okay good morning everyone welcome back to leadership and success coaching and
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that you should be working on every day I had to have a wonderful life right
okay I know it's a slight deviation well it's not actually a deviation it's a
slight deviation from what we usually talk about which is like sales training
leadership training you know success training so from the from the sound of
it I'm sorry you know this is I you know I'm trying to see if I can you know let
me just flip that around maybe that's easier huh yeah now it's not a deviation
from that it's just from the name it's it's like oh you know maybe this is
something different but actually it has a lot to do with leadership he has a lot
to do with success he has to because this is about you you know okay so back
to me alright and well if you've there you go if you've not connected that's my
social media link and I get started okay point number one the first thing you
want to work on and I think it's probably the most important thing is
this I'm sorry have to keep flipping back info because youtube doesn't for
some reason they can do this is your health that's the first thing you want
to be working on every single day right so so so this is what I want to talk
about today I want to talk about all the things that you know every day when you
wake up like today for example we can start from today you know but tomorrow
and every other day these are the six things that you should say hey you know
what have I done these things you know sort of like a mini checklist to help
there so the first thing is your health why do I say that because your health is
your wealth you know no people hear that a lot you know it sounds a bit cliche
but it's true because what's the point of having so much money if you're sick
you know what's the point of you know you know having being famous being very
successful but but you know you can't have the life to enjoy it
so I think I've seen so many people including myself right this is something
I've learned and and it's something I've done myself mistake I made myself that
I've sacrificed my health so much sometimes that I stop and I see and I
realized I said on a second I said what am i doing all this for at the end of
the day I'm doing all this for myself for the people around me for my family
so that I can enjoy it so that I can have a great life so but if I'm
sacrificing my health too much you know then I start to wonder hey you know like
is it really worth it you know and and what I mean by that
is just some really simple things like you know I want to start with very basic
stuff like food like what you eat I know people know me people that know
me know that I you know care a lot about food but I don't mean like you know
choosing good food or you know going to expensive restaurants or you know I
don't mean that kind of stuff I just mean eat right you know I just
mean eat on time you know I when I was starting out running my business I used
to be so busy that sometimes I eat at like 3 o'clock
you know once and then you know and and I'll have dinner like at 9:30 p.m.
there's nothing wrong with that it's not like oh you gotta have lunch at 12:00
you're gonna have dinner at 6 you know it's not like that I don't mean exactly
that it's okay that you you have lunch a little bit later it's okay to have
dinner a bit later and things like that but just be very aware you know that
health is well you know that's you don't want to be sick you know there are
people that you know don't get enough sleep if you are so stressed and and you
can sleep well then I think that's not really right so here are a few basic
stuff I know you hear all the time but I just you know think that it's worth
mentioning you should absolutely sleep well because that recovers your brain
that recovers your body you should eat well right don't eat junk food like
KFC's McDonald's and all that kind of shit you should drink lots of water and
one other thing you absolutely should do is you should exercise it doesn't have
to be heavy extreme exercises even just go for a walk you know three times a
week why is that so because it helps metabolism it helps your body function
it's important when you exercise your brain works better your body functions
better just everything gets better so I think it's really
really important that if you want to lead people and you wanna you know be
successful in life in business that you have a healthy life and exercising is a
big part of that okay all right so that's the first thing the second thing
you want to work on is this is your brain these this is the second thing you
want to work on every day okay what I mean by that as a leader you know
we if you're tuning into this you're probably a leader leading someone you
know leading a team leading a business or even just leading yourself right you
cannot lead people you cannot continue to lead people effectively if you are
not learning every day if you're not improving and I think your brain forms
such an important part of who you are and if you fit your brain something good
every day you know you become better every day
so what I mean by that is two different areas
number one the way you can work on your brain is with information right learn
something you know read about something and and you can do that by obviously
reading watching youtube videos you know documentaries stuff like that even just
surfing the weapon not just for Jung and you know celebrity or gossip shit but
just you know learning something and and that can be anything that can be you
know you can be learning about
leadership sales success anything right feed your brain with information that
