Thứ Bảy, 1 tháng 4, 2017

Youtube daily can Apr 1 2017

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JH: Hello!

JH: C-Armys! 4 line poem challenge!

JK: Zhong! (which means chinese)

JH: Chinese Armys

JH: Guo (Country)

JK: Guo guo misses everyone everyday (Guo guo is jk's nickname, similar to kookie)

JK: Ar

JH: Ah! Arent you so great?

JH: My!

JK: (Ar-)Mys won't you clap for me?

JK: THANK YOU~

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Two can CrISpy short - Duration: 0:54.

hi

(walking) god I look good

hey look a two can wow

theres no two can

dot u see them their right there

wake me up

theirs no two cans

right there kid

well I. such a idiot

I'm awesome so r u

byyyyyyyyyyyye

bacon

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Latinos Can Make a Difference in Clinical Trials - Duration: 1:02.

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How to Make a Duct Tape Messenger Bag - Part 4 - Sophie's World - Duration: 7:21.

Hi, I'm Sophie and welcome to my world

today we're going to finish up our

messenger bag this is step four of finishing

up our incredibly cute messenger bag

last time we made the flap and we added

the strap now all we're going to do is

embellished now basically what I'm

teaching you today is just embellishing

the edges and that's going to add a

little extra strength and it's also

going to make it look pretty for the

project you will meet the messenger bag

embellishment pape a work surface

scissors ruler exacto knife now you

should also know if you really want to

go to town and embellish your messenger

bag that you could use duct tape

stickers and if you haven't seen my duct

tape sticker tutorial just check it out

there's a link down below what we're

going to be doing for our edging is

we're just going to be using a different

color of tape an embellishment tape

this is a fun pattern this is one of

those patterns i have to tell you the

Dollar Tree has incredible pattern tapes

now the problem with them is that they

don't stay in style very long they are

like literally in and out so now what

I'm doing here I should show you from

this way is i'm actually using my bag as

measuring so there we go

and i'm going to cut it right right

there and I'm gonna make a bunch of

these little strips here

the one thing i will say about the

dollar tree tape though is that their

tape is a little stickier and so it it

has a tendency to stick to these a

little bit more see how it sticks i'm going to cut

these strips into half inch strips and

what I really like about these mats is

that they have these little lines little

dots you can line it up so you can

measure without using a ruler but if

you don't have a ruler of course

if you don't have one of these use a ruler

okay I'm gonna pull

this little piece up here and what I'm

going to do is just come to my corner

right at the corner and I'm doing half

on half off so that I can take my pretty

and wrap it over the edge now it's going

to give it another little layer of tape

on that seam and that's important

just to give it some strength but it's

also going to make it look pretty

let's repeat on the other side again

just take it right to the edge there

take it on down the side you're half on

half off here and just fold that over

nice and neat if you get a little teeny bit

of extra sometimes that happens you can

just snip off with your scissors it's why it's

always good to have a pair of scissors

flip it over

half on half off ok and the last one now

this is the time too that you might

want to come back and add a second piece

of purple here or you might want to just

put a strip of embellishment right

across the front here let me get that out of

the way what's kind of fun with this is if

you're going to do a nice big strip like

this all you have to do is lay it on

top ooh...don't pull it up lay it on

top of your fabric i'm going to lay it

right along the edge there

why did I pick it up because it was a

little crooked and I should've just left

it to tell you the truth but

then you just flip this over

super sticky today for some reason

flip it over and seal it on the back and if

you haven't given yourself quite enough

you can always come back and

put another piece over top

it's up to you how you embellish you

know I i have a tendency to be pretty

simple in my design but if I had my

sister Freda here i'm sure that she would

make the most amazing stripes and

patterns and whenever I've done workshops

with kids they do the most amazing stuff

so i am just going to show you the

basics here but you should feel free to

go to town like i said if you wanted

to make your initials on here you could

use the duct tape sticker tutorial to

put your name on here initials on here

you might want to put a stripe on your

strap if you are going to put a stripe

on your strap i would suggest doing it

before you attach it to the bag just

because it's going to be easier

you might want to go to town and put

jewels, rhinestones, buttons whatever you

want on this but the main thing about

your bag is that it is set and ready and

the only other thing I wanted to show

you that I like to take my corners and

just trim them just a little bit just

to round them just a little bit but

they're not quite the sharp but there

you have it a messenger bag and this is

perfect this is a perfect size for my ipad

which has become like my third limb I

have to have my iPad with me all the

time now so perfect for my ipad perfect

for all the other little things that I

need to carry around now remember you

can make all the different sizes there's

a tiny little one for your iphone

there's a medium-sized one there is a

next medium-sized one which is a little

bit bigger and then of course don't

forget if you haven't seen it

the giant's mongo bag and again all these

sizes are done in exactly the same way

the only thing that you need to do is

use bigger or smaller fabrics and all of

those sizes are on my website

www.sophie-world.com for more great

ideas check us out

sophie-world.com and you too can be toting

around your messenger bag

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Ghost Town DJ's My Boo - Duration: 5:48.

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What can You DO! GamingBeaver Animated - Duration: 0:08.

What can you do Son?

What can you Do?

I'll tell you What you cant do

Kill ME!

"MLG" Air Horn's Blowing

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[FNAF GMOD] I CAN'T FIX YOU - Duration: 0:48.

Oh I Uploaded a Video

And you wanted to check

But there is no video here Seriously

now you can Unsubcribe from this channel

Are you still Here !!???!

STOP Watching this ;-;

Black Screen SERIOUSLY

I'M so proud of myself because I Uploaded a video with black screen

I want to say something about this video ...

Today is April 1 2017 so what that means is....

APRILFOOLS OF COURSE!! XD

Sorry for wasting 40 seconds of your life

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Express Learn to Yourself - Jeevan Funda by Motivational Speaker Dr Swapna Patker - Duration: 1:01.

now is the era of speakers. People who

can speak well go ahead these days. All

the leaders, all the students and the

businessman who have gone ahead in life

in the era now are the ones who can

speak well. If you check out the list of

people who are successful, are the ones

who are either motivational speakers are

the ones who can explain what they have

done in their life to the best of their

ways. Not all can speak well some people

can write well but it is very

important to be able to express yourself

in the best way. If you are falling short

in expressing or speaking well, it is

right to take help or classes for

public speaking but you cannot be

successful until and unless you can

express yourself well.

For more infomation >> Express Learn to Yourself - Jeevan Funda by Motivational Speaker Dr Swapna Patker - Duration: 1:01.

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Can you please help me with my marriage? - Duration: 28:33.

ANNOUNCER: THE FOLLOWING PROGRAM IS PAID FOR BY

THE FRIENDS AND PARTNERS OF JOYCE MEYER MINISTRIES.

JOYCE: I CAN'T GIVE SOMEBODY ELSE THE RESPONSIBILITY

FOR MY JOY.

AND WE NEED TO ALWAYS MAKE SURE THAT WE KNOW WHO WE ARE ENOUGH

THAT WE'RE NOT GOING TO BE CO-DEPENDENT ON SOMEBODY ELSE,

AND TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR WHAT WE NEED TO DO.

GINGER: AS WE WALK THROUGH EACH NEW DAY,

WE ALL HAVE QUESTIONS.

THEY'RE JUST PART OF LIFE.

BUT DID YOU KNOW THERE ARE ANSWERS FOR YOU?

GOD SAYS WHEN WE LOOK, WE'LL FIND HIM.

HE'S NOT TRYING TO HIDE ANYTHING.

SO, TOGETHER WE ARE DISCOVERING LIFE'S EVERYDAY ANSWERS.

GINGER: YES, THERE ARE A LOT OF MOVIES ABOUT FALLING IN LOVE,

ROMANTIC MOVIES, BUT NOT VERY MUCH ABOUT STAYING IN LOVE.

MARRIAGE IS DIFFICULT.

IT'S NOT ALL ROSES AND CONFETTI, BUT IT CAN BE WORTH IT.

