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JH: Hello!
JH: C-Armys! 4 line poem challenge!
JK: Zhong! (which means chinese)
JH: Chinese Armys
JH: Guo (Country)
JK: Guo guo misses everyone everyday (Guo guo is jk's nickname, similar to kookie)
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Two can CrISpy short - Duration: 0:54.
hi
(walking) god I look good
hey look a two can wow
theres no two can
dot u see them their right there
wake me up
theirs no two cans
right there kid
well I. such a idiot
I'm awesome so r u
byyyyyyyyyyyye
bacon
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Latinos Can Make a Difference in Clinical Trials - Duration: 1:02.
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How to Make a Duct Tape Messenger Bag - Part 4 - Sophie's World - Duration: 7:21.
Hi, I'm Sophie and welcome to my world
today we're going to finish up our
messenger bag this is step four of finishing
up our incredibly cute messenger bag
last time we made the flap and we added
the strap now all we're going to do is
embellished now basically what I'm
teaching you today is just embellishing
the edges and that's going to add a
little extra strength and it's also
going to make it look pretty for the
project you will meet the messenger bag
embellishment pape a work surface
scissors ruler exacto knife now you
should also know if you really want to
go to town and embellish your messenger
bag that you could use duct tape
stickers and if you haven't seen my duct
tape sticker tutorial just check it out
there's a link down below what we're
going to be doing for our edging is
we're just going to be using a different
color of tape an embellishment tape
this is a fun pattern this is one of
those patterns i have to tell you the
Dollar Tree has incredible pattern tapes
now the problem with them is that they
don't stay in style very long they are
like literally in and out so now what
I'm doing here I should show you from
this way is i'm actually using my bag as
measuring so there we go
and i'm going to cut it right right
there and I'm gonna make a bunch of
these little strips here
the one thing i will say about the
dollar tree tape though is that their
tape is a little stickier and so it it
has a tendency to stick to these a
little bit more see how it sticks i'm going to cut
these strips into half inch strips and
what I really like about these mats is
that they have these little lines little
dots you can line it up so you can
measure without using a ruler but if
you don't have a ruler of course
if you don't have one of these use a ruler
okay I'm gonna pull
this little piece up here and what I'm
going to do is just come to my corner
right at the corner and I'm doing half
on half off so that I can take my pretty
and wrap it over the edge now it's going
to give it another little layer of tape
on that seam and that's important
just to give it some strength but it's
also going to make it look pretty
let's repeat on the other side again
just take it right to the edge there
take it on down the side you're half on
half off here and just fold that over
nice and neat if you get a little teeny bit
of extra sometimes that happens you can
just snip off with your scissors it's why it's
always good to have a pair of scissors
flip it over
half on half off ok and the last one now
this is the time too that you might
want to come back and add a second piece
of purple here or you might want to just
put a strip of embellishment right
across the front here let me get that out of
the way what's kind of fun with this is if
you're going to do a nice big strip like
this all you have to do is lay it on
top ooh...don't pull it up lay it on
top of your fabric i'm going to lay it
right along the edge there
why did I pick it up because it was a
little crooked and I should've just left
it to tell you the truth but
then you just flip this over
super sticky today for some reason
flip it over and seal it on the back and if
you haven't given yourself quite enough
you can always come back and
put another piece over top
it's up to you how you embellish you
know I i have a tendency to be pretty
simple in my design but if I had my
sister Freda here i'm sure that she would
make the most amazing stripes and
patterns and whenever I've done workshops
with kids they do the most amazing stuff
so i am just going to show you the
basics here but you should feel free to
go to town like i said if you wanted
to make your initials on here you could
use the duct tape sticker tutorial to
put your name on here initials on here
you might want to put a stripe on your
strap if you are going to put a stripe
on your strap i would suggest doing it
before you attach it to the bag just
because it's going to be easier
you might want to go to town and put
jewels, rhinestones, buttons whatever you
want on this but the main thing about
your bag is that it is set and ready and
the only other thing I wanted to show
you that I like to take my corners and
just trim them just a little bit just
to round them just a little bit but
they're not quite the sharp but there
you have it a messenger bag and this is
perfect this is a perfect size for my ipad
which has become like my third limb I
have to have my iPad with me all the
time now so perfect for my ipad perfect
for all the other little things that I
need to carry around now remember you
can make all the different sizes there's
a tiny little one for your iphone
there's a medium-sized one there is a
next medium-sized one which is a little
bit bigger and then of course don't
forget if you haven't seen it
the giant's mongo bag and again all these
sizes are done in exactly the same way
the only thing that you need to do is
use bigger or smaller fabrics and all of
those sizes are on my website
www.sophie-world.com for more great
ideas check us out
sophie-world.com and you too can be toting
around your messenger bag
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Ghost Town DJ's My Boo - Duration: 5:48.
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What can You DO! GamingBeaver Animated - Duration: 0:08.
What can you do Son?
What can you Do?
I'll tell you What you cant do
Kill ME!
"MLG" Air Horn's Blowing
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[FNAF GMOD] I CAN'T FIX YOU - Duration: 0:48.
Oh I Uploaded a Video
And you wanted to check
But there is no video here Seriously
now you can Unsubcribe from this channel
Are you still Here !!???!
STOP Watching this ;-;
Black Screen SERIOUSLY
I'M so proud of myself because I Uploaded a video with black screen
I want to say something about this video ...
Today is April 1 2017 so what that means is....
APRILFOOLS OF COURSE!! XD
Sorry for wasting 40 seconds of your life
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Express Learn to Yourself - Jeevan Funda by Motivational Speaker Dr Swapna Patker - Duration: 1:01.
now is the era of speakers. People who
can speak well go ahead these days. All
the leaders, all the students and the
businessman who have gone ahead in life
in the era now are the ones who can
speak well. If you check out the list of
people who are successful, are the ones
who are either motivational speakers are
the ones who can explain what they have
done in their life to the best of their
ways. Not all can speak well some people
can write well but it is very
important to be able to express yourself
in the best way. If you are falling short
in expressing or speaking well, it is
right to take help or classes for
public speaking but you cannot be
successful until and unless you can
express yourself well.
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Can you please help me with my marriage? - Duration: 28:33.
ANNOUNCER: THE FOLLOWING PROGRAM IS PAID FOR BY
THE FRIENDS AND PARTNERS OF JOYCE MEYER MINISTRIES.
JOYCE: I CAN'T GIVE SOMEBODY ELSE THE RESPONSIBILITY
FOR MY JOY.
AND WE NEED TO ALWAYS MAKE SURE THAT WE KNOW WHO WE ARE ENOUGH
THAT WE'RE NOT GOING TO BE CO-DEPENDENT ON SOMEBODY ELSE,
AND TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR WHAT WE NEED TO DO.
GINGER: AS WE WALK THROUGH EACH NEW DAY,
WE ALL HAVE QUESTIONS.
THEY'RE JUST PART OF LIFE.
BUT DID YOU KNOW THERE ARE ANSWERS FOR YOU?
GOD SAYS WHEN WE LOOK, WE'LL FIND HIM.
HE'S NOT TRYING TO HIDE ANYTHING.
SO, TOGETHER WE ARE DISCOVERING LIFE'S EVERYDAY ANSWERS.
GINGER: YES, THERE ARE A LOT OF MOVIES ABOUT FALLING IN LOVE,
ROMANTIC MOVIES, BUT NOT VERY MUCH ABOUT STAYING IN LOVE.
MARRIAGE IS DIFFICULT.
IT'S NOT ALL ROSES AND CONFETTI, BUT IT CAN BE WORTH IT.
SO TODAY, JOYCE HAS PRACTICAL TIPS FOR YOU AS SHE ANSWERS
THE QUESTION SO MANY OF YOU HAVE ASKED, "CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME
WITH MY MARRIAGE?" JOYCE: RELATIONSHIPS CAN BE
VERY CHALLENGING.
CAN ANYBODY SAY AMEN?