helps you improve that's one the second thing that you can
work on your brain about is about positivity about mentality success
goal-setting kind of thing so your brain is like muscle right and your brain is
also like your body what you feel it is what you become so if you feed your
brain positive information successful theories and you train your brain to
think to to fight to be better every day that your brain becomes stronger and you
become stronger so I think your brain is such an important part of you being a
leader and you being successful so do something
hey good morning do something to to your brain
positively every single day okay the third thing you should be working on
every day are your relationships right your relationships
well
relationships with poo families friends partners your business partners your
team you know every day you should work on that every day why because really how
a healthy hey a healthy relationship is critical to a healthy life and so it's
not easy if your relationships are under stress or broken right and I mean that
in all different ways whether that's relationship with family or friends or
or your partners or even with your team so you want to look at your
relationships and you want to say alright which areas of my relationship
need some work and you know you can't possibly spend every day with friends
and business and and partners like every day it's not possible but you want to
look at evaluate that area and say alright which part am I gonna work on
today and what I mean by that is you want to spend quality time not
necessarily quantity time like okay I'm gonna spend like three hours you know
but just quality time and what I mean by that is be there be present you know if
you've decided that you want to spend maybe you know a couple of hours with
your mom and dad be there you know don't be there and be on the phone and be
doing something else if you decided you want to spend a call you know a couple
hours with your kids a couple of hours with your boyfriend or girlfriend with
your wife or husband just be there you know like that make sure it's quality
you know be present and be engaged in the conversation you know get to know
the alive get to know what's going on but don't be half in and half out and I
think that's really important so having good relationships or healthy
relationships is actually quite critical to your success so so identify the areas
that probably more walk and go ahead and walk on those
right there every day okay the next area you want to work on is this is your
finance okay that is the fourth area you want to work on every day let's be
honest I think we all need well not me but we all want more money right so if
you you know for us the chief our financial goals one of the first thing
you actually need to do is the set one right for us to achieve our financial
goals you actually have to set one here's the funny thing a lot of people
that I've I've met I've coached I've trained they don't have one they don't
have a financial goal they don't have you know it's you can't just say I want
to be rich you can't just say I want to have a big house in a big car that's not
enough because that's not the correct goal
you actually want a number what how much do you want to make in the next five
years in the next ten years and then you break it down I know you've
you've heard about this you know five years ten years break it down to one
year break it down to per month break it down to per day so what is your goal
this year how much do you want to make this year how much do you want to save
you know or some people you could translate that via a different thing
what do you want to buy what do you want to get this year maybe your you know
trip to this place a trip to that place maybe you want to invest in this you
want to invest in that maybe you want to borrow a car this year maybe you want to
buy a house buy next year something along those lines right so you can
either put it as an actual number or you can put it as a physical material goal
and then you can translate that goal into a number
I also want to talk about one of my experience which is you know sometimes
we there are things that you want to buy or there are financial goals you want to
achieve or things you want to get but maybe you can't afford it you know maybe
it's just really expensive maybe it's a sports car
maybe it's a Porsche maybe it's a Ferrari maybe it's a really expensive
condominium maybe it's an expensive house maybe it's a 20 it's a it's a one
month trip to Europe or you know it's it's a 15 day trip to USA so maybe some
of these things are just really too expense maybe it's a business class
ticket whatever right the fact that it's actually expensive it's worth you
checking it out because when you know you can't afford it but you know how
much it costs it you you can actually start working out how to get it because
that's how I started you know when I first went into you know the Porsche
showroom or well you know when to see really expensive properties I realized
that it was like wow this is like so expensive like I can't afford it
you know but because I knew how expensive it was how much it cost and I
started putting it down as a financial goal I started working out on okay how
can I afford it it's so expensive I can't afford it now but what do I need
to do or how much would it take for me to get it so then I started working it
up in three years in four years you know and every year if I do this if I do that
if I achieve this level if my business gets to that level if my team can
achieve that then I can get that so so it's okay if some of the things that you