SO TODAY, JOYCE HAS PRACTICAL TIPS FOR YOU AS SHE ANSWERS

THE QUESTION SO MANY OF YOU HAVE ASKED, "CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME

WITH MY MARRIAGE?" JOYCE: RELATIONSHIPS CAN BE

VERY CHALLENGING.

CAN ANYBODY SAY AMEN?

AND ESPECIALLY THE MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP CAN BE CHALLENGING

BECAUSE YOU'RE WITH THAT PERSON ALL THE TIME.

AND GOING TO LUNCH WITH A FRIEND IS QUITE DIFFERENT THAN BEING

MARRIED TO SOMEBODY FOR 50 YEARS.

AND DAVE AND I HAVE BEEN MARRIED 50 YEARS, AND I CAN SAY THAT

DURING THAT PERIOD OF TIME, GOD HAS CHANGED ME A LOT, AND IT'S

PROBABLY A GOOD THING BECAUSE IF I WOULDN'T HAVE LET HIM DO THAT,

I PROBABLY WOULDN'T STILL BE MARRIED TODAY.

I THINK ONE OF THE THINGS IN OUR LIVES THAT GIVES US A LOT OF

PROBLEMS IS JUST HAVING UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS.

YOU KNOW, WHEN YOU'RE EXPECTING SOMEBODY TO GIVE YOU SOMETHING

THEY DON'T KNOW HOW TO GIVE YOU, OR TO MAYBE UNDERSTAND SOMETHING

ABOUT YOU THAT THEY COULD NOT POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND, ESPECIALLY

IF YOU'RE EXPECTING SOMEBODY TO MAKE YOU HAPPY ALL THE TIME.

AND I DO THINK A LOT OF PEOPLE, WHEN THEY GET MARRIED, THEY GET

MARRIED WITH THE IDEA THAT, "NOW, YOU'RE GOING TO MAKE ME

HAPPY ALL THE TIME."

AND FIRST OF ALL, YOU KNOW, SOME OF THE THINGS THAT YOU FEEL WHEN

YOU'RE DATING SOMEBODY IS TOTALLY DIFFERENT THAN THE WAY

YOU FEEL, YOU KNOW, AFTER YOU'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR A WHILE.

AND SO, THERE'S A LOT OF EXCITEMENT, AND GOOSEBUMPS,

AND ALL THOSE THINGS.

YOU KNOW, IT'S ALMOST LIKE, YOU KNOW, THE CHASE IS DIFFERENT

THAN WHEN YOU ACTUALLY GET WHAT YOU WANT.

YOU KNOW, IT WAS A GREAT DAY FOR ME AND I'M SURE FOR DAVE WHEN

GOD SPOKE TO MY HEART AND INSTRUCTED ME THAT I WAS TO STOP

GIVING DAVE THE RESPONSIBILITY OF KEEPING ME HAPPY.

HE SAID, "YOUR JOY IS YOUR OWN RESPONSIBILITY.

IT'S NOT SOMEBODY ELSE'S RESPONSIBILITY."

AND I DO THINK IN RELATIONSHIPS THAT WE REALLY THINK THIS OTHER

PERSON IS SUPPOSED TO KEEP US HAPPY ALL THE TIME, THEY'RE

SUPPOSED TO MAKE US FEEL GOOD ABOUT OURSELVES ALL THE TIME.

BUT TO BE HONEST, IF YOU DON'T ALREADY HAVE A SENSE OF

CONFIDENCE, IF YOU DON'T ALREADY FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF, THEN

THERE'S NO HUMAN BEING IN YOUR LIFE THAT IS EVER GOING TO BE

SUCCESSFUL AT MAKING YOU FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF

ALL THE TIME.

AND I CAN TELL YOU IT WEARS PEOPLE OUT BECAUSE IF YOU DON'T

FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF, IF YOU DON'T HAVE A SENSE OF GOD'S LOVE

AND WHO YOU ARE IN HIM, AND IF YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO BE

AN INDIVIDUAL, THEN YOU'RE CONSTANTLY LOOKING FOR SOMEBODY

ELSE TO MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD, TO MAKE YOU FEEL SUCCESSFUL,

TO MAKE YOU FEEL CONFIDENT, TO MAKE YOU FEEL SECURE.

AND IT'S LIKE YOU'RE EXPECTING SOMETHING THAT THEY'RE NOT GOING

TO GIVE YOU BECAUSE, TO BE HONEST, NO MATTER WHO YOU

MARRY--NOW, I KNOW THIS IS GOING TO BE SHOCKING, BUT I HAVE TO

SAY THIS.

THEY ARE NOT GOING TO BE FOCUSED ON YOU ALL THE TIME.

ISN'T THAT SURPRISING?

THEY DON'T HAVE YOU ON THEIR MIND ALL THE TIME.

THEY'RE NOT GOING TO BE FOCUSED ON YOU ALL THE TIME.

BUT WHEN A PERSON IS--REALLY LACKS CONFIDENCE, LIKE FOR

EXAMPLE, IF A WOMAN IS INSECURE AND SHE MAKES A NEW MEAL.

IF THE MAN, THE KIDS, WHATEVER DON'T RAVE ABOUT HOW GOOD IT IS,

SHE'S GOING TO AUTOMATICALLY ASSUME THAT IT'S NOT GOOD

AND THEY DIDN'T LIKE IT.

YOU KNOW, WHERE A PERSON WHO HAS CONFIDENCE MAY TASTE IT AND SAY,

"THIS IS REALLY GREAT."

AND THEY DON'T--THEY DON'T NECESSARILY HAVE TO HAVE

SOMEBODY ELSE CONFIRMING TO THEM ALL THE TIME THAT EVERYTHING

THEY DO IS GOOD.

THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT WE SHOULDN'T COMPLIMENT EACH OTHER,

BUT IF YOU HAVE TO HAVE THAT, THEN IT'S KIND OF EQUIVALENT TO

A DRUG ADDICT NEEDING A FIX.

IT'S LIKE YOU CONSTANTLY EXPECT SOMEBODY ELSE TO FIX YOU,

TO KEEP YOU FIXED ALL THE TIME.

AND IT JUST WEARS THEM ABSOLUTELY OUT.

SO, ARE YOU EXPECTING THE PERSON THAT YOU'RE MARRIED TO TO ALWAYS

BE THERE FOR YOU WHEN YOU'RE HURTING, TO ALWAYS UNDERSTAND

WHAT YOU'RE GOING THROUGH?

LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING, THERE'S ONLY ONE PERSON THAT CAN

EVER UNDERSTAND ANY OF US, AND THAT'S JESUS.

AND I AM GRATEFUL THAT THE BIBLE SAYS THAT WE HAVE A HIGH PRIEST

WHO UNDERSTANDS.

IT GOES ON TO TALK ABOUT OUR WEAKNESSES AND OUR INFIRMITIES,

BUT HE UNDERSTANDS EACH OF US IN OUR OWN LITTLE BRAND OF

WEIRDNESS.

AND TRUST ME, WE ALL HAVE A CERTAIN AMOUNT OF THAT.

AND SO, I GUESS ONE OF THE THINGS THAT DAVE AND I HAD

A NUMBER OF ARGUMENTS OVER OVER THE YEARS WAS I WANTED--NO

MATTER WHAT I TOLD HIM I WAS GOING THROUGH, I WANTED HIM TO

SIT AND LISTEN TO EVERY SINGLE SOLITARY WORD, AND I WANTED HIM

TO UNDERSTAND.

BUT HE DIDN'T.

GINGER: JOYCE HAS MORE PRACTICAL TIPS FOR YOU ON

MARRIAGE.

AND NOW, LET'S TAKE A MOMENT TO HEAR YOUR VOICE.

[MUSIC]

GINGER: WE ASKED YOU TO SHARE HOW GOD HAS SHOWN YOU THAT HE

CARES ABOUT THE SMALL THINGS THAT ARE VERY IMPORTANT

AND SPECIAL TO YOU.