AND ESPECIALLY THE MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP CAN BE CHALLENGING
BECAUSE YOU'RE WITH THAT PERSON ALL THE TIME.
AND GOING TO LUNCH WITH A FRIEND IS QUITE DIFFERENT THAN BEING
MARRIED TO SOMEBODY FOR 50 YEARS.
AND DAVE AND I HAVE BEEN MARRIED 50 YEARS, AND I CAN SAY THAT
DURING THAT PERIOD OF TIME, GOD HAS CHANGED ME A LOT, AND IT'S
PROBABLY A GOOD THING BECAUSE IF I WOULDN'T HAVE LET HIM DO THAT,
I PROBABLY WOULDN'T STILL BE MARRIED TODAY.
I THINK ONE OF THE THINGS IN OUR LIVES THAT GIVES US A LOT OF
PROBLEMS IS JUST HAVING UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS.
YOU KNOW, WHEN YOU'RE EXPECTING SOMEBODY TO GIVE YOU SOMETHING
THEY DON'T KNOW HOW TO GIVE YOU, OR TO MAYBE UNDERSTAND SOMETHING
ABOUT YOU THAT THEY COULD NOT POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND, ESPECIALLY
IF YOU'RE EXPECTING SOMEBODY TO MAKE YOU HAPPY ALL THE TIME.
AND I DO THINK A LOT OF PEOPLE, WHEN THEY GET MARRIED, THEY GET
MARRIED WITH THE IDEA THAT, "NOW, YOU'RE GOING TO MAKE ME
HAPPY ALL THE TIME."
AND FIRST OF ALL, YOU KNOW, SOME OF THE THINGS THAT YOU FEEL WHEN
YOU'RE DATING SOMEBODY IS TOTALLY DIFFERENT THAN THE WAY
YOU FEEL, YOU KNOW, AFTER YOU'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR A WHILE.
AND SO, THERE'S A LOT OF EXCITEMENT, AND GOOSEBUMPS,
AND ALL THOSE THINGS.
YOU KNOW, IT'S ALMOST LIKE, YOU KNOW, THE CHASE IS DIFFERENT
THAN WHEN YOU ACTUALLY GET WHAT YOU WANT.
YOU KNOW, IT WAS A GREAT DAY FOR ME AND I'M SURE FOR DAVE WHEN
GOD SPOKE TO MY HEART AND INSTRUCTED ME THAT I WAS TO STOP
GIVING DAVE THE RESPONSIBILITY OF KEEPING ME HAPPY.
HE SAID, "YOUR JOY IS YOUR OWN RESPONSIBILITY.
IT'S NOT SOMEBODY ELSE'S RESPONSIBILITY."
AND I DO THINK IN RELATIONSHIPS THAT WE REALLY THINK THIS OTHER
PERSON IS SUPPOSED TO KEEP US HAPPY ALL THE TIME, THEY'RE
SUPPOSED TO MAKE US FEEL GOOD ABOUT OURSELVES ALL THE TIME.
BUT TO BE HONEST, IF YOU DON'T ALREADY HAVE A SENSE OF
CONFIDENCE, IF YOU DON'T ALREADY FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF, THEN
THERE'S NO HUMAN BEING IN YOUR LIFE THAT IS EVER GOING TO BE
SUCCESSFUL AT MAKING YOU FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF
ALL THE TIME.
AND I CAN TELL YOU IT WEARS PEOPLE OUT BECAUSE IF YOU DON'T
FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF, IF YOU DON'T HAVE A SENSE OF GOD'S LOVE
AND WHO YOU ARE IN HIM, AND IF YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO BE
AN INDIVIDUAL, THEN YOU'RE CONSTANTLY LOOKING FOR SOMEBODY
ELSE TO MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD, TO MAKE YOU FEEL SUCCESSFUL,
TO MAKE YOU FEEL CONFIDENT, TO MAKE YOU FEEL SECURE.
AND IT'S LIKE YOU'RE EXPECTING SOMETHING THAT THEY'RE NOT GOING
TO GIVE YOU BECAUSE, TO BE HONEST, NO MATTER WHO YOU
MARRY--NOW, I KNOW THIS IS GOING TO BE SHOCKING, BUT I HAVE TO
SAY THIS.
THEY ARE NOT GOING TO BE FOCUSED ON YOU ALL THE TIME.
ISN'T THAT SURPRISING?
THEY DON'T HAVE YOU ON THEIR MIND ALL THE TIME.
THEY'RE NOT GOING TO BE FOCUSED ON YOU ALL THE TIME.
BUT WHEN A PERSON IS--REALLY LACKS CONFIDENCE, LIKE FOR
EXAMPLE, IF A WOMAN IS INSECURE AND SHE MAKES A NEW MEAL.
IF THE MAN, THE KIDS, WHATEVER DON'T RAVE ABOUT HOW GOOD IT IS,
SHE'S GOING TO AUTOMATICALLY ASSUME THAT IT'S NOT GOOD
AND THEY DIDN'T LIKE IT.
YOU KNOW, WHERE A PERSON WHO HAS CONFIDENCE MAY TASTE IT AND SAY,
"THIS IS REALLY GREAT."
AND THEY DON'T--THEY DON'T NECESSARILY HAVE TO HAVE
SOMEBODY ELSE CONFIRMING TO THEM ALL THE TIME THAT EVERYTHING
THEY DO IS GOOD.
THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT WE SHOULDN'T COMPLIMENT EACH OTHER,
BUT IF YOU HAVE TO HAVE THAT, THEN IT'S KIND OF EQUIVALENT TO
A DRUG ADDICT NEEDING A FIX.
IT'S LIKE YOU CONSTANTLY EXPECT SOMEBODY ELSE TO FIX YOU,
TO KEEP YOU FIXED ALL THE TIME.
AND IT JUST WEARS THEM ABSOLUTELY OUT.
SO, ARE YOU EXPECTING THE PERSON THAT YOU'RE MARRIED TO TO ALWAYS
BE THERE FOR YOU WHEN YOU'RE HURTING, TO ALWAYS UNDERSTAND
WHAT YOU'RE GOING THROUGH?
LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING, THERE'S ONLY ONE PERSON THAT CAN
EVER UNDERSTAND ANY OF US, AND THAT'S JESUS.
AND I AM GRATEFUL THAT THE BIBLE SAYS THAT WE HAVE A HIGH PRIEST
WHO UNDERSTANDS.
IT GOES ON TO TALK ABOUT OUR WEAKNESSES AND OUR INFIRMITIES,
BUT HE UNDERSTANDS EACH OF US IN OUR OWN LITTLE BRAND OF
WEIRDNESS.
AND TRUST ME, WE ALL HAVE A CERTAIN AMOUNT OF THAT.
AND SO, I GUESS ONE OF THE THINGS THAT DAVE AND I HAD
A NUMBER OF ARGUMENTS OVER OVER THE YEARS WAS I WANTED--NO
MATTER WHAT I TOLD HIM I WAS GOING THROUGH, I WANTED HIM TO
SIT AND LISTEN TO EVERY SINGLE SOLITARY WORD, AND I WANTED HIM
TO UNDERSTAND.
BUT HE DIDN'T.
GINGER: JOYCE HAS MORE PRACTICAL TIPS FOR YOU ON
MARRIAGE.
AND NOW, LET'S TAKE A MOMENT TO HEAR YOUR VOICE.
[MUSIC]
GINGER: WE ASKED YOU TO SHARE HOW GOD HAS SHOWN YOU THAT HE
CARES ABOUT THE SMALL THINGS THAT ARE VERY IMPORTANT
AND SPECIAL TO YOU.
SO, HERE ARE SOME THINGS THAT HAVE BEEN SHARED OF WHAT I CALL
GOD'S WINGS TO YOU.
THIS IS JEANETTE FROM WASHINGTON STATE.
"ONE TIME I WAS DE-CLUTTERING AND WAS GOING TO THROW OUT
A PICTURE.