your goal that you set you can't afford it now but understand how much it costs
work it out and break it down and how can you get it how can you get there and
I think that's something that you can work on every single day um the other
thing I want to talk about in terms of just your financial goals is I think you
want to work on you know developing high income skills
you know because obviously if you've got big financial goals you need you know to
make a lot of money and to make a lot of money you gotta have the ability to you
know you gotta have high income skills and I say high income skills there are
lots of high different high income skills you know two of them is relevant
to what we do number one is obviously sales you know
selling the ability to sell there's a high income skill right ability to sell
consistently every day it's a high income skill it's a skill that a lot of
people don't have the second skill a high income skill is investing you know
so so these are just two high income skills that you should learn and you
should develop yourself into for you to achieve some of these financial goals
okay number five the number five thing you should work on every single day for
you to have a wonderful life is you got to work on something you're not good at
right something you're not good at
so everyday work on something you're not good at right identify an area of
yourself of your life that you feel that hey you know what that needs improvement
oh you know that's just it's something I'm not really comfortable with it's
something I'm not I'm not familiar or something I'm not great at you know and
and and challenge yourself you know and and that could be anything right it
could be it could be it doesn't have to be it doesn't have to be relevant to
what you do at work or your business it doesn't necessarily have to be there but
it can't be right it could be maybe maybe you're not good at public speaking
and you want to look on that maybe you're not at you know planning ahead
you know maybe you're just not a good planner you know and you you plant very
short time maybe you want to work on that maybe you're not good at being
focused for a long period of time maybe you want to work on that maybe you're
not good at communicating ideas messages maybe you want to work on that
leadership or even personal things like you know personal skills maybe dancing
singing you know just pick something pick something that you feel you're weak
at but it's an area you feel that you should get better or you want to get
better then work on it why do I say this is important because when you work on
something you are not good at it makes you uncomfortable right it makes you
nervous and you're out of your comfort zone but I find that's what makes
everyday have a bit of meaning it makes you feel like a life if you know what I
mean when you do the same thing every day and you know that you can do it and
you just just good at what you do you just cruise in and you're not feeling
nervous you're not feeling you know uncomfortable you're not challenging
yourself you're not pushing yourself to the limits
I don't know that they just went past with without a lot of without a lot of
meaning but when you break out of your comfort zone you do something you just a
bit nervous about I think you just come alive you know and that makes that day
and that you're living that that month that year your life just more meaning
for a bit more colorful be more exciting if you know what I mean
now at the end of you know the day the week the month will you be working on
something for a while you will get better and will you get better guess
what you're gonna feel more confident you're gonna feel good and more comfort
about yourself so it's actually a great thing to be working on something that
you're not good at right so that's the number five and the last thing that you
should be working on every day to have a wonderful life is giving work on giving
right what I mean by that
see in my opinion we every day can only do two things you either give or you
receive she and I mean that that's the fact so you're either either giving to
people contributing to the society contributing to the people around you
helping lift people up or you're receiving you know you're waiting for
people to give to you you're receiving motivation you're receiving from the
world you're absorbing Hey look there's nothing wrong with receiving there's
nothing wrong with taking I take every day from different people from different
things you know but I also want to make sure that hey you know that I'm not just
taking that I'm not just receiving from the people around me like oh you know
thank you what and I don't mean physical gifts I
mean emotional intellectual and a lot of other things you know I receive every
day but I want to make sure that hey I don't want to be just receiving I want
to be giving I want to give to people around me I want to you know and let me
tell you what you can give but but let me get to that in the world like I want
to explain this very interesting phenomenon right and and I'm sure some
of you would feel the same way in the past I was very happy you know when
every time people give me something right whether it's a present or a gift
whether it's my birthday or you know just when they visit you know Thailand
and then you know and we meet and then people keep me stuff I'm so excited I'm
so happy oh thank you so much but here's the funny thing when you give to people
when I when I bought something or thought of something for someone and it
gave it to them and the join your face that surprised that things that
appreciation that feeling I get is actually way better than when I receive