SO, HERE ARE SOME THINGS THAT HAVE BEEN SHARED OF WHAT I CALL

GOD'S WINGS TO YOU.

THIS IS JEANETTE FROM WASHINGTON STATE.

"ONE TIME I WAS DE-CLUTTERING AND WAS GOING TO THROW OUT

A PICTURE.

SOMETHING IN MY SPIRIT SAID, 'STOP, TAKE IT APART, THERE'S

A SURPRISE FOR YOU.' SO, I TOOK IT APART

AND FOUND AN ORIGINAL PORTRAIT OF MY PARENTS FROM THE 1940S.

HE CARES ABOUT THE LITTLE THINGS AND HOW WE LIVE.

THANKS FOR LETTING US SHARE."

WELL, THANK YOU, JEANETTE, FOR SHARING THAT, WE APPRECIATE IT.

ROMI FROM PASADENA SAYS, I LOVE THIS ONE, "I GOT

A FLUX CAPACITOR BASED ON THE "BACK TO THE FUTURE"

MOVIE CAR PHONE CHARGER TODAY!

ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS BOUGHT IT FOR ME.

IT'S JUST A TOTAL SURPRISE.

GOD CARES ABOUT SOMETHING SO SMALL, SOMETHING AS SILLY AS A

CAR CHARGER WAS IMPORTANT TO GOD BECAUSE IT WAS SPECIAL TO ME."

WELL, THOSE ARE GOOD, AND GOD DOES CARE ABOUT

EVERY SINGLE THING.

AND LET ME JUST TELL YOU A TIP ABOUT MARRIAGE, APPRECIATING

THOSE SMALL THINGS ARE VERY IMPORTANT IN A MARRIAGE.

SO, THANKS FOR SHARING THESE, WE WANT TO HEAR MORE OF YOUR VOICE.

SINCE WE'RE TALKING ABOUT MARRIAGE TODAY, LET'S JUST DO

IT, LET'S JUST JUMP RIGHT IN THERE AND SHARE WHAT YOU

APPRECIATE MOST ABOUT YOUR SPOUSE.

LOOK FOR THOSE GOOD THINGS, MAYBE THEY'LL SEE IT.

IF NOT, IT'S A GREAT EXERCISE FOR YOU TO WRITE IT DOWN,

AND IT'S IMPORTANT TO SHARE.

SO, USE FACEBOOK--FACEBOOK, TWITTER, USE #EA.

AND RIGHT NOW, HERE IS MORE FROM JOYCE ANSWERING THE QUESTION,

"CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME WITH MY MARRIAGE?"

JOYCE: THE NEXT THING I WANT TO SAY IS ALWAYS ENTER

RELATIONSHIPS, IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP, WITH THE IDEA

OF GIVING RATHER THAN GETTING.

AND THE THING IS IS OUR MINDSET, THE DIRECTION WE SET OUR MIND

IN, HAS SO MUCH TO DO WITH THE WAY THINGS TURN OUT IN OUR LIFE.

I'LL GIVE YOU AN EXAMPLE.

I SAID TO DAVE, I DON'T KNOW, A YEAR OR TWO AGO, I SAID--

'CAUSE I KNOW HOW MUCH, YOU KNOW, HE ENJOYS

PLAYING GOLF.

AND YOU KNOW, DAVE IS VERY HEALTHY, AND SO THAT'S ALL GOOD.

BUT I SAID, "HOW DO YOU THINK YOU WOULD BE IF YOU EVER FOR

SOME REASON GOT TO THE POINT WHERE YOU COULDN'T PLAY GOLF?"

AND I THOUGHT THE ANSWER HE GAVE ME REALLY DESCRIBES MY HUSBAND

VERY WELL.

HE SAID, "WELL, I'VE ACTUALLY ALREADY THOUGHT ABOUT THAT,

AND I'VE SET MY MIND THAT EVEN IF THAT HAPPENS, I CAN STILL BE

JUST AS HAPPY AS I AM RIGHT NOW."

AND SEE, WE ALL NEED TO HAVE THIS MINDSET THAT MY JOY IS NOT

DEPENDING ON HOW YOU ACT BECAUSE IF IT IS, NOW I'M CO-DEPENDENT

ON YOUR BEHAVIOR.

AND SO, WE'RE EASILY CONTROLLED BY WHATEVER'S GOING ON AROUND US

BECAUSE, TO BE HONEST, WE HAVE NO CONTROL OVER HOW

SOMEBODY ELSE IS GOING TO ACT ALL THE TIME.

I CAN'T CONTROL HOW--I MEAN, NOW THANKFULLY DAVE IS VERY STABLE,

AND SO THAT'S BEEN AN EXTREME BLESSING TO ME IN MY LIFE

BECAUSE I GREW UP AROUND PEOPLE THAT WEREN'T STABLE.

BUT IF I WAS MARRIED TO SOMEBODY THAT MAYBE HAD MORE UPS AND

DOWNS, YOU KNOW, THEN I WOULD HAVE TO MAKE MY MIND UP,

FIRST OF ALL, IT'S NOT MY FAULT.

BECAUSE A LOT OF TIMES IF PEOPLE AROUND YOU AREN'T HAPPY,

THEN YOU TAKE THE RESPONSIBILITY OF FIXING THEM.

AND BOY, THAT'S ANOTHER WHOLE NIGHTMARE ALL ON ITS OWN.

AND SO, I JUST HAD TO LEARN THAT I CAN'T GIVE SOMEBODY ELSE

THE RESPONSIBILITY FOR MY JOY, AND WE NEED TO ALWAYS MAKE SURE

THAT WE KNOW WHO WE ARE ENOUGH THAT WE'RE NOT GOING TO BE

CO-DEPENDENT ON SOMEBODY ELSE AND TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR WHAT

WE NEED TO DO.

CAN ANYBODY SAY AMEN OR "OH ME," OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT?

SO, ALWAYS ENTER RELATIONSHIPS WITH THE THOUGHT OF GIVING

RATHER THAN TAKING.

AND BASICALLY, TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH, EVERY SINGLE DAY

OF YOUR LIFE, EVERY DAY.

I DID IT JUST THIS MORNING.

YOU KNOW, 'CAUSE WE ALL HAVE A TENDENCY TO BE FOCUSED ON US.

"WHAT CAN YOU DO FOR ME?

HOW CAN YOU MAKE ME HAPPY?

HOW CAN I GET YOU TO DO WHAT I WANT YOU TO DO?

CAN WE EAT WHERE I WANT TO EAT?" YOU KNOW, ON AND ON AND ON.

AND SO, I MAKE THAT A HABIT.

I DON'T SAY THAT I DO IT EVERY DAY, BUT I SPENT TIME THIS

MORNING, AND NOT JUST BECAUSE I WAS COMING HERE TO TEACH ON

MARRIAGE, BUT I PURPOSELY SET MY MIND TO BE FOCUSED ON WHAT CAN I

DO FOR OTHER PEOPLE TODAY.

BECAUSE I'VE LEARNED THAT IF I'M FOCUSED ON ME, I'M NOT HAPPY.

AND SO, THE WAY WE SET OUR MIND, THE DIRECTION WE SET OUR MIND IN

IS VERY IMPORTANT.

SO, WHEN YOU GET MARRIED, IF YOUR MIND IS SET AND MADE UP

THAT THIS PERSON'S SUPPOSED TO KEEP YOU HAPPY ALL THE TIME,

BOY, YOU'VE JUST ALREADY SIGNED UP FOR A DISASTER.

BUT IF YOU SET YOUR MIND, "I WANT TO GIVE."

YOU KNOW, "I WANT TO MAKE THIS OTHER PERSON HAPPY.

WHAT CAN I DO FOR THEM THAT WILL MAKE THEM HAPPY?"

AND IF YOU DO THAT, THEN THE VERY ACT OF GIVING

GIVES JOY IN YOUR LIFE.