SOMETHING IN MY SPIRIT SAID, 'STOP, TAKE IT APART, THERE'S
A SURPRISE FOR YOU.' SO, I TOOK IT APART
AND FOUND AN ORIGINAL PORTRAIT OF MY PARENTS FROM THE 1940S.
HE CARES ABOUT THE LITTLE THINGS AND HOW WE LIVE.
THANKS FOR LETTING US SHARE."
WELL, THANK YOU, JEANETTE, FOR SHARING THAT, WE APPRECIATE IT.
ROMI FROM PASADENA SAYS, I LOVE THIS ONE, "I GOT
A FLUX CAPACITOR BASED ON THE "BACK TO THE FUTURE"
MOVIE CAR PHONE CHARGER TODAY!
ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS BOUGHT IT FOR ME.
IT'S JUST A TOTAL SURPRISE.
GOD CARES ABOUT SOMETHING SO SMALL, SOMETHING AS SILLY AS A
CAR CHARGER WAS IMPORTANT TO GOD BECAUSE IT WAS SPECIAL TO ME."
WELL, THOSE ARE GOOD, AND GOD DOES CARE ABOUT
EVERY SINGLE THING.
AND LET ME JUST TELL YOU A TIP ABOUT MARRIAGE, APPRECIATING
THOSE SMALL THINGS ARE VERY IMPORTANT IN A MARRIAGE.
SO, THANKS FOR SHARING THESE, WE WANT TO HEAR MORE OF YOUR VOICE.
SINCE WE'RE TALKING ABOUT MARRIAGE TODAY, LET'S JUST DO
IT, LET'S JUST JUMP RIGHT IN THERE AND SHARE WHAT YOU
APPRECIATE MOST ABOUT YOUR SPOUSE.
LOOK FOR THOSE GOOD THINGS, MAYBE THEY'LL SEE IT.
IF NOT, IT'S A GREAT EXERCISE FOR YOU TO WRITE IT DOWN,
AND IT'S IMPORTANT TO SHARE.
SO, USE FACEBOOK--FACEBOOK, TWITTER, USE #EA.
AND RIGHT NOW, HERE IS MORE FROM JOYCE ANSWERING THE QUESTION,
"CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME WITH MY MARRIAGE?"
JOYCE: THE NEXT THING I WANT TO SAY IS ALWAYS ENTER
RELATIONSHIPS, IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP, WITH THE IDEA
OF GIVING RATHER THAN GETTING.
AND THE THING IS IS OUR MINDSET, THE DIRECTION WE SET OUR MIND
IN, HAS SO MUCH TO DO WITH THE WAY THINGS TURN OUT IN OUR LIFE.
I'LL GIVE YOU AN EXAMPLE.
I SAID TO DAVE, I DON'T KNOW, A YEAR OR TWO AGO, I SAID--
'CAUSE I KNOW HOW MUCH, YOU KNOW, HE ENJOYS
PLAYING GOLF.
AND YOU KNOW, DAVE IS VERY HEALTHY, AND SO THAT'S ALL GOOD.
BUT I SAID, "HOW DO YOU THINK YOU WOULD BE IF YOU EVER FOR
SOME REASON GOT TO THE POINT WHERE YOU COULDN'T PLAY GOLF?"
AND I THOUGHT THE ANSWER HE GAVE ME REALLY DESCRIBES MY HUSBAND
VERY WELL.
HE SAID, "WELL, I'VE ACTUALLY ALREADY THOUGHT ABOUT THAT,
AND I'VE SET MY MIND THAT EVEN IF THAT HAPPENS, I CAN STILL BE
JUST AS HAPPY AS I AM RIGHT NOW."
AND SEE, WE ALL NEED TO HAVE THIS MINDSET THAT MY JOY IS NOT
DEPENDING ON HOW YOU ACT BECAUSE IF IT IS, NOW I'M CO-DEPENDENT
ON YOUR BEHAVIOR.
AND SO, WE'RE EASILY CONTROLLED BY WHATEVER'S GOING ON AROUND US
BECAUSE, TO BE HONEST, WE HAVE NO CONTROL OVER HOW
SOMEBODY ELSE IS GOING TO ACT ALL THE TIME.
I CAN'T CONTROL HOW--I MEAN, NOW THANKFULLY DAVE IS VERY STABLE,
AND SO THAT'S BEEN AN EXTREME BLESSING TO ME IN MY LIFE
BECAUSE I GREW UP AROUND PEOPLE THAT WEREN'T STABLE.
BUT IF I WAS MARRIED TO SOMEBODY THAT MAYBE HAD MORE UPS AND
DOWNS, YOU KNOW, THEN I WOULD HAVE TO MAKE MY MIND UP,
FIRST OF ALL, IT'S NOT MY FAULT.
BECAUSE A LOT OF TIMES IF PEOPLE AROUND YOU AREN'T HAPPY,
THEN YOU TAKE THE RESPONSIBILITY OF FIXING THEM.
AND BOY, THAT'S ANOTHER WHOLE NIGHTMARE ALL ON ITS OWN.
AND SO, I JUST HAD TO LEARN THAT I CAN'T GIVE SOMEBODY ELSE
THE RESPONSIBILITY FOR MY JOY, AND WE NEED TO ALWAYS MAKE SURE
THAT WE KNOW WHO WE ARE ENOUGH THAT WE'RE NOT GOING TO BE
CO-DEPENDENT ON SOMEBODY ELSE AND TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR WHAT
WE NEED TO DO.
CAN ANYBODY SAY AMEN OR "OH ME," OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT?
SO, ALWAYS ENTER RELATIONSHIPS WITH THE THOUGHT OF GIVING
RATHER THAN TAKING.
AND BASICALLY, TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH, EVERY SINGLE DAY
OF YOUR LIFE, EVERY DAY.
I DID IT JUST THIS MORNING.
YOU KNOW, 'CAUSE WE ALL HAVE A TENDENCY TO BE FOCUSED ON US.
"WHAT CAN YOU DO FOR ME?
HOW CAN YOU MAKE ME HAPPY?
HOW CAN I GET YOU TO DO WHAT I WANT YOU TO DO?
CAN WE EAT WHERE I WANT TO EAT?" YOU KNOW, ON AND ON AND ON.
AND SO, I MAKE THAT A HABIT.
I DON'T SAY THAT I DO IT EVERY DAY, BUT I SPENT TIME THIS
MORNING, AND NOT JUST BECAUSE I WAS COMING HERE TO TEACH ON
MARRIAGE, BUT I PURPOSELY SET MY MIND TO BE FOCUSED ON WHAT CAN I
DO FOR OTHER PEOPLE TODAY.
BECAUSE I'VE LEARNED THAT IF I'M FOCUSED ON ME, I'M NOT HAPPY.
AND SO, THE WAY WE SET OUR MIND, THE DIRECTION WE SET OUR MIND IN
IS VERY IMPORTANT.
SO, WHEN YOU GET MARRIED, IF YOUR MIND IS SET AND MADE UP
THAT THIS PERSON'S SUPPOSED TO KEEP YOU HAPPY ALL THE TIME,
BOY, YOU'VE JUST ALREADY SIGNED UP FOR A DISASTER.
BUT IF YOU SET YOUR MIND, "I WANT TO GIVE."
YOU KNOW, "I WANT TO MAKE THIS OTHER PERSON HAPPY.
WHAT CAN I DO FOR THEM THAT WILL MAKE THEM HAPPY?"
AND IF YOU DO THAT, THEN THE VERY ACT OF GIVING
GIVES JOY IN YOUR LIFE.
WHERE IF WE GO AT A RELATIONSHIP WITH, "WHAT CAN I GET?
WHAT CAN I GET?" THEN EVERY TIME WE DON'T GET
SOMETHING, WE'RE UNHAPPY.
AND SO, YOU KNOW, DAVE IS NOT A MAN THAT REQUIRES A LOT.
HE'S A VERY STABLE MAN, HE'S VERY HAPPY.
BUT I DON'T CARE WHO YOU ARE, YOU LIKE IT WHEN PEOPLE GIVE YOU
WHAT YOU WANT.