right do you agree some of you will feel the
same way you know that you feel good when people
you something but what you give and you see how people feel you feel even better
right so what are some other things you can give other than actual presence and
stuff right of course money uh-huh
you can donate money time you can give time but other than money and time which
are the two very obvious things you can give energy right he this is this is
funny thing give energy to people around you people like energetic people people
like enthusiastic people influence the world with your energy passion give
passion right share your passion with the people around you give gratitude
these are the things that sometimes we don't think of but you can give right be
thankful safe thanks thank people for the little things thank you for being
there thank you for listening thank you for understanding me thank you for not
giving up you know just being grateful thank you for all the problems you give
me because that will make me a better person thank you for all the bullshit no
things like that right thank you for your advice right right
sorry not thank you for everything give advice right give advice give help to
people give forgiveness right so these are a lot of things other than money and
and and and time that you could you could give because if you really think
about it there are so many things we could give we could contribute and we
could share with people around us right and just to end it off I think it is
very important however that when I say give we or you don't
expect anything in return sometimes I know it feels a bit sad when you give
and give and give and you know not everyone appreciates it not everyone is
thankful or sees what they get or sees the value in what they get and sometimes
we feel bit hurt you know there are I've given you so much advice I've given you
so much help you don't seem to appreciate I give you so much time you
don't seem to care I've given you so much of this and that you don't seem to
be thankful but that's just it you know like what we want to do for ourselves is
to give with no expectation you know and expect nothing in return so and and that
is that is something that we do for us not for them okay all right great so
that's all we've got for today you know I always keep these videos you know as
short and sharp as possible I was just you know thinking hey to deviate a
little bit from our usual success leadership stuff just talk a bit about
life and about what we could do every day so these are the things you know
that I think of you know that everyday I try to focus on these things and I try
to work on these things for myself every day and I wanted to share with all of
you let me know what you think you know and you know even after this video you
can still put in your comments and if you agree with these six things if there
are seven eight-nine that you personally think that you work on you know it would
be great to share with the community so fill it in the comment section that if
it's other than these six there are other things that you want to contribute
I think that would be great and if not just let me know what you think so let
me just summarize the six things again let me just flip over and summarize the
six things okay so working on your health
okay so focus on your health every day make sure you're healthy otherwise it's
really pointless with all the money in a success you've got and you
healthier sick all the time work on your brain right as a leader of people of
businesses even yourself you want to make sure that you're learning you're
challenging yourself every day you're growing so that you can continue to lead
effectively you want to work on your relationships because healthy
relationships means a healthy life and means that you can succeed better and
that is family friends partners kids your team your people just anyone around
you and and you don't want to you know have a broken or stressful relationship
look on your finance obviously everybody wants more money and having a financial
goal knowing what you are supposed to achieve today this month this year next
five years is critical to having more money you can't just say I want more
money how much do you want work on something you're not good at breaking
off your comfort zone makes you feel alive working on anything that's whether
it's relevant to your business or not public speaking leadership skills you
know or even just your own things you know being stronger being fitter being
more focused and the last thing giving giving to people not just money and time
giving help giving advice giving gratitude and just sharing you know
giving energy sharing with people around you helping a community and give with no
expectation of anything in return okay so alright everybody this is it
thank you all for tuning in and as usual I hope everything we've talked about
help to you today and if you like what you watched of course subscribe hit the
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and tell them what you think you know whether you agree there's six things or
you know pick one of those things that you've been working on or if you have
seven eight nine ten please feel free to add it to the list
and that is it there will be more videos coming your way and I will see you all
next time take care bye
remember to work on those things starting today bye
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will put in all the translations you need for Koreans in the nations Japanese
Hong Kong Taiwanese everyone I will make sure all the translations are take care
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