WHERE IF WE GO AT A RELATIONSHIP WITH, "WHAT CAN I GET?

WHAT CAN I GET?" THEN EVERY TIME WE DON'T GET

SOMETHING, WE'RE UNHAPPY.

AND SO, YOU KNOW, DAVE IS NOT A MAN THAT REQUIRES A LOT.

HE'S A VERY STABLE MAN, HE'S VERY HAPPY.

BUT I DON'T CARE WHO YOU ARE, YOU LIKE IT WHEN PEOPLE GIVE YOU

WHAT YOU WANT.

AND SO, IT'S IMPORTANT TO LEARN THE PERSON THAT YOU'RE IN

A RELATIONSHIP WITH AND WHAT ACTUALLY ARE THEY MOTIVATED BY,

WHAT BLESSES THEM.

MY HUSBAND LOVES PEACE.

IF YOU KEEP IT PEACEFUL, DAVE IS HAPPY.

HE DOESN'T LIKE ARGUING.

HE DOESN'T LIKE COMPLICATED DISCUSSIONS.

HE DOESN'T CARE ABOUT GETTING REAL DEEP INTO EVERY LITTLE

FEELING THAT SOMEBODY HAS AND WHAT'S GOING ON.

NOW, I COULD SIT AND TALK ABOUT THAT STUFF ALL DAY,

BUT THAT'S NOT HIM.

DAVE WANTS PEACE.

SO, I PURPOSE TO TRY TO GIVE HIM PEACE.

AND I KNOW THAT DAVE'S LOVE LANGUAGE IS TIME, SO IF HE'S

TRYING TO TELL ME SOMETHING AND TALK TO ME ABOUT SOMETHING,

EVEN IF IT DOESN'T INTEREST ME, I'M STILL LEARNING, AND I'LL SAY

STILL LEARNING BECAUSE IT'S NOT MY NUMBER ONE GIFT, I'M STILL

LEARNING TO REALLY LISTEN AND PAY ATTENTION.

WHERE I LOVE IT WHEN HE DOES THINGS FOR ME, LIKE HE DOES

THE DISHES ALMOST EVERY NIGHT, AND I LOVE THAT.

SO, YOU HAVE TO KIND OF STOP TRYING TO GIVE PEOPLE WHAT YOU

WANT AND WHAT YOU LIKE, AND JUST BE IN THE RELATIONSHIP FOR WHAT

I CAN GET, BUT ACTUALLY THE WHOLE ACT OF LOVE, WHICH WE ARE

COMMANDED AS CHRISTIANS TO DO, IS TO THINK ABOUT WHAT CAN

I GIVE YOU, NOT WHAT CAN YOU GIVE ME.

AND SO, THEN THE SELFISH NATURE SAYS, "WELL, THEN WHAT'S GOING

TO HAPPEN TO ME?" WELL, THEN GOD TAKES CARE OF US.

SO, LET ME JUST SAY NOW AFTER 50 YEARS OF MARRIAGE, I CAN TELL

YOU, AND I FEEL VERY STRONGLY ABOUT THIS, I DON'T THINK THE

WAY THE WORLD IS TODAY, THERE'S MUCH HOPE OF ANYBODY GETTING

MARRIED AND STAYING MARRIED VERY LONG IF YOU'RE NOT GOING

TO BE COMMITTED TO DOING THINGS THE WAY THAT GOD WOULD WANT

YOU TO DO THEM.

AND SADLY, A LOT OF CHRISTIANS AREN'T.

YOU KNOW, JUST BECAUSE WE GO TO CHURCH DOESN'T MEAN THAT WE'RE

SAYING YES TO GOD ON A REGULAR BASIS.

AND SO, ANYBODY WHO WILL COMMIT TO DOING THEIR PART TO DO WHAT'S

RIGHT BEFORE GOD, GOD WILL REWARD YOU.

AND THERE'S A MUCH GREATER CHANCE THAT HE WILL MAKE THE

CHANGES IN THE OTHER PERSON THAT NEEDS TO BE MADE IF YOU JUST DO

WHAT'S RIGHT BEFORE HIM, AND STOP TRYING TO MAKE THAT OTHER

PERSON GIVE YOU WHAT YOU WANT.

GINGER: ONE OF THE PRAYER REQUESTS THAT WE RECEIVE MOST

FREQUENTLY IS FOR RESTORATION OF MARRIAGE.

WE KNOW A LOT OF YOU ARE GOING THROUGH REALLY TOUGH TIMES, AND

THIS NEXT STORY IS AN EXAMPLE OF HOW GOD CAN HEAL A MARRIAGE ON

THE BRINK OF DIVORCE.

MALE: MY TURN?

DEBBIE: I WASN'T UNHAPPY IN THE MARRIAGE.

OBVIOUSLY, THERE WAS A PROBLEM OR SOMETHING COULDN'T

HAVE HAPPENED.

BUT AGAIN, AT THE TIME, I WASN'T LOOKING, SO IT REALLY SHOCKED ME

THAT THE ENEMY DID COME IN AND PERSUADE ME TO BE INTERESTED

IN SOMEONE ELSE.

SCOTT: I DIDN'T WANT TO BELIEVE IT, BUT THERE WERE

CERTAIN THINGS.

I MEAN, SHE WOULD GO DO THINGS, AND HE WOULD ALWAYS BE THERE.

SO, I HAD--I HAD THAT GUT FEELING, BUT YET I DIDN'T WANT

TO I GUESS ADMIT TO IT.

ANNOUNCER: WHEN DEBBIE TOLD SCOTT ABOUT THE AFFAIR, HE WAS

HEARTBROKEN, BUT REFUSED TO MOVE OUT OF THEIR HOME.

THEY WOULD LIVE TOGETHER BUT LEAD SEPARATE LIVES FOR

THE NEXT 7 YEARS.

DEBBIE: WE DIDN'T SEPARATE OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT BECAUSE AT

THE TIME, OUR SON WAS VERY YOUNG, MAYBE TWO AND A HALF.

SCOTT: TREVOR WAS THE MAIN THING.

I DIDN'T WANT TO BE A WEEKEND DAD.

AND THAT WAS MY ULTIMATE GOAL, I'M NOT GOING TO BE

A WEEKEND DAD.

DEBBIE: SO, WE ENDED UP WITH A MUTUAL PARTNERSHIP.

WE BOTH WORKED, WE BOTH CONTRIBUTED TO THE FINANCES,

AND OF COURSE WE BOTH TOOK CARE OF MY SON.

YOU KNOW, WE DID THE THINGS A FAMILY DOES, IT'S JUST MOM

AND DAD WEREN'T A COUPLE.

ANNOUNCER: THE AFFAIR CONTINUED THROUGHOUT THOSE

7 YEARS, AND THEN SOMETHING CHANGED.

A SERIES OF TRAGIC EVENTS TOUCHED THE LIVES OF THREE

OF DEBBIE'S CLOSE FRIENDS.

IT MADE HER REEVALUATE HER OWN LIFE.

SHE DECIDED TO END THE AFFAIR AND REACH OUT TO SCOTT TO SAVE

THEIR MARRIAGE.

DEBBIE: YOU KNOW, I CAN STILL CHANGE THIS SO THAT OUR FAMILY

IS NOT FOREVER SEPARATED.

SCOTT: WHEN DEBBIE TOLD ME SHE WANTED TO TRY TO MAKE OUR

MARRIAGE WORK, FIRST REACTION WAS HONESTLY, "YEAH RIGHT,

YOU GOT TO BE KIDDING ME.

AFTER THIS LONG, YOU KNOW, WHY?

YOU KNOW, WHAT'S GOING ON?" DEBBIE: DURING THAT TIME,

IT BECAME AWFUL.

I WOULD SAY ALL HELL BROKE LOOSE.

I SAW A SIDE OF MY HUSBAND THAT I DIDN'T EVEN SEE WHEN I WAS

INVOLVED.