AND SO, IT'S IMPORTANT TO LEARN THE PERSON THAT YOU'RE IN
A RELATIONSHIP WITH AND WHAT ACTUALLY ARE THEY MOTIVATED BY,
WHAT BLESSES THEM.
MY HUSBAND LOVES PEACE.
IF YOU KEEP IT PEACEFUL, DAVE IS HAPPY.
HE DOESN'T LIKE ARGUING.
HE DOESN'T LIKE COMPLICATED DISCUSSIONS.
HE DOESN'T CARE ABOUT GETTING REAL DEEP INTO EVERY LITTLE
FEELING THAT SOMEBODY HAS AND WHAT'S GOING ON.
NOW, I COULD SIT AND TALK ABOUT THAT STUFF ALL DAY,
BUT THAT'S NOT HIM.
DAVE WANTS PEACE.
SO, I PURPOSE TO TRY TO GIVE HIM PEACE.
AND I KNOW THAT DAVE'S LOVE LANGUAGE IS TIME, SO IF HE'S
TRYING TO TELL ME SOMETHING AND TALK TO ME ABOUT SOMETHING,
EVEN IF IT DOESN'T INTEREST ME, I'M STILL LEARNING, AND I'LL SAY
STILL LEARNING BECAUSE IT'S NOT MY NUMBER ONE GIFT, I'M STILL
LEARNING TO REALLY LISTEN AND PAY ATTENTION.
WHERE I LOVE IT WHEN HE DOES THINGS FOR ME, LIKE HE DOES
THE DISHES ALMOST EVERY NIGHT, AND I LOVE THAT.
SO, YOU HAVE TO KIND OF STOP TRYING TO GIVE PEOPLE WHAT YOU
WANT AND WHAT YOU LIKE, AND JUST BE IN THE RELATIONSHIP FOR WHAT
I CAN GET, BUT ACTUALLY THE WHOLE ACT OF LOVE, WHICH WE ARE
COMMANDED AS CHRISTIANS TO DO, IS TO THINK ABOUT WHAT CAN
I GIVE YOU, NOT WHAT CAN YOU GIVE ME.
AND SO, THEN THE SELFISH NATURE SAYS, "WELL, THEN WHAT'S GOING
TO HAPPEN TO ME?" WELL, THEN GOD TAKES CARE OF US.
SO, LET ME JUST SAY NOW AFTER 50 YEARS OF MARRIAGE, I CAN TELL
YOU, AND I FEEL VERY STRONGLY ABOUT THIS, I DON'T THINK THE
WAY THE WORLD IS TODAY, THERE'S MUCH HOPE OF ANYBODY GETTING
MARRIED AND STAYING MARRIED VERY LONG IF YOU'RE NOT GOING
TO BE COMMITTED TO DOING THINGS THE WAY THAT GOD WOULD WANT
YOU TO DO THEM.
AND SADLY, A LOT OF CHRISTIANS AREN'T.
YOU KNOW, JUST BECAUSE WE GO TO CHURCH DOESN'T MEAN THAT WE'RE
SAYING YES TO GOD ON A REGULAR BASIS.
AND SO, ANYBODY WHO WILL COMMIT TO DOING THEIR PART TO DO WHAT'S
RIGHT BEFORE GOD, GOD WILL REWARD YOU.
AND THERE'S A MUCH GREATER CHANCE THAT HE WILL MAKE THE
CHANGES IN THE OTHER PERSON THAT NEEDS TO BE MADE IF YOU JUST DO
WHAT'S RIGHT BEFORE HIM, AND STOP TRYING TO MAKE THAT OTHER
PERSON GIVE YOU WHAT YOU WANT.
GINGER: ONE OF THE PRAYER REQUESTS THAT WE RECEIVE MOST
FREQUENTLY IS FOR RESTORATION OF MARRIAGE.
WE KNOW A LOT OF YOU ARE GOING THROUGH REALLY TOUGH TIMES, AND
THIS NEXT STORY IS AN EXAMPLE OF HOW GOD CAN HEAL A MARRIAGE ON
THE BRINK OF DIVORCE.
MALE: MY TURN?
DEBBIE: I WASN'T UNHAPPY IN THE MARRIAGE.
OBVIOUSLY, THERE WAS A PROBLEM OR SOMETHING COULDN'T
HAVE HAPPENED.
BUT AGAIN, AT THE TIME, I WASN'T LOOKING, SO IT REALLY SHOCKED ME
THAT THE ENEMY DID COME IN AND PERSUADE ME TO BE INTERESTED
IN SOMEONE ELSE.
SCOTT: I DIDN'T WANT TO BELIEVE IT, BUT THERE WERE
CERTAIN THINGS.
I MEAN, SHE WOULD GO DO THINGS, AND HE WOULD ALWAYS BE THERE.
SO, I HAD--I HAD THAT GUT FEELING, BUT YET I DIDN'T WANT
TO I GUESS ADMIT TO IT.
ANNOUNCER: WHEN DEBBIE TOLD SCOTT ABOUT THE AFFAIR, HE WAS
HEARTBROKEN, BUT REFUSED TO MOVE OUT OF THEIR HOME.
THEY WOULD LIVE TOGETHER BUT LEAD SEPARATE LIVES FOR
THE NEXT 7 YEARS.
DEBBIE: WE DIDN'T SEPARATE OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT BECAUSE AT
THE TIME, OUR SON WAS VERY YOUNG, MAYBE TWO AND A HALF.
SCOTT: TREVOR WAS THE MAIN THING.
I DIDN'T WANT TO BE A WEEKEND DAD.
AND THAT WAS MY ULTIMATE GOAL, I'M NOT GOING TO BE
A WEEKEND DAD.
DEBBIE: SO, WE ENDED UP WITH A MUTUAL PARTNERSHIP.
WE BOTH WORKED, WE BOTH CONTRIBUTED TO THE FINANCES,
AND OF COURSE WE BOTH TOOK CARE OF MY SON.
YOU KNOW, WE DID THE THINGS A FAMILY DOES, IT'S JUST MOM
AND DAD WEREN'T A COUPLE.
ANNOUNCER: THE AFFAIR CONTINUED THROUGHOUT THOSE
7 YEARS, AND THEN SOMETHING CHANGED.
A SERIES OF TRAGIC EVENTS TOUCHED THE LIVES OF THREE
OF DEBBIE'S CLOSE FRIENDS.
IT MADE HER REEVALUATE HER OWN LIFE.
SHE DECIDED TO END THE AFFAIR AND REACH OUT TO SCOTT TO SAVE
THEIR MARRIAGE.
DEBBIE: YOU KNOW, I CAN STILL CHANGE THIS SO THAT OUR FAMILY
IS NOT FOREVER SEPARATED.
SCOTT: WHEN DEBBIE TOLD ME SHE WANTED TO TRY TO MAKE OUR
MARRIAGE WORK, FIRST REACTION WAS HONESTLY, "YEAH RIGHT,
YOU GOT TO BE KIDDING ME.
AFTER THIS LONG, YOU KNOW, WHY?
YOU KNOW, WHAT'S GOING ON?" DEBBIE: DURING THAT TIME,
IT BECAME AWFUL.
I WOULD SAY ALL HELL BROKE LOOSE.
I SAW A SIDE OF MY HUSBAND THAT I DIDN'T EVEN SEE WHEN I WAS
INVOLVED.
SCOTT: THERE WAS REALLY A LOT OF RESENTMENT, AND THE ONLY
THING I COULD REALLY THINK OF WAS, "MAYBE SHE'S GOING TO TRY
TO BUILD ME BACK UP AGAIN AND KNOCK ME BACK DOWN."
ANNOUNCER: SOON AFTER DEBBIE TOLD HIM SHE WANTED TO WORK ON
THEIR MARRIAGE, SCOTT HAD AN AFFAIR IN RETALIATION FOR ALL
THE PAIN SHE HAD CAUSED HIM.
SCOTT: YEAH, THAT'S WHAT I DID.
