feel like there's too busy and all that like you know look at what Shane's
doing like Shane has the luxury of taking time series like the most
successful you know YouTube series in history that wasn't on YouTube
read/write and he's taking time off to spend with Ryland like you know one
thing about Tristan - is she knows my vision right she knows where I wanna be
she knows where I want to go she knows like what I want to accomplish and she
has my back 1,000% so like you know when I am in that workaholic mode like Shane
gets where it's editing or doing whatever like Tristan always
remembers that big picture you know what I mean and you know we're doing this
together like we're a team and like I'm so grateful that she supports me in it
but the last thing I want to talk about the last part of this whole work-life
balance is me what about me time right like I can't just always be working I
can't just always be spending time with my son I can't just always be spending
time with Tristan time for me time and that's a huge part of mental health and
this is something man it just popped into my head right now that's why my
mental health is so important and why I do these things I want to talk to all of
you and more youtubers are watching my videos and I hope if you're a youtuber
watching this video you're learning something from it because I also need me
time I need time away from work anytime from mice away from my son
I'm away from Tristan what I do is I read I play video games with my friends
you know right now all the weekend so I do get a lot of me time right so I like
the freedom of doing whatever I want but I will be making videos soon because in
about two weeks that's two weeks twisting and I are moving in together
and I have concerns I have worries like shame in this video just moving to a new
house but this is gonna be the first time Tristan and I have lived together
we've been together for about two years almost and there's things that I worry
about right because for example when I'm trying to have me time when Tristan is
over I feel guilt and a lot of that and this is something where we have to be
very self aware it's not Tristan it is not Tristan it is me it's me like for
example when I play video games with my son I'm like oh my god like I'm thinking
the whole time oh my god Tristan is so bored on the
she's mad is she that's what my crazy brain does now I
have to remember that's not Tristan that is my brain right so one of the concerns
is when we move in together finding my meat I'm like is she gonna have her time
and all that and this is important when it comes to our mental health I have to
recognize what places my brain goes to not recognize I have to be mindful of it
because in the reality Tristan likes her her time - Tristan you know has school
she's she went to school for Social Work she likes to draw she likes to watch you
know her own shows and youtubers she loves to just sit and lay with her cat
you know what I mean like one of the reasons that Tristan and I work out is
she is not super needy so she needs her time as much as I need my time so these
are things that you struggle with I hope you can start acknowledging where your
brain goes but anyways like I'm really glad that Shane Dawson around Adams gave
me an opportunity to discuss this work-life balance because I know it's
it's really important for anybody anybody watching this like I want to be
an example of somebody who works there but off but also has a good work-life
balance and I want to kind of walk you guys through how I accomplish that all
right so let's do this down in the comments below let me know if you
struggle with work-life balance do you struggle with being overwhelmed do you
struggle with feeling guilty for how much you work or anything like that like
let's have a conversation down below and see if we can help each other learn to
find that balance speaking of helping each other if you are not in the
facebook mental health support group you need to join it it's linked down in the
description below all right anyways that's all I got for you with this video
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