SCOTT: THERE WAS REALLY A LOT OF RESENTMENT, AND THE ONLY

THING I COULD REALLY THINK OF WAS, "MAYBE SHE'S GOING TO TRY

TO BUILD ME BACK UP AGAIN AND KNOCK ME BACK DOWN."

ANNOUNCER: SOON AFTER DEBBIE TOLD HIM SHE WANTED TO WORK ON

THEIR MARRIAGE, SCOTT HAD AN AFFAIR IN RETALIATION FOR ALL

THE PAIN SHE HAD CAUSED HIM.

SCOTT: YEAH, THAT'S WHAT I DID.

WHETHER IT WAS--WELL, I MEAN, I SIT THERE AND SAY WHETHER IT WAS

RIGHT OR WRONG.

IT WAS WRONG, DEFINITELY WRONG.

YOU KNOW, I HURT HER MORE PROBABLY THAN SHE HURT ME.

ANNOUNCER: THE HOSTILITY AND REJECTION HAD GOTTEN SO BAD THAT

DEBBIE WENT TO SEE AN ATTORNEY.

IN THE MEANTIME, SHE MET A NEW FRIEND WHO WAS A CHRISTIAN.

SHE ENCOURAGED HER TO FIGHT FOR HER MARRIAGE.

DEBBIE: YOU KNOW, SHE SAID, "GOD REALLY DOESN'T WANT YOU

TO DO THIS.

HE'S REALLY FOR MARRIAGES.

AND IF YOU HANG IN THERE, HE IS GOING TO HELP YOU."

AND YOU KNOW, I KNEW GOD, AND I BELIEVED IN GOD, BUT I DIDN'T

KNOW A PERSONAL EXPERIENCE WITH GOD.

I DID NOT KNOW THAT I COULD RELATE TO HIM EVERY DAY.

I HAD THEN MET A PASTOR, AND HE SAID TO ME, "YOU DO NOT NEED TO

HAVE YOUR HUSBAND'S, YOU KNOW, AGREEMENT IN THIS.

YOU AND GOD CAN SAVE THIS MARRIAGE."

SO, HE GAVE ME HOPE.

SO, HE BEGAN TO TEACH ME THAT THERE WERE PROMISES WITH GOD.

WHEN I HEARD THAT, THAT WAS LIFE-CHANGING TO ME.

I THOUGHT, "THERE'S PROMISES, I CAN HAVE THEM.

I CAN--THIS IS FOR ME."

SO, I BEGAN APPLYING GOD'S WORD IN EVERY SITUATION.

ANNOUNCER: THOUGH DEBBIE DIDN'T KNOW IT AT THE TIME, SHE

AND SCOTT HAD BEGUN A JOURNEY OF HEALING AND FORGIVENESS THAT

WOULD TAKE 2 1/2 YEARS TO COMPLETE.

IT WAS A DAY BY DAY PROCESS WHERE SHE WOULD MEET SCOTT'S

HOSTILITY HEAD ON WITH KINDNESS.

SCOTT: SHE WAS JUST BEING TOO NICE, AND I THINK IT--I THINK IT

WORE ON ME, YOU KNOW?

HEY, WHY NOT, YOU KNOW?

IT'S BEEN 7 YEARS, IT'S BEEN, YOU KNOW, A YEAR NOW SHE'S BEING

VERY NICE.

ANNOUNCER: IN 2009, THE COUPLE RENEWED THEIR VOWS,

WHICH ALSO MARKED THEIR 20TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY.

DEBBIE: AND THIS TIME WHEN WE GOT MARRIED, IT WAS--WE LEARNED

TO KEEP GOD FIRST AND PUT EACH OTHER AHEAD OF OURSELVES.

ANNOUNCER: BUT THERE WAS ONE FINAL ACT OF FORGIVENESS THAT

STILL NEEDED TO HAPPEN TO BRING COMPLETE CLOSURE.

SCOTT: I'M GOING TO APOLOGIZE TO HER ON TV.

I DON'T THINK I EVER DID FOR MY ACTIONS THAT I DID, MY AFFAIR.

I'M GOING TO APOLOGIZE TO HER, AND JUST WANT HER TO KNOW THAT

I'M SORRY, THAT I SHOULD'VE BEEN MORE--I SHOULD'VE BEEN MORE OF

A MAN, AND DID THE THINGS THAT I NEEDED TO DO TO KEEP US

TOGETHER.

SO, DEBBIE, I'M SORRY.

DEBBIE: THAT WAS AWESOME.

GINGER: WHAT A WONDERFUL, ENCOURAGING STORY.

AND YOU KNOW, THEY ARE ABOUT TO HAVE THEIR 27TH ANNIVERSARY.

CONGRATULATIONS.

MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BEEN MARRIED OVER 30 YEARS NOW,

DAVE AND JOYCE OVER 50.

SO, THERE'S A LOT OF ACCUMULATIVE EXPERIENCE THERE

THAT WE CAN ALL SHARE WITH YOU.

AND THERE'S EVEN MORE IN HERE.

JOYCE AND DAVE HAVE BEEN THROUGH A LOT, LIKE EVERYONE HAS

WHO'S BEEN MARRIED 50 YEARS.

AND JOYCE SHARES IT IN THIS PACKAGE.

THIS IS A CD AND A DVD ALL ABOUT MARRIAGE.

IT'S AVAILABLE DIGITALLY OR A HARD COPY, AND WHAT YOU'LL

GET IS JOYCE TEACHING ABOUT MARRIAGE, AND THEN ALSO YOU WILL

GET MORE OF YOUR QUESTIONS ANSWERED AS SHE DID A QUESTION

AND ANSWER SEGMENT.

THAT'S ON DVD, SO THERE'S JUST A LOT AVAILABLE IN HERE.

YOU CAN LISTEN TO IT, YOU CAN WATCH IT, AND IT IS AVAILABLE TO

YOU FOR ANY AMOUNT.

JUST CALL RIGHT NOW, DON'T WAIT, GET THIS TODAY.

JUST GET ON THAT ROAD THAT YOU WANT TO BE WITH WITH YOUR

MARRIAGE.

AND THIS MAKES A GREAT GIFT.

SO, DON'T FORGET TO PICK IT UP FOR A FRIEND, SOMEONE IN YOUR

FAMILY, SOMEONE YOU LOVE.

AND IT'S SO EASY, CALL, GO TO THE WEBSITE RIGHT NOW.

ALSO, COMING UP NEXT WEEK ON "EVERYDAY ANSWERS."

JOYCE: BUT YOU SAID JESUS SET ME FREE, WELL THEN WHY AM

I NOT FREE?

YOU SAID I'M HEALED BY THE STRIPES OF JESUS,

SO WHY AM I STILL IN A MESS?

YOU SAID THAT HE WOULD GIVE ME BEAUTY FOR ASHES, BUT WHY IS MY

LIFE STILL FALLING APART?

GINGER: DON'T FORGET TO ASK US THOSE QUESTIONS, #ASKJOYCE

IF YOU'RE ON TWITTER.

WE LOVE TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS.

NOW, HERE IS THE CONCLUSION OF "CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME

WITH MY MARRIAGE?" JOYCE: NEXT BIG MISTAKE YOU

CAN MAKE IS PLANNING TO TRY TO CHANGE THE PERSON.

ESPECIALLY LIKE IF YOU NOTICE SOME THINGS BEFORE YOU GET

MARRIED, AND YOU'RE THINKING, "OH, I CAN CHANGE THAT.

I CAN--WELL, I'LL WORK ON THAT."

WELL, LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING, I TRIED EVERY WAY THAT I COULD

TRY TO GET DAVE NOT TO LIKE SPORTS.

NO REASON OTHER THAN SELFISHNESS.

I DIDN'T CARE ABOUT THEM, I DIDN'T GROW UP GETTING

TO DO ANY OF THAT.

MY FATHER NEVER LIKED ANY KIND OF SPORTS.

WE DIDN'T HAVE THEM ON TELEVISION, WE DIDN'T GO TO--I

MEAN, NONE OF THAT WAS PART OF OUR LIFE.