WHETHER IT WAS--WELL, I MEAN, I SIT THERE AND SAY WHETHER IT WAS
RIGHT OR WRONG.
IT WAS WRONG, DEFINITELY WRONG.
YOU KNOW, I HURT HER MORE PROBABLY THAN SHE HURT ME.
ANNOUNCER: THE HOSTILITY AND REJECTION HAD GOTTEN SO BAD THAT
DEBBIE WENT TO SEE AN ATTORNEY.
IN THE MEANTIME, SHE MET A NEW FRIEND WHO WAS A CHRISTIAN.
SHE ENCOURAGED HER TO FIGHT FOR HER MARRIAGE.
DEBBIE: YOU KNOW, SHE SAID, "GOD REALLY DOESN'T WANT YOU
TO DO THIS.
HE'S REALLY FOR MARRIAGES.
AND IF YOU HANG IN THERE, HE IS GOING TO HELP YOU."
AND YOU KNOW, I KNEW GOD, AND I BELIEVED IN GOD, BUT I DIDN'T
KNOW A PERSONAL EXPERIENCE WITH GOD.
I DID NOT KNOW THAT I COULD RELATE TO HIM EVERY DAY.
I HAD THEN MET A PASTOR, AND HE SAID TO ME, "YOU DO NOT NEED TO
HAVE YOUR HUSBAND'S, YOU KNOW, AGREEMENT IN THIS.
YOU AND GOD CAN SAVE THIS MARRIAGE."
SO, HE GAVE ME HOPE.
SO, HE BEGAN TO TEACH ME THAT THERE WERE PROMISES WITH GOD.
WHEN I HEARD THAT, THAT WAS LIFE-CHANGING TO ME.
I THOUGHT, "THERE'S PROMISES, I CAN HAVE THEM.
I CAN--THIS IS FOR ME."
SO, I BEGAN APPLYING GOD'S WORD IN EVERY SITUATION.
ANNOUNCER: THOUGH DEBBIE DIDN'T KNOW IT AT THE TIME, SHE
AND SCOTT HAD BEGUN A JOURNEY OF HEALING AND FORGIVENESS THAT
WOULD TAKE 2 1/2 YEARS TO COMPLETE.
IT WAS A DAY BY DAY PROCESS WHERE SHE WOULD MEET SCOTT'S
HOSTILITY HEAD ON WITH KINDNESS.
SCOTT: SHE WAS JUST BEING TOO NICE, AND I THINK IT--I THINK IT
WORE ON ME, YOU KNOW?
HEY, WHY NOT, YOU KNOW?
IT'S BEEN 7 YEARS, IT'S BEEN, YOU KNOW, A YEAR NOW SHE'S BEING
VERY NICE.
ANNOUNCER: IN 2009, THE COUPLE RENEWED THEIR VOWS,
WHICH ALSO MARKED THEIR 20TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY.
DEBBIE: AND THIS TIME WHEN WE GOT MARRIED, IT WAS--WE LEARNED
TO KEEP GOD FIRST AND PUT EACH OTHER AHEAD OF OURSELVES.
ANNOUNCER: BUT THERE WAS ONE FINAL ACT OF FORGIVENESS THAT
STILL NEEDED TO HAPPEN TO BRING COMPLETE CLOSURE.
SCOTT: I'M GOING TO APOLOGIZE TO HER ON TV.
I DON'T THINK I EVER DID FOR MY ACTIONS THAT I DID, MY AFFAIR.
I'M GOING TO APOLOGIZE TO HER, AND JUST WANT HER TO KNOW THAT
I'M SORRY, THAT I SHOULD'VE BEEN MORE--I SHOULD'VE BEEN MORE OF
A MAN, AND DID THE THINGS THAT I NEEDED TO DO TO KEEP US
TOGETHER.
SO, DEBBIE, I'M SORRY.
DEBBIE: THAT WAS AWESOME.
GINGER: WHAT A WONDERFUL, ENCOURAGING STORY.
AND YOU KNOW, THEY ARE ABOUT TO HAVE THEIR 27TH ANNIVERSARY.
CONGRATULATIONS.
MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BEEN MARRIED OVER 30 YEARS NOW,
DAVE AND JOYCE OVER 50.
SO, THERE'S A LOT OF ACCUMULATIVE EXPERIENCE THERE
THAT WE CAN ALL SHARE WITH YOU.
AND THERE'S EVEN MORE IN HERE.
JOYCE AND DAVE HAVE BEEN THROUGH A LOT, LIKE EVERYONE HAS
WHO'S BEEN MARRIED 50 YEARS.
AND JOYCE SHARES IT IN THIS PACKAGE.
THIS IS A CD AND A DVD ALL ABOUT MARRIAGE.
IT'S AVAILABLE DIGITALLY OR A HARD COPY, AND WHAT YOU'LL
GET IS JOYCE TEACHING ABOUT MARRIAGE, AND THEN ALSO YOU WILL
GET MORE OF YOUR QUESTIONS ANSWERED AS SHE DID A QUESTION
AND ANSWER SEGMENT.
THAT'S ON DVD, SO THERE'S JUST A LOT AVAILABLE IN HERE.
YOU CAN LISTEN TO IT, YOU CAN WATCH IT, AND IT IS AVAILABLE TO
YOU FOR ANY AMOUNT.
JUST CALL RIGHT NOW, DON'T WAIT, GET THIS TODAY.
JUST GET ON THAT ROAD THAT YOU WANT TO BE WITH WITH YOUR
MARRIAGE.
AND THIS MAKES A GREAT GIFT.
SO, DON'T FORGET TO PICK IT UP FOR A FRIEND, SOMEONE IN YOUR
FAMILY, SOMEONE YOU LOVE.
AND IT'S SO EASY, CALL, GO TO THE WEBSITE RIGHT NOW.
ALSO, COMING UP NEXT WEEK ON "EVERYDAY ANSWERS."
JOYCE: BUT YOU SAID JESUS SET ME FREE, WELL THEN WHY AM
I NOT FREE?
YOU SAID I'M HEALED BY THE STRIPES OF JESUS,
SO WHY AM I STILL IN A MESS?
YOU SAID THAT HE WOULD GIVE ME BEAUTY FOR ASHES, BUT WHY IS MY
LIFE STILL FALLING APART?
GINGER: DON'T FORGET TO ASK US THOSE QUESTIONS, #ASKJOYCE
IF YOU'RE ON TWITTER.
WE LOVE TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS.
NOW, HERE IS THE CONCLUSION OF "CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME
WITH MY MARRIAGE?" JOYCE: NEXT BIG MISTAKE YOU
CAN MAKE IS PLANNING TO TRY TO CHANGE THE PERSON.
ESPECIALLY LIKE IF YOU NOTICE SOME THINGS BEFORE YOU GET
MARRIED, AND YOU'RE THINKING, "OH, I CAN CHANGE THAT.
I CAN--WELL, I'LL WORK ON THAT."
WELL, LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING, I TRIED EVERY WAY THAT I COULD
TRY TO GET DAVE NOT TO LIKE SPORTS.
NO REASON OTHER THAN SELFISHNESS.
I DIDN'T CARE ABOUT THEM, I DIDN'T GROW UP GETTING
TO DO ANY OF THAT.
MY FATHER NEVER LIKED ANY KIND OF SPORTS.
WE DIDN'T HAVE THEM ON TELEVISION, WE DIDN'T GO TO--I
MEAN, NONE OF THAT WAS PART OF OUR LIFE.
AND SO, IT'S JUST NOT ANYTHING THAT I REALLY AM GOING TO PUT MY
TIME INTO.
SO, I DIDN'T WANT HIM TO LIKE IT.
BUT I CAN TELL YOU THE TRUTH, THE MORE YOU TRY TO GET SOMEBODY
NOT TO DO SOMETHING, THE MORE THEY'RE GOING TO WANT TO DO IT.
I MEAN, THAT WHOLE PRINCIPAL IS FOUND IN THE BIBLE ABOUT
THE LAW.