AND SO, IT'S JUST NOT ANYTHING THAT I REALLY AM GOING TO PUT MY

TIME INTO.

SO, I DIDN'T WANT HIM TO LIKE IT.

BUT I CAN TELL YOU THE TRUTH, THE MORE YOU TRY TO GET SOMEBODY

NOT TO DO SOMETHING, THE MORE THEY'RE GOING TO WANT TO DO IT.

I MEAN, THAT WHOLE PRINCIPAL IS FOUND IN THE BIBLE ABOUT

THE LAW.

THAT'S WHY THE LAW CAUSED PEOPLE TO SIN MORE, NOT LESS.

AND GOD DID THAT ON PURPOSE TO SHOW PEOPLE THAT THEY NEEDED

A SAVIOR.

SO, THE MORE YOU TRY TO MAKE SOMEBODY NOT DO SOMETHING,

THE MORE THEY'RE PROBABLY GOING TO WANT TO DO IT.

AND ACTUALLY, TODAY, DAVE LOVES ALL KINDS OF SPORTS THAT HE

DIDN'T EVEN LIKE WHEN WE GOT MARRIED.

I MEAN, HE'S ADDED THINGS THAT HE DOESN'T EVEN PLAY.

LIKE, NOW HE WATCHES TENNIS ALL THE TIME, HE DOESN'T PLAY

TENNIS.

YOU KNOW, HE'LL WATCH A BOWLING TOURNAMENT ON TV.

AND YOU KNOW, THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ANYTHING.

BUT YOU KNOW WHAT?

NOW I'M JUST--HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ANY WAY WITH WHAT I'D LIKE

HIM TO BE INTERESTED IN.

BUT YOU KNOW, DAVE IS NOT--HE'S NOT A REAL AGGRESSIVE MAN.

HIS PERSONALITY IS NOT REAL AGGRESSIVE.

HE ALWAYS SAID, "YOU'RE ALWAYS AHEAD OF GOD," AND I SAID,

"YEAH.

AND YOU'RE 10 MILES BEHIND HIM."

AND SO, HERE WE HAVE THESE TWO PEOPLE THAT ARE MARRIED,

AND I'M JUST REAL AGGRESSIVE AND HE'S NOT AS AGGRESSIVE.

AND SO, I TRIED TO GET HIM TO BE MORE AGGRESSIVE, AND I WOULD SAY

TO HIM, YOU KNOW, "YOU NEED TO BE MORE OF THIS, AND YOU NEED TO

BE MORE OF THAT."

AND YOU KNOW HOW AWFUL IT IS, HOW IT MAKES A PERSON FEEL IF

YOU'RE CONSTANTLY GIVING THEM MESSAGES THAT THEY'RE LESS THAN

WHAT YOU WANT THEM TO BE?

"YOU NEED TO BE THIS.

YOU NEED TO DO THAT."

ESPECIALLY IF IT'S NOT SOMETHING THEY EVEN KNOW HOW TO DO.

AND I'LL NEVER FORGET THE DAY HE SAID TO ME, HE SAID, "YOU BETTER

THANK GOD THAT I AM THE WAY THAT I AM BECAUSE IF I WASN'T,

YOU SURE WOULDN'T BE DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING."

AND SO, I JUST WANT TO REMIND YOU TODAY THAT THERE'S A REALLY

GOOD POSSIBILITY NO MATTER WHAT YOU THINK, THAT THE PERSON THAT

YOU MARRIED IS REALLY PERFECT FOR YOU.

I DIDN'T EXPECT ANYBODY TO CLAP, BUT THAT'S ALL RIGHT.

[AUDIENCE LAUGHING]

JOYCE: YOU CAN'T PRESSURE SOMEBODY TO

BE SOMETHING THAT THEY'RE NOT.

NOW, YOU KNOW, WHAT WE FOCUS ON IS WHAT DEVELOPS MORE AND MORE

IN OUR LIFE.

SO, IF I FOCUS ON WHAT I DON'T LIKE ABOUT SOMEBODY, THEN PRETTY

SOON THAT'S ALL I SEE.

AMEN?

BUT IF I FOCUS ON WHAT I DO LIKE, MOST OF THE TIME YOU'LL

FIND OUT, NO MATTER HOW BAD YOU THINK YOUR RELATION IS, MOST OF

THE TIME YOU WILL FIND OUT IF YOU FOCUS ON WHAT YOU DO LIKE,

THERE'S PROBABLY A LOT MORE THAT YOU LIKE THAN WHAT YOU

DON'T LIKE.

I LOVE THE FACT THAT DAVE IS PEACEFUL.

I LOVE THE FACT THAT HE'S EASY TO GET ALONG WITH.

I LOVE THE FACT THAT HE JUST LETS ME BE ME.

IF I WENT TO DAVE AND SAID, "WHAT--" WHICH I'VE DONE.

LIKE, "WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO CHANGE ABOUT ME?

YOU KNOW, IF I CAN CHANGE SOMETHING, WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE

ME TO CHANGE SO YOU COULD BE HAPPIER?"

HE SAID, "NOTHING, I LIKE YOU JUST THE WAY YOU ARE."

AND SO, IF YOU WOULD HAVE ASKED ME THAT QUESTION 30 YEARS AGO,

I PROBABLY HAD A WRITTEN LIST ALREADY.

I MEAN, 'CAUSE I ACTUALLY REMEMBER TIMES WHEN I SAT DOWN

AND MADE A LIST OF EVERYTHING THAT I THOUGHT DAVE NEEDED TO

CHANGE FOR ME TO BE HAPPY.

WELL, I KNOW THAT THERE ARE THINGS.

I MEAN, DAVE COULDN'T POSSIBLY LIKE EVERYTHING ABOUT ME.

I KNOW THAT BECAUSE I ALREADY KNOW WHAT MY WEAKNESS ARE AND

SOME OF THE THINGS THAT NOBODY WOULD WANT TO PUT UP WITH IF

THAT WAS ALL THEY FOCUSED ON.

AND I KNOW THAT THERE ARE THINGS ABOUT DAVE THAT I PROBABLY DON'T

CARE FOR, BUT TO BE HONEST, IF YOU ASK ME THAT NOW, I WOULD

HAVE TO THINK A REALLY LONG TIME TO COME UP WITH IT.

YOU KNOW WHY?

NOT BECAUSE IT'S NOT THERE, BUT I DON'T FOCUS ON IT.

AND SO, IF YOU THINK ABOUT LIKE A--SAY A POLAROID CAMERA, I

COULD TAKE A PICTURE OF ANYTHING IN HERE TODAY THAT I WANTED TO,

DEPENDING ON WHERE I FOCUSED THE CAMERA.

AND THEN WHATEVER I FOCUSED ON WOULD DEVELOP IN MY LIFE.

AND I'M TELLING YOU THE TRUTH, I'VE BEEN THINKING ABOUT THIS

A LOT LATELY.

WHAT YOU FOCUS ON, YOU FOCUS ON YOUR PROBLEMS, PRETTY SOON

YOU'RE GOING TO THINK THAT YOU'VE GOT THE WORST LIFE IN THE

WHOLE WORLD BECAUSE ALL YOU'RE GOING TO SEE IS YOUR PROBLEMS.

BUT IF YOU FOCUS ON YOUR BLESSINGS, THAT GIVES GOD

AN OPPORTUNITY THEN TO WORK ON THE PROBLEMS.

AND SO, IF YOU'RE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEBODY,

AND THEY DO A LOT OF THINGS THAT THAT YOU DON'T LIKE,

PRAY FOR THEM.

PRAY ABOUT THOSE THINGS.

AND MAKE SURE WHEN YOU PRAY, THAT YOU DO IT WITH AN ATTITUDE

OF HUMILITY.

I NEVER GO AND SAY, "GOD, THIS NEEDS TO CHANGE IN DAVE."