THAT'S WHY THE LAW CAUSED PEOPLE TO SIN MORE, NOT LESS.
AND GOD DID THAT ON PURPOSE TO SHOW PEOPLE THAT THEY NEEDED
A SAVIOR.
SO, THE MORE YOU TRY TO MAKE SOMEBODY NOT DO SOMETHING,
THE MORE THEY'RE PROBABLY GOING TO WANT TO DO IT.
AND ACTUALLY, TODAY, DAVE LOVES ALL KINDS OF SPORTS THAT HE
DIDN'T EVEN LIKE WHEN WE GOT MARRIED.
I MEAN, HE'S ADDED THINGS THAT HE DOESN'T EVEN PLAY.
LIKE, NOW HE WATCHES TENNIS ALL THE TIME, HE DOESN'T PLAY
TENNIS.
YOU KNOW, HE'LL WATCH A BOWLING TOURNAMENT ON TV.
AND YOU KNOW, THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ANYTHING.
BUT YOU KNOW WHAT?
NOW I'M JUST--HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ANY WAY WITH WHAT I'D LIKE
HIM TO BE INTERESTED IN.
BUT YOU KNOW, DAVE IS NOT--HE'S NOT A REAL AGGRESSIVE MAN.
HIS PERSONALITY IS NOT REAL AGGRESSIVE.
HE ALWAYS SAID, "YOU'RE ALWAYS AHEAD OF GOD," AND I SAID,
"YEAH.
AND YOU'RE 10 MILES BEHIND HIM."
AND SO, HERE WE HAVE THESE TWO PEOPLE THAT ARE MARRIED,
AND I'M JUST REAL AGGRESSIVE AND HE'S NOT AS AGGRESSIVE.
AND SO, I TRIED TO GET HIM TO BE MORE AGGRESSIVE, AND I WOULD SAY
TO HIM, YOU KNOW, "YOU NEED TO BE MORE OF THIS, AND YOU NEED TO
BE MORE OF THAT."
AND YOU KNOW HOW AWFUL IT IS, HOW IT MAKES A PERSON FEEL IF
YOU'RE CONSTANTLY GIVING THEM MESSAGES THAT THEY'RE LESS THAN
WHAT YOU WANT THEM TO BE?
"YOU NEED TO BE THIS.
YOU NEED TO DO THAT."
ESPECIALLY IF IT'S NOT SOMETHING THEY EVEN KNOW HOW TO DO.
AND I'LL NEVER FORGET THE DAY HE SAID TO ME, HE SAID, "YOU BETTER
THANK GOD THAT I AM THE WAY THAT I AM BECAUSE IF I WASN'T,
YOU SURE WOULDN'T BE DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING."
AND SO, I JUST WANT TO REMIND YOU TODAY THAT THERE'S A REALLY
GOOD POSSIBILITY NO MATTER WHAT YOU THINK, THAT THE PERSON THAT
YOU MARRIED IS REALLY PERFECT FOR YOU.
I DIDN'T EXPECT ANYBODY TO CLAP, BUT THAT'S ALL RIGHT.
[AUDIENCE LAUGHING]
JOYCE: YOU CAN'T PRESSURE SOMEBODY TO
BE SOMETHING THAT THEY'RE NOT.
NOW, YOU KNOW, WHAT WE FOCUS ON IS WHAT DEVELOPS MORE AND MORE
IN OUR LIFE.
SO, IF I FOCUS ON WHAT I DON'T LIKE ABOUT SOMEBODY, THEN PRETTY
SOON THAT'S ALL I SEE.
AMEN?
BUT IF I FOCUS ON WHAT I DO LIKE, MOST OF THE TIME YOU'LL
FIND OUT, NO MATTER HOW BAD YOU THINK YOUR RELATION IS, MOST OF
THE TIME YOU WILL FIND OUT IF YOU FOCUS ON WHAT YOU DO LIKE,
THERE'S PROBABLY A LOT MORE THAT YOU LIKE THAN WHAT YOU
DON'T LIKE.
I LOVE THE FACT THAT DAVE IS PEACEFUL.
I LOVE THE FACT THAT HE'S EASY TO GET ALONG WITH.
I LOVE THE FACT THAT HE JUST LETS ME BE ME.
IF I WENT TO DAVE AND SAID, "WHAT--" WHICH I'VE DONE.
LIKE, "WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO CHANGE ABOUT ME?
YOU KNOW, IF I CAN CHANGE SOMETHING, WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE
ME TO CHANGE SO YOU COULD BE HAPPIER?"
HE SAID, "NOTHING, I LIKE YOU JUST THE WAY YOU ARE."
AND SO, IF YOU WOULD HAVE ASKED ME THAT QUESTION 30 YEARS AGO,
I PROBABLY HAD A WRITTEN LIST ALREADY.
I MEAN, 'CAUSE I ACTUALLY REMEMBER TIMES WHEN I SAT DOWN
AND MADE A LIST OF EVERYTHING THAT I THOUGHT DAVE NEEDED TO
CHANGE FOR ME TO BE HAPPY.
WELL, I KNOW THAT THERE ARE THINGS.
I MEAN, DAVE COULDN'T POSSIBLY LIKE EVERYTHING ABOUT ME.
I KNOW THAT BECAUSE I ALREADY KNOW WHAT MY WEAKNESS ARE AND
SOME OF THE THINGS THAT NOBODY WOULD WANT TO PUT UP WITH IF
THAT WAS ALL THEY FOCUSED ON.
AND I KNOW THAT THERE ARE THINGS ABOUT DAVE THAT I PROBABLY DON'T
CARE FOR, BUT TO BE HONEST, IF YOU ASK ME THAT NOW, I WOULD
HAVE TO THINK A REALLY LONG TIME TO COME UP WITH IT.
YOU KNOW WHY?
NOT BECAUSE IT'S NOT THERE, BUT I DON'T FOCUS ON IT.
AND SO, IF YOU THINK ABOUT LIKE A--SAY A POLAROID CAMERA, I
COULD TAKE A PICTURE OF ANYTHING IN HERE TODAY THAT I WANTED TO,
DEPENDING ON WHERE I FOCUSED THE CAMERA.
AND THEN WHATEVER I FOCUSED ON WOULD DEVELOP IN MY LIFE.
AND I'M TELLING YOU THE TRUTH, I'VE BEEN THINKING ABOUT THIS
A LOT LATELY.
WHAT YOU FOCUS ON, YOU FOCUS ON YOUR PROBLEMS, PRETTY SOON
YOU'RE GOING TO THINK THAT YOU'VE GOT THE WORST LIFE IN THE
WHOLE WORLD BECAUSE ALL YOU'RE GOING TO SEE IS YOUR PROBLEMS.
BUT IF YOU FOCUS ON YOUR BLESSINGS, THAT GIVES GOD
AN OPPORTUNITY THEN TO WORK ON THE PROBLEMS.
AND SO, IF YOU'RE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEBODY,
AND THEY DO A LOT OF THINGS THAT THAT YOU DON'T LIKE,
PRAY FOR THEM.
PRAY ABOUT THOSE THINGS.
AND MAKE SURE WHEN YOU PRAY, THAT YOU DO IT WITH AN ATTITUDE
OF HUMILITY.
I NEVER GO AND SAY, "GOD, THIS NEEDS TO CHANGE IN DAVE."
I'LL PRAY MORE LIKE THIS NOW, "GOD, I WOULD LIKE THIS TO
CHANGE, BUT MAYBE IT'S NOT EVEN THE PROBLEM I THINK IT IS,
IT MAY JUST BE MY ATTITUDE.
AND SO, FIRST OF ALL, I WANT YOU TO CHANGE ANYTHING IN ME THAT
NEEDS TO BE CHANGED.
AND IF THIS IS SOMETHING THAT NEEDS TO CHANGE IN DAVE, THEN
I'M ASKING YOU TO CHANGE IT, AND TO HELP ME FOCUS ON ALL
THE GOOD THINGS, NOT ON THE THINGS THAT ARE AN ISSUE."
GINGER: WELL, WHAT YOU HAVE JUST BEEN WATCHING IS AVAILABLE
RIGHT HERE.
AND YOU'VE ONLY SEEN PART OF IT, SO THERE IS MUCH MORE IN THIS
RESOURCE.
IT'S SIMPLY CALLED "MARRIAGE," AND IT'S SO HELPFUL.
IT'S ON CD AND ON DVD RIGHT HERE.
YOU CAN ALSO GET IT AS A DIGITAL DOWNLOAD
FOR ANY AMOUNT RIGHT NOW.
DON'T WAIT, PICK THIS UP.
THERE IS HOPE FOR YOUR MARRIAGE, DON'T GIVE UP.
THANKS FOR BEING WITH US, WE'LL SEE YOU NEXT TIME.
CC BY ABERDEEN CAPTIONING 1-800-688-6621 WWW.ABERCAP.COM
[MUSIC]
ANNOUNCER: THE PRECEDING PROGRAM WAS PAID FOR BY
THE FRIENDS AND PARTNERS OF JOYCE MEYER MINISTRIES.
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FBI Hopes Public Can Lead Them To 'County Line' Bandits Before They Strike Third Time - Duration: 1:52.
I WILL HAVE YOUR WEEKEND
FORECAST COMING UP.
JUAN: TWO LOCAL BANKS ARE HIT BY
THE SAME ROBBERS.
THE FBI WANTS TO MAKE SURE THAT
THEY DON'T GET A THIRD SHOT.
AMY JOHNSON HAS MORE ON WHAT
THEY ARE CALLING THE COUNTY LINE
BANDITS.
REPORTER: THAT'S RIGHT, TAKE A
LOOK AT HOW CLOSE THESE TWO BIG
STAR.
THE FBI SAYS THE SAME CREW
TARGETED THIS BANK OF AMERICA
WHICH IS NOW OFFERING A
10,000-DOLLAR REWARD.
SOMETHING THEY DON'T ALWAYS DO.
IN THIS CASE THE FIELD THESE
FOLKS ARE DANGEROUS AND THEY
WANT TO GET THEM OFF OF THE
STREET.
IT LOOKS LIKE A SCENE OUT OF
A MOVIE.
MASKED ARMED ROBBERS TAKING OVER
A BANK.
PEOPLE ORDER TO THE GROUND AS
THE ROBBERS TAKE THE CASH.
THEY WERE IN AND OUT OF THE BANK
IN JUST TWO MINUTES.
THEY HAVE BEEN DUBBED THE COUNTY
LINE BANDITS NEAR THE L.A. AND
VENTURA COUNTY LINES.
THE FIRST ROBBERY HAPPENED ON
DECEMBER 15 AND THE SECOND WAS
IN THE BANK OF AMERICA SHOPPING
CENTER.
THE FBI IS ON THE HUNT FOR THESE
BANDITS AND BANK OF AMERICA HAS
ALSO OFFERED A 10,000-DOLLAR
REWARD.
THE SUSPECTS ARE VERY
VIOLENT.
REPORTER: THEY WENT IN AND THEY
THREW IT UP.
POSSIBLY EVEN HIT ONE OF THE
VICTIMS, CLEARLY AND
INTIMIDATION TACTICS.
WE WANT TO GET THEM OFF OF THE
STREET.
REPORTER: BECAUSE OF THE MASKS,
THE WITNESSES COULD NOT GIVE
THEM A DESCRIPTION.
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How Can We Connect With Mother Earth? - "Walking The Path" with Marco Missinato - Duration: 9:14.
(How Can We Connect With Mother Earth - "Walking The Path" with Marco Missinato) To be able to connect with Mother Earth
we in the way we have to learn how to
listen to her. How can we do that if we are
so disconnected already from Source. How do we do
that? By allow the right circumstances to take
place which means you will have to
create a reality where you can spend
many many hours everyday surrounded by
nature. You will have to unplug from as
much as possible from the system and
possibly even change your location and
(How Can We Connect With Mother Earth - "Walking The Path" with Marco Missinato) Go in a situation where there is
stillness and where there is nature if you
think your mind makes you believe it is
really impossible to do that then what you
can do is to make your environment as
more natural as possible which means
having the plants and animals going to
park spend time with watching the stars or
the moon or the sky going the
weekend to the ocean try to give as
much as possible chances to have
a union with nature keeping
in mind that most of us are so
disassociated and disconnected but it might
take several months before we start to
really connect deeply and stuff to hear
her voice even if you leave everything
and you go into the situation that is
more natural and there's more nature it
still might take many many months and
maybe some even years before you
start to really create a vibrational
offer that allows you to hear the voice
of your Mother Earth and surrendering
into stillness will of speed up the
(How Can We Connect With Mother Earth - "Walking The Path" with Marco Missinato) process. Animals of course and
plants are
big big facilitators so the
more you feel love for animals and
plants the more you open up your
receivers and your tuning in and you
start to synch with the vibrations and it will
start to hear messages in whatever shape or
form you will hear maybe sounds or even
a voice or it can be an intuition
of new insights but so it takes time
(How Can We Connect With Mother Earth - "Walking The Path" with Marco Missinato) sometimes you have to create the scene
work really consciously and create
the circumstances and situations in your reality
where you have access to nature and
possibly spend several hours a day in
nature as it is actually probably this
point it's almost mandatory to do so
because everything else is not
particularly relevant it's not so
relevant to keep a career or a machine
that makes money or sustain all these
demands from a system that really
doesn't love you and really doesn't
support you but is actually eating you
up slowly and sometimes rapidly
actually and so at the end of
your life you okay you get a few
million dollars or few million euros
that you've got the big house so what who
cares it doesn't really have any
importance
(How Can We Connect With Mother Earth - "Walking The Path" with Marco Missinato) Of course it is nice to have it and nothing
wrong there's nothing wrong with that
the millions of dollars or the house
actually can be a wonderful thing but it
cannot be the summarization of your
focus and your priorities because if you
become priorities then you will not hear
nature you will not be able to hear
nature at all because you disassociate
yourself from the organic aspect of life
and you will create an artificial life
made of stuff and then your you have
you will identify yourself you
will gain a sense of self based on how
much stuff you have and of course you will always
be in contraction because you can lose
yourself or there will always be somebody
that's more than you are you feel like
you don't have enough stuff right so
you're in a constant run to get
(How Can We Connect With Mother Earth - "Walking The Path" with Marco Missinato) more and more and more and what if you
tuned in with the organic aspect of life
it's not any more about what you have is
important is nice and absolutely a
wonderful to have wonderful stuff like a
beautiful house like having the tools
that you use to create or but those that
will be supportive devices will not
be your measure of
self-identification so you will not be
lost into this stuff you will use the
stuff to support you
to connect yourself with the creative
part of yourself, with Source
(How Can We Connect With Mother Earth - "Walking The Path" with Marco Missinato) Paradoxically as you progress to a
deeper and deeper you would simplify
(How Can We Connect With Mother Earth - "Walking The Path" with Marco Missinato) more everything
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Michael Jackson - (I Can't Make It) Another Day [ENG/PL] - Duration: 3:56.
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Deaf Poynters| Episode #04 - How Can I Get My Teachers To Accommodate Me? - Duration: 4:03.
(marker scratching)
(electronic video game chime)
Hello and welcome to episode four
of Deaf Poynters, where the sun is
getting on my nerves.
And I'm wearing sunglasses because
I look very tired.
My schedule's all wonky because of
Daylight Saving Time and the sun
will not stop trying to say, "Hi."
Then I realize, you know,
in Deaf Poynters I take you for a drive,
except I'm parked.
So, in real life this is what it would look like.
So, welcome to the video, sun,
welcome to my channel.
So, let's jump into this episode.
Dear Rikki, I'm a huge fan of your channel
and I love your videos.
I was wondering about what to do
if my teachers don't listen to my requests.
I have sonophobia, the fear of loud noises.
And I'm partially blind, so I need glasses.