I'LL PRAY MORE LIKE THIS NOW, "GOD, I WOULD LIKE THIS TO

CHANGE, BUT MAYBE IT'S NOT EVEN THE PROBLEM I THINK IT IS,

IT MAY JUST BE MY ATTITUDE.

AND SO, FIRST OF ALL, I WANT YOU TO CHANGE ANYTHING IN ME THAT

NEEDS TO BE CHANGED.

AND IF THIS IS SOMETHING THAT NEEDS TO CHANGE IN DAVE, THEN

I'M ASKING YOU TO CHANGE IT, AND TO HELP ME FOCUS ON ALL

THE GOOD THINGS, NOT ON THE THINGS THAT ARE AN ISSUE."

GINGER: WELL, WHAT YOU HAVE JUST BEEN WATCHING IS AVAILABLE

RIGHT HERE.

AND YOU'VE ONLY SEEN PART OF IT, SO THERE IS MUCH MORE IN THIS

RESOURCE.

IT'S SIMPLY CALLED "MARRIAGE," AND IT'S SO HELPFUL.

IT'S ON CD AND ON DVD RIGHT HERE.

YOU CAN ALSO GET IT AS A DIGITAL DOWNLOAD

FOR ANY AMOUNT RIGHT NOW.

DON'T WAIT, PICK THIS UP.

THERE IS HOPE FOR YOUR MARRIAGE, DON'T GIVE UP.

THANKS FOR BEING WITH US, WE'LL SEE YOU NEXT TIME.

CC BY ABERDEEN CAPTIONING 1-800-688-6621 WWW.ABERCAP.COM

[MUSIC]

ANNOUNCER: THE PRECEDING PROGRAM WAS PAID FOR BY

THE FRIENDS AND PARTNERS OF JOYCE MEYER MINISTRIES.

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FBI Hopes Public Can Lead Them To 'County Line' Bandits Before They Strike Third Time - Duration: 1:52.

I WILL HAVE YOUR WEEKEND

FORECAST COMING UP.

JUAN: TWO LOCAL BANKS ARE HIT BY

THE SAME ROBBERS.

THE FBI WANTS TO MAKE SURE THAT

THEY DON'T GET A THIRD SHOT.

AMY JOHNSON HAS MORE ON WHAT

THEY ARE CALLING THE COUNTY LINE

BANDITS.

REPORTER: THAT'S RIGHT, TAKE A

LOOK AT HOW CLOSE THESE TWO BIG

STAR.

THE FBI SAYS THE SAME CREW

TARGETED THIS BANK OF AMERICA

WHICH IS NOW OFFERING A

10,000-DOLLAR REWARD.

SOMETHING THEY DON'T ALWAYS DO.

IN THIS CASE THE FIELD THESE

FOLKS ARE DANGEROUS AND THEY

WANT TO GET THEM OFF OF THE

STREET.

IT LOOKS LIKE A SCENE OUT OF

A MOVIE.

MASKED ARMED ROBBERS TAKING OVER

A BANK.

PEOPLE ORDER TO THE GROUND AS

THE ROBBERS TAKE THE CASH.

THEY WERE IN AND OUT OF THE BANK

IN JUST TWO MINUTES.

THEY HAVE BEEN DUBBED THE COUNTY

LINE BANDITS NEAR THE L.A. AND

VENTURA COUNTY LINES.

THE FIRST ROBBERY HAPPENED ON

DECEMBER 15 AND THE SECOND WAS

IN THE BANK OF AMERICA SHOPPING

CENTER.

THE FBI IS ON THE HUNT FOR THESE

BANDITS AND BANK OF AMERICA HAS

ALSO OFFERED A 10,000-DOLLAR

REWARD.

THE SUSPECTS ARE VERY

VIOLENT.

REPORTER: THEY WENT IN AND THEY

THREW IT UP.

POSSIBLY EVEN HIT ONE OF THE

VICTIMS, CLEARLY AND

INTIMIDATION TACTICS.

WE WANT TO GET THEM OFF OF THE

STREET.

REPORTER: BECAUSE OF THE MASKS,

THE WITNESSES COULD NOT GIVE

THEM A DESCRIPTION.

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How Can We Connect With Mother Earth? - "Walking The Path" with Marco Missinato - Duration: 9:14.

(How Can We Connect With Mother Earth - "Walking The Path" with Marco Missinato) To be able to connect with Mother Earth

we in the way we have to learn how to

listen to her. How can we do that if we are

so disconnected already from Source. How do we do

that? By allow the right circumstances to take

place which means you will have to

create a reality where you can spend

many many hours everyday surrounded by

nature. You will have to unplug from as

much as possible from the system and

possibly even change your location and

(How Can We Connect With Mother Earth - "Walking The Path" with Marco Missinato) Go in a situation where there is

stillness and where there is nature if you

think your mind makes you believe it is

really impossible to do that then what you

can do is to make your environment as

more natural as possible which means

having the plants and animals going to

park spend time with watching the stars or

the moon or the sky going the

weekend to the ocean try to give as

much as possible chances to have

a union with nature keeping

in mind that most of us are so

disassociated and disconnected but it might

take several months before we start to

really connect deeply and stuff to hear

her voice even if you leave everything

and you go into the situation that is

more natural and there's more nature it

still might take many many months and

maybe some even years before you

start to really create a vibrational

offer that allows you to hear the voice

of your Mother Earth and surrendering

into stillness will of speed up the

(How Can We Connect With Mother Earth - "Walking The Path" with Marco Missinato) process. Animals of course and

plants are

big big facilitators so the

more you feel love for animals and

plants the more you open up your

receivers and your tuning in and you

start to synch with the vibrations and it will

start to hear messages in whatever shape or

form you will hear maybe sounds or even

a voice or it can be an intuition

of new insights but so it takes time

(How Can We Connect With Mother Earth - "Walking The Path" with Marco Missinato) sometimes you have to create the scene

work really consciously and create

the circumstances and situations in your reality

where you have access to nature and

possibly spend several hours a day in

nature as it is actually probably this

point it's almost mandatory to do so

because everything else is not

particularly relevant it's not so

relevant to keep a career or a machine

that makes money or sustain all these

demands from a system that really

doesn't love you and really doesn't

support you but is actually eating you

up slowly and sometimes rapidly

actually and so at the end of

your life you okay you get a few

million dollars or few million euros

that you've got the big house so what who

cares it doesn't really have any

importance

(How Can We Connect With Mother Earth - "Walking The Path" with Marco Missinato) Of course it is nice to have it and nothing

wrong there's nothing wrong with that

the millions of dollars or the house

actually can be a wonderful thing but it

cannot be the summarization of your

focus and your priorities because if you

become priorities then you will not hear

nature you will not be able to hear

nature at all because you disassociate

yourself from the organic aspect of life

and you will create an artificial life

made of stuff and then your you have

you will identify yourself you

will gain a sense of self based on how

much stuff you have and of course you will always

be in contraction because you can lose

yourself or there will always be somebody

that's more than you are you feel like

you don't have enough stuff right so

you're in a constant run to get

(How Can We Connect With Mother Earth - "Walking The Path" with Marco Missinato) more and more and more and what if you

tuned in with the organic aspect of life

it's not any more about what you have is

important is nice and absolutely a

wonderful to have wonderful stuff like a

beautiful house like having the tools

that you use to create or but those that

will be supportive devices will not

be your measure of

self-identification so you will not be

lost into this stuff you will use the

stuff to support you

to connect yourself with the creative

part of yourself, with Source

(How Can We Connect With Mother Earth - "Walking The Path" with Marco Missinato) Paradoxically as you progress to a

deeper and deeper you would simplify

(How Can We Connect With Mother Earth - "Walking The Path" with Marco Missinato) more everything

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Michael Jackson - (I Can't Make It) Another Day [ENG/PL] - Duration: 3:56.

For more infomation >> Michael Jackson - (I Can't Make It) Another Day [ENG/PL] - Duration: 3:56.