I tell my teachers that they need to be wary
about the volume, and that I need
to be put into the front so I can see,
but they do the exact opposite.
Do you have any advice?
First of all, thank you for enjoying my videos.
I appreciate that very, very much.
Okay, so here's where I'm a little confused.
I don't know if phobias fall under any
ADA, sort of, thing so, lock my doors.
If it was me, I know that I would
like for my teachers to try to be
as considerate as possible,
if I were to have sonophobia.
My question is, are they purposely
ignoring what their volume is like?
Or is it just, kind of, an accident thing?
Because I know some people can't really
control how loud they are.
So that was, kind of, a tough question, because I...
Let's move on to, the, you are partially blind, okay.
So that is something that would fall under ADA,
if I'm not mistaken.
At least in some sort of way.
So, if you are being put in the back,
I would, if it was me, honestly,
I would just sit in the front.
I would just say, "I do not care, Mr. Frank.
"I'm going to sit at the front
"because I need to, in order to see properly,
I need to sit in the front.
"You want me to do my work.
"I cannot do my work, if I am not in the front,
"so I know what's going on."
Do you have assigned seating?
If you don't, then I would just move to the front.
I think all in all, if you requested it,
how many times?
How many?
If you told your teachers only once
and then, they kind of forgot that, tell them again.
But if this is something, which,
I'm sure you've done it multiple times.
So if they're still not trying to cooperate
with you, so that way you could both try
to come up with a solution,
I would take it to a higher up.
I would take it to your principal, really, cause...
I mean when everything else fails,
when your teachers don't listen to you,
take it up with the principal
and see what happens.
Because the principal is their boss, I think.
Is that how that works?
Or is there's something even higher
in the chain of education?
I'm sorry I can't really say much on the phobia part.
Because I'm not really knowledgeable
in the phobia side of things.
But as far as you know, being partially blind,
you need to sit in the front,
in order to see everything.
And get your education.
So sit in the front.
And go away, freeze warning notifications!
I know there's a freeze warning.
It is cold outside.
Hopefully, that helps out a little bit.
If you do go to your principal,
let me know what they said.
I'm very, very curious to know.
So if you got a question or something
you would like me to talk about in a video,
please email deafpoynters@gmail.com.
And like I keep on asking,
please let me know in the email
if you want this to be part of a video.
Because this email is also part
of my article website.
So I need to know if you want it in a video
or if this is an article thing.
So, please be specific.
Help me out, here.
If you wanna follow me on all of my social media, links to
that will be down below.
If you wanna help support my content,
you can do so by being a monthly Patron.
Or you can leave tips on ko-fi.
Both links will be down below.
I upload every Monday, Thursday,
and Deaf Poynters on Saturdays.
And I will see you later.
Bye.
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Prince Harry & Meghan Markle Can they be married & what title would they give her - Duration: 2:56.
The longer that Prince Harry and his girlfriend Meghan Markle have stayed together, the stronger
the speculation of a wedding has become.
But while the possibility is straight out of a fairytale, there are some real hurdles
impending their engagement, including Meghan�s previous marriage and her religion.
As Marie Claire has reported, Meghan was previously married to producer Trevor Engelson, but that
relationsip ended in 2013.
However, there is precedent for royals who want to marry divorcees.
Harry�s own father, Prince Charles, married divorcee Camille Parker Bowles when his own
marriage to Diana was legally over.
But then there is still the issue of Meghan�s Catholic background.
In the Royal Marriages act of 1772, King George III made it so that no senior member of the
royal family could marry Catholics.
However, new rules were set forth in 2015 under the Succession to the Crown Act, which
reversed the ancient ruling.
Under the current laws, there is no specific reason why Harry could not ask for Meghan�s
hand in marriage.
However, there is also the queen to get through.
Under the same Succession to the Crown Act, Queen Elizabeth has the power to write off
a marriage as void.
The practice only concerns the first five in line for the throne, which Harry is still
part of.
There have been no reports indicating that the queen has any issues with the current
romantic relationship between her grandson and the American actress.
But if Harry and Meghan were to get married, there is the question as to what her title
would be.
According to Royal Central, all United Kingdom wives automatically take their husbands' titles.
This would mean that Meghan would be properly addressed as Her Royal Highness Prince Henry
of Wales.
She would not be called �princess,� because that title is one that a woman can only be
born into.
This is also why Kate Middleton is called the Duchess of Cambridge and not Princess
Catherine.
It is also possible that Harry�s title will be changed, much like how Prince William is
now officially the Duke of Cambridge.
The publication went on to state that the title for Duke of Sussex is available, as
the last one who held the title, Prince Augustus Frederick, died in 1843.
He was the son of King George III.
No official announcement has been made public by Kensington Palace, Harry or Meghan about
any type of engagement.
And until one is made, any news of an upcoming wedding is mere speculation.
thanks for watching.
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How to make a simple paper flower centre/ DIY paper flower / paper flower tutorial - Duration: 5:23.
you need 4 paper pieces in size approx 2 x 8''
a hot glue gun
and a pair of fringe scissors
there is no any specific length of paper needed though
take 2 pieces of paper
and fold in half
press
cut a fringe on the folded side
NOT on open side)
leave approx 1 cm / 1/2'' till the edge of open side
cut all other paper pieces
you can use regular scissors too, but 4 blades ones will make this job faster :)
I use Martha Stewart brand
now open folded papers and turn them inside out
do not press much at this step, make it gentle
look how soft and neat edge looks now
now roll fringe gluing it as you go
fix the end properly
add the 2nd fringe
and roll again
this is a knob made with just 2 pieces of 8'' long paper
fringe #3
and #4
4 pieces of 21 cm / 8'' long paper form this size (and look) flower centre
now you can 'fluff' your mini centre
and double fix all layers of paper together applying a bit of hot glue at the bottom of it
That's it!
EASY!
Mini Simple Spiky Centre
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How to Recover Deleted Facebook Messages - Duration: 1:54.
Hey, What's up Guys Raj here and welcome to a brand new video on the channel.
and Today in this video I'll show you how you can recover Deleted Facebook Messages
so without any further delay let's Jump to the video
So Guys first of all login to your FB account
Now Hit on this Drop down menu, Select Settings
Now click on this Download a Copy of Facebook Data
Start Archive, Enter your Password
Click on Start My Archive
Now read this Message and AN E-mail sent to your Number
After Few Hours or day again Login to your Facebook Account
and You can see download Archive option
save your backup on your desire folder
Now Unzip the zip file
After Unziping the zip file
you can see three folder here
Photos, VIdeos, and HTML
If you want to see all the information present now
Then click on this index
and If you want to recover videos and photos
then open this folder
but if you want to see only your messages.
Then click on this HTML folder
Now open this Messages HTML folder
Now here you can see all my messages with date and time
so Guys this is the best and easy way to recover your Facebook messages
Photos and video
and I hope this video is really helpful for you
so guys thanks a lots for watching this video
if you did enjoy this video pls show your support subscribing to the channel
that was really help me out
without being said, My Name is RAJ and i'll see you the next one
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VA Outsourcing Services - How To Find And Hire A Virtual Assistant - Duration: 1:37.
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Hiring a virtual assistant can completely change the shape of your business in a lot
of ways.
A virtual assistant can help you become more effective, more efficient, and help you grow
your business exponentially.
Do you feel like you have big ideas for your business, but no one to actually help you
implement them?
Have you been working 10 or 12 hour days just to keep up with everything, and yet you still
don't feel like you're actually keeping up?
There is a long list of tasks that your virtual assistant can help you with, starting with
all those little things you do to try to keep control over your business, when all you're
really doing is letting your business control you.
With highly skilled english speaking professionals you can be sure outsourced Virtual Administrative
Assistant, Real Estate Virtual Assistant or Marketing Assistant will take your business
to the next level.
How it works?
Tell us the types of people you are looking for and we will go find those people recruit
the best that fit your needs.
You will get all the benefits of full or part time VA employees but with a lot less cost
and a lot less hassle.
Our goal is to make your life easier!
Contact us!
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