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Deaf Poynters| Episode #04 - How Can I Get My Teachers To Accommodate Me? - Duration: 4:03.

(marker scratching)

(electronic video game chime)

Hello and welcome to episode four

of Deaf Poynters, where the sun is

getting on my nerves.

And I'm wearing sunglasses because

I look very tired.

My schedule's all wonky because of

Daylight Saving Time and the sun

will not stop trying to say, "Hi."

Then I realize, you know,

in Deaf Poynters I take you for a drive,

except I'm parked.

So, in real life this is what it would look like.

So, welcome to the video, sun,

welcome to my channel.

So, let's jump into this episode.

Dear Rikki, I'm a huge fan of your channel

and I love your videos.

I was wondering about what to do

if my teachers don't listen to my requests.

I have sonophobia, the fear of loud noises.

And I'm partially blind, so I need glasses.

I tell my teachers that they need to be wary

about the volume, and that I need

to be put into the front so I can see,

but they do the exact opposite.

Do you have any advice?

First of all, thank you for enjoying my videos.

I appreciate that very, very much.

Okay, so here's where I'm a little confused.

I don't know if phobias fall under any

ADA, sort of, thing so, lock my doors.

If it was me, I know that I would

like for my teachers to try to be

as considerate as possible,

if I were to have sonophobia.

My question is, are they purposely

ignoring what their volume is like?

Or is it just, kind of, an accident thing?

Because I know some people can't really

control how loud they are.

So that was, kind of, a tough question, because I...

Let's move on to, the, you are partially blind, okay.

So that is something that would fall under ADA,

if I'm not mistaken.

At least in some sort of way.

So, if you are being put in the back,

I would, if it was me, honestly,

I would just sit in the front.

I would just say, "I do not care, Mr. Frank.

"I'm going to sit at the front

"because I need to, in order to see properly,

I need to sit in the front.

"You want me to do my work.

"I cannot do my work, if I am not in the front,

"so I know what's going on."

Do you have assigned seating?

If you don't, then I would just move to the front.

I think all in all, if you requested it,

how many times?

How many?

If you told your teachers only once

and then, they kind of forgot that, tell them again.

But if this is something, which,

I'm sure you've done it multiple times.

So if they're still not trying to cooperate

with you, so that way you could both try

to come up with a solution,

I would take it to a higher up.

I would take it to your principal, really, cause...

I mean when everything else fails,

when your teachers don't listen to you,

take it up with the principal

and see what happens.

Because the principal is their boss, I think.

Is that how that works?

Or is there's something even higher

in the chain of education?

I'm sorry I can't really say much on the phobia part.

Because I'm not really knowledgeable

in the phobia side of things.

But as far as you know, being partially blind,

you need to sit in the front,

in order to see everything.

And get your education.

So sit in the front.

And go away, freeze warning notifications!

I know there's a freeze warning.

It is cold outside.

Hopefully, that helps out a little bit.

If you do go to your principal,

let me know what they said.

I'm very, very curious to know.

So if you got a question or something

you would like me to talk about in a video,

please email deafpoynters@gmail.com.

And like I keep on asking,

please let me know in the email

if you want this to be part of a video.

Because this email is also part

of my article website.

So I need to know if you want it in a video

or if this is an article thing.

So, please be specific.

Help me out, here.

If you wanna follow me on all of my social media, links to

that will be down below.

If you wanna help support my content,

you can do so by being a monthly Patron.

Or you can leave tips on ko-fi.

Both links will be down below.

I upload every Monday, Thursday,

and Deaf Poynters on Saturdays.

And I will see you later.

Bye.

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Prince Harry & Meghan Markle Can they be married & what title would they give her - Duration: 2:56.

The longer that Prince Harry and his girlfriend Meghan Markle have stayed together, the stronger

the speculation of a wedding has become.

But while the possibility is straight out of a fairytale, there are some real hurdles

impending their engagement, including Meghan�s previous marriage and her religion.

As Marie Claire has reported, Meghan was previously married to producer Trevor Engelson, but that

relationsip ended in 2013.

However, there is precedent for royals who want to marry divorcees.

Harry�s own father, Prince Charles, married divorcee Camille Parker Bowles when his own

marriage to Diana was legally over.

But then there is still the issue of Meghan�s Catholic background.

In the Royal Marriages act of 1772, King George III made it so that no senior member of the

royal family could marry Catholics.

However, new rules were set forth in 2015 under the Succession to the Crown Act, which

reversed the ancient ruling.

Under the current laws, there is no specific reason why Harry could not ask for Meghan�s

hand in marriage.

However, there is also the queen to get through.

Under the same Succession to the Crown Act, Queen Elizabeth has the power to write off

a marriage as void.

The practice only concerns the first five in line for the throne, which Harry is still

part of.

There have been no reports indicating that the queen has any issues with the current

romantic relationship between her grandson and the American actress.

But if Harry and Meghan were to get married, there is the question as to what her title

would be.

According to Royal Central, all United Kingdom wives automatically take their husbands' titles.

This would mean that Meghan would be properly addressed as Her Royal Highness Prince Henry

of Wales.

She would not be called �princess,� because that title is one that a woman can only be

born into.

This is also why Kate Middleton is called the Duchess of Cambridge and not Princess

Catherine.

It is also possible that Harry�s title will be changed, much like how Prince William is

now officially the Duke of Cambridge.

The publication went on to state that the title for Duke of Sussex is available, as

the last one who held the title, Prince Augustus Frederick, died in 1843.

He was the son of King George III.

No official announcement has been made public by Kensington Palace, Harry or Meghan about

any type of engagement.

And until one is made, any news of an upcoming wedding is mere speculation.

thanks for watching.

please subscribe my channel.

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How to make a simple paper flower centre/ DIY paper flower / paper flower tutorial - Duration: 5:23.

you need 4 paper pieces in size approx 2 x 8''

a hot glue gun

and a pair of fringe scissors

there is no any specific length of paper needed though

take 2 pieces of paper

and fold in half

press

cut a fringe on the folded side

NOT on open side)

leave approx 1 cm / 1/2'' till the edge of open side

cut all other paper pieces

you can use regular scissors too, but 4 blades ones will make this job faster :)

I use Martha Stewart brand

now open folded papers and turn them inside out

do not press much at this step, make it gentle

look how soft and neat edge looks now

now roll fringe gluing it as you go

fix the end properly

add the 2nd fringe

and roll again

this is a knob made with just 2 pieces of 8'' long paper

fringe #3

and #4

4 pieces of 21 cm / 8'' long paper form this size (and look) flower centre

now you can 'fluff' your mini centre

and double fix all layers of paper together applying a bit of hot glue at the bottom of it

That's it!

EASY!

Mini Simple Spiky Centre

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How to Recover Deleted Facebook Messages - Duration: 1:54.

Hey, What's up Guys Raj here and welcome to a brand new video on the channel.

and Today in this video I'll show you how you can recover Deleted Facebook Messages

so without any further delay let's Jump to the video

So Guys first of all login to your FB account

Now Hit on this Drop down menu, Select Settings

Now click on this Download a Copy of Facebook Data

Start Archive, Enter your Password

Click on Start My Archive

Now read this Message and AN E-mail sent to your Number

After Few Hours or day again Login to your Facebook Account

and You can see download Archive option

save your backup on your desire folder

Now Unzip the zip file

After Unziping the zip file

you can see three folder here

Photos, VIdeos, and HTML

If you want to see all the information present now

Then click on this index

and If you want to recover videos and photos

then open this folder

but if you want to see only your messages.

Then click on this HTML folder

Now open this Messages HTML folder

Now here you can see all my messages with date and time

so Guys this is the best and easy way to recover your Facebook messages

Photos and video

and I hope this video is really helpful for you

so guys thanks a lots for watching this video

if you did enjoy this video pls show your support subscribing to the channel

that was really help me out

without being said, My Name is RAJ and i'll see you the next one

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VA Outsourcing Services - How To Find And Hire A Virtual Assistant - Duration: 1:37.

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